Love, Commitment and Down-going Topic
#1
Posted 13 May 2009 - 01:34 AM
ts;dr: I've been getting a lot of girls this year (and one guy xP) telling me I'm hot, and that they want me and stuff like that, and since people like to joke around with me so much it's almost impossible to figure out who's taking the piss. I mean, between all the giggling and writing stuff in my books I'm almost starting to lose track of them.
#3
Posted 13 May 2009 - 04:04 AM
my bf is broke. apparently he thinks this means i wouldn't want him anymore, so he promptly didn't call me for a month, missed our anniversary and my bday (which all of you did too btw :() and when i called him to confront him he said he was embarassed but still loved me "oh and btw hun i went on a date with some other girl to make me feel better".
...sooo who wants to fly out to alberta and kill him?
...and who wants to tell me I was an idiot for thinking this would last.
#4
Posted 13 May 2009 - 05:22 AM
[EDIT] And aren't you engaged? How did you not see each other for a month? D:
#7
Posted 13 May 2009 - 09:07 AM
#9
Posted 13 May 2009 - 12:35 PM
...
That's about it. Since she's from another country and has gone back to her homeland we can't actually have a real relationship. Not that I'm overly keen on that idea... I mean, she's a great girl and all, but I don't really have the strong feeling I hope to have when I want a relationship. So hopefully we'll just fool around every time she comes here to Belgrade.
...
Plus the little ***** isn't replying to my text message.
Oh, and good going Split! Now all you have to do is actually use the fact that people seem to find you attractive.
#10
Posted 13 May 2009 - 08:16 PM
ok. guy is in canada land, we got engaged before i left, and he's moving down here in september. Or was, back when he hadn't changed everything about himself. No uni isn't over and no I'm not in canada.
I dunno, he's going through a really bad time and doing the whole "i'm depressed so i'm pushing everyone away" thing. Which is fine because I'm stubborn but dating other girls is never okay. never.
and yes long distance relationships are gay but somehow i manage not to be an idiot when it comes to phoning the other person. So yesterday i decided i'm going to try and be done with him. we're gonna see how that works.
#12
Posted 14 May 2009 - 01:13 AM
#13
Posted 14 May 2009 - 02:43 AM
#15
Posted 14 May 2009 - 03:39 AM
#16
Posted 14 May 2009 - 08:03 AM
kate, on May 13 2009, 10:16 PM, said:
ok. guy is in canada land, we got engaged before i left, and he's moving down here in september. Or was, back when he hadn't changed everything about himself. No uni isn't over and no I'm not in canada.
I dunno, he's going through a really bad time and doing the whole "i'm depressed so i'm pushing everyone away" thing. Which is fine because I'm stubborn but dating other girls is never okay. never.
and yes long distance relationships are gay but somehow i manage not to be an idiot when it comes to phoning the other person. So yesterday i decided i'm going to try and be done with him. we're gonna see how that works.
I would if you actually started updating me again. Also the whole not-telling-me-about-the-engagment-when-everyboy-else-knew thing kinda made me lose interest.
#18
Posted 14 May 2009 - 12:40 PM
#23
Posted 14 May 2009 - 04:14 PM
Rather awkward moment, seeing as I didn't even know who she was. She just came up to me and asked for a hug.
I found out later she was my then-friend's girlfriend. He must have said something nice about me.
#24
Posted 14 May 2009 - 10:01 PM
Ladies, take this as you will
#25
Posted 14 May 2009 - 10:40 PM
#26
Posted 14 May 2009 - 10:57 PM
It is a big development friend wise because girls won't hug a guy unless they are good friends, but it really is not a indicator of a crush. fo reals.
This is a generalization of course, because there are non huggy girls out there. but yeah.
#29
Posted 15 May 2009 - 09:00 AM
and we should pretty much declare me the girl guru.
Mostly because I'm the only girl here...
#34
Posted 15 May 2009 - 09:16 PM
http://www.reddit.com/comments/8h2sc/break...thing_you_dont/
There's some... interesting material here. I got hooked reading all the way to the bottom.
#35
Posted 15 May 2009 - 09:20 PM
No.
And deleting half the post acomplished...
#36
Posted 15 May 2009 - 11:40 PM
reddit said:
Why don't you just sit there and play with your boobs all day?
If I had boobs, I wouldn't have a need to leave the house.
TomorrowPlusX 529 points 14 days ago
It goes both ways. An ex girlfriend of mine said that if she been born a man, she'd just jerk off all day. I told her she'd get sore eventually, and that's why we have civilization.
Garage_Dragon 851 points 14 days ago
This is completely true. I play Civilization whenever I'm not looking at porn.
durangotang 203 points 14 days ago
You sir, have just accurately described chunks of my life.
Lmao.
#37
Posted 16 May 2009 - 01:53 AM
#41
Posted 16 May 2009 - 10:41 PM
^^ I love her.
#42
Posted 16 May 2009 - 10:45 PM
Girl that I like (kind of. It's complicated, not gonna explain) wants to be a model and since I'm a photographer, she has me take pictures of her. Like an amateur photoshoot. You doing the same, Lemon?
#44
Posted 17 May 2009 - 01:25 AM
Someone Else, on May 16 2009, 09:45 PM, said:
Girl that I like (kind of. It's complicated, not gonna explain) wants to be a model and since I'm a photographer, she has me take pictures of her. Like an amateur photoshoot. You doing the same, Lemon?
And you're not posting the results?
#45
Posted 17 May 2009 - 02:57 AM
Someone Else, on May 17 2009, 02:45 PM, said:
Girl that I like (kind of. It's complicated, not gonna explain) wants to be a model and since I'm a photographer, she has me take pictures of her. Like an amateur photoshoot. You doing the same, Lemon?
No, that's my girlfriend of 2 months and 17 days.. =3
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2418/3536903739_3c7160cf2f.jpg
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2231/3535725196_eca7c428cc.jpg
#51
Posted 18 May 2009 - 01:27 PM
#52
Posted 18 May 2009 - 03:25 PM
#53
Posted 22 May 2009 - 02:56 PM
#54
Posted 22 May 2009 - 03:03 PM
#57
Posted 22 May 2009 - 08:52 PM
Monday mornings at school were always entertaining after someones 18th for reasons like Tim's.
#58
Posted 22 May 2009 - 11:43 PM
#59
Posted 23 May 2009 - 12:30 AM
To be honest? That's what I've been saying for a while.
Don't get me wrong, a relationship is nice and all, but being single has it's perks.
#60
Posted 23 May 2009 - 01:51 AM
#61
Posted 23 May 2009 - 05:20 AM
killercoz, on May 23 2009, 04:20 AM, said:
You guys can think what you want. I'm talking about my age group though; The more experience a person has had with women and sex, the more girls will like you, some as a love interest some purely as a friend. And of course, it's even better with the guys. Men will always respect you more if you're good with the ladies.
Of course, this doesn't apply to coz. I can't really know how stuff goes for him.
#62
Posted 23 May 2009 - 05:55 AM
Toasty, on May 23 2009, 04:30 PM, said:
To be honest? That's what I've been saying for a while.
Don't get me wrong, a relationship is nice and all, but being single has it's perks.
Can't know until you try?
#63
Posted 23 May 2009 - 06:12 AM
Split Infinity, on May 23 2009, 12:55 PM, said:
Can't know until you try?
I wasn't hitting on her, i gave her a can of fosters because I was feeling sick and didn't want to throw up, and said "you owe me" as a joke and she threw herself on me.
#64
Posted 23 May 2009 - 08:10 AM
Aquamarine, on May 23 2009, 07:20 AM, said:
Of course, this doesn't apply to coz. I can't really know how stuff goes for him.
Alot of people here aren`t aware of how the real world works, but what you`re saying is some straight crack. Sure having a few notches on your belt might get you some rep, but nowhere does taking advantage of a girl make you cool. Except with fucking frat kids but they are mostly dumb anyway.
#65
Posted 23 May 2009 - 08:54 AM
i hooked up with a guy. he was hot and there and we had been friends for a while and had been flirting for ages and i was damaged and ****. i specifically told him before we did that i didn't want a relationship because men are evil. he agreed but now he's being all clingy and stuff. i want to keep hooking up with him and eventually more physical stuff because he's awesome to hang out with and he's hot, but i don't want to lead him on, and I don't know if he can keep his feelings out of it.
IS IT SERIOUSLY SO HARD TO GET A GUY WHO JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS? ISN'T THAT LIKE A GUYS DREAM? WTF?? CRUISE CONTROL!
tl;dr hooked up in new zealand means made out, not sex. is this win? y/n
#66
Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:57 AM
Drizzy Drake, on May 23 2009, 04:10 PM, said:
I guess it really depends on the kind of girls you take advantage of. I can say that most of the girls I've ever actually taken advantage of are little hoes who knew what they were getting into anyway. However, I've also used some girls that actually really liked me, and had their hearts broken because all I wanted was a little adventure. I have quite a lot of female friends, and some are all for me using little hoes and congratulate me when I do so, while others openly tell me I'm an asshole, but they still hang out with me and find me to be a great friend.
In the end, it might be the culture thing, but I highly doubt it is. Think about it, doesn't it seem like the guys who are always having some flings and are going out with different girls are the most popular, and also always have some good female friends?
And Kate, although Aqualand might seem like a third world country, it's not as behind with the times as you might think. Women here have equal rights to men. It's their own fault that they're all hoes..
People might react at first by telling you how wrong what you did is and how evil you are, but in the long-run it gives you ++ respect points from both men and women.
#68
Posted 23 May 2009 - 11:02 AM
#69
Posted 23 May 2009 - 11:20 AM
Aquamarine, on May 23 2009, 08:57 AM, said:
In the end, it might be the culture thing, but I highly doubt it is. Think about it, doesn't it seem like the guys who are always having some flings and are going out with different girls are the most popular, and also always have some good female friends?
And Kate, although Aqualand might seem like a third world country, it's not as behind with the times as you might think. Women here have equal rights to men. It's their own fault that they're all hoes..
People might react at first by telling you how wrong what you did is and how evil you are, but in the long-run it gives you ++ respect points from both men and women.
Aqua is right.
#70
Posted 23 May 2009 - 11:34 AM
#71
Posted 23 May 2009 - 05:06 PM
#72
Posted 23 May 2009 - 05:33 PM
And wait a minute, kate, you're complaining that your guy is sensitive slash emotional? Isn't THAT like a girl's dream?
#74
Posted 23 May 2009 - 07:47 PM
he's funny, he's awesome, he's talented, he's hot, he lives in a garage, doesn't have a job and is incredibly good at pool and poker. He is my ex pretty much. No way I'm going down that road again.
#75
Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:06 PM
Drizzy Drake, on May 23 2009, 07:06 PM, said:
Really? I could have sworn it was more of Split's answer, but usually at least "1st base".
#76
Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:10 PM
#77
Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:19 PM
#78
Posted 23 May 2009 - 10:08 PM
#82
Posted 24 May 2009 - 01:26 AM
#83
Posted 24 May 2009 - 02:10 AM
Taking advantage of girls is probably the lowest of low things to do.. It doesn't earn you respect and can lead to complete social isolation (happened to a guy I know). It's a disgusting thing to do and if you're proud of it you should really just gtfo and die..
#85
Posted 24 May 2009 - 03:43 AM
And Hook up or Hooking up changes with age. I'll agree with Split in Aussie culture it mostly means just a pash, but someone older is more likely to use it to describe a lay then a pash.
#86
Posted 24 May 2009 - 04:30 AM
watch, on May 24 2009, 07:43 PM, said:
That's completely irrelevant! The fact of the matter is that taking advantage of a girl is socially and morally wrong and should not be boosted to the status that aqua has given it.
#87
Posted 24 May 2009 - 05:28 AM
Drizzy Drake, on May 24 2009, 01:06 AM, said:
WTF, I never said I've done anything like that. And I haven't taken advantage of a drunk girl or one that's in grief. Like Lemon said, I'm a prick when it comes to girls, but I'm not like... that. Every girl I've ever slept with has done so volentarily and in the right frame of mind. Like I said before, almost all of them were little hoes.
King of Town, on May 24 2009, 12:30 PM, said:
Ah well, people have different views on everything. I think that a girl who's only purpose in life seems to be to sleep with men until she finds a guy who's loaded deserves nothing better. And as long as these half-brain hoes exist, I'm going to have my fun.
And the girls that I've been with who aren't hoes, also took advatange of me just as much as I had taken advantage of them, so it's all good.
#88
Posted 24 May 2009 - 06:19 AM
G-DUB 3000, on May 24 2009, 02:41 AM, said:
This.
Aquamarine, on May 24 2009, 07:28 AM, said:
Well that`s why I`ve been chirping you because you said you took advantage of them which in every culture means ****ing a drunk girl or taking advantage of an emotional situation or **** like that. In that case fuck their little brains out.
And Lemon`s sexual exploits have always been a little iffy anyway Watch, Aqua sseems to atleast know what hes doing.
#91
Posted 24 May 2009 - 04:27 PM
skippy and perc think it means sex, split thinks it means less than that.
Now let's think about what my original comment said "hooking up in nz means making out, not like canada where it means sex". So no fscking kidding the canadians and the aussie are going to think it means different things, that's my whole point.
same with this aqua thing. The guy thinks taking advantage of girls is good because it gets you noticed and a good rep, so obviously he's an attention whore. Just stop feeding his creepy bloated ego. I don't doubt it gets him points, but with all the wrong people.
...this would be where i suggest something else to talk about, but i can't think of anything. Proceed
#95
Posted 25 May 2009 - 01:09 AM
Drizzy Drake, on May 24 2009, 10:19 PM, said:
Different to what I said how?
Toasty, on May 25 2009, 04:58 PM, said:
Still making excuses
So peoples opinions on getting set up with someone?
#97
Posted 25 May 2009 - 05:37 PM
watch, on May 25 2009, 03:09 AM, said:
You must have meant to quote somebody else because that has absolutely NOTHING to do with anything in that post.
Split Infinity, on May 25 2009, 03:26 AM, said:
We`ve gone over this before, Toasty is a sad little child who will one day realise how alone he is because of how naive he was.
#98
Posted 25 May 2009 - 08:11 PM
coz, don't poke the bear.
watch, getting set up with someone is okay if you're a guy, not so great if you're a girl. Girls are more likely to let themselves be set up, so you could actually end up with a winner, whereas guys are usually desperate if they get set up, and therefore undateable.
LAWL STEREOTYPES
Edit: seriously I will report you both if you reply to coz about that skippy. Relationships go here, not your secret lust for each other.
#99
Posted 25 May 2009 - 09:59 PM
Split Infinity, on May 25 2009, 12:26 AM, said:
I do. That's why I've been thinking what they said since before they said it. I'm merely agreeing with what they said.
Drizzy Drake, on May 25 2009, 04:37 PM, said:
For now, I'd rather enjoy my already limited free time. I don't like the idea of being constrained to a relationship right now, and frankly, at the moment, a relationship seems more like a chore than anything else.Maybe later, but most likely not in highschool.
Not too many ladies worth mentioning where I live anyway.
#100
Posted 26 May 2009 - 12:41 AM
Toasty, on May 26 2009, 01:59 PM, said:
For now, I'd rather enjoy my already limited free time. I don't like the idea of being constrained to a relationship right now, and frankly, at the moment, a relationship seems more like a chore than anything else.Maybe later, but most likely not in highschool.
But that just brings me back to my last post - you don't have a clue.
I'd agree with you though, I barely have enough time to revise for midterms let alone have a relationship outside of school. Although I'll just point out that a relationship is no more of a chore than any normal friendship. You don't feel any real 'need' to have one, you just do it. That's the point.
#101
Posted 26 May 2009 - 07:42 AM
killercoz, on May 25 2009, 10:10 PM, said:
I don`like Halo 3...
That would be not reading the posts faggot. Okay, well Haaris is no longer here, and you stopped annoying him a good bit ago so gtfo pl0x. See, you come at me, I retaliate, I`m the bad guy. What the fuck is this shit?
And as far as your question goes, no, I dont just come on here to rag on people.
@ Toasty - Okay, enjoy all your free time now, because youre going to be having alllloooot of it when you grow up with that kind of attitude. If you try to start dating at ****ing 23 with absolutely no experience in dating or even being with a girl, you are not going to have a relationship.
#102
Posted 26 May 2009 - 08:04 AM
Toasty, on May 26 2009, 04:59 AM, said:
For now, I'd rather enjoy my already limited free time. I don't like the idea of being constrained to a relationship right now, and frankly, at the moment, a relationship seems more like a chore than anything else.Maybe later, but most likely not in highschool.
Not too many ladies worth mentioning where I live anyway.
Time? You've never been in a relationship, how would you know about time?
It's not like you have to spend 5 hours a day kissing the earth she walks on and then a further 3 hours talking to her. Most days I'd send a few texts to her and maybe speak to her on msn, and then at the weekends we'd meet up to go into town or something and then maybe go back to one of ours. You make it out to be some big disastrous thing that would ruin everything else you have which is completey wrong.
#103
Posted 27 May 2009 - 03:19 AM
#104
Posted 27 May 2009 - 03:50 AM
#106
Posted 27 May 2009 - 07:28 PM
#107
Posted 27 May 2009 - 08:20 PM
What exactly is "down-going"?
#112
Posted 28 May 2009 - 02:39 PM
I thought it might be bjs, but it didn't seem to fit what the topic is...
#113
Posted 28 May 2009 - 03:18 PM
#117
Posted 06 June 2009 - 03:30 PM
Someone Else, on May 17 2009, 12:36 PM, said:
I'm bored. Here you go. All taken by me.
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/IMG_4025.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_3992.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4246.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4099.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4206.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/IMG_4630.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/Retro%20Rhapsody/IMG_4659.jpg
To prove I actually know this chick, here's a photo with both of us (that obviously I didn't take the picture)
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4310.jpg
#119
Posted 06 June 2009 - 03:42 PM
#124
Posted 06 June 2009 - 05:13 PM
Second picture from the bottom is the most flattering imo.
#125
Posted 06 June 2009 - 05:19 PM
#131
Posted 06 June 2009 - 07:36 PM
#132
Posted 07 June 2009 - 01:02 AM
Someone Else, on Jun 6 2009, 05:30 PM, said:
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/IMG_4025.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_3992.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4246.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4099.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4206.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/IMG_4630.jpg
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/Retro%20Rhapsody/IMG_4659.jpg
To prove I actually know this chick, here's a photo with both of us (that obviously I didn't take the picture)
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/photoshoots/IMG_4310.jpg
Bang the fuck outta her WD.
Caael, on Jun 6 2009, 05:36 PM, said:
Meh, she`s better ^
#135
Posted 07 June 2009 - 11:53 AM
#136
Posted 07 June 2009 - 12:41 PM
It's not nice.
#137
Posted 07 June 2009 - 12:45 PM
#138
Posted 07 June 2009 - 02:53 PM
#139
Posted 09 June 2009 - 09:25 PM
Someone Else, on Jun 7 2009, 01:53 PM, said:
Aquamarine, on Jun 7 2009, 02:41 PM, said:
It's not nice.
Might I recommend you both to read this?
#140
Posted 09 June 2009 - 10:42 PM
Buuuut I've seen her naked, so..
#141
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:00 AM
Congrats Dee, someone that doesn't look like a hooker! Props for you :D And I heard you might be dragged up to y-con by this chick, so she's automatically good in my book :]
Aqua: sexing a girl when she's drunk: big no no. I know it's the internet, I know you guys are badass and are miniature gods in disguise, but even mini gods have morals. D:
Percy: I freaking love you. XD
Toasty: errrhhh...I would say don't listen to them, but I actually think you should give it a chance. I mean, you want a little dating experience for college so you don't look like a complete idiot when you get there! Knowing when to call, how to act, what to do and say on a date...this knowledge doesn't just *happen* when you get out of high school, y'know.
Okay, when girls say they don't want to ruin the friendship, the SHALLOW girls will do everything that the onion says. What REAL girls mean, is that you don't know how to talk to the guy anymore. Everything becomes "uh...soo...." or if you want to go hang out with the girls, and he was part of your group, you feel weird leaving him behind for "girl time", but at the same time, they don't want to see you cuddling with him and him stealing all your attention. Also, when you date a person, you become acutely aware of their flaws. Not until about a year later, but it happens. BELIEVE ME. And then you start to get in fights. And if you're unfortunate, it breaks you up.
THEN WHAT?
Do you stay friends? Because you have this nasty breakup muddying up your history, maybe some resentment, and now you can't be friends like you were before. And then you regret ever dating that person, because, oh look, it just ruined your friendship.
#142
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:03 AM
Icy, on Jun 10 2009, 12:00 AM, said:
That sounded more like personal experience than just a random thought.
#143
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:09 AM
#144
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:10 AM
Icy, on Jun 10 2009, 12:09 AM, said:
Well at least we're in the same boat.
Fortunantly I was the one who said get the **** away from me.
#145
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:18 AM
#146
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:21 AM
And I don't care anymore. I'm done living in the past. I'll just reference it on what to not do ever again.
#147
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:23 AM
Icy, on Jun 10 2009, 12:21 AM, said:
And I don't care anymore. I'm done living in the past. I'll just reference it on what to not to do ever again.
This. I moved on, said I'm done with you, and I'm better for it.
#148
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:25 AM
Currently, I'm a little shocked out of dating. My ex that I dated at the beginning of senior year was found dead up in the mountains. We stopped talking after we broke up, but it still hit me really bad, and I had been thinking about getting back in touch with him a couple days before I found out. He was the last person I dated, and even though I haven't dated anyone since, I just don't know about moving on from that...
Plus, I think I scared everyone away last year. You guys have seen it...I used to be really vulnerable and susceptible to having my heart broken. Now, I act tough. I act like I'm some strong girl that doesn't need a man(or woman) to make her happy. I act like I'm impossible to love because I don't want to get hurt. I made the walls high because I want someone who's willing to try to climb those walls--they're the ones worth giving my heart to. But I'm just afraid that nobody wants to try XD
#149
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:30 AM
Icy, on Jun 10 2009, 12:25 AM, said:
Currently, I'm a little shocked out of dating. My ex that I dated at the beginning of senior year was found dead up in the mountains. We stopped talking after we broke up, but it still hit me really bad, and I had been thinking about getting back in touch with him a couple days before I found out. He was the last person I dated, and even though I haven't dated anyone since, I just don't know about moving on from that...
Plus, I think I scared everyone away last year. You guys have seen it...I used to be really vulnerable and susceptible to having my heart broken. Now, I act tough. I act like I'm some strong girl that doesn't need a man(or woman) to make her happy. I act like I'm impossible to love because I don't want to get hurt. I made the walls high because I want someone who's willing to try to climb those walls--they're the ones worth giving my heart to. But I'm just afraid that nobody wants to try XD
Okay, that's officially different.
Also "walled off heart", so-to-speak, ftw and kind of ftl, I must admit.
#150
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:33 AM
I REFUSE to be f*cking EASY.
If I stayed as vulnerable as I was before, I would have dated jerks like the womanizers on...I shouldn't finish that sentence, huh? XP
#151
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:34 AM
Icy, on Jun 10 2009, 12:33 AM, said:
I REFUSE to be f*cking EASY.
If I stayed as vulnerable as I was before, I would have dated jerks like the womanizers on...I shouldn't finish that sentence, huh? XP
Wouldn't be for the best.
And careful, don't go breaking Toasty's heart. /sarcasm
#152
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:38 AM
No innuendo, I swear. >_>
#153
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:41 AM
#154
Posted 10 June 2009 - 01:59 AM
People are shallow. Like those oil pools in carparks.
#155
Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:01 AM
#157
Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:09 AM
Although, no one can stop the inevitable "I wonder what life is like on the other side..."
#158
Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:37 AM
There's this girl that's been acting drippingly cute around me since about March this year, she stopped for a few weeks but now she's doing it again. She basically goes around saying hi a lot and starting conversations out of nowhere; at one point she just randomly asked me for a hug after school. The school formal's in just over a week so I get the feeling she's dropping hints now.
Despite the fact that all signs are pointing to massive crush, I can't seem to rule out that maybe she might just be messing around with me. I wouldn't think she'd be this persistent though.
#159
Posted 10 June 2009 - 02:54 AM
#161
Posted 10 June 2009 - 04:41 AM
#162
Posted 10 June 2009 - 06:25 AM
Golden Legacy, on Jun 10 2009, 05:25 AM, said:
Brilliant. And in a way, that was the situation I was in. Except, I didn't want a real relationship with her because I didn't feel anything towards her. Other than strong friendship and physical attraction.
Icy, on Jun 10 2009, 10:01 AM, said:
Precisely. And it'll always be like that.
@Split: Do something. Ask her to the school formal. Don't let this chance go by. So what if it turns out she was pulling your leg? You'll feel like a bit of a loser, some people will make fun of you, and that will pass in two weeks. That's life. You wouldn't believe how many times girls rejected me, I never feel down however. This is a rule: at least half the girls a guy hits on to will reject him and laugh in his face. All you need to do is keep your head high, and show people that you don't care.
#165
Posted 10 June 2009 - 09:56 AM
#166
Posted 10 June 2009 - 10:52 AM
Aquamarine, on Jun 10 2009, 05:25 AM, said:
Not all guys will choose the easier one, but most of them will. Usually though, the guys who are willing to climb the harder wall are the better ones because it shows that they actually care enough to pursue the girl. However, sometimes the girl is just being a dick and playing hard to get because they're an ass, in which case it really isn't worth it for the guy to try and climb that wall.
@ Split:
I don't know how it is in Australia, but in my town at least, going to a dance with somebody doesn't mean you're going out with them. It's usually just two friends. That's not to say people who are dating eachother don't go, but you get what I mean.
I'd say ask her to the formal. Chances are that if she really likes you, she'll probably make that a bit more clear at the dance.
#167
Posted 10 June 2009 - 11:26 AM
Toasty, on Jun 10 2009, 06:52 PM, said:
Almost 100% of guys will be put-off if the top of the wall is only slightly out of their reach. That's the honest truth.
#168
Posted 10 June 2009 - 03:13 PM
Aquamarine, on Jun 10 2009, 10:25 PM, said:
And because of our society most people have been brought up to be polite, if she does reject you and she can tell you're nervous or whatever, she's more likely to be nice about it.
This climbing the wall is stupid. I rarely play girl's games unless she's something special, that said I sometimes do enjoy being the one who makes the girl play.
#170
Posted 10 June 2009 - 07:37 PM
Edit: And WD, I said she DIDN'T look like a hooker. How did you get that I said she did?
#173
Posted 10 June 2009 - 09:59 PM
Yeah, California sucks.
#176
Posted 11 June 2009 - 01:34 AM
Icy, on Jun 11 2009, 11:37 AM, said:
Edit: And WD, I said she DIDN'T look like a hooker. How did you get that I said she did?
I think you're hanging around the wrong type of guys for you.
#179
Posted 11 June 2009 - 07:15 AM
Is this win? y/n
srsly though, I don't know if it's a rebound, since when I first got here I thought he was super hot and a great guy, but i had a bf and he got a gf, and now both our relationships ended at pretty much the same time and we've been hanging out every day since and we just did the whole 'confess you like each other' thing. Aww how high school. Anyways, I will keep you updated as drama unfolds.
#181
Posted 11 June 2009 - 07:49 AM
Toasty, on Jun 11 2009, 02:52 AM, said:
I'd say ask her to the formal. Chances are that if she really likes you, she'll probably make that a bit more clear at the dance.
I'll lol if it turns out that she's taken after all this.
#183
Posted 11 June 2009 - 03:57 PM
lol skippy m'bad. I swear once exams are over you will get an epic pm.
#185
Posted 11 June 2009 - 04:13 PM
#187
Posted 12 June 2009 - 01:36 AM
No, no, Caael, I said nothing about the girl you posted 'cause I have a tendency to tear apart girls who are really pretty and aren't afraid to show it. In fact, I pretty much just am jealous of any girl I think is way prettier than me (Which is like, every one of them.) It's a defense mechanism, really, but I'm trying not to do that because it's not really becoming, so...
Does she like to game? :D
#188
Posted 12 June 2009 - 03:37 AM
Icy, on Jun 12 2009, 08:36 AM, said:
No, no, Caael, I said nothing about the girl you posted 'cause I have a tendency to tear apart girls who are really pretty and aren't afraid to show it. In fact, I pretty much just am jealous of any girl I think is way prettier than me (Which is like, every one of them.) It's a defense mechanism, really, but I'm trying not to do that because it's not really becoming, so...
Does she like to game? :D
Ahaha she doesn't game...yet.
#191
Posted 12 June 2009 - 06:09 PM
#194
Posted 12 June 2009 - 07:42 PM
Icy, on Jun 12 2009, 12:36 AM, said:
Eyyyyyy--
Ah well. I'm like, defeated with this chick anyway. I ****ed up.
NOT MY FAULT SHE WAS THE FIRST GIRL I TRIED TO GET WITH. Guess that's what I get for trying to hold out the effort on one that's actually worth trying to get with, so not really knowing what to do, and with a ****load of odds placed against me.
Don't mind me, I'm just raging. But Toasty you fukctwad, take some fukcing notes.
#195
Posted 12 June 2009 - 07:54 PM
Take it as a stepping stone; at least you didn't try to long jump the entire river like someone we know.
#198
Posted 13 June 2009 - 12:03 PM
If you prod and poke around the old relationships topic maybe you'll find something and be able to fabricate the rest of the missing bit of story yourself.
#200
Posted 13 June 2009 - 02:28 PM