[Ironsight]

Um, yeah. I just learned a little while ago that my Mom and her boyfreind are getting married. Im not exactly sure how to take it, I mean, shes been Divorced for 2 years but...

Discuss please

[Sea of Time]

Do you like this guy?

[Ironsight]

Yeah, he's an OK dude. Pretty, uh, cool.

your next post is going to say: "Then dont worry about it. In fact, why make a topic about something as petty as this? ~CLOSED~"

Meh, I dont know why, just felt like talking about it, although there isnt realy much to say. I guess it just finalizes the fact that Mom and Dad are never getting back together

[Someone Else]

Well, I can't say I know how you're feeling. But, in my smaller group of friends (4 of us with me) only 2 of us, including me actually have their mom and dad still together. But said friend whose parents are still together, her parents have been talking about divorce to my knowledge, so that would just leave me whose parents are really together. But I guess that's not the subject of your problem.

Has your Mom talked to you about getting married to her BF? I mean, this is a topic both of you need to be cool with.

[Ironsight]

Well, she just told us about an hour ago. Personaly, I dont see anything wrong. He's a cool guy, but...I dont know, I just feel kinda weird about it.

[Someone Else]

I could see that, the idea will take time but... all I can say is just don't be too quick to judge him as your step dad.

[Ironsight]

Ill try not to. He's been good to my mom and us so far. Thats a good sign

[Toasty]

I can sorta understand how you feel. I mean, I've never been through that, and I highly doubt I ever will, but I can understand that it would be a bit awkward. It's like going from seeing the guy most of the time, to seeing him ALL the time. And the fact that you haven't known him for all of your life wouldn't make it any easier, but if he's a nice guy, I wouldn't worry too much. But personally, I'd keep a close eye on him. But that's just because I'm paranoid. :P

[Caael]

Does he buy you stuff? If he doesn't, complain to your mum that he touches you when your mum is out of the house.

[TheEnglishman]

I feel kinda strange discussing the private affairs of another person on the internet. Still if you find him ok I wouldn't think it's a problem.

[Sea of Time]

Caael, on Sep 25 2007, 08:58 AM, said:

Does he buy you stuff? If he doesn't, complain to your mum that he touches you when your mum is out of the house.

LOL wow, that would be an amazing way to get video games.

But if you like the guy, it really should be okay. It might be weird for a while, but eventually I'm sure you'll get used to him. And hell! Now you can get ****house drunk at the wedding!

[Eugine]

I somehow can't figure out what the **** means SoT xD.

And DS, if your mom (and you) loves him, then no reason to be worried.

[Sea of Time]

Haven't you ever heard the phrase "get sh*thouse drunk"?

[Toasty]

Nope.

[Sea of Time]

Then go to hell.

[Ironsight]

Ive heard of it before, not shure were though. Maybe my Dad....

I guess were going to Hawii for the wedding. Unfortunatly, im gonna take part in the cerimony. yay...im excited... :P

[Sea of Time]

Get drunk. I guarantee it will help.

[Someone Else]

Sea of Time, on Sep 25 2007, 03:43 PM, said:

Then go to hell.

I've heard it.

And you're an awfully mean moderator! Cries!!!

[Sea of Time]

Aww don't cry. Get ****house drunk!

[Split Infinity]

Sea of Time, on Sep 26 2007, 08:43 AM, said:

Then go to hell.

I REPORT UR POST 4 SPAM LOOLLOLOL

[Aquamarine]

I really can't help you, DS. I can imagine what I would do if mu parents even got divorced. I would probably stop talking completely to the person whose fault it is. I would disown him/her. But that's just me and my overly strong emotions.

[Golden Legacy]

I can't relate to that experience, but I can only imagine how it must feel... do you talk with him often (sorry if this has been asked already)? Do you feel like he's open to you and would be a good father?

Also, I don't think it would hurt to talk to your mom about it. She loves you (both), and she wants to make sure that both of you are happy.

[Split Infinity]

Aquamarine, on Sep 26 2007, 08:45 PM, said:

I really can't help you, DS. I can imagine what I would do if mu parents even got divorced. I would probably stop talking completely to the person whose fault it is. I would disown him/her. But that's just me and my overly strong emotions.

Divorces are usually mutual though. Also, you can't disown parents. :P

[Aquamarine]

I know they're usually mutual, so that would make everything even harder for me. And oh I bet I can disown a parent. Well, at least just stop talking to him/her entirely.

[Blue]

Well, not sure what to tell you man. All I can say is just think about it. It sounds like he's a good guy. My cousin's have gone through the same things.

[Mallick]

Wind Dude, on Sep 24 2007, 09:33 PM, said:

Well, I can't say I know how you're feeling. But, in my smaller group of friends (4 of us with me) only 2 of us, including me actually have their mom and dad still together. But said friend whose parents are still together, her parents have been talking about divorce to my knowledge, so that would just leave me whose parents are really together. But I guess that's not the subject of your problem.

Has your Mom talked to you about getting married to her BF? I mean, this is a topic both of you need to be cool with.

They say 1 in 2 american marriages ends in divorce.