[Kwesi]

I just made this topic because i have this girl that is stuck in my mind. And i would like to know if anyone has any tips on how to ask a girl out.

[Nemphtis]

Single at the moment, been single for 8 weeks infact.

[Kwesi]

oh. well good for you mister i had a girlfriend 8 weeks ago i in high school and i have never had a girlfriend let alone a kiss.

[Izar]

Read my topic before about History... or something about female game chars, and you should know. :lol:

[Nemphtis]

Or you could just say "Yes I have a girlfriend" or "No I don't have a girlfriend. But I'm God, what do I know, right? ;D

[Kwesi]

blah blah blah. just help me get a girlfriend. this girl is so hott your eyes will jump out of there sockets.

[ForteGX]

If you're gonna date a girl just cause she's hot then don't waste your time, or more importantly, hers. :lol:

[Nemphtis]

Kwesi, on Sep 26 2005, 12:11 AM, said:

blah blah blah. just help me get a girlfriend. this girl is so hott your eyes will jump out of there sockets.

Don't listen to Forte, he's a virgin. If she's truly hot, bone her and ditch her. It's the manly thing to do. :lol:

[Nick Presta]

Forte = Winn4r
Anyways, I've been in a relationship for almost 20 months.

Don't bug the girl if you just want her goodies. Chances are, she won't put out to someone random.

[Echo_djinn]

I don't have a girlfriend. Though there is a girl in my school I was interested in. Then I found out she likes....to do the wrong thing yeah... and I decided to lay off.

[Eugine]

I never had a girlfriend before. I go to an all boys school so there's no flirting at my school going on (well that I know of).

There are a few girls I was interested in before I went into the all boys school. I'm currently attracted to a few girls now too who go to the all girl school which is our partner school (well kind-of) but they aren't into relationships so w/e.

[Blue]

I did, we recently broke it off. She lied to me about a lot of stuff and she decided that she needed to break it off with me. I was piss at first, but I decided she did the right thing.

Of course, she then attempted suicide because she thought I hated her. I didn't know until she came back from the hospital.

[Nick Presta]

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Of course, she then attempted suicide because she thought I hated her. I didn't know until she came back from the hospital.

What an emo and a quitter.

[Echo_djinn]

Eugine, on Sep 25 2005, 08:47 PM, said:

I never had a girlfriend before. I go to an all boys school so there's no flirting at my school going on (well that I know of).

Say mother forkin word?.......That's alright I guess.

[Nick Presta]

all boys schools are sexy. the sister school usually has tons of hawt women

[Elliott]

Yes I do. I was lucky enough to have the chic like me in the first place. Makes life a whole lot easier ;) .

[Golden Djinn13]

I wont tell about my "history" but I will tell you that all the girls in my grade will make your eyes burn. (the bad type of burn)

[Andross]

Golden Djinn13, on Sep 25 2005, 08:13 PM, said:

I wont tell about my "history" but I will tell you that all the girls in my grade will make your eyes burn. (the bad type of burn)

They're all dirty sluts loaded with STDs or they just look uglier than hell? :lol:

All the girls at my school are OMGGGGGGGGOJSDFOJ
Unfortunately, I'm a self-proclaimed geek w/o a tan, so my chances with a decent gal is slim to none. I'm also not that outgoing, so that doesn't help either.

[Elliott]

Echo_djinn, on Sep 26 2005, 11:43 AM, said:

I don't have a girlfriend. Though there is a girl in my school I was interested in. Then I found out she likes....to do the wrong thing yeah... and I decided to lay off.

So the sexiest man alive is single, this confirms everything I thought about you in real life ;) .

[Nick Presta]

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All the girls at my school are OMGGGGGGGGOJSDFOJ
Unfortunately, I'm a self-proclaimed geek w/o a tan, so my chances with a decent gal is slim to none. I'm also not that outgoing, so that doesn't help either.

That's like my girlfriend. She's sexy yet she's a nerd @ times. She has a gfaqs account and lurks a lot of the time.

[Elliott]

nick1presta, on Sep 26 2005, 12:21 PM, said:

That's like my girlfriend. She's sexy yet she's a nerd @ times. She has a gfaqs account and lurks a lot of the time.

I keep my online and offline lives very separate.

[Nick Presta]

haha @ j00r girl.

http://nickpresta.at...other/margaret/
She made that after I taught her HTML+CSS.

[Elliott]

nick1presta, on Sep 26 2005, 12:24 PM, said:

haha @ j00r girl.

http://nickpresta.at...other/margaret/
She made that after I taught her HTML+CSS.

nice ;)

[Nick Presta]

no pics.nao?

hmm. this place != gf

[Echo_djinn]

Andross it sounds like your only hope to get a sexy girl from your school is to get rich making porn videos off the net. :lol:

Don't degrade youself like that man. Got to be confident about your looks. Girls aren't that shallow. If you're a funny guy that itself can take you into second base.

[Elliott]

Echo_djinn, on Sep 26 2005, 12:27 PM, said:

Don't degrade youself like that man. Got to be confident about your looks. Girls aren't that shallow. If you're a funny guy that itself can take you into second base.

Tru dat. I know I'm not good looking, but I still have a girl, and a lot of friends. It's lack of confidence/personality that will make you lose in the dating game :lol: .

[Andross]

I don't have a lack of confidence - all the girls in my school are superficial. I can't deal with that! And trust me, I'm the epitomy of PALE XDDDDDD All those years in Portland PLUS Austrian and Russian heritage

[Elliott]

Andross, on Sep 26 2005, 12:32 PM, said:

I don't have a lack of confidence - all the girls in my school are superficial. I can't deal with that! And trust me, I'm the epitomy of PALE XDDDDDD All those years in Portland PLUS Austrian and Russian heritage

I know. I've seen you.
Not ALL the girls can be superficial.

[Andross]

Agatio, on Sep 25 2005, 08:33 PM, said:

I know. I've seen you.
Not ALL the girls can be superficial.

Okay - all the ones with money and looks :lol:

And no, you haven't seen me :P Unless you're a very weird stalker o-o

[Elliott]

Andross, on Sep 26 2005, 12:34 PM, said:

Okay - all the ones with money and looks :D

And no, you haven't seen me :) Unless you're a very weird stalker o-o

was poking around your dads site once ;)

[Golden Djinn13]

Andross, on Sep 25 2005, 08:16 PM, said:

They're all dirty sluts loaded with STDs or they just look uglier than hell? :P

Theres a little bit of both.

Although there is one girl at my old school.......sorry, i was caught up in my thoughts. :lol:

[Andross]

Agatio, on Sep 25 2005, 08:35 PM, said:

was poking around your dads site once :P

YOU CRAZY STALKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG U HACK BNAZ!!!!

:lol:

[Nick Presta]

Yeah, I've seen Andy.

It's ok, I don't have much of a tan either...

[Andross]

You live in Canada though. You have an excuse. I live in TX, remember? :lol:

[Echo_djinn]

Heh, you know it gets pretty hot at summer time in Toronto. I've been known to get darker when it get really hot up here.

Skin complexion should be the least of your worries. You must have friends that are girls. Have you ever tried dating them?

[Nick Presta]

year d00d. toronto > all and it's still hawt up here (It was 26C today).

[Andross]

Echo_djinn, on Sep 25 2005, 08:52 PM, said:

Heh, you know it gets pretty hot at summer time in Toronto. I've been known to get darker when it get really hot up here.

Skin complexion should be the least of your worries. You must have friends that are girls. Have you ever tried dating them?

Roffle, I'm not interested in dating anyone, I was just noting that my chances with 't3h hawtszorz' is not going to happen, and most of them aren't even decent people. And for your information, yes, I have friends that are girls. Would I necessarily date them? Well, that's dependent on the situation . . . and for the most part, I wouldn't right now because, as said, I'm not actually looking to date anyone.

[Echo_djinn]

Then it's all good. I see no harm in dating girls who are friends of mine. It saves me the time of introducing myself.

@People with G/Bfriends: Was your partner one of you close friends before you started dating her/him?

[Nick Presta]

I only knew my girlfriend for 2 or 3 months before we started dating. We were friends but we weren't that close or best friends yet.

[My Best Wishes]

I ain't gonna touch any girl in my class/year level. There was one i liked, but shes a huge slut, second biggest in my year level i believe.

There's one, but she has a bf :lol:

I cbf anyway, to much work, have to be nice, take em out, pretend to care.

[Nemphtis]

nick1presta, on Sep 26 2005, 02:00 AM, said:

What an emo and a quitter.

When I first heard someone say "survival of the fittest" I assumed it meant the stronger people kill the weaker people but it isn't. They mean survival of the fittest mind, the weak kill themselves off and the strong pull through and carry on.

[Someone Else]

I do like a few girls but I haven't asked them out, nor have I had a gf.

It's not a lack of confidence, I know I'm a great guy (right? eh?) and have decent looks (check my profile) but I just don't have that much time to have a gf. =P

I personally believe that the girls in my school are quite cute/hot/blah and they all have nice personalities. If I applied myself to MAKE time to have a gf I could do it but... not interested enough.

And yes, I have a few friends that are girls.

[Luna]

Both my ex's were at some point great friends before we started dating <_<;

I have to stop doing that, it messes up the relationship. :B

As for guys I like, ****ing everyoun has been asking me about that lately. It's annoying.

[Blue]

nick1presta, on Sep 25 2005, 06:00 PM, said:

What an emo and a quitter.

So only off that small bit of info I gave to you, you automaticly know everything about her?
Whatever.

[Lightning Star]

Anubis, on Sep 25 2005, 05:40 PM, said:

Don't listen to Forte, he's a virgin. If she's truly hot, bone her and ditch her. It's the manly thing to do. :lol:

Anubis, please. don't make me gouge your eyes out >>. its more like the conceited jerk/Ba****dly/stupid idiot thing to do. If she is hot, great. But don't let that be the base of why you like her. Look at the type of person she is INSIDE, then see if ya like her. I know thats what I would want my man to do.

and this if you only like a girl for her looks, and you say it to her, this is what happens:

*At the gas station*

*some guys see us, then backs up his car next to ours. unfortuantely, my window was rolled down*

guy 1: hi!
my sister: hi, do we know you?
guy 1: no, but my names scott, this is jeff. do you guys have plans later?
my sister:well...no...
guy 1: oh you should come hang out with us, have some fun
me: yeah, um, I'm 14.
guy 1: aww, it would be fun. what about later?
me: no.
my sister: I gotta take her home
guy 1: well, I'm scott, and this is jeff. you guys are hot
my sister: no we're not...
guy 1: yes you are, and don't ever think you're not.
my sister: *laughs nervously* okay well...bye.
guy 1: see ya *Drives off*

conlusion: unless she's a slut, You won't get far.

[Mallick]

Anubis, you're a virgin too. >>;

[Someone Else]

By the way to Kwesi. A good thing to do is start of being friends. But don't just randomly start talking to her because usually she'll think you're some weirdo. (it works some times, but if you screw things up, well, you're screwed)

Cross your fingers and hope you'll get picked to do some sort of project together. :lol:

[Lightning Star]

also be really nice and sweet. like, holding the door, Even if its not for her. if she sees you, she'll think highly of you.

[Someone Else]

Yeah. Just make sure you know about her, not all girls really like the up-right gentleman sorta thing.

[Mallick]

To add what WD said if you'll listen to a child about this,

If you find out about her, don't talk to her and sound like you're stalking her. Don't act like you know too much. ;D

[Elliott]

Piers diamondberg master, on Sep 26 2005, 02:53 PM, said:

Anubis, you're a virgin too. >>;

No, he's not. You haven't been here long enough so don't start talking about **** you know nothing about.

[Mallick]

I only assumed. I didn't say I knew it for a fact.

Don't get your panties in a knot. ;D

[Elliott]

Never assume on forums, 90% of the time you will be wrong.
I don't wear panties, and I wasn't getting annoyed.
It's just that you 'sounded' sure.

[Lightning Star]

I wouldn't be suprised if he is, though.

[Elliott]

lightningstar, on Sep 26 2005, 03:49 PM, said:

I wouldn't be suprised if he is, though.

Well I was just going on what he said in a topic early last year. I'll see if it still exists.

EDIT: http://www.goldensun-syndicate.net/forum/i...indpost&p=19455

[Mallick]

Figure of speech, Agatio. And you sounded annoyed.

[Elliott]

Piers diamondberg master, on Sep 26 2005, 03:52 PM, said:

Figure of speech, Agatio. And you sounded annoyed.

Get over it.

[Lightning Star]

and the forces collide...yet again. creating mass destruction and flames

"I laugh in the face of danger...then I run and hide till it's over" :lol:
^me

[Elliott]

nick1presta, on Sep 26 2005, 12:54 PM, said:

year d00d. toronto > all and it's still hawt up here (It was 26C today).

That's got nothing on our 43 degree days :lol:

[Wiflewood]

I currently don't have a Girlfriend, and don't really have my eye on anyone (There are a few nice ones at our school) but do have some friends that are Girls.

[Lightning Star]

being friends with someone of the opposite gender is always good too. I have a coupple guy friends at school, one that can't hit girls (and I rarely see him hit another guy either), one thats a weird starwars fan, and one that says hardly anything around girls. XD yeah, we make an interesting group. and here, almost all my friends are guys, except for yuki.

being friends is great, that way, when they start to treat you like crap, it doesn't hurt so bad n.n

[My Best Wishes]

Agatio, on Sep 26 2005, 02:50 PM, said:

Well I was just going on what he said in a topic early last year. I'll see if it still exists.

EDIT: http://www.goldensun-syndicate.net/forum/i...indpost&p=19455

You failed to see the :lol: ? Normally thats considerd a 'just joking' sign.
Remember two years ago valentines day? What was it like 46C?

[Elliott]

If you bothered to read on you will see that he continued saying he wasn't a virgin.

[Someone Else]

And got laid, too.

...

What's a virgin? :3 (ROFFLE j/k j/k BBQ)

[Kwesi]

nick1presta, on Sep 25 2005, 09:41 PM, said:

Forte = Winn4r
Anyways, I've been in a relationship for almost 20 months.

Don't bug the girl if you just want her goodies. Chances are, she won't put out to someone random.

i didn't say that i only like her cause shes incredibly hott shes mad nice. she is attractive inside and out.

[Golden Djinn13]

Kwesi, on Sep 26 2005, 01:06 PM, said:

i didn't say that i only like her cause shes incredibly hott shes mad nice. she is attractive inside and out.

Then you'd better take her before someone else does. :lol:

[Someone Else]

And then take her goodies. :lol:

[My Best Wishes]

Agatio, on Sep 26 2005, 09:49 PM, said:

If you bothered to read on you will see that he continued saying he wasn't a virgin.

Yes, and if i botherd to read the next 3-5 pages out of humour i would discover quite a bit.

[Lightning Star]

Wind Dude, on Sep 26 2005, 03:08 PM, said:

And then take her goodies. :P

P-E-R-V-E. honestly, thats the best way to make a girl kick in the you know where.

[Echo_djinn]

Hey, some girls like to take goodies from men as well. That's when you know your wallet is missing after she stayed for the night. :P

[Someone Else]

Relax, Icy, I was just kidding. Besides, I didn't say WHAT the goodies were, it could be a cute nose after all. :P

Besides... some girls like it when you... well you know. >>;

[Elliott]

Wind Dude, on Sep 27 2005, 11:29 AM, said:

Relax, Icy, I was just kidding. Besides, I didn't say WHAT the goodies were, it could be a cute nose after all. :P

Besides... some girls like it when you... well you know. >>;

Pleasure them.

[My Best Wishes]

*groans, and shakes head*

[Elliott]

When you (everyone) get one you will understand ;)

[Echo_djinn]

Heh, lets talk about the birds and the bees. When a woman is attracted to another woman they start to...wait I mean another man...well I guess it can work both ways.

[My Best Wishes]

Like a bi-sexual

Agatio, on Sep 27 2005, 11:31 AM, said:

When you (everyone) get one you will understand :P

When i get a gf, i'm not going to **** her brains out cos i'm dating.

[Elliott]

watch, on Sep 27 2005, 07:54 PM, said:

Like a bi-sexual
When i get a gf, i'm not going to **** her brains out cos i'm dating.

Who said anything about sex?

[ForteGX]

watch, on Sep 27 2005, 04:54 AM, said:

Like a bi-sexual
When i get a gf, i'm not going to **** her brains out cos i'm dating.

I bet that relationship won't last more than a week.

Oh wait

'NOT going to.'

Nevermind...my bad

[King]

Used to have a GF, broke up with her yesterday cause she cheated on me

[Lightning Star]

wait, what? are you saying that if he doesn't **** her, then it won't last more than a week? o.O

oh wait, you edited that. NEVERMIND. @.@

[ForteGX]

Read the bottom; I misread. @.@

[Eugine]

WOW. I never knew 13 year olds had relationships, usually the girl is always the younger in the relationship so she was like 11?

WOW. THE. WORLD. HAS. CHANGED

[King]

Eugine, on Sep 27 2005, 05:48 AM, said:

WOW. I never knew 13 year olds had relationships, usually the girl is always the younger in the relationship so she was like 11?

WOW. THE. WORLD. HAS. CHANGED

:P apperntly they should change the name of the common room to the Insanity room

[Lightning Star]

my first "relationship" was when I was 10. sad, eh? it lasted like, a month.

[Elliott]

Anything below the age of 15 is meaningless because both are too immature to understand what love is.

[Someone Else]

Rofflestiltskin.

Except me, I've got more sense than most kids my age. :P

[Nemphtis]

Piers diamondberg master, on Sep 26 2005, 04:53 AM, said:

Anubis, you're a virgin too. >>;

I'm as virgin as someone from Baywatch.

[Nick Presta]

*huggles Anubis*

[Someone Else]

Baywatch. Mmm.

[Zxor]

I had a GF when I was in Italy, and I was 10. But I left the next day so it lasted a day...wtf??? And I think that you are too immature to have a girlfriend untill 12/13.

[Golden Djinn13]

WTF, so many pages in a short time

I think he is still to young at 13

[Andross]

Anubis, on Sep 27 2005, 08:55 AM, said:

I'm as virgin as someone from Baywatch.

You're as virgin as a cabaret girl on the Las Vegas strip.

:P

[Echo_djinn]

As virgin as Brittany Spears on her 16 birthday. Maybe she lasted that long who knows.

[Lightning Star]

kay, quite frankly I don't give a flerkin crud whether or not anubis is a virgin. honestly.

anyways, yar. I be-ith in a relationship-ith.

[Aquamarine]

I'm sorry to say, but no... I do not... it's... over *cries*

Really, anubis is a virgin?! How interesting. Please, go ahead, tell us more. :P

[Nick Presta]

I really want to voice my opinion on this matter but I really don't feel like typing out anything but "HALF THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN LOVE REALLY AREN'T AND ARE JUST PLAIN STUPID"

[Echo_djinn]

Most people get married just for the fact that they don't want to live alone.

[My Best Wishes]

Agatio, on Sep 27 2005, 09:45 PM, said:

Anything below the age of 15 is meaningless because both are too immature to understand what love is.

True. Most year 9 and below relationships are just for a social status eg, i got a gf/bf hahaha u don't, ur a homo ahahah.

[Lightning Star]

BUT then some people who are in love really ARE. and some of them do get married because they're in love.

[gsninja]

I've been a virgin for my whole life so far, and it isn't really so bad. I probably won't even attempt to get a girlfriend until I'm at least a junior because as of now, I just don't really care at all. I care more about getting good grades and enjoying myself, and getting a girlfriend will only get in the way of doing things that I really want to do right now.

That's it n.n

[Nick Presta]

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getting a girlfriend will only get in the way of doing things that I really want to do right now.

roffle @ that.

[kate]

what's wrong n1p? too lazy to add the "t" to the end of at? :P and I think any relationship that involves people below high school level is better referred to as "wuv". Like those kids you point at and go "aww isn't that cute, they're holding hands, they're in wuv" :P

[Andross]

Echo_djinn, on Sep 28 2005, 05:23 PM, said:

Most people get married just for the fact that they don't want to live alone.

Are you crazy? They do it for the sex so they don't SIN AGAINST GOD OMGZJEBORUS!!!!!
Of course, I find that rather asenine.

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getting a girlfriend will only get in the way of doing things that I really want to do right now.

That's, oddly, perversly oxymoronic in the wrong context o-o

[Nemphtis]

kate, on Sep 29 2005, 12:30 AM, said:

what's wrong n1p? too lazy to add the "t" to the end of at? :P and I think any relationship that involves people below high school level is better referred to as "wuv". Like those kids you point at and go "aww isn't that cute, they're holding hands, they're in wuv" :P

Have you been here long? I swear to God I've been coming here for God knows how many years or months or days and yet there are so many members who have gotten over 300 posts who I barely know or notice. Here are the only people I truly notice on these forums, the rest of you are just "registered users":

Nick1Presta
Max
Wind Dude
Agatio
Eugine

and a handful of others, other than that I have no idea who the hell you people are. Am I the only one who gets this amnesia crap? You look at amember and think "since when the **** has he/she been here?" because I get it every week. I think the videogames are brainwashing me! Let's sue Nintendo! :D

[My Best Wishes]

Anubis, on Sep 29 2005, 11:19 AM, said:

Have you been here long? I swear to God I've been coming here for God knows how many years or months or days and yet there are so many members who have gotten over 300 posts who I barely know or notice. Here are the only people I truly notice on these forums, the rest of you are just "registered users":

Nick1Presta
Max
Wind Dude
Agatio
Eugine

and a handful of others, other than that I have no idea who the hell you people are. Am I the only one who gets this amnesia crap? You look at amember and think "since when the **** has he/she been here?" because I get it every week. I think the videogames are brainwashing me! Let's sue Nintendo! :P

Huh?Wha? Did some registered user say something :P

Yea i know what you're saying, i see some people and don't know whats going on.

[Nemphtis]

Also for all your 13 year olds who think you're in love, the only idiot you're fooling with that is yourselves.

[Neo]

Currently I'm single, just broke up two days ago. I'm glad it's over actually. We are still friends, but it just wasn't working, so we both decided to break the relationship. It feels great though, being single. Only then you notice how much your eyes have missed :P.

Andross said:

That's, oddly, perversly oxymoronic in the wrong context o-o

Can you also translate that to english?

[Andross]

Neo_Genesis, on Sep 29 2005, 08:08 AM, said:

Can you also translate that to english?

No entiendo. Por favor te vas y nunca regresas un otro vez. JEEBORUS!!!!!!?? :P

[pHantOm]

I find it funny, majority of people here have girlfriends or boyfriends at such a young age...I detect bs.

The ones that have them, are the ones who arent posting here as much. Because of many reasons.

1)Personal Life=Personal
2)Bragging about a GirlFriend is immature, if you have one your not bent on proving anything.
3)Saying your not a virgin at 14 - is also bs, even if youve had sex I dont count that as sex. I count that as two kids who got too caught up in something and did it because they think they have to.

Youll notice most of the older members not posting here, coincidence I think not. Its called growing up...

[/rant]

To answer the question, yes I do have a girl friend. And yes, shes everything Ive described her as in a posts. Shes just an average girl, im not going out with the school bombshell nor a whore. Shes a great person and thats what matters, also she shares hobbies with me.

[Kwesi]

dam i am lazy. i read the first page then half the second then gave up so can someone sum it all up for me, cause i way to lazy to read stuff and junk. yeah and the girl that i said is mad hott it hink she might be interested in me so things are looking good. yeah. Kwesi is mad cool.

[ForteGX]

You're asking a bunch of greasy nerds and little kids for love advice, and you call yourself cool? :P

[Golden Djinn13]

I am not a nerd, I am the love doctor. So STFU :P

[ForteGX]

With a bunch of girls that'll make your eyes burn. :P (In the bad way)

[Yuki]

u_u Girls don't like to hear they're hot (unless...) they like to hear nice things. Maybe somebody said it before me, but I'm too lazy to read the pages, but honestly don't like the girl because she's only "hot," what about her personality?? >_>

[kate]

Yah, girls want to be respected, not just thought of as objects. It's fine to think she's hot, but keep it to yourself...Then again there are some girls who like to be objectified, but I don't think those are really "relationship" type girls...or something. I dunno, I don't really have alot of experience with dating girls :P

[ForteGX]

I know if *I* were a girl, I'd wanna be called hot. :P

But that's as far as it goes!

[Someone Else]

I like it when I'm called hot/cute. >_>

But then, I'm not a girl. o.o

[ForteGX]

Thus, you're a greasy nerd. :P

[Nick Presta]

Girls always like to hear they look nice; regardless of whether or not they will admit it.

[Someone Else]

Hey, wait, are you calling me a girl? :P

Yeah, I'm not sure what kate and Yuki are talking about, I always thought girls liked to be 'complimented' as long as it's not: "Hey! You're a babe! Yowza!!"

[Nick Presta]

They do. All girls like to be told that they look beautiful, or their hair smells nice. If they say they don't, they're lying.

[Mallick]

ForteGX, on Oct 1 2005, 02:46 PM, said:

You're asking a bunch of greasy nerds and little kids for love advice, and you call yourself cool? :P

I'm not a nerd, I'm a level 12 paladin.

[pHantOm]

Telling them they look sexy is alot different then calling them hot.

Hot is used to describe girls in an immature manner.

nick's post above mine is right on the money. Everyone likes being told something they want to hear. If a girl stinks, she doesnt want to know. But if she smells good, she wants you to say something.

Its very simple, dont act like a stupid monkey and you'll be fine.

[Yuki]

Man, so true. Even when a girl looks her crapiest, she wants a guy to look past it an say "you look really pretty today" and a sweet smile. I agree, don't act like a stupid monkey and you won't get your butt kicked :P

[I'm Always BROKE]

Piers diamondberg master, on Oct 2 2005, 06:21 AM, said:

I'm not a nerd, I'm a level 12 paladin.

PDM, Forte is right... <<;;

[kate]

lol, obviously you misunderstood me. There's a difference between saying "You look very pretty today" and something along the lines of "SEX-AY!" (possibly followed by repeated shouting of the word "toga" :P ) But yes. The more often you compliment a girl the better. Unless it's very cheesy like "My heart burns eternally for a mere look at your eyes"...ooo that's pretty good. I should write sonnets :D

[Kwesi]

ForteGX, on Oct 1 2005, 04:46 PM, said:

You're asking a bunch of greasy nerds and little kids for love advice, and you call yourself cool? :P

yes i am punk. cause kwesi is the master of the universe. yeah hes cool and u guys give horrible advice except for love guardian, phantom, and nick the rest of u are idiots who failed the test of life.

just kidding

[Someone Else]

kate, on Oct 2 2005, 09:33 AM, said:

lol, obviously you misunderstood me. There's a difference between saying "You look very pretty today" and something along the lines of "SEX-AY!" (possibly followed by repeated shouting of the word "toga" :P )

Ha-ha, I thought that was it. :D Nah, never do that.

Kwesi, if you owned the entire Universe, wouldn't you have the power to ask a professional?

[Eugine]

Unless he considers us professionals :P

[ForteGX]

I reiterate:

Greasy nerds

[Andross]

ForteGX, on Oct 2 2005, 11:08 AM, said:

I reiterate:

Greasy nerds

And this is why we hate hypocrites, children.

WAAA-AAA-WAAA-AAA :P

[ForteGX]

Hey now, I never said *I* wasn't one.



Wait, I have an afro, therefore I cannot be a nerd.

:P

[kate]

<.< I'm not sure if I'm a nerd. I'm pretty positive I'm not greasy tho. And if you were a nerd, wouldn't you have the intelligence to shower? Unless you're a poser! *crowd gasps*

[Andross]

ForteGX, on Oct 2 2005, 12:11 PM, said:

Hey now, I never said *I* wasn't one.
Wait, I have an afro, therefore I cannot be a nerd.

:P

Wanna bet? There's a nerd who sits at my table and has a mini-fro.


http://zappoartblog.com/img/upload/owned.jpg
BOOM HEADSHOT!

[Nick Presta]

i am a nerd.

;_;

Oh and I have (had) an afro.

Oh and I have (had) an afro.

[kate]

OOO double-time it now!

This is fun...

This is fun...

[Echo_djinn]

Is no nerd. I don't see using a computer as something that nerdy?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Not really. Nerds use computers mostly for things as webdesgin, art and those non communative (sp?) things. I mostly use in for MSN and this place and use Google ofcoarse.

[pHantOm]

And to add to my last reply, when I said they like hearing good things that doesnt mean lie. Thats possibly the worst thing you can do is lie to someone, especially someone you like. Because you'll be known as a liar, which is worse than the characteristics you lied about to begin with.

Be truthful, Be Real.

[Elliott]

Guys, grow the **** up, lol

[Andross]

pHantOm, on Oct 2 2005, 02:55 PM, said:

And to add to my last reply, when I said they like hearing good things that doesnt mean lie. Thats possibly the worst thing you can do is lie to someone, especially someone you like. Because you'll be known as a liar, which is worse than the characteristics you lied about to begin with.

Be truthful, Be Real.

Thanks for that overly serious bit of info captain obvious!!!
:P

[pHantOm]

Hey, with some of these people you cant be obvious enough......lol...

[Someone Else]

^ He's right you know!!!

[kate]

This isn't the arrow game wd :lol:

[Echo_djinn]

^ She being one of those people who needs everything to be pointed out to her. :lol:

[kate]

o.o I don't even understand what that means...why are you confusing me?? <.< you're all out to get me, aren't you? *starts brandishing knife*

uhh...and uh, aren't boyfriends great? (oh yah, saved the topic!)

[Echo_djinn]

I can't tell if your purposely playing right into my hands or your ignorance has gotten the better of you. Either way it still proves my point. :lol:

[MysticWarrior]

Back in my day, you'd be whipped for going off topic >=o

I don't want a girlfriend, nor do I have one. Girlfriend = drama and slavery. I look at the day with a smile anyways, so it doesn't matter.

[kate]

Girlfriends = drama and slavery?? What kind of girls do you know? and what do you mean "I look at the day with a smile anyways"..I'm so out of it. and ed, yes, I am that stupid, we all knew that.

[MysticWarrior]

kate, on Oct 3 2005, 06:51 PM, said:

Girlfriends = drama and slavery?? What kind of girls do you know? and what do you mean "I look at the day with a smile anyways"..I'm so out of it. and ed, yes, I am that stupid, we all knew that.

Yeah. You're all mushy and nice for the first month or two, but afterwards, your partner could end up whinier and more demanding than other girls.

And don't be like that. What's wrong with smiling?

[kate]

Oh, everything mw, everything. And we're not whiny! goooooosh...you're so meeeean...guys, make him be quiiiiiite *pouts* :lol:

[MysticWarrior]

kate, on Oct 3 2005, 06:58 PM, said:

Oh, everything mw, everything. And we're not whiny! goooooosh...you're so meeeean...guys, make him be quiiiiiite *pouts* :lol:

I never said YOU were. When I said YOU, I meant the couple. Whatever... <<

[kate]

hence the "we"...and as I said before, I dunno, I don't date girls much :lol: but all the girls in relationships I know don't turn all demanding-like, but I suppose that depends on how the guy sees it. phish, and ppl say girls are complicated

[MysticWarrior]

kate, on Oct 3 2005, 07:02 PM, said:

hence the "we"...and as I said before, I dunno, I don't date girls much :lol: but all the girls in relationships I know don't turn all demanding-like, but I suppose that depends on how the guy sees it. phish, and ppl say girls are complicated

Really now? Everywhere I go, it's if you screw up once, the girl throws a hissy fit and leaves you. That's just me.

[kate]

jw, have you ever had a girlfriend before? cuz if you did, sounds pretty rough to me...

[MysticWarrior]

Naw =P I know, I know, "omfg he messin wit tins he not no bout", but my brother has one, and my friends have one each, and stuff. I see it.

[Someone Else]

Then your friends are going out with the wrong people.

If you find the RIGHT person, (a girl in this case) they would forgive you for a screw-up. Otherwise, you probably weren't compatible in the first place.

[Nick Presta]

girlfriends > j00

nuff said.

[Echo_djinn]

I see having a girlfriend before you have even thought about getting married is a waste of time. If I just wanted to fool around with a girl I would just go down Queen Street waving two bills.

If you're not serious than there is no point.

[Nick Presta]

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If I just wanted to fool around with a girl I would just go down Queen Street waving two bills.

Naw, Queen is ok. Try heading over to Downsview and in the city down Eglinton.

[pHantOm]

Echo_djinn, on Oct 4 2005, 08:50 PM, said:

I see having a girlfriend before you have even thought about getting married is a waste of time. If I just wanted to fool around with a girl I would just go down Queen Street waving two bills.

If you're not serious than there is no point.

There is a point, ever hear this before?

"Practice makes perfect?"

Your first dating experience will fail, even when you dont think it will, you dont have enough experience in dealing with the opposite sex in an intimate relationship.

[Someone Else]

I think I do, but does that mean I'd fail anyway?? =P

[Zxor]

pHantOm, on Oct 5 2005, 09:46 PM, said:

There is a point, ever hear this before?

"Practice makes perfect?"

Your first dating experience will fail, even when you dont think it will, you dont have enough experience in dealing with the opposite sex in an intimate relationship.

I agree with you. People tell you about how to act and all, but you won't really know untill your first date, which wil fail. ONly 1 of aver billion dates last from the first date.

[ForteGX]

I think what he meant was that if you're not gonna take the relationship seriously, then there's no point in dating.

[el_Sethro]

as I've said in the past, like jillion of these topics, I do not, have not, and do not intend to ever have a girlfriend. I personally don't really see the point of romantic love at all, and it doesn't seem to have any power over me. I'm kind of sick of everyone assuming that love is the be-all-and-end-all of the universe, because we're all brainwashed like that with children's stories like Cinderella, and rarely question it. The truth is, most people look for love because they feel that they ought to, that it's expected of them, more so than the little bit of enjoyment they get out of it. I'm not saying this of all people of course, but I don't think it's worth it at all for me.

[Someone Else]

Well, I dunno about you folks, but I'm just attracted to the sheer gracefull-ness of the opposite sex. =D

Meaning girls, if you didn't know...

[kate]

aww, romance is nice. And if you've never had a girlfriend, it must be hard to make a informed judgement of it, lol. But yah, I've met some people who are perfectly fine with not getting a gf/bf...I think it's fun. Cuz y'know, life isn't busy enough as is @.@

[kate]

<.< ...umm...really really ^_^ seriously...i kid you not

[pHantOm]

el_Sethro, on Oct 6 2005, 01:33 PM, said:

as I've said in the past, like jillion of these topics, I do not, have not, and do not intend to ever have a girlfriend. I personally don't really see the point of romantic love at all, and it doesn't seem to have any power over me. I'm kind of sick of everyone assuming that love is the be-all-and-end-all of the universe, because we're all brainwashed like that with children's stories like Cinderella, and rarely question it. The truth is, most people look for love because they feel that they ought to, that it's expected of them, more so than the little bit of enjoyment they get out of it. I'm not saying this of all people of course, but I don't think it's worth it at all for me.

Human nature my friend, whether its intentional or not you'll find someone you want to be with. Love, is a strong word.

[MysticWarrior]

el_Sethro, on Oct 6 2005, 10:33 AM, said:

as I've said in the past, like jillion of these topics, I do not, have not, and do not intend to ever have a girlfriend. I personally don't really see the point of romantic love at all, and it doesn't seem to have any power over me. I'm kind of sick of everyone assuming that love is the be-all-and-end-all of the universe, because we're all brainwashed like that with children's stories like Cinderella, and rarely question it. The truth is, most people look for love because they feel that they ought to, that it's expected of them, more so than the little bit of enjoyment they get out of it. I'm not saying this of all people of course, but I don't think it's worth it at all for me.

My point exactly. And having friends > having 1 girlfriend.

[Someone Else]

Having a girl that understands you and enjoys talking to you and hugs/kisses you is fun too.

[MysticWarrior]

Hugs and kisses aren't fun... and really, what kind of normal friends do you have that don't want to listen to you?

[Eugine]

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And having friends > having 1 girlfriend.

OK then, what about sexual feelings? Maybe you're too young or something, but they do come in and your friends can't satisfy that need *deeply*.

[ForteGX]

There's a difference between romantic love, and the sex drive.

[Lightning Star]

and its not impossible to...er...calm the drive down. and you don't need to satisfy it. thats the thing with the world today, they're all like "omg, I need to go get a bf/gf so i can satisfy my desires!" nah. seriously, if thats how you feel, take a cold shower.

now, I know this sounds contradictory, but I think its fine to have those feelings once you are in a relationship, but depending on where him/her stand in their belief of sex, its best to talk to them about it first and stuff. If they're not cool with it, don't push them to do anything! if they are....well, still. 'cause I believe its wrong to have sex before you're married, but I'm just "old fashioned" (Even though I'm younger than most of you). but yeah, this paragraph was probably useless, 'cause no one wants to hear all that.

aaaaaaaand when it comes to romantic love and such, I think its fine to be "intimate" just not like, yeah. wow. I'll shut up now because I don't think I'm making the slightest bit of sense.

carry on @.@

[Nickelback]

Well you are, just becuase you're in a relationship doesn't mean it has to be phyiscal.

[Eugine]

Exactly my point. Friends can't give you romantic love, neither can "Going to Queens Street"

[Kwesi]

i'm confused. yo.

[MysticWarrior]

Exactly what lightningstar said. Not EVERYBODY thinks about sex every minute of his or her life, you know. Besides, I'm weird. I don't need / want sex. In fact, when I'm bored I pretend I'm perverted because I know I'm not (or am I? <<^_^.

[ForteGX]

EVERYONE'S got a sex drive; it's part of human nature, but that doesn't mean that you HAVE to start dating, just for the sake of satisfying that "urge."

That's when superficial relationships are born.

[Echo_djinn]

Eugine, on Oct 7 2005, 03:24 PM, said:

Exactly my point. Friends can't give you romantic love, neither can "Going to Queens Street"

Romantic love over weighs pleasure? When in the world did that happen? Some people will do anything to get "excited". You just got to know where to go. ^_^

[kate]

<.< Ooookay, so if pleasure outweighs romance ed, why do people date who don't plan on doing the nasty...huh? got an answer for that punk? I didn't think so...*struts* kay I don't even know what I'm doing here n.n

[Echo_djinn]

I can say the same thing about people who do go into a relationship just for the pleasure.

Don't deny the fact that for the few people who just go into relationships for romance there are thousands who go on porn sites/read playboys to get their fun.

[Eugine]

Talking from experience? ^_^

[kate]

Eugine please! you're talking about ed!.....of course he is ^_^

[Echo_djinn]

You never know...... ^_^

[pHantOm]

Kwesi, on Oct 7 2005, 04:12 PM, said:

i'm confused. yo.

Im glad to see that you have alot to contribute to this discussion....


I agree with lightsaber about physical feelings etc.

Lust><Love

meh Were talking about this on a Golden Sun Forum...

[My Best Wishes]

I know, it's spooky isn't it? The whole Golden sun part of the forum is almost dead, and we discuss anything else. I mean, we discussed wether or not cats could dream!

ED- :P

And i would say that most younger high school relationships are either for social status or to get physical.

[Kwesi]

pHantOm, on Oct 8 2005, 12:36 AM, said:

Im glad to see that you have alot to contribute to this discussion....
I agree with lightsaber about physical feelings etc.

Lust><Love

meh Were talking about this on a Golden Sun Forum...

yeah i know i love doing my part to help society and such. Yeah *sigh*

[Someone Else]

MysticWarrior, on Oct 6 2005, 10:37 PM, said:

Hugs and kisses aren't fun...

Kay there's something wrong with you. O.o; I think you may have been on Maple Story too long.

There's a difference between Love and Sex, I think we've got that cleared up.

Keep in mind that it's only legal to have sex after age 16. :P

[I'm Always BROKE]

That law sucks... Your being laughed at if your still vergin at 16 here... o.o;;

[Someone Else]

Even then, you really should wait 'till about, oh, age 19 before you have sex. Actually, you should wait until your married, honestly. X_x

Save it for your Honeymoon. :P And after that you can do it everyday until you have a baby, and then you have to wait 20 years before you can do it again. :P

[Eugine]

I'm a virgin and damn proud!

[I'm Always BROKE]

Yeah sure... Meet a nice sexy girl. Spend out all your money on the wedding, the dresses, the ring excetra... Well I dunno how long you can stand that, but I can't... o.o

[MysticWarrior]

Wind Dude, on Oct 8 2005, 11:42 AM, said:

Kay there's something wrong with you. O.o; I think you may have been on Maple Story too long.

If you think they're fun, can you explain how? =P

[Someone Else]

Because it is PHUN, and if you want me to explain fun you're on your own. =P

Fun is an experience unique to us mammals, some birds and a few other animals. >> Reptiles can't feel it. =P

...Oh my God MW, are you reptilian?!

[kate]

Well, he's certainly cold-blooded. And kinda scaly :P :P

[MysticWarrior]

Oh noez, u found my secret! *run*

I still don't get it.

[Nick Presta]

Eugine, on Oct 7 2005, 05:25 AM, said:

OK then, what about sexual feelings? Maybe you're too young or something, but they do come in and your friends can't satisfy that need *deeply*.

It depends what kind of friends, really.