[Ironsight]

kate, on May 1 2008, 05:11 PM, said:

Oookay so, I'm going on a date tomorrow. We met once and he's been talking to me alot of msn and he wants to meet to get my mind off IB exams. I'm not to sure about how much I like him though, but I figure one date can't hurt. Problem is I have to lie to my parents so that I can go. I just really hope it goes well. Gah stupid nerves.

HE WANTS YOUR SEX.

[kate]

LE GASP. Well he shall not get it.

and aww snookums he's just this guy I randomly met, I may not even like him. Besides, no matter what you're still my hero<3

eug, kate and icy whatwhat?

and I do not just confide in guys if I don't want to date them. Of course that may have something to do with me wanting to sex every man I see. JKJKLOLOL

[Quacnar]

I would confide in someone that I like.

[Sea of Time]

Eugine, on May 1 2008, 10:43 PM, said:

Girls confiding in you gives one message: She's not interested in you. She thinks you are a great friend, but nothing more.

Kate and Icy, correct?

That's flat out not true. I'm dating the girl who confided her heart out to me when she was in her last crappy relationship.

[Eugine]

Yeah, I understand. I thought WD said confiding in him about relationship problems x.x

Anyway, I have a predicament.

Alright, while going home I met a girl on the bus (2nd time today), who imo, is very attractive. We live in the same neighbourhood, but honestly I never seen her before. I think it's because my schedule changed (I leave school 2:45 now compared to 4:00-4:30 before)... I have no idea what to say or what to do around her... I really act like if I am not interested when infact I am really interested. lolz, I did see her watching me numerous times, BUT I have no idea what it means. God, I hate being in these situations x.x
I got her name, and I have friends who like going outside (I stay in my home most of the time), maybe I should ask around? Help? x.x

[Zeypher]

What does it mean when a girl flirts with you a lot?

[Eugine]

So many questions, so little answers! I need an answer, or specifically I need a way to get rid of this darn crush, it bothers me too much!

[kate]

Eug, find out more about her, and then just be forward. Like on the bus, go sit by her and start a conversation. I know it sucks to do it, but it has to be done.

Zeypher, it means absolutely nothing. Well, depending on the girl. if you described her to me I could tell you whether she likes you or not given what I know. Not a guarantee though lol

[Lightning Star]

I tend to be a flirt with some guys, but not others; just depends on how comfortable I am around them. If they get on my nerves, but they're my friends, I tend to have a...meaner sense of humor towards them (like I do to you guys). But if I think they're cool, and we're just having a good time, people say I flirt.

Honestly though, in my opinion, flirting doesn't mean teasing. Flirting, to me, is something that directly hints at a relationship. Whereas, if you're just teasing him/her about something stupid they did, it's not really flirting.

Waaah! I'm so happy though ^^. Nope, I'm not interested in a guy this time either!

[kate]

omg icy, why are you happy?? what happened?

ok so I went on my date, and it was fscking awesome. He's a total sweetheart, and so cute. Plus he has a wicked tv and portal lol. Oh and he gave me his ff7!!! cause I said I'd never played it. He totally bought me flowers too but I couldn't take them home because then my parents would've known I was on a date.

soo...yays? lol I like ranting

[Crystal_Ryu]

That's too adorable for words D:

I WANT A GUY TO GIVE ME HIS FF7 PLZKTHX.

As for my love life... Huh, well, I just like a guy in my new school. And since freakin' everybody in said school loves to go out at night and drink and whatever, and I'm just not in that sort of stuff, nothing will happen.

Unless I start going out. But the aspect of going out to random places where I need a fake ID, in the middle of the night, with people I've just met... It do not appeal to me.

It do not appeal.

[Lightning Star]

Same here. I like to spend nights at home alone. But you'll find someone, Ryu. I'm sure. ^^

And Kate! ZOMG. I have to at least talk to him on msn and warn him that if he DARE hurts you, he'll be receiving a thousand years of pain! >.< But he sounds like a sweetie, and that's so awesome that he gave you his FF7! I've only seen the movie of that v.v

So I'm really happy 'cause for the longest time I've been wishing that I could at least a have a friend that has the same interests and values as me, and I finally met her! The thing is, every time I think about her, my heart skips a beat ^^;. She asked me if I could burn her a CD with all the Naruto opening/ending songs I have, and so I did. The amazing thing is that she lives in my neighborhood, so I walked over to her house to give the CD to her (unfortunately she was out, so her mom said she'd give it to her.) But I got so nervous as I walked closer to her house. ^^;

The only thing is I'm not sure if this girl is into other girls, or at least bi. I have a feeling she might be the latter, just by the way she acts and because she's a total yaoi fangirl. (and somehow, I've noticed, us fangirls have a tendency to be bi. o.O)

But if she's not, at least I know I'm not alone in this world, and that's all I've been praying for.

[Ravenblade]

Icy, on May 4 2008, 04:01 AM, said:

The only thing is I'm not sure if this girl is into other girls, or at least bi. I have a feeling she might be the latter, just by the way she acts and because she's a total yaoi fangirl. (and somehow, I've noticed, us fangirls have a tendency to be bi. o.O)

But if she's not, at least I know I'm not alone in this world, and that's all I've been praying for.

So you're like...gay now? God, how long was I gone x.x;;

[Caael]

She's a feminist. Says it all really :blink:

[Drizzy Drake]

Kate has a date, Icy has the hots for this chick. So much has changed. One thing that hasn't changed is Coz's bulls**t theories that 14-19 year olds can't feel love.

Kate, you will tell me all details next time you are online.

[Caael]

Getting close to a special somebody, gonna go for the kill in a week or two :blink:

[Eugine]

And what is the kill? Don't want to misconstrue your sentence.

[Drizzy Drake]

Presumably ask her out.



Or bang her. Either one works.

[Caael]

Ask her out.

[Sea of Time]

And possibly have a third sexual experience......

[Caael]

In the butt, blates.

[Drizzy Drake]

Very tight, very pleasurable.

[Laharl]

relationships are good for one thing...

http://www.forumammo.com/cpg/albums/userpics/10071/wife.jpg

[Drizzy Drake]

I resent that. The sex is another good thing.

[Split Infinity]

Caael, on May 7 2008, 08:36 AM, said:

Getting close to a special somebody, gonna go for the kill in a week or two :(

She doesn't love you. :)

[Lightning Star]

Ravenblade, on May 5 2008, 01:20 PM, said:

So you're like...gay now? God, how long was I gone x.x;;

Not gay. Bi. And I've always been that way-- I thought we had a discussion about this long ago.

And yes. You've been gone way too long. Like the width of your sig. Too long. :(

[Split Infinity]

Wait, Raven has a sig? >.>

[Lightning Star]

Or at least he did. And I remember it'd always stretch the forum columns and bug the crap out of me. XD

[Ravenblade]

Yes, well there was a time when the forum was wider and it used to fit during those times XD

And i cant be blamed for not being here when the whole place got liposuction!

And yes Icy, I do actually remember something to that effect come to think of it..be careful with it though, cos I have a few Bi friends and they all seem to end up very confused about what they want =(

[Split Infinity]

They narrowed it so that it would fit on 800x600 monitors. Which are hugely outdated.

[Lightning Star]

Ravenblade, on May 10 2008, 06:09 AM, said:

Yes, well there was a time when the forum was wider and it used to fit during those times XD

And i cant be blamed for not being here when the whole place got liposuction!

And yes Icy, I do actually remember something to that effect come to think of it..be careful with it though, cos I have a few Bi friends and they all seem to end up very confused about what they want =(

Actually, it's one of the few things about myself that I do understand; I've stated it before, but I'll explain it in breif again. I believe that love between two people doesn't depend on their gender, and therefore, if I fall in love with someone of the same sex, then so be it.

And I know I have. :(

[Someone Else]

Icy, on May 10 2008, 07:39 PM, said:

Actually, it's one of the few things about myself that I do understand; I've stated it before, but I'll explain it in breif again. I believe that love between two people doesn't depend on their gender, and therefore, if I fall in love with someone of the same sex, then so be it.

Same, except I think women are superior to men.

You think the same too, apparently.

[Toasty]

Wait. So WD is bi too?

Well what the hell! I'll just hop on the bi trian myself!

Why is everyone bi now? D:

I'm fine with being straight. Regardless, I feel like I'm more the kind of person who will find someone some day, but that it's not going to last long. I just have a feeling that I'll end up dying at a fairly young age (30's? 40's?), but not from old age or health. Like I've said before, I wouldn't be content with anything less than going out with a bang, or protecting someone important to me.

I wouldn't mind growing old with someone though. I just wish I could find that person soon. I need to have more of a purpose than just doing school work and messing around with computers. I've gotten unimaginably bored with both, which I suppose would explain my less-than-stellar grades.

Icy, on May 3 2008, 08:01 PM, said:

Same here. I like to spend nights at home alone. But you'll find someone, Ryu. I'm sure. ^^

And Kate! ZOMG. I have to at least talk to him on msn and warn him that if he DARE hurts you, he'll be receiving a thousand years of pain! >.< But he sounds like a sweetie, and that's so awesome that he gave you his FF7! I've only seen the movie of that v.v

So I'm really happy 'cause for the longest time I've been wishing that I could at least a have a friend that has the same interests and values as me, and I finally met her! The thing is, every time I think about her, my heart skips a beat ^^;. She asked me if I could burn her a CD with all the Naruto opening/ending songs I have, and so I did. The amazing thing is that she lives in my neighborhood, so I walked over to her house to give the CD to her (unfortunately she was out, so her mom said she'd give it to her.) But I got so nervous as I walked closer to her house. ^^;

The only thing is I'm not sure if this girl is into other girls, or at least bi. I have a feeling she might be the latter, just by the way she acts and because she's a total yaoi fangirl. (and somehow, I've noticed, us fangirls have a tendency to be bi. o.O)

But if she's not, at least I know I'm not alone in this world, and that's all I've been praying for.

Narutard. :( j/k

And that ^ makes me a hippocrit for getting the refrence. XD I'd imagine he would be in quite some pain. But I'd use a log instead of your hand.

[Ironsight]

Yes, I find the massive numbers of bisexuals on here and in real life very strange. Why is every girl I meet Bi?

[Someone Else]

Toasty, on May 10 2008, 10:38 PM, said:

Wait. So WD is bi too?

Well what the hell! I'll just hop on the bi trian myself!

Why is everyone bi now? D:

I think everyone is bisexual by nature. I don't believe sexual attraction is as black and white as you either like girls, or you like guys. I just don't believe that.

But I think women are generally nicer and simply better socially than men are. Plus boobs. Hence, if someone asked me my orientation, I'd just tell them I'm straight.

So there's your answer.

[Toasty]

So then you're straight and not Bi.

I couldn't imagine kissing another guy on the lips. It'd be too.....eww. It's just something I wouldn't be caught dead doing.

What I find funny, is that it seems to me that if you aren't interested in getting some with a girl, you're considered gay. Personally, I'm not all that interested in sex. Doesn't make me gay though.

[Split Infinity]

Yes it does.

Anyway, there's a statistic that women are more likely to be bi and men are more likely to be gay. So that must mean, from a universal perspective, guys are hotter. XP

[Lightning Star]

Hm, well put it this way. I'm more inclined to look for a male partner, yet I would kiss a girl on the lips and feel comfortable with it meaning something. I think both genders have their perks.

lawl. innuendos. :3

@split: MY GOD. I wasn't even think of that when I typed it! It was just something that popped in my brain and I typed it. I think it's safe to say I finally have a new obsession.

[Split Infinity]

I'm joking. :P

[Ravenblade]

DarkSword, on May 11 2008, 06:40 AM, said:

Yes, I find the massive numbers of bisexuals on here and in real life very strange. Why is every girl I meet Bi?

From what I gather/have been told, girls are simply more at ease with experimentation during their teen years (how many guys would willingly admit to being bi - that might actually be a worse thing to admit to than being gay..).

Its supposed to die off to a significant degree when they grow up though..?

Also, the whole world is constantly taught that girls have to be pretty - so maybe girls are attracted to girls who they wish they looked like to some degree as well (Not making this up, just going off what ive been told..)

My bi friend says she's afraid of men, and thats why she thinks she's become bi - kinda forced herself. Although she would love to have a proper family/husband (and to be honest, really kinda needs a guy..x.x)

As for WD's theory - yeah i thought that way for a while too, as i used to be able to think that guys were kinda hot sometimes o.O But then whenever it went as far as thinking about physically doing something with them, i felt ill. Thus, Im not gay. Or Bi. XD

If Freud was right about all sexual impulses and attractions being linked to ones parents, im sure every guy would take their mother over their father any time x.x

With that said, I believe in straight or not straight without a middle ground. I also believe in being confused.

How many adult bisexuals are there in the world relative to out and out homosexuals?

That's just my opinion though - not like I ever went through it so im just regurgitating what other people who have gone through it have told me =/

If people are comfortable in their sexuality then awesome. I think bisexuals are just being greedy though XD

[Folcon]

I wonder, would a hermaphrodite be considered bi or gay?

[Toasty]

They'd be considered a hermaphrodite.

....a threesome would be....interesting, if a hermie were involved. Just throwing that out there.

Icy, on May 11 2008, 04:36 AM, said:

@split: MY GOD. I wasn't even think of that when I typed it! It was just something that popped in my brain and I typed it. I think it's safe to say I finally have a new obsession.

I'm going to take a wild guess and say that you meant to direct that at me and not split? If so, yes. You are obsessed. :P

[Lightning Star]

Gah. Sorry Toasty. Why do I always get you two mixed up? And anyways, I have no qualms about being obsessed about something. It gives me joy and makes me happy, and it's kinda like my little hmmm..."perk", so why should I care? *points to sig banner* now THATS my obsession right now XD

Meh. Maybe it is a phase, but right now, I like a girl for more than just her appearance. So there. :P

Also, I find that 99% of my fellow yaoi fangirls are bisexual. Coincidence? I don't think so. Perhaps it's because we're so accepting of homosexuality, that if we were faced with it, we wouldn't turn it away.

[Caael]

I've never seen a bisexual over the age of 20. I'm guessing it's a puberty thing, with hormones raging.

[kate]

you are all far too horny to be making rational decisions. That being said, do whatever you like. Hump a guy, hump a girl, hump a rock, whatever floats your boat. Who cares if actual bis exist? It's still awesome. More love :P

[Toasty]

OH HECK YES! *humps a rock*

Would that make me rocksexual? What would you call that anyway?


[EDIT]....why did I just ask those questions?

[kate]

Because secretly you've been dying to know for years now. It's ok, we don't judge here...

...freak

[Toasty]

Danigt, this rock hasn't hit puberty yet. There's no hole!


Seriously though, I'm more interested in providing for a girl and protecting her than trying to get her in my pants. That's just how I am.

[kate]

whyyy are there so many guys here who say that, yet I never meet any like that irl

[Drizzy Drake]

Maybe if I say something along the lines of "fuck emotions, pussy all the way man," you'll find a nice guy in real life....who ISN'T 23!!!

Now on the other topic...lesbians confuse me. They say they hate cock. Pfft. See that’s why I can’t buy lesbians. Everyone needs dick. See I can buy fags, a bunch of guys that need dick. You know, just plain need it. That I get. Dykes…bullshit posturing. But live and let live I guess. But really, I mean, all every woman really wants, be it mother, senator, nun, is some serious deep dicking.

[Eugine]

Toasty, on May 11 2008, 04:59 PM, said:

Danigt, this rock hasn't hit puberty yet. There's no hole!
Seriously though, I'm more interested in providing for a girl and protecting her than trying to get her in my pants. That's just how I am.

lol... Like if that's true >_<

And raven, well said o.o

[Drizzy Drake]

I thought my lesbian mini-monologue would get a response. :P.

[kate]

I do not like the growth. Never have. I like what the growth is used...for, but not the growth. Men are gross, with weird appendages. THOSE THINGS SHOULD BE ON THE INSIDE

[Drizzy Drake]

kate, on May 11 2008, 06:26 PM, said:

I do not like the growth. Never have. I like what the growth is used...for, but not the growth. Men are gross, with weird appendages. THOSE THINGS SHOULD BE ON THE INSIDE

Now on the other topic...lesbians confuse me. They say they hate ****. Pfft. See that’s why I can’t buy lesbians. Everyone needs ****. See I can buy ***s, a bunch of guys that need ****. You know, just plain need it. That I get. Dykes…bull**** posturing. But live and let live I guess. But really, I mean, all every woman really wants, be it mother, senator, nun, is some serious deep ****ing.

[Ravenblade]

I could have sworn you just typed that before, only without the asterisks. Oh, you did. Might i inquire as to why you felt the need to post it twice...? XD

It was offensive enough the first time round ^^;;

And if penises are so awesome, how come you dont want any? o.o surely gay women could adhere to the same principle? Whatever that principle is.

[Drizzy Drake]

I just copy and pasted, insted of editing, and copying that, which allowed the swears.

Need to post twice? Boredome. Plus, I wanted comments. XD.

I don't believe it, but I thought it would be funny.

[Ravenblade]

Well there might well be something in it..but who knows. Do all emancipated women aspire to be like men? Are lesbians just taking it a step further..? >.o will we ever know?!

[Drizzy Drake]

If I had typed it more, approprietly, I probably would have made a good point.

[Ravenblade]

I think there is a definite point there. I mean, who knows how far down into the psyche the whole sex thing goes..

[kate]

****s are gross. you don't have to be lesbian to know that. woman bits are gross too but at least we are polite enough to keep it out of sight :P

skippy, lesbians only hate ****s because they wish they had them. Just like you wish you had female plumbing :P jk<3

[Drizzy Drake]

Damn right I wish I had a pussy. 2 words...Multiple...Orgasms.

[kate]

2 words. You're crazy.

aren't those a myth anyways? and why are we talking about this, this is the relationships topic. My poor jun mind.

So...relationships...go.

[Drizzy Drake]

RELATIONSHIPS!!!! WOOOOOOOOT!!!!! YAY TEAM!!!

And no, they aren't myths. Shit, the male multiple orgasm isn't even a myth, just insanely hard to obtain.

*Random note*-Made my gf squirt last night. XD. Never done that. Yay me.

[kate]

ewewew, aaand ew.

okay so-nope, still on the ew. ewwww

okay so relationships are like...difficult. Deep, I know. lol but is it okay to let your boy buy you stuff or should I insist on paying. Because don't get me wrong...yay stuff, but I also feel bad.

[Drizzy Drake]

It's an unspoken rule that if a man is taking you out on a date, that he will be paying. Not always the case, but it mostly is. So ya, don't feel guilty, take in the free shit.

And which part were you ewwwing at?

[Caael]

Which do you think?

[Drizzy Drake]

Well there's the fact that men actually can have multiple orgasms, without continuesly cumming, or the fact that I made my girlfriend squirt?

Well, even if it's the squirt one, you shouldn't know what squirt means unless you have a dirty mind.

[Laharl]

okay twatmouths, time to make yourselves useful.

i've a friend i get on with really well at work, she will have to go home for the summer in the current situation, she doesnt want that and there's a spare room in my house, yay or nay?

PSP posting so read between the lines D:

[Eugine]

You made her urinate while you were doing it? >_<

Edit: I say yes Laharl. Make her pay rent though xD

[Drizzy Drake]

Laharl, on May 11 2008, 07:33 PM, said:

okay twatmouths, time to make yourselves useful.

i've a friend i get on with really well at work, she will have to go home for the summer in the current situation, she doesnt want that and there's a spare room in my house, yay or nay?

PSP posting so read between the lines D:

Yay.

Eugine, on May 11 2008, 07:34 PM, said:

You made her urinate while you were doing it? >_<

Edit: I say yes Laharl. Make her pay rent though xD

*Facepalm* Not quite. Though it looks like urine, and can be confused as such, it is not. It is the act of stimulating a girl so much, that her orgasm squirts out a clear liquid, anywhere from an inch, to 9 feet(I think that's the record). It's like a real powerfull orgasm, and that liquid, I'm gonna have to say, is like a female cum. But I'm not entirely sure.

http://en.wikipedia....ale_ejaculation

[kate]

NOW YOU KNOW

lol laharl, what happened to women are only good for carrying **** and housework?

But yeah, totally offer her a room. That way if she breaks your heart at least you're justified in saying romance sucks. :P

[Drizzy Drake]

I just educated this whole forum in the art of squirting. What you want to do, is bring your hand down while your penis is going in and out, and start rubbing her clit furiously. Then you wa--I said too much didn't I?

[kate]

O.o just a little XD

art. yeah that's totally the term for it <.<

[Eugine]

I knew what was squirting. I just only knew the formal name >__<

[kate]

aaand we're talking about sex again.

Here, to make the transition easier for you, I'll relate sex to relationships.......you shouldn't have sex, you should have relationships. TADA

[Someone Else]

Dipsy, you're obsessed with sex.

You're worse than a desperate virgin. =/

Laharl, yay. Just make sure she's as in to video games, anime, and alcohol (which I'm guessing she is) as you are.

[Caael]

Laharl, on May 12 2008, 12:33 AM, said:

okay twatmouths, time to make yourselves useful.

i've a friend i get on with really well at work, she will have to go home for the summer in the current situation, she doesnt want that and there's a spare room in my house, yay or nay?

PSP posting so read between the lines D:

Yay. Just hide the happy tissues.

[Lightning Star]

Wind Dude, on May 11 2008, 05:14 PM, said:

You're worse than a desperate virgin. =/

I'm not sure why, but that made me rofl. XD

And truth be told, even though I am a female, I never knew about that whole process dipskip linked us to until a little while ago. Personally, I think the science of how everything in the reproductive system works is fascinating. Everything just works like clockwork, yet it's so complex and organized. Oh, and yes, ****s are good. Very good. :P

Whoo. Now that we got way off topic. (I have no pride...)

@Laharl: Yay. Just make sure before you make a move on her, that she's willing. That will help :P

[Caael]

@Laharl: Please, please please dont go putting a Konata mask on her during her sleep :B

[Ironsight]

Laharl, on May 11 2008, 04:33 PM, said:

okay twatmouths, time to make yourselves useful.

i've a friend i get on with really well at work, she will have to go home for the summer in the current situation, she doesnt want that and there's a spare room in my house, yay or nay?

PSP posting so read between the lines D:

Yay, just try not to scare her too badly.

[Someone Else]

Well, we don't know 100% if she'll even agree. >.>

[Lightning Star]

You know you're in love when you'll ride the stinky bus just so you can see the person who makes your heart pitter patter. :3 Tomorrow I could prolly get a ride with my parents, but I'm gonna ride the bus 'cause the girl I like waits at the same bus stop with me. I just hope she doesn't decide to get a ride XDD

Honestly, the public transportation system in Tucson's school district sucks.

[Toasty]

Is she a lesbian/bi as well?

Eugine, on May 11 2008, 02:06 PM, said:

lol... Like if that's true >_<

And raven, well said o.o

And why would you say that? The only refrences to sex I make around here are ghey sex jokes, and none of them are even serious.

I found someone a few years ago, and I still haven't said anything. I'm almost certain she hasn't/doesn't feel the same about me as I do her. I hope and pray, but I doubt that day will ever come. Regardless, I'd be perfectly satisfied with just providing for her in any way I could. Even without recieving any love in return (and no Skidz, I don't mean sex).

In my eyes, there's just something about her that's different from any other girl I've met. Yet I still have some doubt.

[Ravenblade]

@Laharl - The problem with agreeing to that is you could very easily end up in the 'friend zone'.

If she goes to sleep at your house, it kinda means she sees you in no way as a threat (read = sexual object) You're more likely to score with her if you keep her at arms length. Moving in is never good for this kind of thing - i know, i tried it. Didnt work.

But hey, if she's kinda slutty then you could always get her plastered and...

[Someone Else]

Ravenblade, on May 12 2008, 03:40 AM, said:

If she goes to sleep at your house, it kinda means she sees you in no way as a threat (read = sexual object) You're more likely to score with her if you keep her at arms length. Moving in is never good for this kind of thing - i know, i tried it. Didnt work.

He's probably right, actually. Maybe you're better off not offering if you want to be romantically involved.

[Laharl]

Wind Dude, on May 12 2008, 01:14 AM, said:

Laharl, yay. Just make sure she's as in to video games, anime, and alcohol (which I'm guessing she is) as you are.

well, she's bigger alcoholic than me....XD

Caael, on May 12 2008, 01:55 AM, said:

@Laharl: Please, please please dont go putting a Konata mask on her during her sleep :B

FOILED

you guys are mean XD

Ravenblade, on May 12 2008, 11:40 AM, said:

@Laharl - The problem with agreeing to that is you could very easily end up in the 'friend zone'.

there is that, i she moves in one of two things will happen; our friendship will strengthen perhaps paving the way for a possible relationsjip, or we'll irritate the **** out of each other.

Plus we both save money XD

gonna discuss with my housemate later and see if it's worth pursueing

[Sea of Time]

I have nothing to say here except that after reading the last three pages, I am infinitely happy that Skidz is back posting in this topic. Less drama. More sex.

As it should be.

[kate]

HAI! SEX ISN'T EVERYTHING!

hahahahaha jk.

boooy doesn't get back till the 22nd. So I phone him daily just to wake him up and annoy him (he works night shift so I call at like 3 and he's asleep). I'm meeean D: but worth it :P

I mean...sex, yes? boobs? indeed.

[Lightning Star]

Haha, Kate. You sound bi more and more every day. I blame these perverts here XD

And to answer your question, Toasty, I don't know. I haven't really had a chance to ask her, and I'm starting to feel like she's not. I'm hoping that we can hang out more this summer.

I have a pool + she lives just down the street + My parents will be gone all day during the week days= splashin' good time ;]

Nah, but seriously, I really like her for who she is. Though I do feel like I'd end up as the initiator in all this, I have no problem with being the "man" in the relationship. (I'm taller anyways XD) Like all you guys said, I just want to be there for her. (Which by the way, is completely ADORABLE. :3)

[Ravenblade]

Laharl, on May 12 2008, 08:33 PM, said:

well, she's bigger alcoholic than me....XD
FOILED

you guys are mean XD
there is that, i she moves in one of two things will happen; our friendship will strengthen perhaps paving the way for a possible relationsjip, or we'll irritate the **** out of each other.

Plus we both save money XD

gonna discuss with my housemate later and see if it's worth pursueing

Isn't it kinda hard to get a girl to fall for you if you're friends? I honestly think you're more likely to manage it if you keep your distance a bit. If you become friends and she starts telling you all about herself blah blah all her problems blah then you'll kinda just get led along =/

If she does move in, be friendly and interested but make sure you're flirting or whatever too. Dont be a shoulder to cry on!

Then again women are crazy, so who knows what the right thing to do is. I got with the one im with through making it very clear that I didnt want to be friends and was interested in her in a different way =/

[kate]

lol icy, just don't turn all stalker, or pressure the poor confused straight people. If she's straight

[Lightning Star]

@Kate: Stalking ish bad D:

@Raven: not necessarily! I'm more likely to fall for a guy I'm really good friends with than one I'm not. It's the whole having "history" thing; you feel more comfortable around that person and you feel like they really know who you are, and you really know who they are, which is really important for some girls.

[Ravenblade]

I do get where you're coming from, but just going off past experience, i would say its a risk. Especially moving into the same house. It wouldnt be a good environment for a relationship to start in anyway - to much contact with each other >.o

[Lightning Star]

True; Like they say, good fences make good neighbors. And probably good relationships too XD

[Split Infinity]

I think it's almost necessary to be friends if you're looking for a serious relationship. How are you supposed to fall for someone when you know nothing about them? They could turn out to be completely not what you expected, and besides, why waste time playing little avoidance games if you're genuinely interested?

[Ravenblade]

Im not really saying he should avoid her - Im saying he has to make it clear from the start what his intentions are. I said that in a previous post somewhere...

Getting too close to girls before you're a couple is not a good thing..

[kate]

Juuust make sure she's not psycho first mmk?

[Golden Legacy]

The past ten pages have been the most traumatizing read that I've ever seen on these forums. Ever.

Laharl, on May 11 2008, 07:33 PM, said:

okay twatmouths, time to make yourselves useful.

i've a friend i get on with really well at work, she will have to go home for the summer in the current situation, she doesnt want that and there's a spare room in my house, yay or nay?

PSP posting so read between the lines D:

I don't see why not. You're friends, she needs a place to stay, you have an extra room. Don't "force" a relationship if it's just a friendly gesture (perhaps go for it though if she'd reciprocate those same feelings?).

Hmm.

[kate]

haha poor snookums actually has to read everything we post. Nice deep thoughtful "hmm" by the way :P

Hmm

see not as wise when I do it D:

I think having her stay with you would be fun whether anything happened or not, and it's fine to be friends with someone you date. That way you can skip the whole getting to know them process

[Sea of Time]

Ravenblade, on May 12 2008, 07:22 PM, said:

Isn't it kinda hard to get a girl to fall for you if you're friends? I honestly think you're more likely to manage it if you keep your distance a bit. If you become friends and she starts telling you all about herself blah blah all her problems blah then you'll kinda just get led along =/

If she does move in, be friendly and interested but make sure you're flirting or whatever too. Dont be a shoulder to cry on!

Then again women are crazy, so who knows what the right thing to do is. I got with the one im with through making it very clear that I didnt want to be friends and was interested in her in a different way =/

I thought this was impossible until last December until one of my friends (a girl =P) who had known me for three months started opening up to me about her failing relationship. I gave advice and stayed distant, knowing that I liked her and that part of the reason her relationship was falling apart was because she liked me. Eventually she broke it off with the guy and started dating me a few weeks later. About five months later, we're still dating.

So, yeah, I think it all depends on who you are and how you deal with the situation you're presented with.

[Gio]

If she needs a room and you more than willing to offer her one then let her move in. If something comes of it then great, but if it doesn't work out the way you want it to then at least you know you tried. It is called practice. lol

[Toasty]

Split Infinity, on May 12 2008, 10:23 PM, said:

I think it's almost necessary to be friends if you're looking for a serious relationship. How are you supposed to fall for someone when you know nothing about them? They could turn out to be completely not what you expected, and besides, why waste time playing little avoidance games if you're genuinely interested?

It's called being acuaitances. Knowing who they are and what teir pesonallity is like, without haning out on a daily basis Basically, the only time you see them would b at school, orat parties, or whatever. But it's not like you hang out all the time.

And fom what I've noticed, women like shy men. Maybe not as boyfriends, but I always notic girls flocking around shy guys. Whenever I'm in a class where I don't know anybody, I usually keep to myself for the most part. When I do so, the girls n the class aways end p talking to me.

Why is that?

[kate]

Because the less you open your mouths the more we forget you're all idiots :P

aaactually it's because girls like non-threatening boys, at least while in high school. Not so much later on

[Gio]

kate, on May 13 2008, 08:10 PM, said:

aaactually it's because girls like non-threatening boys, at least while in high school. Not so much later on

Your school must be COMPLETELY the opposite of mine. Almost every girl at my school lives to have sex. At least the more popular ones. Quite honestly it is really sad. There are very few dudes and chicks in my school that are virgins.

[Toasty]

Almost every girl I know at the highschool who has had a boyfriend, has gotten laid.

I think they like shy guys because they're far less annoying. :P That's just my take on it.

[Lightning Star]

There's also the mysterious enigma. If you open your mouth few and far between, and are smart about what you say, really, anyone would be curious to know why you don't open up more and would like to get to know you.

Huh, I wish it would work in the reverse, though I can't say I'm anti-social all the time. Half the time I'm introverted, half the time I'm extroverted. Going onto a different topic, I find that I hardly know myself at all. Yeah, I know what I like, but that's about it, so I use that to define me. (Hence why I'm happy when I can become obsessed over something, because I feel like that obsession defines me and I know who I am)

But with not really knowing myself, it's hard to find others like me, because everyone seems to know who they are, and I don't want to pair up with someone I like half the time, and the other half of the time I can't stand (which is usually what happens XD).

[Toasty]

I know who I am, and there's things I'm not happy with. I feel almost like I'm three people though. One's a half facade put on at school which very rarely comes down and only covers some of my real aspects, the other is the true me which is only revealed when I'm alone, and the third is the part of me I want to shed myself of, but always comes running back to stick to me just when I thought it was gone for good.

The facade is a slightly annoying, slightly over-eccentric but intelligent person who's lazy, yet wants to be the best in pretty much anything (without being an ***). The real me understands his flaws, can be slightly annoyng, and is generally a helpful and nice person. I'm not the kind of person who'd take advantage of someone or put them down in any way. The part I'd like to get rid of is slightly narcissistic, among other things.

The facade I kind of can't change though, as it's just hastily put up involuntarily as soon as I come into contact with most people.

But above all, I know what I want. It's only one thing and it's far from being materialistic.

[Aquamarine]

Guys, you try(and succeed) in thinking too deeply about everything, be it relationships, you're own personalities, whatever. I used to be like that years ago, but now that I've relaxed and stopped thinking about the (unnecessary)"core" of things, I'm happier, have a funner life and feel way better about myself.

[Sea of Time]

I agree with Aqua. I find myself reading some of these posts and feeling completely distant from what you guys are talking about. Over-analyzing these kinds of things doesn't help you, it hinders you. Just get out there, be yourself, talk to members of the opposite sex (or members of the same sex if you're Icy and coz), and if you like them, ask them out. It's simple when it comes right down to it.

[kate]

...Okay yeah that's true. Just keep in mind lots of things a girl does has more than one meaning.

Which makes it really hard to understand boys D: like my friend likes this guy and she didn't want to walk home so he lent her his car, and she was wondering what it meant. Now see if a girl had lent a guy her car, it would mean some serious stuff. With him it just meant she needed a ride and he had one. Boys are confusing.

[Someone Else]

He's being nice to a friend? What's so confusing? I'd have done that too in my position, doesn't necessarily mean anything, but it could. Depends on the guy.

[kate]

No I know, it doesn't mean anything. That's what confuses us so much. HOW THE FSCK CAN IT NOT MEAN ANYTHING. If a girl did that it would have so many layers of meaning...not that the guy would get them anyways.

[Sea of Time]

Guys aren't all that stupid. All you have to get is everything a girl does in pressure situations has two meanings. They won't explode, instead they'll play it cool and use clever phrases. Read through the clever phrases and you start understanding that girls aren't too much different than guys in the end.

[Ironsight]

My dad keeps trying to "hook me up" with his ex-girlfreind's daughter:\

[kate]

um...that get's a resounding ew.

Well actually it's not so bad, my uncle tried to set me up with his step-son. No blood relation, but still...

[Ironsight]

Gee, thanks Kate :(

[Caael]

Quote

Which makes it really hard to understand boys D: like my friend likes this guy and she didn't want to walk home so he lent her his car, and she was wondering what it meant. Now see if a girl had lent a guy her car, it would mean some serious stuff. With him it just meant she needed a ride and he had one. Boys are confusing.

We're just very simple minded. They need, we give. With girls it's like 'he lent me his car, does he like me? Is he just using me? Will he embarass me and break my heart? What if he's a rapist?'.

[Split Infinity]

This is one of the reasons why I have such mixed feelings about merging with the girls next school year. I'm worried that I'll misinterpret them 90% of the time and somehow gain a reputation as either a homosexual or a pedophile. XD

[Eugine]

Well you are >___<

And DS, what do you do?

[Drizzy Drake]

Sex.

One more and you will be warned.

[Caael]

That's going to get deleted.

My best friend is trying to steal my girl :(

[Drizzy Drake]

Sucks to be you.

[Caael]

I was joking, I wanted to contribute is all :(

[Ironsight]

Eugine, on May 15 2008, 03:49 AM, said:

And DS, what do you do?

Get really nervouse and divert the topic.

[kate]

That actually brings up an interesting point, how involved are your guys parents in your love life? Have any of you actually gotten "the talk"? XD

My parents left that to the school system, but then the school didn't do it. Babies come from storks, right?

[Drizzy Drake]

I never really got "the talk." When my parents found out I was having sex, my dad just threw me a box of condoms, and said if I get a girl pregnant he would kill me. :(.

[Caael]

My parents threw me a sex ed book and told me to knock myself out at the age of 10.

[kate]

The closest my parents ever came to talking about it was when I came down for breakfast one morning and there was a textbook diagram of a penis in the spot where I usually eat. I hate breakfast now.

[Drizzy Drake]

Lmfao. Go Kate's parents.

Awesome.

[Lightning Star]

Toasty, on May 13 2008, 09:24 PM, said:

I know who I am, and there's things I'm not happy with. I feel almost like I'm three people though. One's a half facade put on at school which very rarely comes down and only covers some of my real aspects, the other is the true me which is only revealed when I'm alone, and the third is the part of me I want to shed myself of, but always comes running back to stick to me just when I thought it was gone for good.

I know how you feel with the facade thing. I have a general idea of who I am, and when I'm alone, I can kinda be that person. But that's about 12 hours out of the week that I can be that person. The rest of the time I put up a facade, especially around my family because I know they'd shun me if they knew who I really am, how I really feel about things (my bisexuality, for example)

I'm a happy, hyper kind of girl, but when I'm around my family, I'm so reserved and quiet. Around most of my friends I'm a little more open, but not quite. The only one who sees *me* is the girl I like (her name's Brittany, by the way) and she's the same way as I am, personality wise.

kate, on May 15 2008, 02:05 PM, said:

That actually brings up an interesting point, how involved are your guys parents in your love life? Have any of you actually gotten "the talk"? XD

My parents left that to the school system, but then the school didn't do it. Babies come from storks, right?

My parents are happier with me when I'm not dating anyone; they think guys take away from my studies (which they kinda do). I vaguely remember my mom telling me some vague details in the car when I was little, but I guess I just shrugged it off until I was about 13.

Edit: LMAO! That's hilarious. Ah, gosh. I'm sorry kate. Your misfortune has been the cause for our laughter XD.

[Gio]

Icy, on May 15 2008, 07:34 PM, said:

I'm a happy, hyper kind of girl, but when I'm around my family, I'm so reserved and quiet. Around most of my friends I'm a little more open, but not quite. The only one who sees *me* is the girl I like (her name's Brittany, by the way) and she's the same way as I am, personality wise.

My GF's name is Brittany also.....weird.

[Aquamarine]

Dipset, on May 15 2008, 11:10 PM, said:

I never really got "the talk." When my parents found out I was having sex, my dad just threw me a box of condoms, and said if I get a girl pregnant he would kill me. <_<.

I got "the talk" when I was about... 12 or something.

And as for boxes of condoms, my dad gave one to me once and that was fine, but... My mum also gave me one :( That was really weird...

And really, do they think I'm incapable of buying my own?!

[Split Infinity]

Is 'the talk' even necessary? Teenagers aren't stupid...

[Mallick]

What 'talk?'

[Split Infinity]

Well, except for you.

[Mallick]

Much better.

~2700~

[Eugine]

Never talked to my parents about anything sexual. They know I do not need the talk, so they avoided it o.o

[Caael]

Pussy

[Ironsight]

I never got it from my parents. They let the schools take care of that in the 5th grade.

[Someone Else]

Don't remember too much of a talk. I think sex is overrated anyway. Whatever happened to just talking?

Ooh, what're you gonna say now, Dipsy?

[Ravenblade]

Are girls in Cali worth talking to? Cos where I come from, they talk about shopping, and clothes, and celebrities.

Simply put - if not for sex, many guys simply would have no interest in girls at all.

[Caael]

Raven, where are you? I swear you're British and yet you're talking about californians? :S

[Ironsight]

Ravenblade, on May 16 2008, 10:21 AM, said:

Are girls in Cali worth talking to?

No, mostly.

[Ravenblade]

Caael, on May 16 2008, 07:13 PM, said:

Raven, where are you? I swear you're British and yet you're talking about californians? :S

Im British yeah, but WD isnt o.o He was the one who made the original claim about talking to people XD

@DS - good to know its not just British ones then.

[Eugine]

Uh, it depends on the girls you talk to you know...

Get a girl dedicated to school, God or family and surely they'll be good to talk to >_<

[Caael]

Eugine, you know **** all about girls if you think a good conversation is about god.

[Toasty]

I never got the talk. It was pretty easy for me to put two and two together fter hearing everything that came out of my peer's mouths in middleschool. My parents just assume I alredy know, I suppose.

Anyway, the weather here basically went from slightly cold (69/70 degrees farhenheit) to 80's and now 90's, over night. I'm already starting to get a sunburn.

[Ravenblade]

Eugine, on May 16 2008, 09:37 PM, said:

Uh, it depends on the girls you talk to you know...

Get a girl dedicated to school, God or family and surely they'll be good to talk to >_<

Might I ask why those three things in particular are important?

I think it depends how cool they are - by cool I mean, how much they worry about what other girls think.

Actually, the less other girls a girl knows, the better she'll be to talk to!

[Toasty]

As long as they're not preps, valley girls, or aren't obsessed with fasion and especially movie stars/singers, they're usually good to talk to.

I mean, I'd like to be around a girlwho had a sense of fashion (I don't have much myself, actually XD), but being obsessed with it is really annoying. I'm happy with just throwing on a pair of jeans and a t-shrt. The only time I take a second to consider what I'm wearing is when I'm throwing a sweatshirt on top of it.

[kate]

hahaha I love this. "as long as they're not blablabla they're fine to talk to"

ever tried being a girl and talking to guys? You aren't exactly expert conversationalists. Well, that's an unfair generalisation, but that seems to be what we're doing here.

lol some girls are painful to talk to. well...actually just some people in general. Talking is important though, because if a girl lets you in her pants without knowing you well first, the only thing you're probably going to get from the relationship is an itchy disease :P

[Lightning Star]

Caael, on May 16 2008, 03:04 PM, said:

Eugine, you know **** all about girls if you think a good conversation is about god.

Talking about god= getting to know a girl= getting a girlfriend.

I think he actually knows quite a bit, caael. Much more than you, apparently :]

[Toasty]

kate, on May 16 2008, 06:02 PM, said:

hahaha I love this. "as long as they're not blablabla they're fine to talk to"

ever tried being a girl and talking to guys? You aren't exactly expert conversationalists. Well, that's an unfair generalisation, but that seems to be what we're doing here.

lol some girls are painful to talk to. well...actually just some people in general. Talking is important though, because if a girl lets you in her pants without knowing you well first, the only thing you're probably going to get from the relationship is an itchy disease :P

I suck at conversations. XD

[Lightning Star]

Guys seem to have a one track mind. If they don't like you as anything more than a friend, then they're not so talkative. But if they do, they tend to talk more. And it irritates the hell out of me when I'm trying to talk to my guy friend and all he can do is stare with google eyes at a girl he likes.

I'm really starting to dislike the male population. (betchya couldn't tell! :P)

[Ravenblade]

Thats unfair Icy, its not like guys can help their testosterone levels =/

As for what Kate said - thats true, I agree. I have a friend who talks incessantly about computers and he is the most boring person in the world ever. Ever! I still love him though =D

As for guys staring at girls - high school thing. Also, wouldn't you do that if you were attracted to someone? Ive seen girls do that before.

There probably is no common ground between men and women really though =/ Im happy enough talking to my girlfriend cos she's not brainless and hates clothes shopping XD Although she isnt a huge gaming fan. But i forgive her for that.

Icy, surely you'd find that guys in a relationship would be much better to talk to cos they wont be staring down other girls (one would hope). I think its a 'singles' thing more than a guy thing. Wouldnt you look longingly at that girl you like?

[Split Infinity]

Sounds like Icy's feeling a bit jealous. :] But yeah, almost all of the 'problems' with guys or girls are just incompatibilities between the two genders. That's what makes them so interesting though! I think it's great that we have a genuine reason to bond instead of just going by, well, the laws of nature.

[Laharl]

wow Icy, you generalize the opposite sex almost as much as i do XP

[Caael]

Icy, on May 17 2008, 05:56 AM, said:

Talking about god= getting to know a girl= getting a girlfriend.

I think he actually knows quite a bit, caael. Much more than you, apparently :]

I dunno about him, but i've never talked about relgion to girls and i seem to get on quite well. So stfu and get back in that kitchen. I didnt untighten those chains for you to stop working >(

[Eugine]

Well, you misunderstood my statement o.o

I said get a girl dedicated to either 3, and most likely they wouldn't be vain or the 'typical' girl. I never said talk to them about the three. And it's rather funny you ignored my other two, and only point to God.

And your last post shows why your relationships can't last more than 3 weeks xP.

[Aquamarine]

GIRLS SUCK!

[kate]

YEAH! wait what?

lol girls and guys are not incompatible when it comes to conversation. And it's not just the rare non girly girls that are fun to talk to. One of my best friends is a guy, the other is a girl, and I have more shoes than all of you combined :P ...except skippy.

[Ravenblade]

I suppose the obvious question would be, is he in any way effeminate? XD

Nah I guess it can happen but i tend to just tune out when they start talking about shoes and clothes and fashion and gaaaah @_@

Otherwise, Ive found you can talk to them about school/uni/work but thats it. And conversations based on those things are more of a common plight convo than an engaging and interesting one.

[Toasty]

My conversations almost always end in awkward silence. If they don't, then people just seem to get bored of talking to me and find an excuse to leave. Sometimes, at least.

I suppose that's because most people I know aren't genuinely interested in computers or science. =P I have one friend who's interested in both, and that's about it.

Now if only I could find a relatively hot girl who was interested in both. XD Or at last one who wouldn't mind listening to me ramble on, I suppose.

[Ravenblade]

Well this friend I know who is obsessed with computers recently split up with his g/f but the point is that he had one! For over a year too. And she wasnt into computers. XD

You just need something besides computers to talk about I think..

[Toasty]

And therein lies my problem. D:

I'm also into politics (yet another subject not commonly found in conversations betwee my peers around where I live), video games, and to a much lesser extent, movies. I need to see more though. Hoping to see Iron Man tomorrow and Indiana Jones next weekend.

I don't have a good idea of what people talk about around here though. Only what most people don't talk about.

[Eugine]

Omg, so you can't have a casual conversation Toasty?

[Ravenblade]

As far as girls go, I would think you could start talking to them about school or whatever as an ice breaker - everyone has to go, so...if she's in your class you could ***** about her teacher?

Um, going on from there it really depends on her interests - ask her what they are, and then talk about them XD avoid mentioning anything political! I learnt the hard way! XD

I dunno though, I guess you just find people who like you for you at the end of the day. It gets easier when you get drunk.

EDIT - OMG thats the first time the filter ever checked me XD the word was b1tch =P

[Toasty]

You get used to the word filter. XD I kinda guessed that's what it was from the ontext anyway. =P

But there's not many girls I'm interested in at my school to begin with. Most of the ones who I am interested in are either already taken, not my type in the slightest, or I have no chance with.

Eugine, on May 17 2008, 01:48 PM, said:

Omg, so you can't have a casual conversation Toasty?

More like they just don't come often or easily for me. That's probably the major reason why I'm a loner to some extent. I don't really hang out with anyone outside of school because awkward silence is pretty common around me.

[Eugine]

Alright then, here we continue...

How long are you guys dating?
When and how did you propose?

[Ravenblade]

._.!

Well, we've been friends since um...2004 - right before I first joined this forum in fact, cos that was my first year at uni.

We didn't get together until I was in China (cos she came out to visit...and then one thing led to another) so we've been dating over 2 years now.

Engagement details are kinda private >.o but it was about 6 months ago...or 7 ._. cant really remember!

[Eugine]

Right, so that's all Raven. Any questions for me? Don't expect much, cuz I gots nothing o.o

[Ravenblade]

You haven't been in a relationship? o.o

I hadn't until pretty late either u.u

[Eugine]

Well, to an extent yes, but to an extent no...

I tried something with two girls, but nothing happened lolz. It's not that I'm incapable, it's just that um, I dunno, I just can't maintain them? o.o

[Caael]

Eugine, on May 17 2008, 03:27 PM, said:

Well, you misunderstood my statement o.o

I said get a girl dedicated to either 3, and most likely they wouldn't be vain or the 'typical' girl. I never said talk to them about the three. And it's rather funny you ignored my other two, and only point to God.

And your last post shows why your relationships can't last more than 3 weeks xP.

I've had a 4 month relationship thank you very much.

[Eugine]

And your last post shows why your relationships can't last more than 4 months xP.*

[Caael]

I'm 14, i'm not looking for something hugely serious.

And you realise i'm joking about the sexism thing, right?

[kate]

....I should really read what was posted before eug's relationship post because that was just too hilarious.

yeah caael, don't worry. at 14 things are mostly trial and error. I don't see how anyone could be in a very long relationship at that age. Some are actually more prone to be in long relationships at that age because they can't figure out the whole breaking up thing.

and good god never talk to a girl about politics and religion unless you're really really close.

XD ok sooo I went to a party last night, and I wasn't going to drink...and then proceeded to get wasted. I can't remember much except that I was hitting on someone all night, but I didn't know who, I thought it was the really hot guy I've had a crush on. Apparently I was hitting on my gay friend vicky. So that's going to be an interesting conversation when I next talk to her :P She's never going to let me live this down.

[Caael]

Lmao kate! That made my day.

[Split Infinity]

I was the one who bought you that drink. :P

[Caael]

Split, stop trying to chat up girls on the internet. You're not going to get e-sex. Stop.

[Someone Else]

Raven, that was a pretty big generalization to make.

And er, that's all I got. XP

[Split Infinity]

Caael, on May 18 2008, 11:41 AM, said:

Split, stop trying to chat up girls on the internet. You're not going to get e-sex. Stop.

GTFO MR. THREE-WEEK-STAND.

[Someone Else]

Sorry Caael, but I don't think you should give people advice on relationships...

[pHantOm]

You guys are funny.

Don't spoil a girl when you meet her, such as giving her all your love and everything at once. If you throw everything on the table, what's there to explore? You're all young, and so are the girls you'll be interacting with. Have fun, and don't be afraid to say cute things that are a little sexual. Just look at the things I say on these forums lol, especially to the 2 hotties kate and shebahhhhhh!!!!!!!!

And Edit-

Ya don't listen to caael, he's a little kid lol.

[Caael]

Wind Dude, on May 18 2008, 07:09 AM, said:

Sorry Caael, but I don't think you should give people advice on relationships...

Lol for taking me seriously

[Ravenblade]

@Wind dude - I have no doubt that whatever you're referring to was a big generalisation - but I would like to know exactly which generalisation you mean XD

Also, just cos its a generalisation, doesn't mean it isn't true over 50% of the time.

[Mallick]

Caael, on May 17 2008, 06:41 PM, said:

Split, stop trying to chat up girls on the internet. You're not going to get e-sex. Stop.

http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn191/Mallicklocal/1210065517929.jpg

[Eugine]

You are so shallow, you always let a picture express yourself. Try to do it for yourself once in a while...

[Mallick]

http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn191/Mallicklocal/new/1210108478053.jpg

A picture is worth a thousand words - it's much easier to copy and paste a URL to a picture than to type a 1000 word essay on how I feel.

[Someone Else]

Ravenblade, on May 16 2008, 10:21 AM, said:

Are girls in Cali worth talking to? Cos where I come from, they talk about shopping, and clothes, and celebrities.

Simply put - if not for sex, many guys simply would have no interest in girls at all.

That one.

And I hate to make you feel like you're right by any stretch of the word, but I'll give you that I have waaay less female friends than I did when I was about 7 years old. Guess they're more interested in buying clothes with each other? =D

I don't understand why the opposite sexes feel the need to avoid each other more after a certain age. It's almost like a guy and a girl aren't allowed to be "just friends" after 13. There's either tongue involved in the relationship or noting at all.

[Toasty]

I find it kinda hard to be friends with the opposite sex. I mean, it's not impossible, but I'd imagine there could be a lot of awkward moments.

I dunno, I'm more prone to awkward moments than most other people anyway. But I have a lot of acquaintances that are girls. i.e. I only see them at school, but we talk occasionally.

[Eugine]

I hardly have girlfriends >__<, sucks. Only started knowing lots of girls about two years ago, but the number is growing lolz. In the past two years for every 1 guy I met, I met like 5 girls o.o
Too bad I am doing science though, and mostly guys are in my classes. Like um, there are 15 people in my Physics class and only two are girls o.o
I meet most girls during my development (economics and such) courses.

Getting close with a few though. Sweet.
Not planning on having a relationship yet though. I want to meet all the girls possible without any problems!

[kate]

...I too would like to meet tons of men with no strings attached. Is there some sort of magical land where this happens?

Lesson of the day, date a fireman, they are required for their job to be fit.

err...that actually only applies to girls. why the heck are there so many men on this forum??

[Split Infinity]

kate, on May 19 2008, 04:16 PM, said:

...I too would like to meet tons of men with no strings attached. Is there some sort of magical land where this happens?

...every high school ever?

[kate]

Alas, I'm in ib. have you ever seen ib boys? no....just no.

[Caael]

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I want to meet all the girls possible without any problems!

...why exactly?

[kate]

...did you seriously just ask why a man would like to meet alot of women?

lol ok well maybe it's odd since he doesn't want a relationship, but that's good. He can just wait for something good to come along. quality not quantity or something.

[Folcon]

I got a friend that's a girl, and we get along real well. Probably cause she has many of the same interests in anime and video games that I have. And she doesn't act girly. I guess she's a bit of a tomboy, but we get along. The bummer is, she lives an hour away and I only see her in class and between class. Oh well.

[kate]

...why are girls always one or the other. Can't they be girly and into guy stuff? Bah I need new friends.

and an hour away isn't too bad. Of course I say that because I live in the middle of a forest and everything is an hour away. Do you drive? because that would make things easier

[Folcon]

Oh I can drive, I just don't want to. Besides, we're just friends, and I'm fine with that.

[Drizzy Drake]

Sex.

:P.

Say hello to my little friend like Scarface
I'll pull that ****ing rifle right out the guitar case

So yeah, I was this -- close to cheating, but the angel bitch smacked the devil, and prevailed. I was emotional, alone (except for her), and really high and dumb. :P.