[Eugine]

lol Maz. Only single people say that.

[I'm Always BROKE]

No not me, since I haven't truely been in a 'serious' relationship. Still, I do not feel I'm missing out, everything at it's time rite?

[Eugine]

Well, you can't miss something you never had, right?

[I'm Always BROKE]

You CAN due to missing it into your life, which I'm trying to change right now which I'm doing well at. :) I'll spare the details.

[Eugine]

Well, what's the fun telling us without the details?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Nothing! But I don't feel like talking about it untill I've got real results. Full details come later, I'll promise. =)

[MaznAzn]

Don't you hate it when you're single, and you read this great book or see this sweet movie, where the two people fall in love and have the best relationship ever, and you're like "gosh, why can't I have that?"

[Gio]

I wouldn't know. lol

I don't remember when I was single.
that was two years ago.

[MaznAzn]

I don't remember when I was in a real relationship. That was over a year ago. :)

[Sea of Time]

For me, watching those movie moments alone gives me all sorts of chills and I get frustrated because my girlfriend's not with me and she's across town! But yeah, when I was single, it flat-out sucked. That's why I watch basketball. It only reminds you of one thing. Basketball.

[Split Infinity]

What about the dateline commercials?

[Sea of Time]

I already know how to catch a predator. The answer has been in my pants all along.

[Split Infinity]

O_o You just keep reeling 'em in, Johnny boy...

[Caael]

I dont miss being single at all. Being in a relationship is awesome, as it's like an added bonus. Yeah, my life is good with my mates and evertying, and having a gf just makes it all the more enjoyable. I love it :D

[PDM]

...8=((
.8==((
...8=((
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...8=((
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=D~(( ?

Buttsecks makes like more enjoyable.

HOWEVER, you should never pull out as described in the above picture.

[Eugine]

Great advise PDM.

Why do 'buttsecks make like more enjoyable'?

[Caael]

Tighter fit :)

[Someone Else]

It's also unhygenic. I don't want to stick my pride and joy into some chick's pooper.

[Caael]

I'll stick with the front door.

[Gio]

Is it really the front though.

You will never know........weird right

[I'm Always BROKE]

It's either the front or the above, just a mather of perspictives. And PDM, that was awesome!

[Gio]

What if you are......never mind lol

[Someone Else]

I imagine this is probably what GL feels like when sex jokes are exchanged around him.

*is confused*

[Caael]

Smile and nod. Basically, we're talking about whether the vagina really is the front door or not.

[Eugine]

mhhm.

And what door is the mouth?

[Gio]

the top door that leads to the balcony

[Eugine]

^ lolz.

hmm. And the ears?

[Caael]

Familyguyflashback

[Eugine]

Care to elaborate Mr. 14 year old who is experienced with the front door?

[Caael]

In family guy meg gets shagged in the ear by her bf so they dont break their abstinence.

[Gio]

I remember that lol.

[Drizzy Drake]

WHy is Caael all like "doing stuff"? Just say you banged, or got a blowjob. Saying "doing stuff" just makes it look like you're trying to brag.

[Valistrix]

Because some people may be uncomfortable with such terms. Sex ed, anybody?

[Drizzy Drake]

But he always does the winking face, which obviously means he's not uncomfortable with talking about it.

[Valistrix]

He's English, they're all strange folk.

On topic, I sometimes talk suggestively and wink, yet I've never so much as made out with a girl. If Caael wishes to use the term "doing it", he may do so.

[Drizzy Drake]

I was talking to him on MSN, and he said he banged his gf, but then a couple pages ago he said he didn't. Hmm, a conspiracy? I think so.

[Eugine]

I love conspiracy theories. They make me warm and fuzzy ^.^

[Valistrix]

*directs Eugine to Enemy of The State*

[Drizzy Drake]

Like emo bunnies.

To stay on topic-ya, Coz, we need a picture of you, and of the guy you like. See if he's in your league. Wow, that sounded, gay..

[Eugine]

Enemy of the State? *googles*

zomg. A Will Smith movie I did not see? Blasphemy!

[Split Infinity]

Probably because it was.

[Eugine]

You should know :)

[Valistrix]

On topic. I would like to be involved in a long-term relationship with Will Smith. Pointers?

[Drizzy Drake]

IT was a bad movie. Wow, we are so offtopic.

EDIT-Um, be a bad actress. That should get him.

[Eugine]

1) You'll have to eliminate Mrs. Smith.
2) You'll have to turn Mr. Smith gay.
3) You'll have to get a new face. The one you have is disgusting.
4) Eliminate me. My smexyiness is undeniable. Will Smith will surely cheat on you with me ^__^

[Valistrix]

You've cut me deep :< Real deep.

[Drizzy Drake]

ONTOPIC!!!

[Valistrix]

On topic. I think Will Smith looks sexy in the Hanc*ck trailer. I'm thinking of sending him an e-mail or a letter, in the hopes that he'll answer so we can have a romatic evening at Starbucks. <3

[Eugine]

It's the relationship topic >.>
He wants to know how to get a relationship with Will Smith. Not on topic?

[Split Infinity]

I want a relationship with the dog in that movie. =D

[Drizzy Drake]

Touche.

[Valistrix]

Changed my mind. I have feelings for Split Infinity. I'm really nervous and uneasy about this, how should I go about it?

[Eugine]

Will Smith is getting pretty old though. He's losing his smexiness.

Edit: Split is pretty easy to get, just make the move. Yes, I'm talking from experience :)

[Split Infinity]

Hey baby, you can just call me Split.

[Eugine]

See... I told you. He's pretty easy.

[Valistrix]

On topic. I've changed my mind yet again. Brad Pitt, anybody?

[Drizzy Drake]

Brad Pitt is still looking good. Angelina> though.

[Valistrix]

Angelina is ugly. I would not hit that.

[Eugine]

Brad Pitt... hmm...
Complicated one there.

I say stay away from trouble. Angelina wouldn't allow you to take him away.

[Drizzy Drake]

She'd go all Lara Croft on your ass.

[Valistrix]

Damn, this celebrity hunt isn't going too well :<

I'll pick at random. Uh, what about.. Nicholas Cage?

[Eugine]

He seems like a boring guy. Next.

[Valistrix]

Chris Tucker. Gotta love him.

[Eugine]

hmm. hmm. Do you want to live with someone with an annoying voice for the rest of your life?

[Drizzy Drake]

Jeffry Ross.

[Valistrix]

Annoying voice? I knew you had awful taste in good men, but I didn't think you were this bad. How could you not want Chris Tucker?

[Eugine]

Who the hell is Jeffry Ross? *Googles*

http://www.youtube.c...h?v=rfQGRvGAzKA
How the his voice not annoying?

[Drizzy Drake]

He's a comedian, best known for his celebrity roasts.

[Valistrix]

Really? I know him him from Rush Hour, and boy did he look fine. Must have been that suit.

[Eugine]

Probably. So, Link, back to reality.

In a relationship?

[Valistrix]

Nope. I happen to feel very strongly for my best friend, but she's with another good friend of mine. There've also been alot of arguements between us both recently, I'm just not sure I'll bother anymore.

[Drizzy Drake]

****ty deals. Do they work well together?

[Valistrix]

They really do. The only problem is that he lives in Belgium, so they only see each other every three/four months. Because of this she's usually moody and depressed because she doesn't get to see him, and ends up snapping and pushing everybody away =/

[Eugine]

Long distance relationship? Involves lots of trust.

[Drizzy Drake]

Ussually don't work.

[Quacnar]

Dipset, on Mar 30 2008, 08:03 PM, said:

Like emo bunnies.

To stay on topic-ya, Coz, we need a picture of you, and of the guy you like. See if he's in your league. Wow, that sounded, gay..

Pic of me, not going to happen. Im very ugly. Pic of this guy also not going to happen. Don't have one and if he ever comes on the forum he'll be pissed.

[Drizzy Drake]

Too ugly? Aren't we all? Apparently, I'm an ugly chav :).

[Split Infinity]

killercoz, on Mar 31 2008, 12:46 PM, said:

Pic of me, not going to happen. Im very ugly. Pic of this guy also not going to happen. Don't have one and if he ever comes on the forum he'll be pissed.

You could always post a temporary link and then take down the photo the next day.

[PDM]

On the topic of celebrities.. Mika Boorem, 'nuff said.

[Quacnar]

Split Infinity, on Mar 30 2008, 09:52 PM, said:

You could always post a temporary link and then take down the photo the next day.

I guess that's true...

[Caael]

Dipset, on Mar 30 2008, 11:41 PM, said:

WHy is Caael all like "doing stuff"? Just say you banged, or got a blowjob. Saying "doing stuff" just makes it look like you're trying to brag.

Because i'm uncomfortable talking about my sex life over the internet.

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I was talking to him on MSN, and he said he banged his gf, but then a couple pages ago he said he didn't. Hmm, a conspiracy? I think so.

When was this? The forum part, I remember the MSN convo.

[Split Infinity]

I bet the internet is your sex life.

[Caael]

Not all of us love t3h pr0n, split.

[Split Infinity]

Same boat, holmes, same boat...

[Golden Legacy]

Warnings will start being issued for random posts and spam. Get your act together guys, this isn't the Common Room.

[Drizzy Drake]

GL, do you have a special someone?

[Aquamarine]

Hey, wait a minute... I just remembered something. Wasn't Diddy MADLY in love with some bird a few months ago? Yeah... And then he never mentioned her again. I'm guessing it didn't finish well then. So who was that, Diddy, and what happened?

[Golden Legacy]

Dipset, on Mar 31 2008, 02:44 PM, said:

GL, do you have a special someone?

I'm still waiting, but I'm not sure if I should. People have been encouraging me to ask out this girl, that we seem to really like one another... I don't know though. Should I? I'd rather not lose her friendship, and I do like here, but I'm not sure if it's in a romantic way. More like I think she's a really sweet, sincere girl - which is what I look for and I value in a friendship too.

Mm. Suggestions?

[Drizzy Drake]

I say if you feel atracted to her, go for it. Not all relationships ruin friendships if they end, sometiems it can make them better. If you think she may be atracted to you aswell, give it a shot. If she turns you down, then atleast you know.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Water Dude, on Mar 31 2008, 08:53 PM, said:

Hey, wait a minute... I just remembered something. Wasn't Diddy MADLY in love with some bird a few months ago? Yeah... And then he never mentioned her again. I'm guessing it didn't finish well then. So who was that, Diddy, and what happened?

Yes your right, didn't finished it well enough then. I was a bit... too enthusiast or so to say, I scared her of I think. I over did it, but yeah things like that happen and I'm doing it different now so it's a good learning experience.

[Drizzy Drake]

In other words, she dumped him. :P.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Actually, not like that. She did it pretty... gentle so to say. Actually, it might even be that I just gave up or just lost interest in her. Can't quite remember how it ended honestly, it just... ended.

[Quacnar]

Golden Legacy, on Mar 31 2008, 03:02 PM, said:

I'm still waiting, but I'm not sure if I should. People have been encouraging me to ask out this girl, that we seem to really like one another... I don't know though. Should I? I'd rather not lose her friendship, and I do like here, but I'm not sure if it's in a romantic way. More like I think she's a really sweet, sincere girl - which is what I look for and I value in a friendship too.

Mm. Suggestions?

Gl, ask her out. Life involves some risk, if you don't ask her out, you'll always wonder "What if?". I know that you aren't going to do it though, seeing as you are to much of a coward to ask her out, even though it's obvious you like her. Sorry if this sounds mean, but its true, at some point you need to work up the guts to ask someone out. Who wants to be the 40 year old virgin...

[Golden Legacy]

Unlike other people, I do enjoy being and having friends. Very much so. But yes, I don't deny that I'm a little too nervous to ask out a girl, though I've shown interest a few times - and that interest has, apparently, been given back to me at times without realizing it.

Also, I've been having a hard time adjusting to college life, big time. I don't have the energy right now to rant about it, but suffice it to say that I only have a few decent good friends so far, and considering she's one of them - and one of the few people here that I actually feel like I connect to - I don't want to jump anything or be too risky.

...

I have said that before, haven't I? Huh. How about that.

[MaznAzn]

Hey, if she's a really good friend of yours, even if she does turn you down, she won't judge you for it, and she'll know how to act so it won't be all "weird". And like Coz said, if you live your whole life on "what if's", then you'll only end up looking back and beating yourself up, wondering "what if I had just asked her out?"

If you've got someone you really feel connected to, go for it. And hurry, because someone else might snatch her up. (and then you'll really wish you had just asked her)

Maybe start it slow and ask her to go out to diner with you or go get coffee. Something where it's just the two of you, but in a quiet yet public place

[Sea of Time]

I know you've had these problems before GL, and if you really do like her, then I say go for it as soon as possible. I won't even give you a worst case scenario because chances are it won't happen and you don't need to be thinking about that stuff. Just go for it. You'll be happy either way.

[Someone Else]

Most girls are actually just flattered by crushes. Even if she doesn't feel the same way I'd really doubt that she'd decide to bar all contact.

[Sea of Time]

That's the truth. And MaznAzn is right, you should invite her to coffee because that seems to me the university thing to do. =P

[MaznAzn]

Hey, what better advice can you get from a girl herself? :P I know that'd be the perfect place to talk and become closer. Maybe then go on a walk through the park. Something romantic, but also not too threatening.

Aahh!~! young love! <3

(wow was that contradictory to my last few posts or what?)

[Eugine]

Yea lol. You obviously love love. You're just not good with it?

[MaznAzn]

Yeah, I think so. I like the thought of love, but then I have this constant nagging inside of me called rationality that's like reminds me how unrealistic love is in the society we live in.

Ah, there's my pessimistic side again! I was getting worried for second ^^

*so not schizophrenic*

[Caael]

GL said:

I only have a few decent good friends so far, and considering she's one of them - and one of the few people here that I actually feel like I connect to

Surely if you went out with her you'd be closer and more connected. And even if she says no ( which, judging from the situation I doubt) you can still be friends. I've only gone out with my friends before and we've always been friends afterwards. Go for it. The worst that could happen is she would politely decline and you'd be friends again.

[Toasty]

Golden Legacy, on Mar 31 2008, 07:30 PM, said:

Unlike other people, I do enjoy being and having friends. Very much so. But yes, I don't deny that I'm a little too nervous to ask out a girl, though I've shown interest a few times - and that interest has, apparently, been given back to me at times without realizing it.

Also, I've been having a hard time adjusting to college life, big time. I don't have the energy right now to rant about it, but suffice it to say that I only have a few decent good friends so far, and considering she's one of them - and one of the few people here that I actually feel like I connect to - I don't want to jump anything or be too risky.

...

I have said that before, haven't I? Huh. How about that.

I'm the same way. Mixed signals are annoying, especially if they're subtle. Because then, you think "Well, maybe she DOES like me." and "I have no chance with her at all. I don;t want to lose the friendship, so I'll keep to myself"

The fact that you're friends is both a plus, and a minus in my opinion. You have a better chance of going out with her, but at the same time, you have more to lose.

If I were you, I'd wait until things calmed down for you a bit. You obviously don't need the added stress of a relationship, or of trying to convince yourself to ask her out right now. However, if things don't look like they'll settle down any time soon, go for it. If you really like her, you'll end up beating yourself up when you wait too long and your window of opportunity closes. I guarantee it.

[Sea of Time]

I don't think things will settle down, Toasty. If he likes this girl, he can't just sit back and wait because that only makes the feelings of indecision worse. I don't think you have anything to lose, GL. You won't lose a friend, I almost guarantee it. Someone said that girls are flattered when you like them. This is completely true. Just ask.

[Lightning Star]

GL, I think you should get a magic 8 ball and have it make the decision to ask her out for you :(

And uh, yeah. I'm pretty much feeling the same way as Mazn there. >>

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*cough*


what?

[Quacnar]

Icy, on Apr 3 2008, 12:05 AM, said:

GL, I think you should get a magic 8 ball and have it make the decision to ask her out for you :(

And uh, yeah. I'm pretty much feeling the same way as Mazn there. >>

<<

*cough*


what?

Are you saying whatt everyone thought you were saying, but weren't???

[kate]

If you date her and it doesn't work you will lose a friend probably. But I wouldn't be too worried about just asking her. Still, I'd make sure you like her in that way though. Of course it's always difficult to get rejected, but if you don't build it up to be a big thing (which is kinda what you're doing) then it won't be such a big deal if she says no. She will love it if you ask though, there's nothing more flattering than a guy asking you out, unless he lives in your bushes.

[Caael]

wtficyrbak?!?!

If you both like each other, GL then waiting around isn't going to do anything. A guy always has to make the firs move in a relationship, it's just the way it works imo.

[I'm Always BROKE]

^ Far too true! Besides, can't you just go out with her like you'd go out with other friends? The term 'going out' or 'asking someone out' in English is pretty huge, it could be anything really from just a plain theather visit to a romantic talk in a bar or something. However, I'd advice you to first take her somewhere where you'd go with other friends, but just with her alone and she how she responds to it. Generally I've noticed when guys make the first move, the girls will make a respond and then you make your second move. And if she doesn't respond, well at least you've had a good night out with a friend right?

[Caael]

Broke up with Rosie. Pretty upset but didn't really see it working out in the long term. Better now than later.

[Drizzy Drake]

Reason?

5 words minimum please.

[Caael]

I dont feel the need to share it with some random people on the internet.

[Aquamarine]

That's a shame Caael. Better luck next time.

Caael, on Apr 3 2008, 08:51 AM, said:

wtficyrbak?!?!

If you both like each other, GL then waiting around isn't going to do anything. A guy always has to make the firs move in a relationship, it's just the way it works imo.

But WHY?! Thats annoys me SO much! If a girl likes me she should just come and tell me, and then I would know what to do. Not like how it is for me now, I have no bloody idea what I should do, and everything is so complicated. I have a few choices, but I don't know if ANY of them are actually a possibility.

[Caael]

I dont know why it's like that, it's just a general rule of thumb I think. If a girl asks out a guy it wont last long.

[Golden Legacy]

Toasty has it right, that I don't need the added stress of a relationship the way I'm feeling. Of course, maybe it would be less stressful if I just got it over with, for better or for worse.

Bah. I'm no good at this. I do really appreciate and take everyone's advice to heart, it's just... arrgh.

[Drizzy Drake]

Well it's you life, but you might regret not asking her out later.

[Quacnar]

Caael, on Apr 3 2008, 02:51 AM, said:

wtficyrbak?!?!

If you both like each other, GL then waiting around isn't going to do anything. A guy always has to make the firs move in a relationship, it's just the way it works imo.

What about lesbians??? :(

[Drizzy Drake]

I guess the more butchy one should make the move, and lead in dances XD

[Caael]

I'm so depressed right now I want to die.

[Quacnar]

Caael, on Apr 3 2008, 03:26 PM, said:

I'm so depressed right now I want to die.

Because of your break up???

[Caael]

Yes.

[Quacnar]

Does it have tod o with the secret reason?

[Sea of Time]

We're assuming your secret reason is pretty bad, Caael, considering other members (*coughGLcough*) have revealed some pretty personal stuff on here.

[Caael]

No, I just dont feel like sharing it. It's my life, I dont have to.

[Sea of Time]

Then stop teasing us with your unreasonable depression. Jeez.

[kate]

yeah caael, you can't tell us you're so depressed you want to die and then not tell us the circumstances and whatnot. I'm a girl and even I can't comfort you without knowing what the fsck went down. But you're right, it's your life and you shouldn't have to tell us random people, just there's not alot we can say. Sorry that it didn't work out though, that does suck.

oh and aqua, girls can make the first move, it's perfectly acceptable. If a girl gets mad at you for not making the first move, don't take that, we don't live in the 1800s anymore. It's just nice when a guy does make the first move, just like I'm sure you'd be thrilled if the girl did.

[Caael]

Well basically she said she was didnt really want to be with me and just went along with it until she felt bad and told me. We're still friends though.

[kate]

oh shi- <.<

Okay, um was this her first relationship?

[Drizzy Drake]

NOop shiiti eh./ Like, s9itupidl bithcces. Why ocant yuou all just blikee notl **** iwthm his heart. Calle all dppressed now.

[kate]

english sweetie, it's a nice language, you should learn it :(

anyyywho, I did the same thing when I was younger and a total n00b to relationships. It's good that you're still friends, because she probably didn't mean to hurt you.

[Drizzy Drake]

YOU FLIUCKING LENR ENLGISHJK

[Caael]

She's had relationships before, just not very good ones so I think she didn't know what to do. It's fine though, because we're still good friends.

[Split Infinity]

I guess you'll always have your memories to look back on. And hey, the experience is better than nothing.

[Caael]

Yeah, but memories of what? You cant exactly do much in 3 weeks.

I'm cool about it now. I miss her, but it's not like i'm never gonna see her again. And she'll realise how wrong she was eventually and come back to sexy caael :(

[Split Infinity]

Why exactly doesn't she want to see you? Or is that what you're not telling us?

[Caael]

She wasn't ready? I dont know myself, she just said i'm not the right guy for her. I've told you everything I know.

[Nosferatu]

Caael, on Apr 3 2008, 03:57 PM, said:

She wasn't ready? I dont know myself, she just said i'm not the right guy for her. I've told you everything I know.

This is why I don't date for the hell of it. Especially in high school. Too many idiots that don't know what they want and have the attention span of a fly.

My advice is just to stay out of dating until you meet someone much more mature/ get out of high school.

[Caael]

Well there isn't anybody else to go out with anymore. All the girls i've been interested in i've dated, so i'm going to have a boring 3 years until I leave home and meet new people.

[Split Infinity]

You must have a really small school then.

[Someone Else]

Caael, on Apr 3 2008, 03:50 PM, said:

Yeah, but memories of what? You cant exactly do much in 3 weeks.

Is this the same girl you had sex with? :( I dunno, maybe you went a little fast? Maybe she figured you just had her as a booty call or something?

[Lightning Star]

I hate it when people pull the "Well I don't want to hurt you, so I'm just going to wait and drag it out, so I can hurt you more" Yeah, that makes sense. e.e

WD has a point. What if?

[Drizzy Drake]

Dipset, on Apr 3 2008, 04:39 PM, said:

NOop shiiti eh./ Like, s9itupidl bithcces. Why ocant yuou all just blikee notl **** iwthm his heart. Calle all dppressed now.

Icy, on Apr 3 2008, 08:07 PM, said:

I hate it when people pull the "Well I don't want to hurt you, so I'm just going to wait and drag it out, so I can hurt you more" Yeah, that makes sense. e.e

WHat I sai8d, expcet less understadsable.

[Split Infinity]

Sober up before you try to have a serious discussion, please.

[Drizzy Drake]

Soundz likr a good idea.

[PDM]

Dipset, on Apr 3 2008, 04:20 PM, said:

WHat I sai8d, expcet less understadsable.

I understood Icy better, not you.

[kate]

no kidding. anyways, don't keep your hopes up about her coming back to you, it'll just make it suck more when she gets a new bf.

Personally what I hate the most is when people stick their nose into relationships and decide for you whether they should end or not, when really it was none of their business to start with, no matter how good of friends you are with either person. <.< too specific? yes? ok.

[Split Infinity]

What a jerk. You should get a new friend. XD

[Caael]

Wind Dude, on Apr 4 2008, 12:48 AM, said:

Is this the same girl you had sex with? :( I dunno, maybe you went a little fast? Maybe she figured you just had her as a booty call or something?

No, I didnt have sex with her. The farthest I went with this one was kissing :\

[Split Infinity]

This one?

[Caael]

The one who just dumped me/

[Split Infinity]

Let me rephrase that.

This one?

[Caael]

The most recent one.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Caael is a pimp. :P Dude, you shouldn't use girls for only sex. Saying something like 'this one' isn't all that respecting towards the girl but yeah, you should know for yourself.

Currently, I'm growing real close to the girl I like and I'm suprised on how enthausiastic she reacts on me. :) Now she's taking more innitiative than I do! Now the only thing remaining is asking her out, but at this rate she might as well do that... :lol: I'm happy.

[Split Infinity]

Diddy knows what I'm saying.

[Caael]

Would you rather me call her by her real name?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Nooooo what Split is saying is that the term 'this one' isn't really a respectful way to talk about a girl you had a relationship with, or to any girl in general. Saying 'this one' heavily suggests that you've had a lot of unserious relationships only for the sex, which I can understand 'cause your still young. Now I ain't an expert either, but I hope that you've treated the girl with a bit more respect than how you describe her here...

[Split Infinity]

That's not what I meant actually... :lol:

[I'm Always BROKE]

O.o Then what DO you mean? lulz

[Split Infinity]

He was talking about how he didn't have sex with 'this one', and I thought that was implying something. Never mind, it was an invasive question to start with.

[Caael]

I did treat her with respect and she just threw it back in my face, so I see no reason to be nice to her.

[kate]

ooo no, don't be that guy. Take the high road my friend. Besides, I thought you said you guys were all good and friendly and whatnot?

and yaaay diddy, good luck with that n.n

[Aquamarine]

kate, on Apr 3 2008, 10:30 PM, said:

oh and aqua, girls can make the first move, it's perfectly acceptable. If a girl gets mad at you for not making the first move, don't take that, we don't live in the 1800s anymore. It's just nice when a guy does make the first move, just like I'm sure you'd be thrilled if the girl did.

Good to know that. Shame it doesn't seem to be happening to me though...

So anyway, how about the girls of GSSF give us guys some tips? Because I'm bad at this ****.

[Caael]

Aquamarine, on Apr 4 2008, 05:19 PM, said:

So anyway, how about the girls of GSSF give me some tips? Because I'm bad at this ****.

Fixed

[Drizzy Drake]

*Looks at my gf* Yeah, I seem to be doing allright at this **** aswell.

[kate]

I'd give advice about girls but no one's really asked anything yet <.<

Omg, I actually had a guy friend who didn't realize when a girl says she's fine, she's not actually fine XD it was so funny, and it took him like half an hour to get it.

[Drizzy Drake]

He didn't know that??? Dumbass.

[Split Infinity]

How would that have been funny?

Guy: Are you okay?
Girl: Yeah I'm fine...

[half an hour later]

Girl: YOU FELL FOR IT SUCKA!
Kate: LOL!

[Drizzy Drake]

Well whenever girls seem sad, adn they say they are "fine", it is jsut a nice way of saying "I feel like **** and I want you to sit me down so I can talk for hours abotu what's borthering me".

[Split Infinity]

Exactly. How is that funny?

[Sea of Time]

It was funny because of how much of a dumbass he was. Surely we all laugh at dumbasses. I know I do, as much as possible.

[Drizzy Drake]

Any guy who thinks "I'm fine" actually means "I'm fine" is retarded.

[Split Infinity]

I highly doubt that it has a hidden meaning all the time.

[Sea of Time]

It's all in the eyes. If they were actually fine, you would definitely be able to tell. Jeez.

[Split Infinity]

Guy: Are you fine?
Girl: Yeah, I just got some dust in my eyes...
Guy: YOU'RE CRYING! SOMETHING'S DEFINITELY NOT RIGHT HERE!

Lol.

[kate]

no seriously, a girl will never say she's fine unless there's something wrong. They'll say "I'm good" or something, but never fine, because we know it's the universal signal for "my life is hell and I'm putting on a brave front but I really want you to reach out to me"

It's funny because that's so obvious to me, yet clearly not to my friend.

[Golden Legacy]

Just curious, would you say it's the same for guys? I know when I say "It's fine", I don't always mean it either.

[Sea of Time]

Yeah, but do you use it as a ploy to talk about yourself? If guys are feeling down, they go work out or something. =P

[PDM]

With men, there are no hidden meanings.

[Split Infinity]

Because you're actually a

I would think it applies just as much to guys as girls, since it's in our nature to avoid looking weak; soldier on, so to speak.

[Golden Legacy]

Sea of Time, on Apr 4 2008, 06:18 PM, said:

Yeah, but do you use it as a ploy to talk about yourself? If guys are feeling down, they go work out or something. =P

I say "it's fine" because I don't want to talk about what's going on, being introverted (spelling?) and the like.

PDM, on Apr 4 2008, 06:19 PM, said:

With men, there are no hidden meanings.

With some men, there are, I don't see why not.

Split Infinity, on Apr 4 2008, 06:19 PM, said:

I would think it applies just as much to guys as girls, since it's in our nature to avoid looking weak; soldier on, so to speak.

Exactly, and I'd rather not talk about it, just something to deal with personally.
I'm more of a listener than a talker.

[Eugine]

What's wrong with saying you're not fine? =)

[Split Infinity]

Because that's begging for attention and proves that you're a selfish brat. =)

[Caael]

I'm very indiscrete; if i'm feeling good, i'll say i'm feeling good. If i'm feeling bad, i'll say i'm feeling bad. I wont say ' i'm fine' to avoid confrontation, i'll just straight up tell them why i'm feeling crappy.

[Sea of Time]

It's instinctual for me to play the "I'm fine" game when I'm really not, but I've learned to eventually come out with it and tell the truth. Because in a relationship, honesty is probably the most needed factor in the end game.

[Eugine]

I never say I am fine for some reason.

Always say "Pretty normal" =)

[Someone Else]

I think "I feel like sh!t, what about you?" is a fine way of expressing yourself, and saying that you don't feel like talking about it. =P

Though yes, when guys say "I'm fine" even when they're not and you can tell, more often than not means they don't feel like talking about it. If I feel bad, and want to talk about it, I will if my friends will listen.

I'm more honest than most people though. To the point that I'm probably kind of rude.

[Quacnar]

PDM, on Apr 4 2008, 06:19 PM, said:

With men, there are no hidden meanings.

There are 2 group of people that are exceptions to this rule:

1. Effeminate (sometimes gay) guys

2. Golden Legacy :lol:

[I'm Always BROKE]

I'm going to tell that girl I like that I like her tomorrow! ^^ **** I feel confident, my normal fear of failure is totally gone and even though I know it'll be hard to do, I still feel that I can do it! Wish me luck people! :lol:

[Lightning Star]

Good for you, Diddy! I hope everything goes well ^^

And whoa, Kate. Take it easy. Wasn't talking about you there before. But I see where you would get defensive. We're not little pre-teens anymore, remember? And that was three years ago, almost three and a half. It's just that I've seen a lot of my friends get hurt because of someone dragging out the break up instead of doing it sooner; including myself.

But anywho. :lol:

I usually just smile and say, "well I've been better" figuring that smiling and trying to look on the bright side when you're sad is more attractive than moping. Also, my guy friends are like the dumba**es you guys were talking about. I've given up on the "I'm fine but really I want you to pester me so I know someone cares" shpeel. XD

[Drizzy Drake]

Ya Diddy, hope things go well.

[Quacnar]

i guess I should tell you all who I like...

[Eugine]

Haaris? lolz.

And Diddy, godspeed man.

[Quacnar]

.eugine, on Apr 4 2008, 10:02 PM, said:

Haaris? lolz.

And Diddy, godspeed man.

Yes actually.......

[Split Infinity]

Run. Now.

[Quacnar]

From. What.

[Split Infinity]

http://www.horror-asylum.com/psycho/chucky/chucky2.jpg

[Quacnar]

WTF are you doing!?!??!

[Eugine]

Are you serious coz? (about Haaris)

[Quacnar]

Well, yes.

[Ironsight]

Gods above...