[Aquamarine]

Srlsy. I've had a fair share of girls, but I still don't know how to hold a relationship.

[Drizzy Drake]

Someone Else, on Jun 13 2009, 02:03 PM, said:

I know it's stupid of me to vent or whatever in this topic without a lot of hard detail, but I guess that's what I'm going to be doing. Maybe details later, but don't count on it.

If you prod and poke around the old relationships topic maybe you'll find something and be able to fabricate the rest of the missing bit of story yourself.

Oh fu.. **** you! You can`t do that.
Swear filter exists for a reason.

[Split Infinity]

Yeah, how else are we going to scrutinise your every action?

jk jk

[Nosferatu]

It's a real life Web of Intruige!

On the brink of spam? love you babe.

[Lightning Star]

(Wow, the mods are filtering now?)

And WD, I have to agree. You can't come into the relationships topic, claim that its over, and not tell us *why*!

And to stay on topic, there's this guy that I'm pretty sure likes me who comes into my work to help out once in a while...the problem is...he's my boss' nephew X3. And knowing my inability to keep a relationship, I don't want it to make things awkward at work or cause me to lose my job (though I don't think it would be that bad.) But damn. Its too bad. He's got nice biceps X3

[Caael]

Argh this girl is annoying me now. I'm getting so many mixed signals from her I dont know wtf to do. At the party on sat, she I'd always see her looking over at me but at another party earlier in the day she'd barely talk to me. When we do talk, it's good but sometimes it just feels contrived and forced on her behalf.

[Aquamarine]

Caael, she herself probably doesn't really know what she wants. Girls are strange like that, they can't seem to be able to decide anything for themselves. Just look at Icy's post above yours.

That's a joke Icy, just a joke, please don't beat me to a pulp. ;) But I'm right about girls not truly knowing what they want.

[Someone Else]

Girls are terrible decision makers. That's why men do everything.

Kidding. Well, half.

[Aquamarine]

You're not kidding. That's the whole truth.

[Caael]

Meh we've had an on/off history where she's liked me and not and over the past few weeks she's been really 'on' about it, but I'm thinking this is where she's just weighing up her options again or something. Meh, I dont know, she's being really distant atm, so I think I must have done something to offend her on sat.

[Lightning Star]

I'm not going to lie, we kinda are, and no offense taken, Aqua. But it's because we want to make sure that you're what we want, and not some jerk. We're...cautious, and it comes off as indecisiveness. Some girls will even make you wait or do the mixed-signals thing to make sure you're worth it. While it sucks, and I wouldn't do that, it's a fail-proof way to know that if you will put up with the wait and the indecisiveness just to be with a girl, that you're worth keeping.

[kate]

lol true dat icy. I can pursue a guy endlessly and still not know if i like him or not. But I kinda mostly like the chase.

...I'm pretty much a guy when it comes to relationships i guess

[Lightning Star]

'cause Toasty wanted to hear about the guy I liked, so I decided to make him come over here so I could get post count for it X3

And no physical appearance, just personality? umm, okay. Well he's really sweet and has a great sense of humor. He's not conceited about it though, and he underestimates himself a lot, but he's really intelligent and can be really charming. Is that good enough? :X

SHUT UP, NOS. >.>

[Toasty]

I need the negative stuff, child. The negative stuff. You'll never see him for who he is if you only look at half of his face.

What does he look for in a woman?


Seems worth pursuing for now though.

[Lemontime]

I'm still completely and totally in love.

[Lightning Star]

Hmm, well there's not really anything negative except for potential issues that could arise from conflicting political/religious views.

His interest in women? Not me. That's the problem XD

[Drizzy Drake]

Stick at at, you'll eventually mr right. Or mrs, it is you you know xD

[Lightning Star]

haha, yeah. I have to post what my friends said on facebook, it was pretty funny:

I posted: "Sure, there are thousands of fish in the sea. But what do you do if you can't catch any? :["

And I got:
Ryan P at 1:41am June 23
there may be thousands of fish in the sea, but you aren't in the sea, you're in the dessert....alone
Alyssa M (Me) at 1:54am June 23
Thanks, 'cause y'know, that's EXACTLY what I needed right now e.e
Alyssa P (not me)at 2:08am June 23
It's Ryan. What do you expect?

I hate that saying. It's like alright, we aren't fish, there is no sea, and I think there are more than just thousands! False, in all areas!
Ryan P at 2:16am June 23
all im saying is that maybe the fish thing is right, try finding a turtle
Chris M at 6:33am June 23
thats why you have to search for the right shore
Autumn B at 8:54am June 23
Or you could just date a mammal and call it even, Icy.
Maggie M at 9:18am June 23
this is an interesting conversation lol
Alyssa P at 9:41am June 23
HAH! Mammals. They always let you down.
Ryan P at 11:02am June 23
i thought it was gravity that always got you down?

uhh yeah, random. Fish in the sea. My friend Ryan made a good point--I live nowhere near an ocean :[

[Toasty]

And you do, in fact, live in a desert.


I'm actually in the same boat. I live in a desert too, and there aren't any fish anywhere. Except for the bottom-feeding karp. D:

[Lightning Star]

We've got pet fish at the pet store, but they're not very talkative :[

Oh wait, are we talking about real fish or proverbial fish now? X3

Although I found it interesting that chubby girls are something of a fettish now. Or at least there are guys there who like girls whose ribs don't stick out of their bodies. (This was actually news to me.)

[Toasty]

I was talking about real fish, actually. xD

But the same kinda holds true for proverbial fish. There's some good ones out there, but I'm either not interested in them at all or.....I'm just not interested. =/

[Lightning Star]

I actually had a really nice, deep talk with one of my guy friends about relationships.

You wanna know how that happened? He's gay XD

But we came to a conclusion...when you have a relationship in your past that you really valued, was successful, and placed high on a pedestal, you tend to compare every other relationship in the future to it, even subconsciously. Or at least that happened with us. What about you guys?

[kate]

OH LAWDS FSCK YES

I've so been noticing that. ryan was the only relationship where i really thought it was perfect, and because it was snatched away so suddenly now i'm like "how did ryan do that different" with any guy after him....even though it's only been two months....there have been/are 3 guys. so it's really fscking me over

[Lightning Star]

I feel your pain. You, er, know the guy, and there's been 4 since him (over 2 years, but still) yet gaaah.

I mean, I say "oh, I've moved on." And its true. I don't love him anymore, I hardly think about him, but somewhere in the back of my mind I'm always waiting for a relationship that was as good as what we had, yet none of them live up to those standards D:

How do we get over it!? Focus on all the negatives of that relationship? What if you can't find any? D:

[Someone Else]

If a girl really enjoyed a relationship, and weren't the one to end it, she'll NEVER get over that relationship.

And it sucks a lot for the guys who will try to date you, too. :P

[Toasty]

Someone Else, on Jun 24 2009, 11:29 PM, said:

And it sucks a lot for the guys who will try to date you, too. -_-

That's probably one of the more important things to keep in mind.

After all, if you don't, the guy will get tired of trying to live up to your expectations and he'll quit.

[Neo]

When I first met my girlfriend she just got out of a relationship. At first, when we were still friends, she used to talk about him all the time. At one point it drove me nuts. I told her that if she was ever to get a new, better boyfriend, she would have to let the past for what it is, and move on. Find improvement, do not compare but look at only that one person you are with now, and compare him to himself, not another guy. What are his positive feats, his bad ones? That is how I finally managed to convince her that she had to move on, and after some time we got into a relationship. It has been more then two years now, and we are still together. Of course we had our downfalls, but we managed to get trough them and at this point I'm feeling a stronger bond with her then ever before.

Only tip I can give is to never try to find yer girl or man in a club. It won't work, you just end up with a one-night-stand and you'll never speak to her/him again...

wait... I met my girl in a club. Ok sometimes it works.

[My Best Wishes]

It depends what you're looking for. Clubs and social bars are only really good for short term relationships or party girls. You can't have a long healthy relationship with a party girl.

[Neo]

My girl ain't a party girl. Well, she likes to go to parties, but you know what I mean with "party girl". Nowadays I'm shocked by the young girls walking around here in Holland. 14 year old girls smoking, getting drunk, screaming the whole time. My knuckles aways itch when I meet one of those during the evening.

[Aquamarine]

Icy, on Jun 25 2009, 08:26 AM, said:

I mean, I say "oh, I've moved on." And its true. I don't love him anymore, I hardly think about him, but somewhere in the back of my mind I'm always waiting for a relationship that was as good as what we had, yet none of them live up to those standards D:

Heh... Yeah, my situation is kinda similar in a way.

Only about a week ago I was talking with one of my best friends(she's a girl btw) about relationships. The thing with me is, I would like to have a real relationship now, with a girl I would really care about and stay loyal to. However, the last time I was in love was when I was like.. 13 or 14. That didn't go at all well and it really ****ed me up for years to come. I've had plenty of girlfriends, but I've never had any real feelings for them.

Until November of last year that is, when I hooked up with a girl and for the first time after so many years had very strong feelings for her. She screwed me over only after a couple of days and again, that ****ed me up for all the girls I've had since. Once again, I can't seem to have strong romantic feelings for a girl.

The important thing is, I don't let this stuff get to me. Because it's not all that bad, and I know I will meet someone special soon enough. Geddit?

[Lightning Star]

Someone Else, on Jun 24 2009, 11:29 PM, said:

If a girl really enjoyed a relationship, and weren't the one to end it, she'll NEVER get over that relationship.

And it sucks a lot for the guys who will try to date you, too. -_-

Not always. I was the one to end it, if you recall. But it was one of those things that was "for the best". If either one of us moved to the other place, we'd be like a fish out of water with no opportunity.

Toasty, on Jun 25 2009, 01:59 AM, said:

That's probably one of the more important things to keep in mind.

After all, if you don't, the guy will get tired of trying to live up to your expectations and he'll quit.

I've never had them quit, per-say...more like I gave up on them. I dunno, two of the guys were just not my type, and then one of them (Ironically named Luke, but not the same one) was actually the first guy I felt really attached to, but I screwed that up (I won't go into detail) and he's also gay in the physical attraction area sooo. Then the last one I dated last year, just got out of a relationship himself and said he wasn't ready for another one.

Neo, on Jun 25 2009, 03:06 AM, said:

When I first met my girlfriend she just got out of a relationship. At first, when we were still friends, she used to talk about him all the time. At one point it drove me nuts. I told her that if she was ever to get a new, better boyfriend, she would have to let the past for what it is, and move on. Find improvement, do not compare but look at only that one person you are with now, and compare him to himself, not another guy. What are his positive feats, his bad ones? That is how I finally managed to convince her that she had to move on, and after some time we got into a relationship. It has been more then two years now, and we are still together. Of course we had our downfalls, but we managed to get trough them and at this point I'm feeling a stronger bond with her then ever before.

I hardly ever bring up my exes with a guy I'm dating unless they ask. And like I said, I did move on. I'm just wanting something as special as what we had, and not some flimsy relationship like the rest of them have been. Maybe I'm not being patient enough, but the spark where I can just talk to that one guy for hours and feel all giddy inside isn't there.

Oh wait, it is, but go back to the last page, and see THATS not going to work either. I hate my love life so much right now XD

[Neo]

Icy, you are 18 years old. Your love life is just about to start seriously, if you choose for it. You are still so young, and there will be so many guys waiting in line for you, even though you won't see it. Somewhere, there is that guy who has an eye for you, and all you have to do is catch his view. Maybe it will be tomorrow, maybe in ten years. Don't think about it too much, but let life roll on. Love isn't something that must be forced upon you, you just have to wait and see and take your shot when love is standing at your door.

And about the "moving on", yeah I read your stories and indeed learned you moved on. 't Was more of a general note, not directed mainly at you -_-. I hope you'll get your change soon, and I'm positive you will.

[Lightning Star]

Thanks. That's perhaps the most optimistic view I've heard from anyone here in a long time.

Although, you're 19, you're not THAT much older than me, Mister -_-

I know, people tell me that I'm young, and I have a lot of life ahead of me, but that's now how I see it. Right now, the future is out of my reach, but the past in my pocket and I can see it a lot clearer than whats in front of me. I know to wait, that's what a lot of people have told me. Its just...hard.

Well I guess that's obvious XD

[Randolph]

My girlfriend is 15. I am 19. While normally even I would frown upon being involved at all with that much of an age gap, I honestly think that it's supposed to be this way.

I could tell a long tale about divine intervention, but instead I'll simply say that us being in the same place at the same time should have been completely impossible.

[Lightning Star]

I wanna hear! And I know a guy that was 19 going out with a 16 year old, so I can understand--the gap will close as you guys get older, anyways. Just be careful--what do her parents think?

Oh, and an update on my situation--the guy from my work was obviously showing a lot of interest in me, so after work I asked him if he wanted to get a bite to eat and we ended up talking over an hour--in which I was supposed to be home within that same hour. The only problem...I know from my other co-worker that he has a girlfriend x.x.

[Randolph]

It all started about a year ago. I had just finished mu senior year of high school, and went to a church camp for Senior High students, which should have been called due to last year's historic flooding. She also went to this camp, despite the fact that she had just finished 8th grade (thus still in Jr. High), further complicated by the fact that her school still considers 9th grade to be Jr. High.

On top of that, her brother (who is now something of an archenemy) and I became friends, and so he introduced us. later on, we found out that we were going to be in the same town (she lives where my college is). Then we started hanging out, and she decided she felt safer around me than her brother.

Overall, none of the things that did happen should have happened.

As for her parents, well... I'll say it's hard not to feel singled out, despite the fact I know they just don't want her with anybody.

[Lemontime]

Icy, on Jul 4 2009, 04:06 AM, said:

--the gap will close as you guys get older, anyways.

I hate to break it to ya, Icy, but people all age at the same speed...

[Randolph]

King of Town, on Jul 4 2009, 07:16 AM, said:

I hate to break it to ya, Icy, but people all age at the same speed...

Not quite what was intended... more talking about the perceived age gap than actual age.

[Lemontime]

I know.
Right now you're breaking the age difference rule of:

X / 2 + 7.

X being your current age. You're allowed to date anywhere above the age of the result.. SHE BETTER BE MORE THAN 16 AND A HALF!!

[Randolph]

King of Town, on Jul 4 2009, 09:43 AM, said:

I know.
Right now you're breaking the age difference rule of:

(X / 2) + 7.

X being your current age. You're allowed to date anywhere above the age of the result.. SHE BETTER BE MORE THAN 16 AND A HALF!!

Formula corrected...
SCREW THE RULES I HAVE MONEY!
In all seriousness, though, I don't listen to people anymore, at least in terms of what I can/can't do. Nothing good in my life has happened because I did what someone ELSE wanted.

[Lightning Star]

*facepalm* Alright, so my grandparents are five years apart, but at 65/70, nobody's going to be rasing a fit about one being too old for each other. Yet if a 15 year old were to date a 20 year old, it would be VERY much looked down upon.

Like Randolph said, it's the perceived age gap. You have much more in common as you get older, but while you're still developing (0-17), you have a certain innocence to the real world that people older than that can take advantage of.

[Split Infinity]

And I'm sure it's pure coincidence that you're juuust ahead of that range, hurr Icy? :B

[Mallick]

Pretty much, yes. 18+ is adulthood, which isn't very innocent is it?


Split uses smilies when talking to girls, lol.

[Toasty]

King of Town, on Jul 4 2009, 07:43 AM, said:

I know.
Right now you're breaking the age difference rule of:

X / 2 + 7.

X being your current age. You're allowed to date anywhere above the age of the result.. SHE BETTER BE MORE THAN 16 AND A HALF!!

So a 50 year old and a 32 year old are alright?

Meh. I guess it doesn't really matter once you're 20+

[Drizzy Drake]

Randolph, on Jul 4 2009, 11:01 AM, said:

Formula corrected...
SCREW THE RULES I HAVE MONEY!
In all seriousness, though, I don't listen to people anymore, at least in terms of what I can/can't do. Nothing good in my life has happened because I did what someone ELSE wanted.

Sounds like me.

It`s too bad that whether you listen or not is irrelevant though; you`re still commiting statutory. Well, that`s if you guys are haxing sex that is.

[Split Infinity]

G-DUB 3000, on Jul 5 2009, 08:24 AM, said:

Split uses smilies when talking to girls, lol.

;D

[Randolph]

Drizzy Drake, on Jul 4 2009, 05:34 PM, said:

Sounds like me.

It`s too bad that whether you listen or not is irrelevant though; you`re still committing statutory. Well, that`s if you guys are having sex that is.

We don't, primarily because I don't feel like messing her up, or making her parents hate me more than they do (if such is even possible...). Besides that, is it really necessary? I don't think so...

[Toasty]

*pats randolph on the back*

Good man.

Split Infinity, on Jul 4 2009, 03:40 PM, said:

;D

Oh snap. xD

[Drizzy Drake]

Randolph, on Jul 4 2009, 06:42 PM, said:

We don't, primarily because I don't feel like messing her up, or making her parents hate me more than they do (if such is even possible...). Besides that, is it really necessary? I don't think so...

Wasn't saying you were having sex, or that you should, I was merely pointing out that whether you care what people think or not; if you guys have sex it'll technically be a statutory rape, and if for some dumb reason she wanted to charge you, and you got convicted, you'd be a sex offender. It doesn't say on the registries what for, oh no, it's just sex offender. Whether you're an 18 year old screwing a 17 year old, or a 40 year old trying to rape a hooker, you'll both be on the same level on the lists.

Not trying to put your down, or say dont do it; if you grow to know me you'll learn Im the last person who cares. Im just kinda ****nig with you adn pointing out how ****ed over you can get just for having sex with your underage girlfriend. It doesn't identify charges, jsut that you're a sex offender.

[Lightning Star]

Yeah, the 19 year old I know is screwing around with his 16 year old girlfriend, so I could technically get him arrested if I really wanted to be a biatch.

Just make sure you keep yourself on clean terms with everyone or just don't tell anyone that you're having sex if you ever do decide to.

[Drizzy Drake]

Icy, on Jul 4 2009, 09:49 PM, said:

Yeah, the 19 year old I know is screwing around with his 16 year old girlfriend, so I could technically get him arrested if I really wanted to be a biatch.

Just make sure you keep yourself on clean terms with everyone or just don't tell anyone that you're having sex if you ever do decide to.

Nope. She can refuse to take the test, adn thefore they can`t prove he did. And they`re not gonna get a warrent for a 19 year old having sex with his 16 year old gf.

[Split Infinity]

Oh right, that girl I was on about before? She didn't even talk to me at the formal. Despite the fact that we were dancing together at one point. So either she's pissed that I decided not to ask her out, ooorrr she really was just joshing me the whole time.

Either way I don't really care, lmao. She doesn't seem like my type. Cute though.

[Caael]

Not much has changed in my situation, except we had a converstaion about why she cant have a bf because she doesnt trust herself, so I said she needs to be more spontaneous and open up more rather than worrying about everything that could go wrong, so she said soon she will be taking my advice. I dont know if she was suggesting anything when she said it :\

[Blue]

I got some one I'm a little interested in but she doesn't reciprocate anything back.

[Moonear]

Blue, on Jul 5 2009, 07:26 PM, said:

I got some one I'm a little interested in but she doesn't reciprocate anything back.

That's pretty much exactly my situation.

[Lightning Star]

Care to elaborate? What's she like? or he, y'know, if you float that boat.

[Aquamarine]

I've got a couple of ladies in my life atm. Three or four, though two of them are only potential girlfriends that I believe I will hook up with. Nothing's happening with any of them now because most of them are out of town. But as soon as I see them stuff is bound to happen.

[Lightning Star]

What about the other two? Carrying two girlfriends at once? D:

[kate]

I'm carrying 2 guys at once right now >.<

not fun. Will explain later when said guy isn't in the room lol

[Someone Else]

Ohhhh, kate, kate, kate...





Why are you on a nerd forum with a guy over??? Haha I never do that when I have females over.

[Toasty]

kate, on Jul 6 2009, 10:26 PM, said:

I'm carrying 2 guys at once right now >.<

not fun. Will explain later when said guy isn't in the room lol

I know men fall for you like flies to bugspray but.....

Pics or it didn't happen.

[Randolph]

kate, on Jul 7 2009, 12:26 AM, said:

I'm carrying 2 guys at once right now >.<

not fun. Will explain later when said guy isn't in the room lol

aye, sounds like you're in over your head.

[Aquamarine]

Icy, on Jul 7 2009, 03:00 AM, said:

What about the other two? Carrying two girlfriends at once? D:

Well, they're not what you would call "girlfriends" exactly. One of them is one of my best friends with whom I'm having a secret affair, and the other one is from another country, Bosnia. I'm going over to Bosnia in about 10 days, so we'll definitely be together while I'm there, but I don't want to be tied down to a girl who lives so far away.

[Golden Legacy]

Aqua, your situations are always novel-worthy material.

[Mallick]

Someone Else, on Jul 6 2009, 10:31 PM, said:

Why are you on a nerd forum with a guy over?

Double standards. They suck when they're not in our favor, eh?

[Aquamarine]

Golden Legacy, on Jul 7 2009, 10:30 PM, said:

Aqua, your situations are always novel-worthy material.

They might be interesting, but every one of my relationship has such a short lifespan that they wouldn't fill even 3 pages each.

[Someone Else]

G-DUB 3000, on Jul 7 2009, 02:48 PM, said:

Double standards. They suck when they're not in our favor, eh?

I had that in mind while I posted, yeah.

[Blue]

Icy, on Jul 6 2009, 02:12 AM, said:

Care to elaborate? What's she like? or he, y'know, if you float that boat.

She's random and funny. She's a pretty good artist when it comes to drawing too. Smokes hookah. I would like to get to know her better but she's in flagstaff right now. She also still has mah Initial D season 1. >.<

[Lightning Star]

Well that's cool, though I tend to avoid people who smoke...anything. But whatever, if you like her.

And I hate to say it, but I think Aqua's situation is more like that of "John Tucker Must Die" Seriously. Watch your back, man.

[Aquamarine]

Since I don't know what the "John Tucker Must Die" situation is, I'm not quite sure what you meant. :\ I can hazard a guess though...

[Toasty]

There's a movie called "John Tucker Must Die". This guy is dating like, 4 chicks at the same time, and then they all find out about how hes quadruple-timing them, and then they do stuff to get back at him.

[Aquamarine]

Oh, haven't seen it. Well, I'm not actually "dating" them, so I don't think I'm in any immediate danger.

[Drizzy Drake]

i was like that once. it`ll come and bite you in the ass. i got lucky.

[Aquamarine]

I'm aware it might bite me in the ass one day. I don't give a **** anymore though. My life is pretty ****ty atm, so ****ing it up even more this way would probably make me feel better.

[Split Infinity]

Icy, on Jul 11 2009, 04:40 AM, said:

Well that's cool, though I tend to avoid people who smoke...

AHH-CHA-CHA-CHA-CHA.

http://x28.xanga.com/463f01f452733233038533/z183862659.jpg

[Drizzy Drake]

Aquamarine, on Jul 10 2009, 07:29 PM, said:

I'm aware it might bite me in the ass one day. I don't give a **** anymore though. My life is pretty ****ty atm, so ****ing it up even more this way would probably make me feel better.

http://img120.imageshack.us/img120/609/smallestviolinwz4.jpg
http://i180.photobucket.com/albums/x291/Kenny_AF/An_hero.jpg

[Aquamarine]

I get your point.

[Someone Else]

Spam stops here.

[Nosferatu]

Someone Else, on Jul 10 2009, 06:36 PM, said:

Spam stops here.

The sad thing is that he wasn't exactly spamming as much as he was using pictures to say what he would've said anyway.

[Golden Legacy]

I'm not going to lie, I lol'd at Skidz's post.

On another note, I'm really kicking myself for not asking out a girl at my old university before I transferred (or at least getting to know her more). Sieze the opportunity when you can folks.

[Lightning Star]

You didn't?! Whyyy? I thought we went over this. You were gonna be like "yo. I like you. And I am totally worth your time. Go out with me, and you won't regret it. Believe it."

Minus the, y'know, cheesetastic anime line. :D

As for me, I would seize the opportunity, but see...well, when I went out to "dinner" with this guy (more like we got a bite to eat after work) he had me write down my phone number so if he got lost he could call me. Well, we haven't worked together since then, and I figured he might use the number, to y'know, schedule an actual date, but that hasn't happened.

BUT, I really don't care. I need someone I can talk to for hours and makes me laugh--there were a few silent moments and I didn't find myself laughing at all. Our interests and personalities kinda clash too--I'm an overachiever, he's an underachiever. Its probably just not meant to be.

[Mallick]

Icy, on Jul 10 2009, 11:40 AM, said:

Well that's cool, though I tend to avoid people who smoke...anything.

lol, fruit and a miniscule amount of tobacco.. that **** will mess you up, bruh.

[Aquamarine]

Icy, on Jul 11 2009, 09:26 AM, said:

You didn't?! Whyyy? I thought we went over this. You were gonna be like "yo. I like you. And I am totally worth your time. Go out with me, and you won't regret it. Believe it."

Minus the, y'know, cheesetastic anime line. :D

As for me, I would seize the opportunity, but see...well, when I went out to "dinner" with this guy (more like we got a bite to eat after work) he had me write down my phone number so if he got lost he could call me. Well, we haven't worked together since then, and I figured he might use the number, to y'know, schedule an actual date, but that hasn't happened.


BUT, I really don't care. I need someone I can talk to for hours and makes me laugh--there were a few silent moments and I didn't find myself laughing at all. Our interests and personalities kinda clash too--I'm an overachiever, he's an underachiever. Its probably just not meant to be.

Hey, you can't really judge by going out with him only once. And even if it didn't turn out to be the greatest of relationships, you would still be having fun with him, especially if you didn't start having feelings for him, which maybe you wouldn't because as you say, he might not be your type. He might still call you y'know, he may simply be practicing the "let the girl wait" tactic, which is always a good one.

[Split Infinity]

Not if she writes you off on the first date it isn't. =O

[Drizzy Drake]

Nosferatu, on Jul 10 2009, 11:40 PM, said:

The sad thing is that he wasn't exactly spamming as much as he was using pictures to say what he would've said anyway.

...yeah...

[Someone Else]

Nosferatu, on Jul 10 2009, 08:40 PM, said:

The sad thing is that he wasn't exactly spamming as much as he was using pictures to say what he would've said anyway.

I didn't warn nobody nor did I delete any posts (for a reason), was just a verbal warning because two posts in a row had little content besides pictures.

[Caael]

Someone Else, on Jul 11 2009, 07:16 PM, said:

I didn't warn nobody nor did I delete any posts (for a reason), was just a verbal warning because two posts in a row had little content besides pictures.

Pictures speak 1000 words.

[Lightning Star]

He got you there, Dee.

And it's not just the first date, aqua, I mean, we talk a lot at work and all we ever talk about is college registering stuff. No witty jokes or sarcastic moments. Just blaaah.

Though, that is what my sister first thought of her fiance and well, now he's her fiance.

(And I just learned that "fiance" is the man you plan to marry, and "fiancee" is the woman you plan to marry. Never realized there were two ways to spell it D:)

[Blue]

Well I guess Icy wouldn't want to hang out with me since I smoke. Trying to quit but, I dunno. Anyways...
Yeah, its pretty obvious she's not very interested so I'm gonna say **** it. Back to square zero. I seriously have no idea what to do with women. Sure I'm finally able to live in society alright but I just cant get down the social interaction for flirting and all that other ****. Being autistic can really suck ass some times.

[Nosferatu]

Revival of the fittest. Or something.

So guiz, what do you do when an asexual girl starts hitting on you at 3 in the morning?
inb4 asking if sober

[Lemontime]

Hit it for sure, man..

[Drizzy Drake]

if she's hot...

Lemontime, on Aug 12 2009, 07:33 AM, said:

Hit it for sure, man..

[Nosferatu]

Your face when someone you told to fuck off e-mails you.

http://dickinabox.net/funneh/not_so_happy_face.jpg

[Someone Else]

Dude, still?

[Nosferatu]

Someone Else, on Aug 12 2009, 09:19 PM, said:

Dude, still?

Still.

Why is it not yet possible to punch somebody through the internet?

[Mallick]

Because people look down on you when you hit a woman anyway.

[Split Infinity]

I really wish you'd told me that earlier today. :/

[Drizzy Drake]

she deserves a ****punt btw.

http://www.itsoverjo...s/****-punt.jpg

images dont work when one of the words is censored

Yeah certain words are still censored for a reason.

[Lightning Star]

Well, its one thing if they told you outright to f*ck off, another when you think everything is fine and dandy and you're just messaging to say hi, and they suddenly decide to tell you to f*ck off for no good reason. GOD I hate men. :]

And that's why I update here. (Plus, WD reminded me in TRT)

-So I've been "seeing" (not officially "dating") this girl I met online that goes to my uni for the past month or so. I asked her on an unofficial date, bought her movie ticket and paid for desert (we just skipped dinner XD), so it was prolly an official date, but I didn't want to scare her. We have conflicting schedules, though, so I only get to see her at school for about half an hour before she goes to class, but we've become more casual around each other, which is good. It's going slow since we're both busy, but I'm thinking she likes me as well. We're just taking time to get to know eachother better.

[gsninja]

Icy, on Nov 15 2009, 09:18 PM, said:

So I've been "seeing" (not officially "dating") this girl I met online that goes to my uni for the past month or so. I asked her on an unofficial date, bought her movie ticket and paid for desert (we just skipped dinner XD), so it was prolly an official date, but I didn't want to scare her. We have conflicting schedules, though, so I only get to see her at school for about half an hour before she goes to class, but we've become more casual around each other, which is good. It's going slow since we're both busy, but I'm thinking she likes me as well. We're just taking time to get to know eachother better.

Always take it slowly if you aren't sure. Good to see you're starting to go somewhere with it, though, keep it up. ;D

I've never had the patience to look for a commitment, to be honest. Since halfway through my high school junior year, I decided I'd rather hook up with girls for one night stands rather than have a relationship. It's just the way I wanna roll for now, really.

[Toasty]

Icy, I want pics. And by pics, I mean hot lesbian pics. HAWT LEZBEEAN PECS PICS.

Icy, on Nov 15 2009, 08:50 PM, said:

Nowadays, if you're a woman with a strong spirit, you're a feminist. But men have always, ALWAYS, looked at that as a bad thing. So why bother date a guy that doesn't understand/appreciate you, when you can date a woman who does?

Logic. We have it.

A strong spirit isn't bad. A spirit that's so strong that it thinks men are inferior? That's bad. What's also bad is a mindset that doesn't truly see things from a male's perspective, but rather, see's things from what it believes is a male's perspective.


Believe me, I don't think a strong spirit is a bad thing. Usually girls with strong spirits tend to be less air-headed. However, I'd much rather be with someone who's looking for someone that can comfort them, and girls who have strong spirits often either don't need comforting, or won't take any from their bf (if they have one).

Basically, I want someone who needs me.


That being said, I admit that I know about as many level-headed guys as I do girls. However, I know a lot more air-headed (or somewhat at least) girls than I do guys.

[Lightning Star]

Well believe me, I can need comforting, and the thought of being, er, dominated by a guy in bed sounds rather appealing, but its so hard to just let the walls fall down when you're afraid of being hurt and you already have that strong willed personality. I'm not afraid of men nor do I find them inferior, I just have mostly given up on trying to have a relationship with them.

I figured since I am bisexual and I have met quite a few bisexual/lesbian females just during my first semester in college, that maybe I should pursue that direction instead. I've been afraid, I think, because I always told myself that I would come out to my parents when I have a girlfriend and telling them is unavoidable. But if I never had a girlfriend, I wouldn't have to face that, and so I've stayed more on the heterosexual side of my sexuality. I'm still scared, but I'm willing to face that now, especially since I'm moving out soon XD

[Split Infinity]

Toasty, on Nov 16 2009, 05:31 PM, said:

Basically, I want someone who needs me.

Let's be realistic for now.

[Lightning Star]

Actually he seems more of what a lot of girls are actually looking for (Kindness, an interest in personality as well as looks, chivalrous and smart). You might take some pointers ;) (I kid, I kid)


(well, on the last part.)

[Split Infinity]

I'd be more worried about the type of girl he's after, really. I'm always a little repelled by the idea of male dominance; any kind of gender role seems pointless in my eyes.

If I could find a girl without enough freedom of identity to see themselves as an equal with me, without being ridiculously tomboy, then that's somebody I could seriously relate to. People like that are hard to come by, though. :c

[Toasty]

I agree with you Split.

I do have somewhat of a superiority complex, but I do my best to fight it. Plus, as long as the person I'm with is sufficiently intelligent enough (i.e. not a total airhead), then it wouldn't even be a problem.

I'm not really looking for a relationship where I'd be like the dominant male, so much as I'm looking for someone who needs "rescuing," for lack of a better term.

I guess you could say I'm about the polar opposite of a guy who's looking for one-night stands.

[Aquamarine]

Hey guys.

I had a pretty long combination until about two weeks ago.

We barely saw each other but I fucked her three times. Yes I did.

Then for awhile I didn't call her at all because of obligations and then she didn't want to see me anymore. No she didn't.

It was fun while it lasted and I don't care in the slightest that she fucked me off because I had absolutely no feelings for her.

And that is my down-going post.

THE END

[Lemontime]

It's been 8 months and 16 days with my girlfriend and still going awesome.

life is good.

[Aquamarine]

Wow, that's a frickin' long time. Good going.

I'm interested though, if it's not too personal, have you two ever had any problems? I mean like, suspecting each other of having another partner or jealousy of any kind?

[gsninja]

Toasty, on Nov 16 2009, 01:08 AM, said:

I agree with you Split.

I do have somewhat of a superiority complex, but I do my best to fight it. Plus, as long as the person I'm with is sufficiently intelligent enough (i.e. not a total airhead), then it wouldn't even be a problem.

I'm not really looking for a relationship where I'd be like the dominant male, so much as I'm looking for someone who needs "rescuing," for lack of a better term.

I guess you could say I'm about the polar opposite of a guy who's looking for one-night stands.

If you're really looking for a relationship, that's good, because you don't wanna start having regrets once you land yourself a girl. ;) A superiority complex is a double edged sword of sorts, though...a lot of girls probably won't like it, but then there is a decent percentage of girls nowadays that absolutely love to be abused and dominated.

It's too bad, though, that too many girls nowadays (At least, until college) prefer douches as boyfriends. At my high school, a horrid amount of "nice guys" were friend-zoned without second thought, and these were good people too.

[Aquamarine]

gsninja, on Nov 16 2009, 05:46 PM, said:

It's too bad, though, that too many girls nowadays (At least, until college) prefer douches as boyfriends. At my high school, a horrid amount of "nice guys" were friend-zoned without second thought, and these were good people too.

That's what I've been saying for years, but the people around here don't seem to believe me.

[Lemontime]

Aquamarine, on Nov 16 2009, 10:36 PM, said:

Wow, that's a frickin' long time. Good going.

I'm interested though, if it's not too personal, have you two ever had any problems? I mean like, suspecting each other of having another partner or jealousy of any kind?

Nothin' like that, we trust each other too much! We have argued a few times over silly little things, but other than that we're goin' perfect.

[Aquamarine]

That's great to hear. Seriously, that's wonderful. I would love to have something like you two have got.

Yeah, I know you guys think I'm some drunk rapist, but even I sometimes wish to have a true relationship. Keep it up Lemon. ;)

[Toasty]

gsninja, on Nov 16 2009, 08:46 AM, said:

If you're really looking for a relationship, that's good, because you don't wanna start having regrets once you land yourself a girl. ;) A superiority complex is a double edged sword of sorts, though...a lot of girls probably won't like it, but then there is a decent percentage of girls nowadays that absolutely love to be abused and dominated.

It's too bad, though, that too many girls nowadays (At least, until college) prefer douches as boyfriends. At my high school, a horrid amount of "nice guys" were friend-zoned without second thought, and these were good people too.

Not exactly what I was looking for...<_<


And I usually keep my superiority complex to myself. I only even notice it's there when people around me are too stupid to understand mundane things like how to respect your superiors, or like how being a douche to someone isn't a good thing, or other things like that.

There's this one chick in my section of percussion class (she's a Sophomore, and two years younger), who thinks she knows how to teach the Basedrum section tonals better than I do, even though I've been playing the freaking instrument for 3 years now, and she was only in the section for a few months last year (normally, she plays the bass guitar).

in b4 band geek jokes.

[Lightning Star]

Last night she baked cookies and told me on facebook that I should prepare to be cookied today. I skipped my 3:00 class to wait for her to get out of hers at 3, but then she had to run to catch the bus home. Stupid me, I could have driven her home, but I didn't think of it. So I basically skipped class so she could give me her homemade cookies.

And they were the best damn cookies I've ever had <3

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Nov 17 2009, 12:42 PM, said:

There's this one chick in my section of percussion class (she's a Sophomore, and two years younger), who thinks she knows how to teach the Basedrum section tonals better than I do, even though I've been playing the freaking instrument for 3 years now, and she was only in the section for a few months last year (normally, she plays the bass guitar).

What a silly girl.

[Lightning Star]

Oookay, so I'm a little worried. I was texting my physics lab partner 'cause I was sending him the data from our lab, and then he randomly tells me that his friend, peter, thinks I'm cute and wants to meet me. While this is flattering and all, I ask him if he's in one of our classes, thinking "how the hell does his friend even know what i look like?". Well apparently peter isn't in any of our classes. So there's someone out there who knows what I look like and thinks I'm cute, while I have no idea this person exists. And I'm supposed to meet him tomorrow on campus but errghh...it sounds creepy.

And actually, I don't want to. I mean, I just finally have started to fall for Miki (the girl I was talking about) and I'm trying to stay away from relationships with guys. I'm just really bad about turning guys down...

[Someone Else]

Say that Peter sounds a bit creepy for knowing what you look like without obviously having seen the dude before, and so you're not interested. That's the truth, right?

If that's too mean, (and it probably is because this Peter sounds shy for having to ask about you through a friend) just say you're not interested.

If that's too blunt, say you're not interested in seeing anybody right now. That's... half right, because you're not interested in seeing dudes.

Even better, why not just say you've got your eye on someone somebody else at the moment?

Toasty, on Nov 16 2009, 06:42 PM, said:

There's this one chick in my section of percussion class (she's a Sophomore, and two years younger), who thinks she knows how to teach the Basedrum section tonals better than I do, even though I've been playing the freaking instrument for 3 years now, and she was only in the section for a few months last year (normally, she plays the bass guitar).

There's a difference between simply having a superiority complex and actually being the better at a subject, whatever that subject may be. In this case, you wouldn't be in the wrong to tell her to stick her drumsticks up her ass and shut up, since you should clearly be the better teacher. Grow some balls, Toasty!

[Toasty]

The next time she does, I probably will (not grow balls in the literal sense, but tell her off, obviously).

We've been working on other stuff lately, so there hasn't been a problem.

The only thing that makes me hesitant to tell her off is that she probably won't get it at all (i.e. she'll still think she's right, and that I'm just mad because she's showing me up or something. Dunno).


Anyway, I have something quick to say about virginity 'n stuff.

I'm not interested in anything that some other guy's penis has touched, because if my penis touches it, it's like my penis touching the guy's penis, and as we all know, "it's only gay if you're penises touch".

tl;dr having sex with a non-virgin makes you gay.

[Split Infinity]

Ever used a public toilet, boy?

[Mallick]

Split Infinity, on Nov 18 2009, 12:08 AM, said:

Ever used a public toilet, boy?

Probably not in the same way you have. Cold toilets feel fucking odd on your cock, I don't know about you freaks but I hold mine up so it doesn't touch.


Anyway, ever heard of soap, boy?

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 06:00 PM, said:

The next time she does, I probably will (not grow balls in the literal sense, but tell her off, obviously).

We've been working on other stuff lately, so there hasn't been a problem.

The only thing that makes me hesitant to tell her off is that she probably won't get it at all (i.e. she'll still think she's right, and that I'm just mad because she's showing me up or something. Dunno).
Anyway, I have something quick to say about virginity 'n stuff.

I'm not interested in anything that some other guy's penis has touched, because if my penis touches it, it's like my penis touching the guy's penis, and as we all know, "it's only gay if you're penises touch".

tl;dr having sex with a non-virgin makes you gay.

All the bitches you know never heard of showers, boy?!

haha i got there first sucker.


;)

[Aquamarine]

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 09:00 AM, said:

The next time she does, I probably will (not grow balls in the literal sense, but tell her off, obviously).

We've been working on other stuff lately, so there hasn't been a problem.

The only thing that makes me hesitant to tell her off is that she probably won't get it at all (i.e. she'll still think she's right, and that I'm just mad because she's showing me up or something. Dunno).
Anyway, I have something quick to say about virginity 'n stuff.

I'm not interested in anything that some other guy's penis has touched, because if my penis touches it, it's like my penis touching the guy's penis, and as we all know, "it's only gay if you're penises touch".

tl;dr having sex with a non-virgin makes you gay.

Ever used restaurant cutlery, boy?

[Toasty]

Captain Cannabis, on Nov 18 2009, 12:13 AM, said:

Anyway, ever heard of soap, boy?

Yes. I have my own bar.

Aquamarine, on Nov 18 2009, 05:21 AM, said:

Ever used restaurant cutlery, boy?

wat.

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Nov 19 2009, 05:24 PM, said:

wat.

Other people have used the cutlery at restaurants and you put it in your mouth. So yeah..

[Toasty]

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 12:00 AM, said:

"it's only gay if you're penises touch".

[Lemontime]

No, it's only gay if the balls are touching, you idiot..

[Aquamarine]

So Toasty, you don't want to sleep with a non-virgin because you're so homophobic you consider it gay? But putting germ-filled cutlery that hundreds have previously used into your mouth is okay because it has nothing to do with your homophobia, correct?

[Lemontime]

Welcome aboard hypocrite airlines, your captain today and every single day is Toasty McToast.

[Split Infinity]

Nobody can doubt the logic behind Toasty's law of permanent contamination. I guess drinking water is out of the question, considering all the places those molecules have wound up in over their billion year existence. P:

[Aquamarine]

Hey guys guys, guess what happened to me today?!

Absolutely fucking nothing, because my life has become a whole pile of horse manure.

[Toasty]

Aquamarine, on Nov 19 2009, 04:42 AM, said:

So Toasty, you don't want to sleep with a non-virgin because you're so homophobic you consider it gay? But putting germ-filled cutlery that hundreds have previously used into your mouth is okay because it has nothing to do with your homophobia, correct?

Lemontime, on Nov 19 2009, 12:50 PM, said:

Welcome aboard hypocrite airlines, your captain today and every single day is Toasty McToast.

Split Infinity, on Nov 19 2009, 01:58 PM, said:

Nobody can doubt the logic behind Toasty's law of permanent contamination. I guess drinking water is out of the question, considering all the places those molecules have wound up in over their billion year existence. P:

Last I checked, balls left a lasting impression on people.

Also, last I checked, people don't rub their balls on cutlery.

And again, last I checked, you can't put a vagina in a dishwasher.

[Ironsight]

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 12:00 AM, said:

Anyway, I have something quick to say about virginity 'n stuff.

I'm not interested in anything that some other guy's penis has touched, because if my penis touches it, it's like my penis touching the guy's penis, and as we all know, "it's only gay if you're penises touch".

tl;dr having sex with a non-virgin makes you gay.

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 12:00 AM, said:

I'm not interested in anything that some other guy's penis has touched, because if my penis touches it, it's like my penis touching the guy's penis, and as we all know, "it's only gay if you're penises touch".

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 12:00 AM, said:

it's like my penis touching the guy's penis, and as we all know, "it's only gay if you're penises touch".

Toasty, on Nov 18 2009, 12:00 AM, said:

it's only gay if you're penises touch.

[Golden Legacy]

I walked into this topic at the wrong time.

[Split Infinity]

Naw, this thread was always a haven of sexual insecurity.

[Aquamarine]

Toasty, on Nov 20 2009, 02:41 AM, said:

Last I checked, balls left a lasting impression on people.

Also, last I checked, people don't rub their balls on cutlery.

And again, last I checked, you can't put a vagina in a dishwasher.

God you're pathetic.

[Mallick]

It's okay, let him make excuses because he'll never get any pussy until he finds the woman who can put up with him enough to marry him. If it makes him feel better, why should any of us try to rain on his parade?

[Caael]

Captain Cannabis, on Nov 20 2009, 10:53 PM, said:

It's okay, let him make excuses because he'll never get any pussy until he finds the woman who can put up with him enough to marry him. If it makes him feel better, why should any of us try to rain on his parade?

http://images.icanhascheezburger.com/completestore/2008/12/26/128747960430433343.jpg

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Nov 20 2009, 11:41 AM, said:

And again, last I checked, you can't put a vagina in a dishwasher.

It's called a fucking shower..

[Caael]

Toasty is either a pathetic piece of life, or the greatest troll ever.

[Legolastom]

Or the greatest piece of pathetic Troll life ever.

[Saturos S.]

Where is the love?

[Lightning Star]

Would you guys do your best friend's ex girlfriend, after knowing that he's been screwing her for x-amount of time? Even though I like my friend's boyfriend (though not romantically), and I think he'd be an awesome boyfriend, if they broke up, I still could never sleep with him for the sheer fact that he been doing my friend for over 2 years. It'd be weird, knowing where he's been and all...

To toasty-Bashers: old meme is old. STFU or GTFO.

kthxbai :joy:

[Caael]

Icy, on Nov 21 2009, 07:47 PM, said:

Would you guys do your best friend's ex girlfriend boyfriend, after knowing that he's been screwing her for x-amount of time? Even though I like my friend's boyfriend (though not romantically), and I think he'd be an awesome boyfriend, if they broke up, I still could never sleep with him for the sheer fact that he been doing my friend for over 2 years. It'd be weird, knowing where he's been and all...

To toasty-Bashers: old meme is old. STFU or GTFO.

kthxbai :joy:

Well as a general rule for guys, you cant go out with a best friend's ex but I dont know how it fares for girls. She might hate you if you do so be careful. I would imagine girls would be far bitchier about it than guys.

[Lightning Star]

*facepalm* you missed the point. I wouldn't ever do it! I mean, the thought of doing him after they screwed around would be one deterrent, but in general I just couldn't date him after he's dated her. I think the whole don't date a best friends ex concept applies to girls.


...and lord have mercy on your soul when you break the code...

[Golden Legacy]

So I made out with a girl the other day.

[Toasty]

For the first time?

Caael, on Nov 20 2009, 05:28 PM, said:

Toasty is either a pathetic piece of life, or the greatest troll ever.

Caael, on Nov 20 2009, 05:28 PM, said:

Toasty is either a piece of life, or the greatest troll ever.

Caael, on Nov 20 2009, 05:28 PM, said:

Toasty is a piece, or the greatest troll ever.

Caael, on Nov 20 2009, 05:28 PM, said:

Toasty is the greatest troll ever.

:joy:

[Golden Legacy]

Depends on your meaning of make-out (more involved than just kissing), but yes I'd say it was.

[Someone Else]

Nice GL, I haven't made out with a chick in nearly half a year. But it's alright I... guess. D=

[Caael]

I've made out with about 7 girls in the past few months, but both parties were drunk at the time so it doesnt count lol

[Aquamarine]

Damn it with this "make out" stuff! When I read make out I think about kissing, not sex. So what did you guys mean?

[Caael]

Make out does mean kissing, I think we just strayed from Icys meaning

[Aquamarine]

I think it's Dipsy who says that making out means having sex.

[Caael]

I dont recall him ever saying that?

[My Best Wishes]

I think you're confusing making out with hooking up Aqua.

[Mallick]

It was Split. Do you honestly think Skidz is so dumb?

[Lemontime]

Captain Cannabis, on Nov 24 2009, 06:08 AM, said:

It was Split. Do you honestly think Skidz is so dumb?

Yes.

[Mallick]

He's only dumb @ the internet. And math, but that's normal when you're black.

[Toasty]

Except he's white.

[Someone Else]

He's pretty smart at being black.

[Toasty]

He's pretty dumb at being white.

lol j/k

[Mallick]

Look who's talking.

[Toasty]

Look who's walking.

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Nov 25 2009, 02:42 PM, said:

Look who's walking.

Maybe it's the vagina of a girl who has never ever showered?

[Split Infinity]

Captain Cannabis, on Nov 24 2009, 07:08 AM, said:

It was Split. Do you honestly think Skidz is so dumb?

Do not recall? :x

[Nosferatu]

This topic is full of fail. I'ma get it back on track.

http://img690.imageshack.us/img690/1631/kelsey.png

[Toasty]

Is she on drugs?

[Someone Else]

Who is that.

[Nosferatu]

Kelsey.

[Someone Else]

Oh good, glad you didn't go with Julia. Best to keep things simple mang, and it looks like you got a nice catch *thumbs up*

[Toasty]

She's hot.

[Mallick]

he's not tapping that yet, hold your congratulations

[Toasty]

He'd better not be tapping that yet. They're not even married!

[gsninja]

I'd hit that. Hard.

[Someone Else]

Captain Cannabis, on Nov 28 2009, 11:13 PM, said:

he's not tapping that yet, hold your congratulations

stfu, I'm congratulating him on finding a chick that can stand him so far. And the only thing I have to go off of about how nice she is is a pic, and she is very pretty.

[Toasty]

You do have a point good sir.

[My Best Wishes]

Someone Else, on Nov 30 2009, 03:32 PM, said:

stfu, I'm congratulating him on finding a chick that can stand him so far. And the only thing I have to go off of about how nice she is is a pic, and she is very pretty.

Ouch

[Nosferatu]

Someone Else, on Nov 29 2009, 08:32 PM, said:

stfu, I'm congratulating him on finding a chick that can stand him so far. And the only thing I have to go off of about how nice she is is a pic, and she is very pretty.

I'm glad you have a high opinion of me.

[Mallick]

Well I'm glad I didn't have to tell him that was a dick thing to say.

[Someone Else]

I wasn't just saying that at Nos, just saying in general that's half the battle of relationships. It's only a burn if you look at it that way.

[Lightning Star]

True. Divorce rates (In america, at least) are at about 56 percent because more than half the time the two individuals get sick of each other (and other reasons).

and to go along with the previous posts. I'd er, poke that? (What is a girl supposed to say in this situation anyways?) She's got gorgeous eyes. (and no I wouldn't poke her eyes, if that's what it sounded like)

[Aquamarine]

Well you're a lesbian Icy, so just say what you would really do to her.

But wow, she's REALLY pretty. Good job mate.

[Lightning Star]

Temporary lesbian, to be correct. I'm just a bisexual taking a break from men. ;D

[Aquamarine]

That's good enough for me.

So what would you do to that girl in the picture?

[Lightning Star]

I'd say I'd scissor that, but for some reason that just sounds painful.

[gsninja]

Nah, sounds pretty hot to me.

[Laharl]

Relationships are a thousand times more irritating when they involve you personally >__>

[Caael]

Me and some girl were the only sober people at a party i was just at, and we really hit it off. Hopefully going to see some more of her soon (in both senses :rolleyes:) and we'll see where it goes :>

[Lemontime]

Caael, on Dec 13 2009, 10:31 AM, said:

Me and some girl were the only sober people at a party i was just at, and we really hit it off. Hopefully going to see some more of her soon (in both senses :rolleyes:) and we'll see where it goes :>

Wow you two sound like a whole barrel of laughs...

GET DRUNK, PUSSIES!

[Caael]

Naww, cuz had to go places with family today and hangovers are generally not great for that kinda thing. I got slightly tipsy for a while, but that worse off shortly after she arrived.

[Aquamarine]

So... Pretty hectic love life since the start of the year. I've been with three girls since the year began. The first one is a girl I knew 5 or 6 years ago and she added me on FB all of a sudden so we arranged to meet and there you go. The second one was at the film festival, I had sex with her. :joy:

And the third one was a fucking shock and still is. My best friend, who I've been inseparable with for practically a whole year, the person that I love more than everyone but my family, a girl that I used to call my sister suddenly told me that she has been madly in love with me for months already. I'm not joking, I truly wish I was. I do absolutely adore her, but I don't have any romantic feelings for her. And it would just feel wrong... I told her all of this, and she was quite heart-broken because she thought I felt the same for her. We did kiss though, and never in my life did a girl kiss me in that way. So full of love and... stuff. And the way she looked at me... Oh God, just typing this feels so wrong.

She wanted to sleep with me that same evening, she actually undressed herself and partially undressed me, but that's where I pulled the line thank God... She means so freaking much to me, but I doubt we will be able to be the friends we used to be after this... I wish this had never happened.

But tonight I'm going out with another girl. I'm sorry to have to hurt my friend's feelings but she must know that a relationship between her and me is simply not going to happen. Then again, I am starting to have second thoughts...

[Someone Else]

You're a dude, you're not supposed to over-complicate things. That's supposed to the girl's job. After that display she gave for you, I think you should at least give it a shot. I mean, if things are going to be awkward between you two from now on anyway...

[Aquamarine]

Yeah I'm a dude, but I do actually have some female qualities... That's something that I only recently noticed. Anyhow, things aren't going to be awkward between us, we just won't be able to talk about everything as freely as we used to. For instance, never in my life had I ever spoken to anyone about sex as openly as with her. We actually gave each other tips on how to make our partner more satisfied. That won't be happening anymore...

The thing is, there are only 14 of us in my class at academy, including her. We could be together for a while, but we have to spend all day, every day together at academy for the next two and a half years. I can definitely see some awkward moments arising after we brake up.

The sex would be amazing though.

[Lightning Star]

Relationships, unless they last forever, ALWAYS complicate friendships. I applaud you for stopping it. Right now it may have made things awkward between you, but she'll get over it and in time you'll probably be able to be as open with her as you used to be.

[Gio]

Idk I disagree. Relationships are always a little awkward after they end, but it can be done ppl can still remain friends. I have done it with a lot of mine, and ppl act like it is the most difficult thing in the world. also having going out with someone isn't as much about going out with em cuz you love em, but it is more about going out to see if some sort of romantic feelings and emotions can be harbored from it, but thats just me.

[Lemontime]

1 year with my GF is on 1st march :joy:

Aquamarine, on Feb 6 2010, 05:12 AM, said:

Yeah I'm a dude, but I do actually have some female qualities...

Like a vagina.

[Someone Else]

That was weak.

[My Best Wishes]

Icy, on Feb 7 2010, 07:49 AM, said:

Relationships, unless they last forever, ALWAYS complicate friendships.

No, not always. It depends on the bloke mostly I reckon, if he can neck up enough and get over it.

[Aquamarine]

I also believe it depends mostly on the bloke. And having it depend on me can't possibly be a good thing... Anyhow, she's out of town for another week or so, so I still have time to think it out. Not that any more thinking will bring me anything new.

Ah well, whatever happens I'll try and let it happen as naturally and spontaneously as possible.

[Lightning Star]

alright, not always. But a great deal of the time its hard to get things back exactly the way they were before the relationship happened.