[Sea of Time]

Honest question, but is that a religious belief or a choice made out of personal experience?

[Toasty]

Personal experience, with a little religion on the side.

Obviously my religion says to abstain, but I have my own reasons aswell.

[Lemontime]

This is getting way too serious...


FUCK YEAH TITTIES!!

[Toasty]

Lemon, if you keep staring at my manly pecs, I might just get turned on. ~ <3

[My Best Wishes]

That turned interesting...

Who thought of the name change? Might have to start posting in here to boast my ego.

[Ironsight]

Ha ha, I think the new name is very fitting.

[Toasty]

Too true.

Now boost my ego. My penis is obviously too small to boost it for me.

[EDIT] Turns out I was wrong. It's 6 inches.

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Dec 1 2008, 07:02 PM, said:

Too true.

Now boost my ego. My penis is obviously too small to boost it for me.

[EDIT] Turns out I was wrong. It's 6 inches.

HUGE! GINORMOUS! BIGGEST EVER!
You suck.

[Saturos S.]

About ten years ago my penis was that big.

[Joek2]

Icy, on Dec 1 2008, 02:57 AM, said:

LMAO. Whoah, hey there, no need to get your testes in a twist. I meant the little boys who think girls judge guys based on how well they are in BED probably are the ones who only know porn stars. And did I ever say porn stars were sluts? Never. Lemontime, did I ever say your girlfriend was a slut? Nope. Not even close. I didn't even remember you had a girlfriend actually.

So I never pointed fingers at anyone. But its cute. You stick up for your girlfriends! And just when I thought all the guys were assholes on here, they ALMOST proved me wrong!

At least we gained some ground, here!

(And nos, you rock :P)

I never said all girls will judge you on how good you are, but if you go in there, do your ****, and finish with a 5 inch penis, she's onna be a little dissatisfied.

Toasty, on Dec 1 2008, 03:13 AM, said:

Hey Skidz, let me ask you this. Did I eve say I wanted sex?

Whether I get laid or not isn't, and has never been a thought in my mind. So using that logic doesn't work, bud.

I'll get laid after I'm married. Even if I get the chance beforehand, I'll turn it down. It's not a priority in my eyes.

*facepalm*

Toasty, on Dec 1 2008, 03:18 AM, said:

Personal experience, with a little religion on the side.

Obviously my religion says to abstain, but I have my own reasons aswell.

What are your pesonal reasons? "I just don't wanna do something that's natural and feels good." ?

Lemontime, on Dec 1 2008, 12:24 PM, said:

HUGE! GINORMOUS! BIGGEST EVER!
You suck.

I love you.

[Someone Else]

Eyyy, mine's 6.5 to 7 inches. And I like mine.

[Fritzy]

7-8. Depending on the temperature, and the hotness of the chick. :P.

Wind Dude has nothing to be ashamed of however.

[I'm Always BROKE]

You guys actually went and seriously began discussing penis sizes. Turns out Toasty is small as well. **** I love you guys. :P

<3

[Toasty]

Joek2, on Dec 1 2008, 07:51 AM, said:

*facepalm*

So you're facepalming because I choose to abstain?

Joek2, on Dec 1 2008, 07:51 AM, said:

What are your pesonal reasons? "I just don't wanna do something that's natural and feels good." ?

So you're saying that it's alright because it's natural and feels good? Wow. Great logic. If everyone in the world thought like that, we'd be living in even more of a hell-hole than we already are.

My reasons are simple: I don't want any relationship I have to be even remotely focused around sex. I don't even want it to be small part of the reason for why she would want to stay with me. I want her to love me because of my attitude and personality. "Because of my devilishly good looks" wouldn't be a bad second though. :P

[Golden Legacy]

A girl and I slept together a few times in college last year.

As you were.

[Toasty]

GL you sly dog you. :P

[Someone Else]

GL. Details. Now.

[Moonear]

Interesting, it seems unlike you. Please expand.

[Golden Legacy]

Girl I met in language class, first term freshman year. I actually remember mentioning her here once. She was the sort of person who would try to make you laugh no matter what. Really intelligent, and she's French, Russian, and can speak four languages (this is the "ego boosting" part), and if I dare say so myself, voluptuous, blonde hair, and she's a soprano. She is so incredibly confident, she actually initiated the conversation after class once, she's so ridiculously outgoing... she (I'll call her Katherine from now on) could just walk up to someone, and say something like "we should be friends!" So yeah, really really upbeat and boundless energy.

At any rate, we became fairly close friends. I had no one from high school, and she was popular (but not arrogant) from her high school, and knew few people. Pretty soon, we started hanging out at each other's dorms - much to the dismay of my roommate, who would be kept up by our conversations and laughter - until one night we had one of those conversations. You know where you start to get sentimental and you really put yourself out there, where you just talk at ease, about anything, could be serious, could be about what you want, but you just feel really comfortable with someone?

It was the first example I ever had of meeting fantastic people in college, the type of people that are so rare for you... but at any rate, it was getting late (2am?) and we had class at 9. We were both tired, but neither of us wanted to leave (we were at my dorm), and she asked if she could sleep for a few hours since she was tired. I said sure, let her have the bed, and was preparing my own on the floor from my blankets. Katherine got angry and said she couldn't have me sleep on the floor, and she offered to, and I as the host would not have it (chivalry and all).

What started was this long, and silly/pointless talk of who should sleep where, and we were both just so tired, so Katherine just pulled me down, curled up, and said "there, problem solved".

So loooong story short, we ended up sleeping together, same bed, under blankets, and we spent the night talking and we would both speak in our own native languages and teach each other new words and recite poetry, and that's how it is, she just curled up in my chest, (eventually I put my arms around her waist too) and we just slept.

We did this a few times more, just hanging out in each other's dorms and sleeping together when we got too tired, and people did think we were dating, but we never made it official. Okay, scratch that, I never made it official, and that was with many moments where a kiss felt like it was coming between us. But eventually we drifted apart the next semester. She's with a boyfriend now and she thinks of us as "oh yeah, Riad, we're friends".

You know how you have one of those epic failures in life for not going for it? This is mine.

[Drizzy Drake]

Golden Legacy, on Dec 1 2008, 09:28 PM, said:

Girl I met in language class, first term freshman year. I actually remember mentioning her here once. She was the sort of person who would try to make you laugh no matter what. Really intelligent, and she's French, Russian, and can speak four languages (this is the "ego boosting" part), and if I dare say so myself, voluptuous, blonde hair, and she's a soprano. She is so incredibly confident, she actually initiated the conversation after class once, she's so ridiculously outgoing... she (I'll call her Katherine from now on) could just walk up to someone, and say something like "we should be friends!" So yeah, really really upbeat and boundless energy.

At any rate, we became fairly close friends. I had no one from high school, and she was popular (but not arrogant) from her high school, and knew few people. Pretty soon, we started hanging out at each other's dorms - much to the dismay of my roommate, who would be kept up by our conversations and laughter - until one night we had one of those conversations. You know where you start to get sentimental and you really put yourself out there, where you just talk at ease, about anything, could be serious, could be about what you want, but you just feel really comfortable with someone?

It was the first example I ever had of meeting fantastic people in college, the type of people that are so rare for you... but at any rate, it was getting late (2am?) and we had class at 9. We were both tired, but neither of us wanted to leave (we were at my dorm), and she asked if she could sleep for a few hours since she was tired. I said sure, let her have the bed, and was preparing my own on the floor from my blankets. Katherine got angry and said she couldn't have me sleep on the floor, and she offered to, and I as the host would not have it (chivalry and all).

What started was this long, and silly/pointless talk of who should sleep where, and we were both just so tired, so Katherine just pulled me down, curled up, and said "there, problem solved".

So loooong story short, we ended up sleeping together, same bed, under blankets... and we spent the night talking and we would both speak in our own native languages and teach each other new words and recite poetry, and that's how it is, she was just curled up in my chest, and we just slept.

Nothing happened. We did this a few times more, just hanging out in each other's dorms and sleeping together when we got too tired, and people did think we were dating, but we never made it official. Okay, scratch that, I never made it official, and eventually we drifted apart next semester. She's with a boyfriend now and she thinks of us as "oh yeah, Riad, we're friends".

You know how you have one of those epic failures in life for not going for it? This is mine.

tl;dr - golden glittering opportunity, missed.

Awwwwwww......you fucking blew it mate.

[Lightning Star]

Hey well... take it from me...It's better that you didn't do it.

Oh, and never do someone if you're not emotionally involved. Er, I guess that's more of advice to girls, 'cause a guy can walk away from a random hit and run and be like "sweet, I got laid!" but why is it that a girl, even if she didn't even want it to be emotional, still feels like crap afterwords?

Man, is it that the only way you can do it without feeling like crap later is through a long relationship/marriage? If that's the case, I'm never doing it ever again.

Oh and skidz...I'd never thought I'd say this, but I agree with your last post (er, the one on the last page about the experience and all). Sadly.

[Golden Legacy]

I didn't want to "do" her, I honestly felt like being with her. There's a difference.

At any rate, I don't have any regrets about that night though, that conversation we had was something I'll cherish forever. It really did a lot for me, to be able to meet someone like her who could understand you, and to feel so comfortable and all. I cite her as a personal example to people heading off to college that there are amazing people to meet.

That, and it complicates my rather devout, conservative upbringing (yes, I said conservative). My parents would probably freak out if they ever knew I had so much as high school crushes, much less something like I had in college.

[Lightning Star]

Ah, but the ones who actually are like that are either

a. taken
b. are a thousand + miles away
c. come with two kids and a drunk boyfriend/clingy ex-girlfriend.

So what do you do? Give up and get yourself a dog/cat. :P

[Nosferatu]

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/5/54/Fine_cat.jpg

OH GOD I COULDN'T RESIST.

[Drizzy Drake]

Icy, on Dec 1 2008, 09:43 PM, said:

Hey well... take it from me...It's better that you didn't do it.

Oh, and never do someone if you're not emotionally involved. Er, I guess that's more of advice to girls, 'cause a guy can walk away from a random hit and run and be like "sweet, I got laid!" but why is it that a girl, even if she didn't even want it to be emotional, still feels like crap afterwords?

Man, is it that the only way you can do it without feeling like crap later is through a long relationship/marriage? If that's the case, I'm never doing it ever again.

Oh and skidz...I'd never thought I'd say this, but I agree with your last post (er, the one on the last page about the experience and all). Sadly.

Thanks love.

[Eugine]

lol GL...
If you're that close to getting a girl, and did not, I doubt you're gonna get one soon =]

And lol@ Toasty.

[Golden Legacy]

Well, I just chickened out is all. It was still a transitional time for me, a whole new setting in college and all, and by all accounts we were just "close friends" and really had some great laughs together for a while. I did something similar like this with my high school crush, though it certainly didn't get this far. We did have a lovely time at the Senior Prom though.

Hey, at least the ladies come to me. I get checked out, you know? I'm on fire.

[Eugine]

lol. Well, you know when you want some you can get some.

Sex is not a bad thing, but for some reason more and more people think it is a prerequisite for a good relationship, and I simply deny that notion. It's a plus though =)
The girl definitely wanted you though. Too bad you're not that kinda guy.

[Sea of Time]

Icy, on Dec 1 2008, 08:43 PM, said:

Hey well... take it from me...It's better that you didn't do it.

Oh, and never do someone if you're not emotionally involved. Er, I guess that's more of advice to girls, 'cause a guy can walk away from a random hit and run and be like "sweet, I got laid!" but why is it that a girl, even if she didn't even want it to be emotional, still feels like crap afterwords

Wow Icy. I've read posts in this topic that have made my stomach turn with pity and understanding, but when I read GL's post I got a real sense of empathy. I've been down that road, and I too have had those "conversations" and then gone nowhere with the girl. But if you have an opportunity with someone like that, Icy, you have to go for it and there is NOTHING wrong with that.

You're really bumming me out with your pessimism. Just because you've had bad luck doesn't mean you can start giving GL the wrong ideas for the future.

I felt great reading that post because it gave me insight into how I had been before entering the dating scene, and that sense of innocence in a friendship becoming a relationship is just fantastic.

So stop ruining my happiness with your senseless drawl about being "sad".

[Toasty]

Sorry Icy, but I kinda have to side with SoT this time around. He's got a point.

[Sea of Time]

Golden Legacy, on Dec 1 2008, 08:46 PM, said:

I didn't want to "do" her, I honestly felt like being with her. There's a difference.

Exactly how I feel about sex.

EDIT: And what GL felt was "falling in love" and you come back with "good thing you didn't follow through"... like honestly, in that context it's a real buzzkill.

[Eugine]

Icy is probably the saddest and most pessimistic person I've met on the internet. Nothing is right with her life apparently.

[Nosferatu]

Trust me, mine's just as bad as she says hers is. I just tend to know when to not say ****. (No offense Icy.)

[Toasty]

....anyway.

Maybe college is good for something afterall. :D

[Sea of Time]

Right now, university was a great choice for me! I get way more control over my life, and since I'm 18 I can spend my Fridays at the bar and drink away any worries about the crazy amounts of homework I come home to.

[Blue]

...
I think I have this preset in my mind, not exactly sure but its like I don't want to be with anyone right now. I've actually been really anti social towards everyone I know. Its kind of depressing to think about it but I've been happy with it right now.

[Lightning Star]

LOL! My life isn't sad. In fact, I have awesome friends that love me for who I am, I'm pretty spoiled when it comes to matieral things, I get good grades, I'm pretty respected at school, Vice Pres of Honor Society...I've got a good life.

It's just when it comes to relationships, you've got to realize the statistics. It's nice to think you can break the mold, but until one of my family members has a relationship that doesn't fail (Seeing as they're all 27+ yrs old and a little more experienced), I'm going to stick to my belief.

But just because I don't have someone/don't believe in love, doesn't mean I'm sad. I laugh quite often, actually. I haven't listened to a sad song in a long time, and I don't think I've cried for months. (shocking, since I've obviously pms'ed since then). Woot for good life and lexapro! :P

Oh, and my choice to have sex with a guy I wasn't emotionally involved with is completely my fault. I take the blame for that stupid decision. I just hope others to don't make the same mistake.

[Blue]

Icy, on Dec 1 2008, 09:08 PM, said:

LOL! My life isn't sad. In fact, I have awesome friends that love me for who I am, I'm pretty spoiled when it comes to matieral things, I get good grades, I'm pretty respected at school, Vice Pres of Honor Society...I've got a good life.

It's just when it comes to relationships, you've got to realize the statistics. It's nice to think you can break the mold, but until one of my family members has a relationship that doesn't fail (Seeing as they're all 27+ yrs old and a little more experienced), I'm going to stick to my belief.

But just because I don't have someone/don't believe in love, doesn't mean I'm sad. I laugh quite often, actually. I haven't listened to a sad song in a long time, and I don't think I've cried for months. (shocking, since I've obviously pms'ed since then). Woot for good life and lexapro! :P

Oh, and my choice to have sex with a guy I wasn't emotionally involved with is completely my fault. I take the blame for that stupid decision. I just hope others to don't make the same mistake.

I think I missed something while I was gone...
O.o

[Ironsight]

http://www.goldensun-syndicate.net/forum/public/style_images/gssv3/snapback.png' alt='View Post' />Nosferatu, on Dec 1 2008, 06:53 PM, said:

OH GOD I COULDN'T RESIST.

YOU SICK BASTARD.

[Someone Else]

Icy. Details. Now.

[Ironsight]

I see this quickly becoming a psuedo-TRT unless the real one is re-opened.

[Lightning Star]

Well you see, the whole thing was quite hilarious and pretty pathetic. I'm not really going to explain everything about my sex life, thanks.

But I will say that I feel bad for the guy. I erm...asked him if it was in XD. And he lasted about 5 minutes. That was it.

So not only did my first time really suck to the point where it was just plain hilarious, but I feel bad about it too. And now I'm freaking out, wondering if I might have gotten pregnant. Seriously, you guys think I'm all emo and drama-mama, but I think my life would make a really good comedy series.

[My Best Wishes]

Diddy Kong, on Dec 2 2008, 07:43 AM, said:

You guys actually went and seriously began discussing penis sizes.

Yes...you guys actually went there. I'm kinda impressed but at the same time feel very dirty.....

Golden Legacy, on Dec 2 2008, 01:28 PM, said:

You know how you have one of those epic failures in life for not going for it? This is mine.

Yea, they suck big time.

Icy, on Dec 2 2008, 03:51 PM, said:

But I will say that I feel bad for the guy. I erm...asked him if it was in XD. And he lasted about 5 minutes. That was it.

I lmao'd

[Nosferatu]

I like WD's posts in the last two pages.

Someone Else, on Dec 1 2008, 05:30 PM, said:

GL. Details. Now.

Someone Else, on Dec 1 2008, 08:36 PM, said:

Icy. Details. Now.

Enough of me being assholic for one day. I've got 3 minutes to kill and kill I shall.
So I've got one girl that likes me, and another that I like. The first one is my style and kinda shy and quiet, to say the least and the other is almost the same but looks like Tati and is about the same as the other girl attitude wise. (Oh sweet my download is done.) There's more details but I'm ****ing half asleep.

tl;dr version: I'm trying to decide who I'd rather ask out as I'd prefer a lasting relationship.

Edit: Now that I think about it, I think I can predict WD's next post.

[Lemontime]

i touched her in the vagina.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Lemontime, on Dec 2 2008, 10:21 AM, said:

i touched her in the vagina.

First time I've actually laughed about a forum post in a long time. ^^

This topic is gold!

[Nosferatu]

I would like to say that things went quite nicely today. I am in a genuinely good mood.
Wait for iiiit.

[Ironsight]

Nos. Details. Now.

Did I get it right?

[Nosferatu]

Too many details, too many lies. That's better left for another century.

On a slightly less dodgy note, to say the least I may have another girlfriend sooner then I thought.

And no. You did it wrong. You're not WD.

[Lightning Star]

Okay, important question for you here Nos, and just for you.

Is she living or dead?

[Nosferatu]

Should've seen that one coming.

Living.

[Caael]

WD, Haven't heard about your situation in a while; how's it going with that girl you were talking about a while back?

[Nosferatu]

Christ you take the damn Dante Inferno test and tell somebody what questions you answer yes to and suddenly it becomes a big thing.

I'm a bit bi. This is going to be fun when Icy reads this.

Edit: And for clarification, both interests at the moment are GIRLS thank you very much.

[Mycarayne]

Golden Legacy, on Dec 2 2008, 12:05 PM, said:

Hey, at least the ladies come to me. I get checked out, you know? I'm on fire.

That's my tactic.

Just sit around, be cool, and they come to you! None of this chasing after them bullsh*t. Grew out of that ages ago.

Having sexy long hair helps too.

[Lemontime]

Mycarayne, on Dec 3 2008, 08:21 PM, said:

Having sexy long hair helps too.

Yeah, you get all the lesbians, 'eh? :P

[Someone Else]

Caael, on Dec 2 2008, 11:45 PM, said:

WD, Haven't heard about your situation in a while; how's it going with that girl you were talking about a while back?

I haven't said anything because I don't really know what to say. Things are a sort of a friends with benefits kind of thing but there's certainly more meaning to it than that. She's said she doesn't want a serious relationship yet, and if that's the case I don't want her next guy to be me, and yet... yeah.

Don't forget we've known each other for 10 years. This is an important friendship. I'm important to her. She's important to me.

With that said, she's suddenly missed her ex again. Ugh.

Nosferatu, on Dec 3 2008, 12:14 AM, said:

I'm a bit bi. This is going to be fun when Icy reads this.

Nos. Details. Now.

[Aquamarine]

@GL: So wait, did you sleep with her, or did you sleep next to her? The way you spoke about it sounds like the latter...

Anyhow, your story really reminds me of what happened with that girl from my academy. Y'know, with the being with her for a short while, both of us having a great time with obvious and powerful empathy between us, but having her go off with someone else for whatever reason(I can bet that guy your girl's with is either loaded or has a really good body or something similar).

So anyway, two days ago was that girl's birthday from my academy. I arrived at the academy first(as I usually do), and she arrived second, and we were alone for a while. When she came in the room I said as if nothing had ever happened "Hey, here's the birthday girl!" and she proposed that we finally start acting again like friends again. She didn't actually mention what had happened though, and neither did I, because I want to be friends with her. So then we just talked about random stuff.

We're more relaxed in each other's presence now and we talk, but whenever we do so there's always, always some flirting and chemistry between us. No matter how much I try for it not to be so, everything we say to each other we say in a flirty sort of way... It's strange, there are a lot of things that keep telling me(and perhaps her) that we should be together, but it's not going to happen. And if it almost happens, I won't let it happen.

Also, another girl from my academy is having a birthday party relatively soon and she promised she'll introduce me to some of her free girl friends. Looking forward to that.

[Nosferatu]

Someone Else, on Dec 3 2008, 12:21 PM, said:

Nos. Details. Now.

Well to put it nice and blunt, if you've been with someone for over a year are you just going to randomly say: "Oh by the way, I'm attracted to a guy that's like me."
Mind you this was like a few months back.

And for the curious, only my type. Not Toasty's type.

[Someone Else]

So... wait wait so... might this be what happened with Sheba?

[Nosferatu]

No. I DIDN'T tell her was the point. This happened around January or so. I just didn't tell her for obvious reasons. Granted it's not as bad as saying you're full out gay but hey.

Exact part of conversation for lulz:

Quote

"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
Ha ha the one question that I'm not sure if I'm ashamed of answering or not.
.shebar says:
which one?
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
"Are you ever attracted to members of your same sex?"
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
ONCE K THNX.
.shebar says:
...really?
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
Just Steph.
.shebar says:
Steph?
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
Not as bad as it seems. Well known fact he's bu.
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
bi*
.shebar says:
how did I not know abot thisss?
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
Cause I didn't want to tell your cause you'd be all lawl whuuuuuuuuuuuut
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
you*
.shebar says:
when was thisssss XD
"For god's sake please get me drunk" <XFire please> says:
Like sometime last year? *hide* XB
.shebar says:
oh god
.shebar says:
how the **** XD

[Ironsight]

Nosferatu, on Dec 3 2008, 12:14 AM, said:

Christ you take the damn Dante Inferno test and tell somebody what questions you answer yes to and suddenly it becomes a big thing.

I'm a bit bi. This is going to be fun when Icy reads this.

Edit: And for clarification, both interests at the moment are GIRLS thank you very much.

http://img518.imageshack.us/img518/2493/1228268056619ssx5.jpg

[Caael]

Yet again I missed a perfectly good opportunity.

Soon as I'm ready to commit to this girl, she decides she no longer likes me anymore.

Bitch.

[Split Infinity]

Caael. Specifics. Pronto.

[Nosferatu]

Caael, on Dec 4 2008, 01:37 PM, said:

Yet again I missed a perfectly good opportunity.

Soon as I'm ready to commit to this girl, she decides she no longer likes me anymore.

Bitch.

Damn, that sucks man.

[Caael]

Split Infinity, on Dec 4 2008, 10:43 PM, said:

Caael. Specifics. Pronto.

Thats about all there is to it...she liked me before, and it seems in the time when I was contemplating asking her out, she no longer liked me.

Nosferatu, on Dec 4 2008, 10:56 PM, said:

Damn, that sucks man.

Tell me about it. I'm not really that fussed about it, but it really does piss me off how i'll miss these opportunities by like a day.

[I'm Always BROKE]

...

**** yeah those things can happen as well... O_O Feel bad for you SoT.

[Caael]

Diddy Kong, on Dec 4 2008, 11:22 PM, said:

...

**** yeah those things can happen as well... O_O Feel bad for you SoT.

When did SoT post?

[Nosferatu]

Hey, Diddy, that's Caael. If you didn't notice.

[Split Infinity]

I think he saw the set and just assumed. xP

[Lemontime]

Caael, you should really just ask her out anyway, see what happens..

[Golden Legacy]

Aquamarine, on Dec 3 2008, 06:53 PM, said:

@GL: So wait, did you sleep with her, or did you sleep next to her? The way you spoke about it sounds like the latter...

Anyhow, your story really reminds me of what happened with that girl from my academy. Y'know, with the being with her for a short while, both of us having a great time with obvious and powerful empathy between us, but having her go off with someone else for whatever reason(I can bet that guy your girl's with is either loaded or has a really good body or something similar).

It was a little of both, but leaning towards the latter.

And to be fair, we drifted apart on our own. It wasn't a sudden thing, it was simply being together, feeling really emotionally involved, college for the first time, amazing person of the type you thought you'd never meet... and then the "euphoria" sort of dies down, I guess. That, and the main reason was that I never actually asked her to make it official.

This was early during first term, and towards the end we were together less and less, and next semester we didn't have any classes together, we both got busy with our own commitments and both of us were overloading, etc. and yeah, she ended up with someone.

Though I know for a fact that I was probably the weird one out of her relationships. She's gorgeous and beautiful, I'm a lanky awkward ugly twat, she sings in national operas, I can barely position my fingers on the piano, etc., and there's an unwritten law that says the guy she has to be with has to be as "good" as her and I simply wasn't. Many times when I was with her, I couldn't help but ask "wait, is she really serious being with me" or "am I really just holding her back", and so forth.

[Someone Else]

Golden Legacy, on Dec 4 2008, 09:19 PM, said:

It was a little of both, but leaning towards the latter.

GL, you either have sex with somebody or you don't...

[Caael]

Lemontime, on Dec 5 2008, 01:17 AM, said:

Caael, you should really just ask her out anyway, see what happens..

I did...she said she just wants to stay friends.

However she's liked me in the past before this, so next time, if she does come around again, i'm gonna have to be quick about it.

GL said:

Though I know for a fact that I was probably the weird one out of her relationships. She's gorgeous and beautiful, I'm a lanky awkward ugly twat, she sings in national operas, I can barely position my fingers on the piano, etc., and there's an unwritten law that says the guy she has to be with has to be as "good" as her and I simply wasn't. Many times when I was with her, I couldn't help but ask "wait, is she really serious being with me" or "am I really just holding her back", and so forth.

Woah hold on there sailor. You're a sexy beast and you know it. My friend was like this when he thought he had a girl way out of his league. The thing is; if you're going out with them, you're obviously not out of their league otherwise you wouldn't be going out with them.

[My Best Wishes]

Golden Legacy, on Dec 5 2008, 04:19 PM, said:

It was a little of both, but leaning towards the latter.

And to be fair, we drifted apart on our own. It wasn't a sudden thing, it was simply being together, feeling really emotionally involved, college for the first time, amazing person of the type you thought you'd never meet... and then the "euphoria" sort of dies down, I guess. That, and the main reason was that I never actually asked her to make it official.

This was early during first term, and towards the end we were together less and less, and next semester we didn't have any classes together, we both got busy with our own commitments and both of us were overloading, etc. and yeah, she ended up with someone.

Though I know for a fact that I was probably the weird one out of her relationships. She's gorgeous and beautiful, I'm a lanky awkward ugly twat, she sings in national operas, I can barely position my fingers on the piano, etc., and there's an unwritten law that says the guy she has to be with has to be as "good" as her and I simply wasn't. Many times when I was with her, I couldn't help but ask "wait, is she really serious being with me" or "am I really just holding her back", and so forth.

**** mate stop being down on yourself. Yea hot girls are with hot guys, some of the time, there's some ugly or plain guys at my school or that I know with really damn hot girlfriends, some of them even have brains, mostly because they have confidence and one guy is hilarious.
Looks matter alot less to girls then they do for guys, are we all in agreement?

I don't think I've actually posted about myself in here for ages. Some may know I moved states start of this year, being the new guy at school is really good if you can approach it the right way. Had a girl make moves on me while I was still pretty new, nothing happened out of that though cause it happened at a 18th and I wasn't expecting it at all, I'm not great at reading when girls are into me.
Then a few months ago I had one of her friends kinda get into me, I liked her before when I first moved but that was mostly because she was a friend. Some mates of mine came up for my birthday in August and I took them to meet her and her friend, kinda a approval thing for me, was only really interested in what one of my friends had to say anyway. So we picked up that she liked me. Then nothing happened cause I still had doubts (was just looking for a way out) then she sent me a message saying she liked me and that we should do something one time, but I never asked her out and I still really regret that despite the fact I tell myself to never regret a decision I ever did or didn't do (like throwing sauce on my friends girlfriend on her birthday :P ) So that's pretty much me.
Still want to ask her out though, saw her not long ago at my post-exam formal and she was still giving vibes, I'm a bit of a pussy though, the last girl I asked out didn't end so well (she said yes it just didn't work out)

Caael's right as well, can't remember where I read it but the quote was "No girl is out of your league, she's out of your league because you put her there" or something like that.

[Mycarayne]

Lemontime, on Dec 3 2008, 07:19 PM, said:

Yeah, you get all the lesbians, 'eh? :P

Nothing wrong with a threesome every now and again bro.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Caael, on Dec 4 2008, 11:22 PM, said:

When did SoT post?

Nosferatu, on Dec 4 2008, 11:25 PM, said:

Hey, Diddy, that's Caael. If you didn't notice.

Split Infinity, on Dec 4 2008, 11:28 PM, said:

I think he saw the set and just assumed. xP

God I'm stupid! :P *facepalm*

And yes, girls do seem to care less about looks than guys... It's all about confidence and being yourself, but that's so much easier to say than to actually do.

[Someone Else]

watch, on Dec 5 2008, 12:03 AM, said:

Looks matter alot less to girls then they do for guys, are we all in agreement?

Ahaha that's funny. From my experience girls are actually a LOT more shallow than guys are...

[Lightning Star]

Hah. And from my experience, guys are a lot more shallow than girls are...

I think its a two way street, buddy.

Everyone's different, obviously, so not ALL girls like guys based on looks and atletic ability and all that good stuff. And not all guys are the same way. I know a guy I liked this summer really liked me for my personality, which was refreshing (and I've yet to meet another like him XD)

It just depends on the person, I guess.


NOS. MOAR DETAILS! NOW!

[Split Infinity]

Personally, I think girls care way too much about their own appearances, whereas guys are more picky over how their girlfriends look, though they'll never tell you that. x]

So in a really shallow, media-influenced way, it balances out.

[Lightning Star]

True, true.

If I ever do get a real relationship, I want a guy like my sister's fiance. He dotes on her so much and even when she looks like sh-t, he says she's beautiful. And he calls her up from work when he's working late and is like "I miss you honney". And my parents just love him too.

Dude. Its so not fair. >_>

[Split Infinity]

How old's your sister?

[Nosferatu]

Icy, on Dec 5 2008, 02:13 PM, said:

NOS. MOAR DETAILS! NOW!

Moar details how exactly?

[Lightning Star]

@Nos:

How'd you meet him
why you like him
is he interested in you?

The basics! (and maybe some juicy details for my enjoyment ^^)

@Split: She's 27, but she looks like she's younger, like 20 or 23. People think we're 3 or 4 years apart, not 10 XD

[My Best Wishes]

Someone Else, on Dec 6 2008, 06:17 AM, said:

Ahaha that's funny. From my experience girls are actually a LOT more shallow than guys are...

I'm not saying that all girls aren't into looks, names come instantly to my head of friends and sisters friends that have rejected guys because of their looks. But on the other hand I have some hot friends with ugly boyfriends because they're such fun guys to be around.

[Lemontime]

Someone Else, on Dec 6 2008, 06:17 AM, said:

Ahaha that's funny. From my experience girls are actually a LOT more shallow than guys are...

Your experiences are retarded.

[Nosferatu]

Icy, on Dec 5 2008, 03:45 PM, said:

@Nos:

How'd you meet him
why you like him
is he interested in you?

The basics! (and maybe some juicy details for my enjoyment ^^)

@Split: She's 27, but she looks like she's younger, like 20 or 23. People think we're 3 or 4 years apart, not 10 XD

Horde totally ****ing distracts me. Anyway...

No this was a while ago. Back December '07/ January. So essentially:

School
"Emo" look essentially. Same **** goes for guys as it does for girls.
He may have been.

Edit: Why is it everytime I post **** goes dead here?

[Caael]

That girl I was talking about earlier is acting like she was when she liked me, which has left me really ****ing confused. I still want to go out with her, but I dunno if she's just messing or actually changed her mind.

[Split Infinity]

Maybe she's liked you this whole time, you just read her wrong?

[Caael]

Split Infinity, on Dec 8 2008, 12:14 AM, said:

Maybe she's liked you this whole time, you just read her wrong?

No, I asked her last time and she said she no longer liked me. I see no reason for her to lie.

Either way, i'll give it a shot because i've got nothing to lose.

[Lemontime]

i touched her in the vagina
again

[My Best Wishes]

Aren't you like 12?
Anyone else reckon that girls were/are more skanky/easy when they're in like Year 9-10 as opposed to Year 12 girls? That's been my experience but it could just be I swapped to a better school.

[Split Infinity]

I wish I could tell you.

[My Best Wishes]

Oh yea, Boys school.

Surely you know what a girl is though, school isn't the only place to meet people.

[Lemontime]

I wish I could punch you.

[Toasty]

PUNCH HIM WITH YOUR TESTICLES LEMON!

[My Best Wishes]

Punch me? Laters to that, I'm not taking a hour long roadtrip to get smacked in the face.

[Quacnar]

In return I am confused> What does one do in this topic?

[Split Infinity]

watch, on Dec 8 2008, 05:41 PM, said:

Surely you know what a girl is though, school isn't the only place to meet people.

Yeah, it is 90% of the time though...

killercoz, on Dec 8 2008, 06:04 PM, said:

In return I am confused> What does one do in this topic?

You wouldn't understand.

[Quacnar]

How would you know? Who are you to say what I have or haven"t done?

[Nosferatu]

He's Split Infinity.

I thought that was fairly obvious.

[Split Infinity]

When did I say you've done anything?

[Quacnar]

Ill rephrase> Why wouldn"t I understand?

[Toasty]

Because you haven't been here for the past 166 pages.

obviously

[Caael]

watch, on Dec 8 2008, 07:31 AM, said:

Aren't you like 12?
Anyone else reckon that girls were/are more skanky/easy when they're in like Year 9-10 as opposed to Year 12 girls? That's been my experience but it could just be I swapped to a better school.

15, whats wrong with that?

Girls are much less easier here in years 10-11. Or maybe it's just the girls I know.

[Lemontime]

Caael, on Dec 8 2008, 06:28 PM, said:

15, whats wrong with that?

16.

15 is a **** age! (hh)

[I'm Always BROKE]

Caael, on Dec 8 2008, 12:02 AM, said:

That girl I was talking about earlier is acting like she was when she liked me, which has left me really ****ing confused. I still want to go out with her, but I dunno if she's just messing or actually changed her mind.

Maybe she's doing that because she's feeling kinda guilty for not liking you anymore? Observe her a little bit more, and see if she's still like this after a little while. If she is, she indeed might've changed her mind.

[My Best Wishes]

Split Infinity, on Dec 8 2008, 06:07 PM, said:

Yeah, it is 90% of the time though...
You wouldn't understand.

Get a life. You can meet people at church (provided you go), sport, work, going out, hell go to a school party and meet people from other schools and keep moving through schools. School is such a small part of peoples social life

Caael, on Dec 8 2008, 06:28 PM, said:

15, whats wrong with that?

Girls are much less easier here in years 10-11. Or maybe it's just the girls I know.

It's just that younger boys and girls amuse me in their emotional interactions. No concept or desire for the long-term, just hooking up. It's a good thing girls do grow up.
And yea I find the same thing, the older I/we got the less slutty the girls at my school and church got. There are exceptions though, I know some girls my age who have been doing 'it' since they were 14 and the major attractions for them are older guys who buy them stuff and act like a butler/chauffeur.

[Split Infinity]

watch, on Dec 9 2008, 07:54 PM, said:

hell go to a school party and meet people from other schools and keep moving through schools.

Gatecrashing is always a good way to meet new people.

[Lemontime]

watch, never talk to jack like that again or i'll destroy you..

I like the contrast in your post though...

"It seems as I get older the girls in my church group get less sluttier.."

shouldn't they have never been slutty? your church group is ****ed.

[Caael]

watch, on Dec 9 2008, 09:54 AM, said:

Get a life. You can meet people at church (provided you go), sport, work, going out, hell go to a school party and meet people from other schools and keep moving through schools. School is such a small part of peoples social life

It's just that younger boys and girls amuse me in their emotional interactions. No concept or desire for the long-term, just hooking up. It's a good thing girls do grow up.
And yea I find the same thing, the older I/we got the less slutty the girls at my school and church got. There are exceptions though, I know some girls my age who have been doing 'it' since they were 14 and the major attractions for them are older guys who buy them stuff and act like a butler/chauffeur.

Well you cant seriously expect us to be looking for a serious relationship 15 years into out lives can you?

[Quacnar]

Caael, in regards to your situation, she probably is starting to like you again. If you want my advice, I would give her some time to make up her decision about how she feels about you.

[Toasty]

Caael, on Dec 9 2008, 12:10 PM, said:

Well you cant seriously expect us to be looking for a serious relationship 15 years into out lives can you?

I started looking for one when I was in the 6th grade. =/ One night stands and week/month-long relationships have never been my thing.

[Split Infinity]

You do realise that if you spend your whole life looking for the perfect girl you're going to fall to pieces when you break up, right?

[Quacnar]

I personally think no one should be in a relationship until they are 13/14. I don't think anyone can be sure of their sexuality until that point in their life.

[Split Infinity]

I've been sure since I was five.

[Quacnar]

No can be sure at 5. Every gay person assumed they were straight when they were 5. Society portrays an idea that you aren't homosexual, and being homosexual is a negative thing.

[Split Infinity]

Or maybe it's just assumed because it's so much more common, like right-handers.

[Showtek]

Yes, but society also portrays an idea that being super thin is allright if you're beautiful. You shouldn't care if society doesn't approve of your life choice.

[Toasty]

Split Infinity, on Dec 9 2008, 05:57 PM, said:

You do realise that if you spend your whole life looking for the perfect girl you're going to fall to pieces when you break up, right?

Yeah. That's why there's no point in dating during highschool, as the majority of couples don't stay together for more than a few months.

killercoz, on Dec 9 2008, 06:12 PM, said:

No can be sure at 5. Every gay person assumed they were straight when they were 5. Society portrays an idea that you aren't homosexual, and being homosexual is a negative thing.

If I ever question my sexuality, I just remember how much I hate penises (besides my manly salami of manliness), and how much I love boobs. *gropes a lope*

I actually act gay every now and then during the schol days on almost a daily basis. I've been sure of my sexuality since I looked down and saw a beef stick.


But seriously, I honestly don't get the attraction to men. Our curves are rough, our skin is far from soft, we don't have boobs, we have protrusions from our pelvis that don't even come close to blending with shape of our body, and we grow hair in some of the most surprising places.

Women have boobs, their bodies are smooth and streamlined, they don't have penisi (well....hopefully), and [most of them] don't have unsightly hair.

It's an obvious choice imo. Besides all of that, two men can't make a baby. JUST IMAGINE WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX QUIT HAVING SEX. IT'D BE AN APOCALYPSE!

[Split Infinity]

Fun? Experience? Not wasting the best years of your life? I'm not one to talk tho...

[Quacnar]

What I'm saying is: Why date before you can be 100% positive?

[Nosferatu]

I'm going to **** around with you and point out that I figured out I was bi about 14 months ago and I had a girlfriend during that time.

[Showtek]

killercoz, on Dec 9 2008, 09:23 PM, said:

What I'm saying is: Why date before you can be 100% positive?

Because that's the fun in dating. The spontanious aspect of it. If you know for sure the first person you date is going to be the one, where is the fun in that?

[Split Infinity]

Life's no fun without risks. And you should know all about risk, Coz.

[Toasty]

The best years don't come until college. :D


And some risks aren't worth taking imo. I'd be perfectly happy with marrying the first person I ever dated, ads long as I knew she was the right person.

[Quacnar]

Showtek, on Dec 9 2008, 10:26 PM, said:

Because that's the fun in dating. The spontanious aspect of it. If you know for sure the first person you date is going to be the one, where is the fun in that?

Im not talking about permanent relationships, I'm talking about being in a relationship with a person that fits your sexual orientation.

Split Infinity, on Dec 9 2008, 10:28 PM, said:

Life's no fun without risks. And you should know all about risk, Coz.

Why do I know about risks?

[Showtek]

killercoz, on Dec 9 2008, 09:43 PM, said:

Im not talking about permanent relationships, I'm talking about being in a relationship with a person that fits your sexual orientation.

Why do I know about risks?

Oh, I understand. In that case, yes, you definetly should be a little more selective of who you go after.

I assume he means because you're gay.

[Split Infinity]

Why do I feel like I have to explain everything to everyone these days?

[Showtek]

Beat you to it.

[Lemontime]

Toasty, on Dec 10 2008, 01:33 PM, said:

The best years don't come until college. :D

how do you know? you've haven't been to college..

[Nosferatu]

Lemontime, on Dec 9 2008, 06:47 PM, said:

how do you know? you've haven't been to college..

High five. I was just going to say that.

[Showtek]

College dating can be a pain, trust me. You really have to step your **** up when you go to college/university.

[Quacnar]

I think being gay means having more risks is ridiculous. When using condoms, we are at as much risk as the breeders.

[Split Infinity]

I meant more risks socially. Try to use your head, Coz.

[Lemontime]

killercoz, on Dec 10 2008, 01:51 PM, said:

I think being gay means having more risks is ridiculous. When using condoms, we are at as much risk as the breeders.

have you had buttsex?

[Eugine]

Gays are more likely to contract HIV...
So Coz, how's love treating you? I need something more than "mediocre".

[Lemontime]

Eugine, on Dec 10 2008, 01:58 PM, said:

Gays are more likely to contract HIV...
So Coz, how's love treating you? I need something more than "mediocre".

actually, heterosexual sex is just as likely to spread hiv aids as gay sex.

[Quacnar]

Lemontime, on Dec 9 2008, 10:52 PM, said:

have you had buttsex?

What a direct question...

Eugine, on Dec 9 2008, 10:58 PM, said:

So Coz, how's love treating you? I need something more than "mediocre".

Love is such a strong word...

[Lemontime]

YOU'RE AVOIDING THE QUESTION!

[Eugine]

Most studies show that blacks and gays are more likely to be infected than other groups.

[Lemontime]

because they sleep around more.

[Showtek]

And because alot of gays smoke methamphetamine before having sex. For some, it's the only way to have sex.

Quote

In 2005 20 to 25% of gay and bisexual New Yorkers used methamphetamine. Methamphetamine users who thought they were HIV-negative but were actually positive are 11 times more likely to receptively (bottom) bareback while PNPing than their HIV-negative counterparts. Gay men in California who use methamphetamine are twice as likely to be HIV-positive.[9]

Methamphetamine is very popular in the gay party and baths/sauna scenes. Gay saunas are places where men often go to meet other men for sex and the frequency of PNP here is very high. Some sex clubs ban unprotected sex, while others look the other way or permit it. Drug use is uniformly banned, but not all clubs prevent their clientele from entry if they come already high

[Quacnar]

This is all very ridiculous. I, as an individual, have a small chance of contracting AIDS as long as I practice safe sex regardless of race/sexual orientation.

[Eugine]

Lemontime, on Dec 9 2008, 11:06 PM, said:

because they sleep around more.

Sure.
You agree with me then?

[Lemontime]

still haven't answered my question, coz.

And eugine, I agree, but not based on their race or sexual tendencies, but how they practice sex.

[Quacnar]

That's even worse. It's prejudice to make such a vast judgement upon a certain type of people.

[Lemontime]

STOP AVOIDING THE GOD DAMN QUESTION!! :@:@:@:@

[Toasty]

Lemontime, on Dec 9 2008, 06:47 PM, said:

how do you know? you've haven't been to college..

Two words: No parents.


And I feel the need to quote myself:

Toasty, on Dec 9 2008, 06:20 PM, said:

But seriously, I honestly don't get the attraction to men. Our curves are rough, our skin is far from soft, we don't have boobs, we have protrusions from our pelvis that don't even come close to blending with shape of our body, and we grow hair in some of the most surprising places.

Women have boobs, their bodies are smooth and streamlined, they don't have penisi (well....hopefully), and [most of them] don't have unsightly hair.

It's an obvious choice imo. Besides all of that, two men can't make a baby. JUST IMAGINE WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX QUIT HAVING SEX. IT'D BE AN APOCALYPSE!

[Eugine]

I just got my info from this survey btw...
http://edition.cnn.com/2008/HEALTH/conditi...iv.blacks.gays/

[Split Infinity]

Toasty, on Dec 10 2008, 02:25 PM, said:

Two words: No parents.

So... being an orphan leads to superhuman intellect?

[Toasty]

*facepalm*

The thing that makes college so great, is that you don't have parents breathing down your neck.

[Showtek]

...it's not hard to get with girls while still living with your parents.

It sounds like you're looking for an excuse not to go with it with girls. Why don't you want to have sex?

[Toasty]

*points to previous pages in the topic*

[Lemontime]

it's not natural, MAAAN!

[Toasty]

That's because I'm really a highly advanced species. :D

[Split Infinity]

Of retard.

[Toasty]

eff.

[Split Infinity]

Come on, you were totally asking for that. :D

[Lemontime]

a highly advanced species that will never breed..?


niice..

[Toasty]

moar liek a hylee advnsed spesheez that breeded with ur mom lawl.


You only need to be with one woman to reproduce. I despise the thought of a short-term relationship. Just seems liek a complete and utter waste of time imo.

Besides that, I know three seniors who have had girlfriends before and say that it's not worth it in highschool for numerous academic and social reasons. They happen to be pretty popular too.

Anyway, I neither need, nor want a distraction unless it proves to be worthwhile.

[Lemontime]

well you'll never know if you don't try, fool..

my best mate has been going out with his girlfriend for 3 years now..

[Split Infinity]

If your single goal in life is to reproduce, Toasty, you're probably going to fail.

Unless you like sperm banks...

[Ironsight]

You get payed to get off, what's not to like?

[Lemontime]

answered your own question there..

almost some sort of weird prostitution.

[My Best Wishes]

Lemontime, on Dec 9 2008, 08:36 PM, said:

"It seems as I get older the girls in my church group get less sluttier.."

shouldn't they have never been slutty? your church group is ****ed.

Hmm yes because every girl ever born anywhere who is spiritual is a Nun until they're married.

Caael, on Dec 10 2008, 07:10 AM, said:

Well you cant seriously expect us to be looking for a serious relationship 15 years into out lives can you?

Fair point there, I just have a tendency to dislike people from first impressions, judge a book by its cover and all that. I dunno I just hate the whole little tween and teen skank thing going on and how all the guys these days dress like a wog and act all fake macho.

killercoz, on Dec 10 2008, 01:12 PM, said:

No can be sure at 5. Every gay person assumed they were straight when they were 5. Society portrays an idea that you aren't homosexual, and being homosexual is a negative thing.

I knew I liked girls before I was 5 as I was kissing the girls and not the boys.
And what is one positive thing about being gay? Having no prejudice on your life? Being able to have a biological child with your partner? How about the fact that the kid will have a normal life and never get any crap at school or anything about having two dads?

Toasty, on Dec 10 2008, 01:20 PM, said:

Yeah. That's why there's no point in dating during highschool, as the majority of couples don't stay together for more than a few months.

You are never going to get a girlfriend. Never. Not even a hooker would take your money. You plan on meeting the perfect girl, after your 18, and marrying her? Because short term dating is for chumps pretty much? What makes you think that you'll have the game or skills or charm or whatever you think you have to pick her up and show her why she should date/marry you. If you've never had a girlfriend before the one you want to marry, your ****ed as you haven't had any experience.
Yes while short-term dating may be a waste if you're looking to settle down, practice makes perfect. Last I checked, 40 year old virgins weren't what girls were into.

[Caael]

watch, on Dec 10 2008, 08:53 AM, said:

You are never going to get a girlfriend. Never. Not even a hooker would take your money. You plan on meeting the perfect girl, after your 18, and marrying her? Because short term dating is for chumps pretty much? What makes you think that you'll have the game or skills or charm or whatever you think you have to pick her up and show her why she should date/marry you. If you've never had a girlfriend before the one you want to marry, your ****ed as you haven't had any experience.
Yes while short-term dating may be a waste if you're looking to settle down, practice makes perfect. Last I checked, 40 year old virgins weren't what girls were into.

Lol'd hard. You tell 'em, Watch.

[My Best Wishes]

Yea that was harsh but he needs to harden the **** up. Ashamedly I had a similar attitude when I was younger and when I did met a girl I wanted to date it didn't work because I didn't know how to handle things because of my lack of experience. It was a **** experience, but it felt good when I did start getting girls I liked.
It also just ****s me how guys think that some girls are different to others, that they 'aren't like that' or 'wouldn't do those things' when (may sound very cynical) all girls pretty much want the same things.

[Lemontime]

bad attitude watch.

[My Best Wishes]

Lemontime, on Dec 10 2008, 07:08 PM, said:

bad attitude watch.

Elaborate.

[Lemontime]

not every girl is the same.
they aren't all looking for a one night stand and many are honestly looking for a long term relationship..

[Toasty]

watch, on Dec 9 2008, 11:53 PM, said:

You are never going to get a girlfriend. Never. Not even a hooker would take your money. You plan on meeting the perfect girl, after your 18, and marrying her? Because short term dating is for chumps pretty much? What makes you think that you'll have the game or skills or charm or whatever you think you have to pick her up and show her why she should date/marry you. If you've never had a girlfriend before the one you want to marry, your ****ed as you haven't had any experience.
Yes while short-term dating may be a waste if you're looking to settle down, practice makes perfect. Last I checked, 40 year old virgins weren't what girls were into.

I never said short term dating was for chumps, I just said it wasn't for me. Don't like the idea, and I don't need the practice either. I shouldn't have to have any skill in dating to charm my future wife, because that's not what she would be looking for.

If someone's looking for a lifetime partner, they're looking for (or should be at least) the personality traits that they deem good. The parts of a person that are the same from birth to death. For pretty much everyone, you're either born kind and caring, or cruel and evil (or obviously somewhere inbetween). Unless a life changing event takes place, that person is going to have that same quality throughout life. Very rarely does someone just decide one day to switch sides.

Dating experience is helpful, but I'm a quick learner at pretty much everything I do. I'm not too worried.



That said, if some girl came up to me and asked me out, I'd probably take her up on that offer as long as her looks and personality appealed to me. But I'm not going to spend my time actively searching.

[Lemontime]

but NONE are looking for a guy like toasty..

[Nosferatu]

Have I ever said I love this topic?

[Lemontime]

probably.

[Split Infinity]

Toasty, on Dec 10 2008, 07:26 PM, said:

I never said short term dating was for chumps, I just said it wasn't for me. Don't like the idea, and I don't need the practice either. I shouldn't have to have any skill in dating to charm my future wife, because that's not what she would be looking for.

If someone's looking for a lifetime partner, they're looking for (or should be at least) the personality traits that they deem good. The parts of a person that are the same from birth to death. For pretty much everyone, you're either born kind and caring, or cruel and evil (or obviously somewhere inbetween). Unless a life changing event takes place, that person is going to have that same quality throughout life. Very rarely does someone just decide one day to switch sides.

Dating experience is helpful, but I'm a quick learner at pretty much everything I do. I'm not too worried.
That said, if some girl came up to me and asked me out, I'd probably take her up on that offer as long as her looks and personality appealed to me. But I'm not going to spend my time actively searching.

In a perfect world, Toasty, in a perfect world...

[My Best Wishes]

Lemontime, on Dec 10 2008, 07:26 PM, said:

not every girl is the same.
they aren't all looking for a one night stand and many are honestly looking for a long term relationship..

No, but most of them are the same in how they decide on a partner.
I'm not saying all girls are the same, I'm saying it's better not to believe that the girl you like is the 1/100 that is sincere or different.

Toasty, on Dec 10 2008, 07:26 PM, said:

I never said short term dating was for chumps, I just said it wasn't for me. Don't like the idea, and I don't need the practice either. I shouldn't have to have any skill in dating to charm my future wife, because that's not what she would be looking for.

Mate, that doesn't happen, you've been watching too many chick flicks.

Why this time Nos?

[Nosferatu]

Cause sometimes this damn topic gives me a hella good laugh.

[Sea of Time]

Toasty makes my stomach hurt. And watch is completely right. I don't care how fast of a learner you are, YOU STILL NEED EXPERIENCE in order to "charm" a woman.

For example, when you're 23 and on your first date with assumably your future wife, where are you taking her? "My favorite date restaurant". Oh right, you've never been on a date before and therefore have no favorite restaurant and no relatable stories about the restaurant on the car ride there. So instead you talk about how lovely the girl is, blah blah blah and she gets freaked out because you're getting clingy as hell because you think she's your future wife.

Wives don't just happen when you hit a magical age, Toasty. And I have never heard of someone marrying the first person he/she dates.

[Quacnar]

Lemontime, on Dec 9 2008, 11:21 PM, said:

STOP AVOIDING THE GOD DAMN QUESTION!! :@:@:@:@

Which was?

Toasty, on Dec 9 2008, 11:25 PM, said:

But seriously, I honestly don't get the attraction to men. Our curves are rough, our skin is far from soft, we don't have boobs, we have protrusions from our pelvis that don't even come close to blending with shape of our body, and we grow hair in some of the most surprising places.

Women have boobs, their bodies are smooth and streamlined, they don't have penisi (well....hopefully), and [most of them] don't have unsightly hair.

It's an obvious choice imo. Besides all of that, two men can't make a baby. JUST IMAGINE WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX QUIT HAVING SEX. IT'D BE AN APOCALYPSE!

So what your saying is, all people, including women, must be attracted to women since you are? Men have penises, strength, domination, lucious eyes, nice hair, etc. Women lack penis, have two miniature balloons attached to their chest, and don't usually dominate.

Showtek, on Dec 9 2008, 11:44 PM, said:

...it's not hard to get with girls while still living with your parents.

My parents are okay with me ****ing in my bedroom while they are downstairs...

watch, on Dec 10 2008, 03:53 AM, said:

I knew I liked girls before I was 5 as I was kissing the girls and not the boys.
And what is one positive thing about being gay? Having no prejudice on your life? Being able to have a biological child with your partner? How about the fact that the kid will have a normal life and never get any crap at school or anything about having two dads?

Well, I personally enjoy those I am attracted to, and I wouldn't change my sexuality if I could which I expect is the same for you. You're right in that it is unfortunate that my partner and I can't biologically have a child, but there are several alternative methods. I think as time passes, people are discriminating less and less towards homosexuals. Acceptance is a process with baby steps. Hopefully, if and when me and my partner have a child, my child will not be ridiculed for having 2 fathers. Furhermore, it is impossible for anyone to know their sexuality at 5. You aren't developed enough to know of your sexual orientation. You took a logical guess and turned out to be correct. I assumed I was straight for the majority of my life so far.

[Caael]

killercoz, on Dec 10 2008, 06:41 PM, said:

Which was?
So what your saying is, all people, including women, must be attracted to women since you are? Men have penises, strength, domination, lucious eyes, nice hair, etc. Women lack penis, have two miniature balloons attached to their chest, and don't usually dominate.
My parents are okay with me ****ing in my bedroom while they are downstairs...
Well, I personally enjoy those I am attracted to, and I wouldn't change my sexuality if I could which I expect is the same for you. You're right in that it is unfortunate that my partner and I can't biologically have a child, but there are several alternative methods. I think as time passes, people are discriminating less and less towards homosexuals. Acceptance is a process with baby steps. Hopefully, if and when me and my partner have a child, my child will not be ridiculed for having 2 fathers. Furhermore, it is impossible for anyone to know their sexuality at 5. You aren't developed enough to know of your sexual orientation. You took a logical guess and turned out to be correct. I assumed I was straight for the majority of my life so far.

You have bumsex in your bedroom?

[Quacnar]

Caael, on Dec 10 2008, 01:50 PM, said:

You have bumsex in your bedroom?

Possibly, the word that is censored could be sh*t or I may or may not be having sex.

[Caael]

How can it be possibly? You either do or you dont. You dont half have your cock in a guys arse; it's a closed question its one or the other.

[Quacnar]

Caael, on Dec 10 2008, 02:03 PM, said:

How can it be possibly? You either do or you dont. You dont half have your cock in a guys arse; it's a closed question its one or the other.

Well anything's possible. Why can't half of his **** be in my butt?

[Saturos S.]

First off, I find this discussion quite disturbing. Even though I'm not homophobic or anything

killercoz, on Dec 10 2008, 04:11 AM, said:

This is all very ridiculous. I, as an individual, have a small chance of contracting AIDS as long as I practice safe sex regardless of race/sexual orientation.

Actually, anal sex has proven to have a higher AIDS contraction chance than vaginal sex. Something with more little tissuetears.

Half a penis in the butt still seems like sex to me.

[Ironsight]

Saturos Striker, on Dec 10 2008, 10:46 AM, said:

First off, I find this discussion quite disturbing.

I was just going to say something similar.

[Split Infinity]

killercoz, on Dec 11 2008, 05:01 AM, said:

Possibly, the word that is censored could be sh*t or I may or may not be having sex.

I don't think I'd want to visit your bedroom any time in the immediate future then.

[Quacnar]

Were you planning on visiting anyways?

[Nosferatu]

Nosferatu, on Dec 10 2008, 12:29 AM, said:

Have I ever said I love this topic?

[Split Infinity]

If by some chance either of us turns out to be a male jigalow, I'll either pay you to go away or politely deny your services.

[Quacnar]

Split Infinity, on Dec 10 2008, 06:09 PM, said:

If by some chance either of us turns out to be a male jigalow, I'll either pay you to go away or politely deny your services.

How would you know it's me?

[Split Infinity]

Because your name is Colin and I'd probably be able to smell it on you.

[Quacnar]

Split Infinity, on Dec 10 2008, 06:17 PM, said:

Because your name is Colin and I'd probably be able to smell it on you.

There are many Colins. Smell what?

[Kuchiyose]

Quote

There are many Colins. Smell what?

It's wise not to explore that part

[Ironsight]

I'm begining to agree with Nos.

[Lemontime]

Saturos Striker, on Dec 11 2008, 05:46 AM, said:

Half a penis in the butt still seems like sex to me.

IT'S NOT GAY UNLESS THE BALLS ARE TOUCHING!!

[I'm Always BROKE]

I wish I could make you guys clear that this is just wrong, but don't pay me no mind... I actually find this rather amusing, so keep posting plz. ^^

[Quacnar]

Lemontime, on Dec 10 2008, 07:26 PM, said:

IT'S NOT GAY UNLESS THE BALLS ARE TOUCHING!!

I must disagree...

[Nosferatu]

Yeah. Otherwise Toasty would be straight.

[Golden Legacy]

Nosferatu, on Dec 10 2008, 12:29 AM, said:

Have I ever said I love this topic?

[Lightning Star]

LMAO! I'm seriously dying of laughter over here. I haven't laughed so hard that my stomach hurts in ages.




*points to quote in sig*

nuff said.