[Someone Else]

Oh, and one more thing about sexual feelings. You don't need to have sex to satisfy it, I think making out satisfies it too. =P

[Sea of Time]

Congratulations on 200 replies of sexual conversation everyone!

[Ravenblade]

Wind Dude, on Oct 9 2005, 04:01 PM, said:

Oh, and one more thing about sexual feelings. You don't need to have sex to satisfy it, I think making out satisfies it too. =P

Not that i want to criticise here x_x; but have you had sex WD? If making out was as good, people wouldnt risk having children for the pleasure would they? Mind you, before you've tried it i guess maybe the desire can be satisfied by making it out o.o...but then why would anyone ever try it...

You'll reach a point where it isnt enough imsure ;D

[Echo_djinn]

Ravenblade, on Oct 10 2005, 12:28 PM, said:

Not that i want to criticise here x_x; but have you had sex WD? If making out was as good, people wouldnt risk having children for the pleasure would they? Mind you, before you've tried it i guess maybe the desire can be satisfied by making it out o.o...but then why would anyone ever try it...

You'll reach a point where it isnt enough imsure ;D

Kissing only stimulates one thing. Also having a girlfriend is not needed to do so. It's just better to have her doing the work. :P

[Ravenblade]

Are you agreeing with me? I cant tell ._.

There are levels of stimulation - also, you should get a rush all over your body from kissing and such - not just in the groin o.o

[Echo_djinn]

Ha. But the groin area is where it counts. Unless of course your 6 inch has become indolent.

By the way I agree with what you said.

[ForteGX]

ED. Honest question. Do YOU even know what the heck you're talking about? Speak English.

[Ravenblade]

Ehh i guess so..it really depends on whether or not you're in love i guess as to be able to say where it counts the most.

[kate]

>.o I have no idea how we started talking about your guys groins...or even sex for that matter, but there are fun things in a relationship besides all that y'know....like, say human conversation (a foreign concept to you ed, i'm sure :P ) but really, I would never want my first time to be with someone I cared about, which is why I probably won't wait for marriage

[Echo_djinn]

Heh, I am getting a bit off-hand. Lets say your alone and depressed, most guys look for something/anything to make them feel better. Some go out and have sex with random people. In this case love was not involved. You understand?

Andross said this before. I said people go out and get married just so they won't have to live alone. He said that people get married just for the sex.(Not his exact words) I am starting to believe that myself.

[kate]

Blegh, that makes no sense to me. If you're in it just for the sex, why would you need to be married?? The loneliness thing makes more sense there.

[Ravenblade]

who said we were just talking about men's groins? Im guessing girls get stimulated too. Well actually, im not guessing.

And i agree about the conversation aspect - the more you know the person the more special it is. I dont really understand the last thing you said though...you're gonna give yourself away to a guy you dont care about? =/

The longer you spend building up trust and such in a relationship, the better everything is. That includes the sexual stuff. I think thats why its good to do your first time with someone who isnt just out to gain pleasure for themselves.

[kate]

Everyone knows your first time sucks. So why after waiting your entire life to get married to this person so you can spend a very special moment with them, would you want it to be awful? If you have experience, but it's your first time with them then that's all magical and stuffs.

[Ravenblade]

"Everyone knows" huh? There's no way that that's a solid fact. Besides, if it isnt so good then you have the level of trust to be able to tell the other person and manage to improve it. If you sleep with some random guy first time round - you arent going to ask what you can do to improve and there isnt really any other way to learn - you dont just "get better". What's the guarantee your husband will have asked the women he slept with even if you asked the guys?

[kate]

ooookay, you don't know my mom. When I was like, 12 she made me watch this nature show (i don't know what it's got to do with nature) about people talking about their first times (my mom's paranoid that I'm gonna become a prostitute or something :P i dunno) Absolutely every last one of them, and there were a creepy amount willing to talk about it, said it was awful their first time. They also said it was practice that made it better. I dunno if any of them asked how to get better, but i'm sure not all of them did, yet somehow they got better. and obviously i don't have alot of experience, but the statistics were staggering. Ooo, staggering, don't I sound fancy.

[Ravenblade]

um, yeah but then maybe they only picked the people with bad experiences for the show - Tv can warp anything.

And practice does make better, but only if you know what you're doing - and to know that you need to talk to the other person. On top of all of this, it actually varies from person to person - so what one person may come to enjoy isnt necessarily what another will. Especially for women. Ive spoken to many girls who have said they had to "train" the guy to suit their needs. It's so diverse an issue that you cant assume the more you practice with random guys, the better it'll be with "the one"

You also have the added risk of STDs and crap. Imnot saying you should wait until marraige here, but if you really want to be able to get better for someone you care about - you need the trust, and you need to do it with them.

What sounds better:

"I slept with a ton of guys in practice for our wedding night"

"I want to try and make you as happy as possible but we're gonna have to work on it"

I think that speaks for itself =/

[kate]

Lol! okay, I'm not saying grab some random guy off the street and get jiggy with it, I'm just saying, when you have a bf or something (and let's be real, you have alot of those before you find 'the one' unless you get lucky) don't just be all "no, we can't do it cuz then it won't be special once I'm married" you can still talk to him about it, and then when you find the one, your not like a fish out of water. Gosh, you're making me sound like a slut :P I'm saying it should be special, but waiting till your married is imo not the smartest idea.

[Kwesi]

uh still confused yo. well yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah

[Eugine]

Interesting conversation here. ^^

I can't talk from experience cause 100% virgin... Well, 99% :P

[Someone Else]

Ravenblade, on Oct 10 2005, 11:28 AM, said:

Not that i want to criticise here x_x; but have you had sex WD?

...maybe.

Nah, but making out gets people turned on. An innocent kiss doesn't. Do you know what I'm talking about?

But then again, bare breasts get people turned on and they aren't technically sexual...

[MysticWarrior]

Really? I read somewhere a peck on a cheek makes a girl feel better. Or something.

And bare breasts get people turned on like every other animal. For example, the longer a type of male bird's tail is, the more attractive it is for females in mating season (ring a bell? ;D).

[Echo_djinn]

Any kind of touching can get a person turned on. From a simple rub on the back to a hug from someone of the opposite sex. I guess it depends on the person. Some people can get turned on easily while others have more control over their feelings.

[Eugine]

Oh *takes notes*

So, anyone has the Biology on sexual feelings here?

[Nick Presta]

psh. n00bs.

[Someone Else]

I agree... (:P)




Can we talk about something non-horny?

[Echo_djinn]

Like what? This topic title doesn't let us stray to far from touchy conversation.

[Eugine]

http://www.puberty101.com
http://www.theteencentre.net/forum

[Andross]

Quote

Sexually,we are all competing for the same seat on the bus and the thing that holds it together is the tightly held conceit that we are all sexual gods. How can I believe in my own uniqueness when there's a cat out there exactly the same as me?

[Nick Presta]

man. ravenblade, anubis, andross, Max, forte are teh only ones who I feel could say anything about sex.

nuff said.

[Luna]

This topic is hilarious XD Such a big fuss about sex.

[Eugine]

It is, I love this topic. Prob. my most visited topic here now.

So, Nick are those listed people talking from *experience?*

[Someone Else]

I think he's talking in terms of general maturity, rather than random 14-year-olds who only partly know what they're talking about, trying to earn respect on a forum with people they don't know at all. :P (although I have to wonder about Max and Anubis)

Anyhoo, sex is part of a relationship, and in some cases, big bussiness. I don't think anyone can really say anything about it here.

[pHantOm]

nick1presta, on Oct 10 2005, 07:48 PM, said:

psh. n00bs.

WOO HOO

Way to contribute! XD I must agree with you this one....lol

[Nick Presta]

Quote

I don't think anyone can really say anything about it here.

Don't be so sure.

=)

[Someone Else]

n1p you naughty *******. ;)

[Andross]

That reminds me. STRANGEST THING EVAR today.

Okay, so I usually go to my photography class to hang around after school if I have something else I need to go to later at school (in this case, a PSAT prep). So, I go in, there's only my photo teacher and a guy and a girl from my class. Because we're in the PC lab, the lights are off.

So I go around devArt, send off some e-mails, and do a few photos. Then I notice Parrish (my photo teacher) has disappeared and gone off somewhere. I needed to talk w/him about photo competitions he wanted me to enter, but it wasn't urgent, so I just went back to working.

Then, this yearbook teacher (or at least the teacher supervising yearbook) comes in looking for Parrish. At this point, it's just me and the girl (since the other guy left). In the dark. Alone. And while such perversions didn't actually go through my head, apparently this teacher thought so - and told us not to be sitting in the dark when there's no teacher around XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

At that point, I was like "AAAGH! That's horrrrrrible!!!!" Because in all truth, me and the girl were just working on the computers. I can see why the teacher, well, thought of, eh, things, since I was sitting next to her....but, AAAAAGH!!!! THAT'S FRIGGIN' AYARAHRHRA!!!!!!!!

It was so effing funny, weird, and disgusting at the same time, that words just can't describe fully wth happened in full XDDDD

[Someone Else]

Holy crap, just how old was this teacher? XDDD

Man oh man, if she was over 35 I have to wonder... XD

[Andross]

Wind Dude, on Oct 11 2005, 08:08 PM, said:

Holy crap, just how old was this teacher? XDDD

IN HIS 60S!!!! AAAAAGHGHLAJWYWY!~!!!

[Nick Presta]

meh. with me, being in the dark is teh least of your worries.

;)

[Kwesi]

yeah this topic stopped talking about me around page 5. more or less i didn't read them.

[pHantOm]

Thank You for telling us that Kwesi, that provides alot of feedback to this HOT topic.

Anyways, Andross thats freaking hilarious!

[Kwesi]

bananas. and yes this topic is HOT * to lazy to make it big and in red* thats why i made it i can see into the future yo. and i can only spell bananas thx to gwen stefani she is hot

[Elliott]

*sad music plays*
Yes, I got dumped a few days ago.
At first I was pissed off, then pretty upset, but now I figure it's better to look on the bright side. What will I achieve from crying, or being upset, or pissed off? Nothing. I figure it's better for me, and everyone else, that I just move on. I now have a lot more freedom to flurt with random people, get pissed, pick up etc. And there are some other benefits I won't go into.
All in all, if she doesn't want to be with me, her choice, and I respect that. I don't hate her for it, but I do hate her best friend (long story).
Wow, what a long and totally pointless rant.

[Ravenblade]

=/ It sucks, I agree - you seem to be dealing with it well though so kudos to you.

And yeah, best friends (with girls at least) do seem to get in the way a lot. They get all upset that they might be replaced or something and some react to it badly. I have no idea if thats what happened to you but that's a pretty common kinda thing i think.

Im pretty sure that only happens with girls. I dont think my best friends would ever try and pull something like that x_x;

I'm sure it wont take you long to find someone else (if that's what you're looking for)

[Elliott]

Ravenblade, on Oct 14 2005, 02:21 AM, said:

=/ It sucks, I agree - you seem to be dealing with it well though so kudos to you.

And yeah, best friends (with girls at least) do seem to get in the way a lot. They get all upset that they might be replaced or something and some react to it badly. I have no idea if thats what happened to you but that's a pretty common kinda thing i think.

Im pretty sure that only happens with girls. I dont think my best friends would ever try and pull something like that x_x;

I'm sure it wont take you long to find someone else (if that's what you're looking for)

She (the best friend) is just a fat ugly mole. If I ever said anything about her, she would go cyring to my girlfriend, and then I would have to endure a ****ing lecture about how she was there first. So in the last few weeks we were together I was even considering breaking it off. Though I did really love her.
And I'm not looking for another relationship anytime soon. I just want to have fun and spend time with different girls rather than being in with the one girl where if I put a foot wrong I don't here the end of it.

[Nick Presta]

aw well. you'll find somone else Agatio. dont go Emo because of some chick (not saying you have, but dont).

[Someone Else]

Part of the reason that I don't have a girlfriend is because, since most of my friends are girls now, (except my Best Friend) I'm afraid that she'd feel uncomfortable when I was around other girls. =/

But there are many factors about why I don't have a gf.

[pHantOm]

Wind Dude, on Oct 13 2005, 08:51 PM, said:

But there are many factors about why I don't have a gf.

" Group: Members
Posts: 1747
Joined: 21-July 04
From: United States, California
Member No.: 510

Gender: Male
Age: 14""

Thats why, dont even feel you should have one.

[Elliott]

nick1presta, on Oct 14 2005, 09:21 AM, said:

aw well. you'll find somone else Agatio. dont go Emo because of some chick (not saying you have, but dont).

I don't plan on a relationship anytime soon, just trying to get some booty ;)
You wouldn't catch me going emo, the music is alright but emos themselves should be shot.
*goes on a 4 hour rant about emos*

[Someone Else]

pHantOm, on Oct 13 2005, 11:03 PM, said:

" Group: Members
Posts: 1747
Joined: 21-July 04
From: United States, California
Member No.: 510

Gender: Male
Age: 14""

Thats why, dont even feel you should have one.

Okay that was sorta annoying.

[pHantOm]

Wind Dude, on Oct 14 2005, 08:37 AM, said:

Okay that was sorta annoying.

And how is that annoying?


hmmm?

[Ravenblade]

It's patronising. Also a little uncalled for dont you think?

[Sea of Time]

I met my gf three days after my 15th birthday. Age is nothing, age is only related to the seriousness of the relationship.

[pHantOm]

Sea_of_Time, on Oct 14 2005, 12:53 PM, said:

I met my gf three days after my 15th birthday. Age is nothing, age is only related to the seriousness of the relationship.

*sigh*

I simply stated that he shouldnt feel he NEEDS one, I didnt say you CANT have one at a young age.

[Someone Else]

*quotes again*

pHantOm, on Oct 13 2005, 11:03 PM, said:

Thats why, dont even feel you should have one.

But anyhoo, I don't mind being called young. I just hate being advised about things based on my age. It's like, sure I'm in an age group where lust runs wild and people do stupid things because they're all conformists, but I'm quite different than the others kids at my age. I just don't show it all the time. ;) But you are right to a certain extent. I don't feel that I need to have one.

Moving on, I hate stuff like this because it'll probably turn into an arguement.

[Eugine]

>.> everyone is having their own custom font colour these days <.<

[Elliott]

Sheba > el sethro > me > everyone else

[Yuki]

True o.o I call red!

[Someone Else]

Clashes with your sig.

I may just stay with black, I think this font is too similiar to El Seth's.

[Elliott]

It will be interesting to see who sticks with theirs like Sheba has done for the past 22ish months.

[Someone Else]

That it will. I'm still wondering about the text color, I might drop it.

[Elliott]

Grey isn't the smartest of choices cause there isn't enough contrast, at least on the mercury skin there isn't.

[Andross]

"Sometimes when you look back on a situation, you realize it wasn't all you thought it was. A beautiful girl walked into your life. You fell in love. Or did you? Maybe it was only a childish infatuation, or maybe just a brief moment of vanity."

[Elliott]

Wow, for such a deep quote that had no impact on me whatsoever.

[Someone Else]

Same. It just states what we've heard a billion times before. =P

I'll stay with black until I get a set with a different color. Any other color besides gray or black would clash with my set.

[kate]

omg, i know, you totally can't clash, it's like, totally against the rules of fashion! and that would be a crime to like, everything cool.

kay I'm done. And n1p, two words: woah, deep.

[Linear]

.-. I'm amazed that it's all about the fashion.

[Golden Djinn13]

you guys have gone sooo off topic, but while were still talking about it
I really like this color

[ForteGX]

Where did fashion come from? I though this was about dating! x.x

[Linear]

I think it's optional to think about fashion if your on a date. ^^

[kate]

c'mon ppl, isn't it always about fashion? really, when it get's down to it, i think that's the very fiber of our being u.u

[Linear]

And it comes with many opinions.

Sounds like an advertisment. ~

[kate]

<.< you know i'm kidding right? gosh, you sound so serious ;) i'm all for fashion, but it's not quite the fiber of our being. and there are no opinions. there's just mine, and everyone else's wrong ones :P

[Linear]

@_@ Oh...I still don't understand the fashion statements...

[Someone Else]

OMG FASHION POLICE

http://www.stim.com/Stim-x/0896August/Trender/Pix/title-fashpol.gif

[MysticWarrior]

It can be about fashion, but not about clashing font color fashion =P

[Nick Presta]

wtf @ all your talking about fashion.

On a more happy note, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 20months, yesterday.

Yay, almost 2 years together.

[Yuki]

PREPS!!! PREEEEEPPSSSS!!!!
I hate you, preps!!! DIIEEE!!!!
You hollister girls and boys, you ambercrombies and fitches, you AMERICAN EAGLE OUTFITTERS!!!

Sorry, I'm done ^^

Yeah 7 months. Whooo hoooo.

[pHantOm]

Wind Dude, on Oct 14 2005, 07:09 PM, said:

*quotes again*


But anyhoo, I don't mind being called young. I just hate being advised about things based on my age. It's like, sure I'm in an age group where lust runs wild and people do stupid things because they're all conformists, but I'm quite different than the others kids at my age. I just don't show it all the time. ;) But you are right to a certain extent. I don't feel that I need to have one.

Moving on, I hate stuff like this because it'll probably turn into an arguement.

yeah these do turn into arguements, but Ill just brush it off by saying whatever you totally missed my point.

Moving on, preps....ugh...

[Ravenblade]

...aaaanyways

Im drifting at the moment. I dont feel like rushing head first into being in love again x_x

[Elliott]

Ravenblade, on Oct 15 2005, 05:46 PM, said:

...aaaanyways

Im drifting at the moment. I dont feel like rushing head first into being in love again x_x

But what if they have a real nice avatar?

[Ravenblade]

LOL XD

I might consider it then, i agree.

I've had real life g/f's too ^^

[Someone Else]

Ravenblade, on Oct 15 2005, 01:46 AM, said:

...aaaanyways

Why do you always act like we're all retards? :D

Oh wait, don't answer that.

Sexy avatars are damn attractive. ;) I haven't seen a real looker in four months... *so deprived*

[Echo_djinn]

Heh, I had an interesting weekend at my job last week.


I meet this new girl at work a last week. She said she just broke up with her boyfriend. She is about 2 years older than me but she is pretty cute. She said I was pretty sexy and that she would beat me down if she ever had the chance. She said this with out any warning. I gave her the biggest WTF? She said that she found me attractive. I said I thought she was pretty cute herself. She smiled and she went back to work. I was confused but didn't give it much thought after.

The next day I over hear her saying the same lines to this other guy at work. ;) That's when everything became clear. I told the guy what she said to me and we both came to one conclusion about her.......:D

Anyways, that's my story. I don't know what it has to do with this topic but I felt compelled to post it here.

[Andross]

kate, on Oct 14 2005, 07:57 PM, said:

kay I'm done. And n1p, two words: woah, deep.

People seem to inherently think I'm n1p instead of me for some reason :D

It was a quote from Northern Exposure fyi. That show was weird...and I'm not sure if many people remember it...

[Isaac13]

Echo_djinn, on Oct 15 2005, 01:19 PM, said:

Heh, I had an interesting weekend at my job last week.
I meet this new girl at work a last week. She said she just broke up with her boyfriend. She is about 2 years older than me but she is pretty cute. She said I was pretty sexy and that she would beat me down if she ever had the chance. She said this with out any warning. I gave her the biggest WTF? She said that she found me attractive. I said I thought she was pretty cute herself. She smiled and she went back to work. I was confused but didn't give it much thought after.

The next day I over hear her saying the same lines to this other guy at work. :D That's when everything became clear. I told the guy what she said to me and we both came to one conclusion about her.......;)

Anyways, that's my story. I don't know what it has to do with this topic but I felt compelled to post it here.

I see what your'e going at... I think... :D

[Echo_djinn]

I was just read over one of Andross's posts which kicked up my memory of what happened to me at work last week. Oh, and yes she is a s***.

[Yuki]

I dunno if a guy at my school likes me or not. o.o he bugs me ALOT and he says random things and always finds me at lunch. He always looks at me from across the classroom and always talks to me after class. We were in the breakfast line and I wasn't paying attention and suddenly he's there talking to me about how he doesn't take things up the a**. I don't know if that's what guys DO to get attention or something ._.

Anyways, I was just wondering o.o...

[pHantOm]

This guy might be just as wierd as you Yuki! XD LMFAO im jk

Obviously, he has a few things to learn. But you cant blame the man for trying. If hes a nice guy look past his flirting skills.

[Yuki]

How very nice of you Phantom >.>;;

Yeah he is a nice guy. And I don't bame him for trying or anything, but it's just, I'm so confused about guys >_< I mean, some hurt girls as a message saying 'I LIKE YOU! GO OUT WITH ME!'

[Someone Else]

Not all guys are like that. I know what you mean by guys hurting a girls feelings as a message or something. =/

See, guys are just like everybody else, some have more social skills than others and some are more desperate than others. Some might think that the only way to get a girl's attention is to hurt them, right?

Yeah.

[MysticWarrior]

If someone punched me, I would also remember his or her face.

[Nick Presta]

nubs

[Andross]

Normal guys don't punch girls for attention...trust me...those are the assholes you stay away from - or else.

[Someone Else]

nick1presta, on Oct 15 2005, 08:54 PM, said:

nubs

Enlightening.

[Echo_djinn]

He has a way with words. :D

[Lightning Star]

after reading the past 5 pages that I missed, I have a few comments and a story! le gasp-o!

kay, well one, I'm lightNINGSTAR. not lightsaber. -.q

<begin granny mode>
now for a story! and no little kiddies, you can't sit on grandmas lap. that would just be weird. :D

yer-ahem. okay. well, there once was a young girl. and then there was a young man. well, the girl was a nice young lass with her head on her shoulders and the boy...well, he was, simply put, a pervert. (well I dunno the granny term for that!) one day, the young girl and the young lad decided to get "jiggy with it", as kate stated earlier (nice one, btw ;)). well, then the girl felt horrible about herself. she couldn't believe the descision she made. now, I'll let you know, she was very young. and then the nerve of that young man! about two weeks later, he left her because things were going "slow".

see, that my dear children, is why you don't get "jiggy with it" till you're married.

</end granny mode> ew...now I smell like dust and mothballs.

wow, I make people think so much that they don't want to reply. XD I'm just that good. or that old-fashoined. either way is cool

[Nick Presta]

gosh. if only i could talk to you all real time; theres so much I wish to bestow upon yee.

[pHantOm]

LOL there lightning star.....


Well, me and my gf talked and we are going to break up soon. But it is by choice on both of us and not because of anything we did wrong. We are both seniors in high school, and we got accepted into different colleges, I am going to PennState and she is going to Michigan State. And as we all know long distance never works out. So, basically we are going to continue being with eachother until about May then thats when we seperate. It really sucks, but its better that we thought ahead about it then have to deal with these things as they happen.

=/

[Luna]

^I wish my sister had done that. Her boyfriend was staying here but, she was going to study in the U.S. And the guy had no idea that they'd break up. To her, it was like an "unspoken rule".

The guy had to spend like 5 months with a psychologist >_>;.

[Yuki]

lightningstar, on Oct 15 2005, 07:36 PM, said:

see, that my dear children, is why you don't get "jiggy with it" till you're married.

o__o...
LOL

so true so true :3

[Linear]

.-. I feel so young now.

[Lightning Star]

pHantOm, on Oct 16 2005, 08:31 AM, said:

LOL there lightning star.....
Well, me and my gf talked and we are going to break up soon. But it is by choice on both of us and not because of anything we did wrong. We are both seniors in high school, and we got accepted into different colleges, I am going to PennState and she is going to Michigan State. And as we all know long distance never works out. So, basically we are going to continue being with eachother until about May then thats when we seperate. It really sucks, but its better that we thought ahead about it then have to deal with these things as they happen.

=/

I shall poke you horribly for that one >>....

let the poking begin!

*poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke*

now, I hope you learned your lesson >.o!

[Yuki]

i^i! So violent Miss Icy-ness...

[Mars Djinni]

nick1presta, on Oct 16 2005, 06:01 AM, said:

gosh. if only i could talk to you all real time; theres so much I wish to bestow upon yee thee.

Corrected. n.n;

Linear, on Oct 16 2005, 09:53 AM, said:

.-. I feel so young now.

What are you talkin' about, you're not old. o.o;

[Yuki]

o.o Yeah Lin is pretty old. WRINNKKLLLEEESSSS on her face o.o j/k

[Nick Presta]

you can get giggy at any time.

there are precautions to take that work well and assuming you don't do it too often, you should be fine.

[Elliott]

Damn right. Though there is the moral dilema for some people.

[MysticWarrior]

School makes it seems like sex is a mortal sin or something >_O Not that intercourse is a good thing, mind you, but when I see people shunning it like it was an abomination... Meh.

[Luna]

Touching someone of the opposite sex will make you get pregnant <_<;

Even BOYS.

:ooo

[Elliott]

MysticWarrior, on Oct 17 2005, 02:07 PM, said:

School makes it seems like sex is a mortal sin or something

As long as there is a condom/contraception involved, nobody gets hurt :D

[Ravenblade]

^not always true...

[Elliott]

Ravenblade, on Oct 17 2005, 03:39 PM, said:

^not always true...

Way to back yourself up with reason there. In case you didn't realise, 3 dots don't always convey your meaning.

[Ravenblade]

Ok, for those of us who didnt go to sex ed class, condoms break sometimes. There is no 100% guarantee contraceptive (unless you're one of those people who class abortion as one)

[pHantOm]

Ravenblade, on Oct 17 2005, 12:46 AM, said:

(unless you're one of those people who class abortion as one)

uh oh.....I think we should stay clear of discussion on abortion...this will turn into a religion issue etc.


Light...owe...poking hurts!

[kate]

actually, abortion doesn't have entirely to do with religion. I hated abortion loooong before I became christian. But you're right, different topic. and yah, even if the condom doesn't break, it has only 99% chance of working. You may think that's a small chance, but tell that to the 1% that get pregnant. IUD's are the way to go my friends. they stick this metal thing in the girl, and it irritates their insides so that the body views it as a hostile environment for a child. fool proof, even to the most talented of fools.

And agatio, the meaning of life can be summed up in three dots. they are a miracle of this world and should treated with the respect they deserve, or else..."dot dot dot" :D

[Eugine]

Agatio, you're getting really annoying these days, but whatever.

Comdoms don't always work. Everyone knows that! (Or everyone should know that).

Also, the pills women take can sometimes cause side effects. So yeah, the best thing is to abstain from sex.

[Nick Presta]

Nothing is 100% effective.

However, they are more-than-likely going to work. The 99% is there for insurance because if something goes wrong, you can sue the company.

Also, you need to know how to wear a condom properly (and it depends on where or not you're curcumsized).

[Echo_djinn]

Yet, people state that using a condom reduces.....the fun....and so they tend not to use them. Though industries they to improve on the make of the condoms they usually just wear it out so thin that it break quite easily.

[Ravenblade]

You can always wear more than one. I know some guys who wear 4.

They are really thin though so tearing is a possibility. You can always try timing having sex with a girls menstrual cycle as i think just before they go through their period (or just after, i cant remember) they cannot get pregnant.

[Elliott]

Eugine, on Oct 18 2005, 05:50 AM, said:

Agatio, you're getting really annoying these days, but whatever.

Dude, you of all people should know a PM is where something like that belongs, not on the forum.

[Eugine]

I don't know how true this is but I heard that the more condoms you wear the weaker they become sine upon friction they loose their durabilty you know, two rubbers coming together isn't that good.

[Ravenblade]

I didnt know that Eugine o.o; There cant be much friction between them though can there?

Still though, i cant say that I've researched that.

[Someone Else]

Yeah... friction...

By the way, most animals (likes dogs) have sex in public. What do you think of that?! XB

[Elliott]

I'd do it doggy style in public, wouldn't you?

[Someone Else]

Depends on how liberal people would think of me as.

[pHantOm]

I wouldnt personally, sex isnt ment to be like that. Although, it would be funny XD

[Echo_djinn]

You people are disturbing.....I mean in public?!?! That's going to far. Infront of friends...meh.

[Eugine]

All of those are really disturbing. Nothing a normal person will do IMO.

[Echo_djinn]

Normal person huh? The fact is I bet none of us are anywhere near normal.

[Someone Else]

I'm just an innocent Student Ambassador...

>.>;;

<.<;;

[kate]

>.< in front of your friends?? that's disturbing. In fact, I'd rather do it in public then in front of my friends. But this entire subject is wrong on a whole new level. congrats :silence:

[Eugine]

This topic is now officially a kate's topic :silence:

[Golden Djinn13]

You people go off-topic to quick, start talking about the main topic!!!

[Eugine]

*WHIPS GD13!!!*

I hope you're not fetish for whips...

*RUNS!*

[Golden Djinn13]

Eugine, on Oct 18 2005, 07:34 PM, said:

*WHIPS GD13!!!*

I hope you're not fetish for whips...

*RUNS!*

:silence: :P I can't believe you just said that... You never cease to amaze...

[Someone Else]

Omg...

XD!!

[Nick Presta]

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You can always wear more than one. I know some guys who wear 4.

INSTA-MORONS

By wearing more than one, the condoms rub against each other which cause tearing.

[Lightning Star]

*bashes head against the wall* kay, since when did having a bf/gf have to do with sex?

...

oh wait, this is the "world" I'm talking to. having a bf/gf is all about having sex. e.e sorry, its just so annoying. I mean, what happened to the fairy tale cinderella view of love? so innocent and stuff? oh wait, then this little evolutionist dude came in and told us we're all a bunch of animals so we can do whateve we want, right?!

*inhale*....*exhale*...*inhale*...*exhale*

sorry, ever since my teacher made us research evolution it's been getting on my last nerve of how this... y'know what, I'll shut up before I start to offend everyone here.

[Echo_djinn]

*Takes out his whip*

To late for that B****. J/k. Don't kill me!!!*RUNS*

[Someone Else]

lightningstar, on Oct 18 2005, 07:55 PM, said:

I mean, what happened to the fairy tale cinderella view of love? so innocent and stuff?

That never happened... you do know that you sound a little... crazy right now, right?

And since when was sex dirty? Maybe it is in the view of the mass majority, but I'm just telling it like it is and telling it the way it should be. :silence: Okay, I was a hypocrite there... blah

[Lightning Star]

'course I sound crazy. I mean, why would ANYONE think of doing something that would save them pain/heartache/suffering etc.? I mean, its just so stupid, right?

and from this discussion, I don't see any hint of sex NOT being dirty.

Now, I'm not saying that anyone who has sex before they're married is some kind of freak of nature that should be burned at the stake. I'm just saying, I really wish people would take this view into considiration. It would only be to their benifit.

[kate]

*benefit...gosh I've missed doing that :silence: *dies laughing* okay I'm done. and I have noooo idea why this was made my topic, but since it was deemed so, no arguing. Let's all hold hands instead and sing. Tra lalala

EDIT: crud, I forgot to actually say something about the topic. ummm...uhh, exactly what do you think cinderella and prince charming did right after the screen said "and they lived happily ever after"? it was not crochet, I can tell you that. Cuz crocheting is damn boring :P

[Nick Presta]

Bah, forgive my rudeness but I phail to see why discussion of sex and whatnot takes place on messageboards, especially ones where the members are quite young.

99% of the members on this board haven't had sex or even got into (a) girls pants. Educate yourselfs; google, wikipedia and your doctor is a good place to start because the forums aren't. Double, triple, etc wrapping condoms is dangerous and leads to tearing which is _bad_. There is also a certain schedule you can follow to decrease your risk of pregnancy and whatnot but you don't need to know about that yet =P

Anyways, if you haven't had sexual intercourse you can't possible imagine how it feels for both people involved both physically and emotionally and the aftermath of it.

This post was brought to you by the letter A; Awesome!

EDIT: Girls/Guys pants. Sorry to those girls. >_>

[pHantOm]

^^^
110% Agree

Whoever said they wore 4 condoms was a complete retard...:silence: wow im blown away by the stupity.

-Now correct me if im wrong, but its the week before to her period that sex will not result in a baby correct? Because of the egg being discharged etc.[/health lesson]

Anyways, Its true that gf/bf doesnt lead to sex all the time. And in most cases, it doesnt, trust me. If I have or I havent is no ones concern and thats the point made. In my opinion, what happens between me and my gf in the bedroom stays there. The amount of young members in this forum leads me to believe most of you are lying because you feel you have to and its embarrasing not to have had sex/or a gf, bf or whatever you like. O_O Ill conclude this post by saying, when dating, sex doesnt occur until atleast 9+ months with the girl/guy. Atleast thats how its been for me.

[Elliott]

It's refreshing to see some posts with sense in this thread (Phantom and Nick).

Yes just because someone is dating someone, doesn't mean they are necessarily having sex. I know couples that have been together 2 and 3 years and haven't had sex. It all depends on the couple.

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I phail to see why discussion of sex and whatnot takes place on messageboards, especially ones where the members are quite young.

True dat. One a board where the members are ranged on average between 12 and 16, any discussion on sexual relations will have a lot of people bull****ing other people. Let's get real here people.

[Eugine]

*Get's real*

I'm a virgin!!!

Single Sexy and FREE!

[Andross]

If you're embarassed about not having had sex and you're, oh say, 'round my age, you need a reality check. If you think because you've had sex you're cool and are, oh say, 'round my age, you need a reality check. There should be no shame and no flaunting - it's immature and either shows 1. You haven't come to terms with your sexuality, or 2. You are irresponsible and just begging for something bad to happen.

[Nick Presta]

Also, in response to Phantom's post, if you have sexual intercourse with a female 1 week or even a couple days before her period, she can still get pregnant although it's increidbly unlikely.

The human body has it's way of doing strange things when you least expect it.

[Luna]

nick's, Phantom's and Agatio's posts basically summed up why I was (and still am) laughing at this topic XD It's hilarious.

[Linear]

._.
Oh so do go on~ x)

[pHantOm]

The girls in this topic must be shaking thier heads in true disbelief at male stupidity.

[Kwesi]

wow 24 pages i started the hottest topic in the universe. FInally the weekend is here time for me to think about a certain someone.

[Lightning Star]

I just find it funny how guys minds work. I mean, I go to a christian school, yet I know 99% of them admit that they're perves or had lusted after a girl. with the other 1%, the subject hasn't come up yet :silence:

[Echo_djinn]

If you are in the early stages of puberty then the topic of sex should be understood as soon as possible IMO. If you don't learn it now you will regret it later.

Though, this is not the aproppriate place to speak about it.

[Back on topic]
Has anyone here ever cheated on their girl/boyfriend? Come on, you can tell me. :silence:

[MysticWarrior]

lightningstar, on Oct 21 2005, 04:21 PM, said:

I just find it funny how guys minds work. I mean, I go to a christian school, yet I know 99% of them admit that they're perves or had lusted after a girl. with the other 1%, the subject hasn't come up yet :silence:

I don't remember who I got this from, it might even be from this topic. But every guy is perverted. If not, there is something wrong with his sexuality =P

[Elliott]

MysticWarrior, on Oct 22 2005, 12:54 PM, said:

I don't remember who I got this from, it might even be from this topic. But every guy is perverted. If not, there is something wrong with his sexuality =P

I think it because males are 10 times more aroused by images/physicals than women. Something along those lines, I heard it a while back. That's why guys look at porn more than girls, and guys check out girls more than girls check out guys.

As for cheating, that is the lowest thing anyone could ever do in my opinion. If you haven't got the common decency to stay faithful/true to your boy/girlfriend, then you don't deserve to have one in the first place.

[Echo_djinn]

Yet, so many people cheat on there partners. Makes you wonder what happened to the word "commitment".

[Nick Presta]

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Has anyone here ever cheated on their girl/boyfriend? Come on, you can tell me.

I cheated on my girlfriend about 5 years ago; if you can even call it a "relationship". I was in Grade 7 and made out with this one particular girl and at this jam one night, I made out with another girl. Bwahaha, as if that counts as cheating.

Anyways, I've been faithful to my girlfriend for almost 2 years now (the length of our relationship), so go me!

[I'm Always BROKE]

MysticWarrior, on Oct 22 2005, 03:54 AM, said:

But every guy is perverted. If not, there is something wrong with his sexuality =P

How much I do agree with this. :silence:

[Yuki]

Boys have cooties. And boys make hearts breaks </3

[MysticWarrior]

Haha, save it for a more sexist thread, Yuki. =P

Anywho, Agatio, I once saw some show in Animal Planet (Top 10 xxxx's), and it was focused on reproduction. They stated that instincts/hormones in men makes them more eager to spread their genes as widely as they can =P

[Wiflewood]

One of my friends told me that she was reading one of those girl magazines, and they have a 'help page' don't they? She said one girl (age 15) had written in saying "All the other people in my class have had sex. Is their something wrong with me?"

I mean, some of her friends are obviously bulls***ing, but still...

[Ravenblade]

Honest to God, it depends on the circles you're in. Yeah, some social groups get in there really early - equally though, there are those that dont. I often heard about people of about 14 having sex at my school but it was obvious that it was just part of the social culture they were in. It didnt tend to bother those who hadnt.

I think one of the weirdest things about sex is that it's both a big deal and not a big deal at the same time =/

[pHantOm]

Sex at age 14?

Give me a break, the guy hardly has ever done it by himself at that age much less a girl involved.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Not true Phantom. I know hell alot of 14 year olds with lots of porn and **** on thier computer. And I remember when I was 14 past year... :silence:

[Ravenblade]

He's right^

I mean, the youngest parents in the world were 8 and 9 years old dude.

Britain has scandles involving 12 year olds and we're a developed country!

14 is the age of consent in Spain :silence:

As i said, it depends on the circles you live in

[I'm Always BROKE]

Yeah and around my circels almost everybody loosed their virginity already... Even my own cousin had sex when she was 13...

[Yuki]

Hey, boys DO have cooties x.x

Like Ravenblade

=P


o.o annnnd
Yeah in the magazines they do have those 'Help' sections. I always read them and laugh at the people talking about how they think there's something terribly wrong with their development if they aren't always horny or lusting. Typical teens -.- ...xDDD

[Lightning Star]

sometimes its a blessing if they don't have that problem @.@

[Luna]

The average age in which people have sex in CR. is 14-16 x.X; I know one of my friends has had it and she was... 13 or 14.

They say 70% of the people who graduate from my school are not virgins : D; We just never talk about it much.

The truth: We make fun of the U.S. for having so much trouble with sex at this age. And getting pregnant and stuff.
(Don't take it against me just for telling you how things work here.)

We do have trouble with rape though. We get raped a lot. Yep :silence:

[Neon]

Have sex whenever you feel like it, its your life.

[Elliott]

Neon, on Oct 23 2005, 03:34 PM, said:

Have sex whenever you feel like it, its your life.

I can't believe you would say that. But I 100% agree.
If you want to do it, then do it. Of course bear in mind the consequences of not using a condom. But if you and the girl feel the same, and want to do it, then when it comes down to it, it's your choice. Not your friends, not your parents, nobodies but yours.

[Neon]

Matt actually told me to say it, lol, but I thought it was worth saying since I also agree.

It's diffiuclt to say when someone should. Two yr9s were expelled for having sex in the toilets (wtf), and we all agreed that it was wrong because they're so young.
But when I was that age I probably would have seen nothing wrong with it.
It's all about maturity. You think you're mature now, but you grow up, look back, and you weren't mature at all.
But that's a different topic :P.

To my knowledge, my group are all virgins, lol, so maybe our opinions were a bit biased :silence:.

[pHantOm]

Neon, on Oct 23 2005, 12:34 AM, said:

Have sex whenever you feel like it, its your life.

Agreed to an extent

Dont do stupid things that could hurt you, such as hire a $5 hoe and have sex with her, but this is starting to stray away from boyfriend/girlfriend into, "sex, is it right or wrong." But I guess the best topics are the ones that evolve and change. :silence:

[I'm Always BROKE]

Yeah I wouldn't like to loose my virginity to some hoe... I prefer a girl around my age and unexperienced aswell.

[Someone Else]

No @%#$ing duh the forums are a bad place to start talking about sex. But for some reason... it started tilting that way.

*GLARES AT ED!!!* >.O;;;

The girls call me Danny at school when I usually go by Daniel, does it mean anything? Just trying to get a new subject.

[Eugine]

It means she want to have sex with you :silence: .... She's checking you out.

*PIMP WD!!!* *GO PIMP!!!*

[Someone Else]

:silence:

...

*cracks up*

Thank you, Eugine, thank you... great job on your help. :P

[I'm Always BROKE]

Yeah it could mean that they wanna have sex with you.

...

Or they just want your money...

[Luna]

e.e; It's the same thing as when I call Lifeform, "Lifey". Or when nick calls Andross, "Andy". Durr.

[Mars Djinni]

It just means the person's too lazy to say the rest of your name. Type, in Sheba's case. >>;

[l3lueMage]

so your saying...nevermind I shouldnt say it D:

We always called eachother that stuff at school, people would call me Matty, and like people would always add a y at the end or ey...on peoples names..

[Yuki]

o.o . . .so then why do they call me Elle at school?!

[l3lueMage]

Because thats your middle name? D:

[Andross]

Sheba, on Oct 23 2005, 05:13 PM, said:

e.e; It's the same thing as when I call Lifeform, "Lifey". Or when nick calls Andross, "Andy". Durr.

Precisely. Ironic too since my name is Andrew (and I'm unsure of if nick knew that before or after he said that; others included :wacko: )

It's actually just a natural reflex of the brain, to shorten up syllables in a name
Dan-e-yel
Dan-e

Or something to that extent =)

[Yuki]

o.o...SO?! They could call me by my real name >.>

[Lightning Star]

i dunno, its some cool thing to pronounce your friends names wrong at my school. so this girl, Gina, has it pronounced "gin-uh". but its funny...'cause theres another way you can pronounce it that cracks me up. especially 'cause she's a stuck up prep.

[Eugine]

For example, there's this boy in my school whose name is "Stevelynson" the name is so long, we have to call him Stevie.

[Luna]

....

Ok then, we're different.

People here shorten names so that it's more "aww". Or so. I dunno how to explain. But, in most cases, we don't do it cause the name is long.

[Mars Djinni]

Sheba, on Oct 23 2005, 05:12 PM, said:

....

Ok then, we're different.

People here shorten names so that it's more "aww". Or so. I dunno how to explain. But, in most cases, we don't do it cause the name is long.

It's also a matter if you can pronouce the name or not. I mean, it's a lot easier to say "Raf" or "Raffy" than to take a shot at "Rafael". Some people can't spell nor pronounce it. @.@

[Elliott]

Wind Dude, on Oct 24 2005, 04:02 AM, said:

The girls call me Danny at school when I usually go by Daniel, does it mean anything? Just trying to get a new subject.

Yes. Because females abbreviate your name, it means they love you and want to have sex with you.

:wacko:

Now, if every girl who abbreviated my name wanted to have sex with me, do you think I would have time to come here?

[Golden Djinn13]

Sheba, on Oct 23 2005, 09:12 PM, said:

....

Ok then, we're different.

People here shorten names so that it's more "aww". Or so. I dunno how to explain. But, in most cases, we don't do it cause the name is long.

Then your new nickname is... Sheba

[Yuki]

Having a boyfriend can be so depressing...>.o cuz like i said earlier, BOYS MAKE HEARTS BREAK </3

[Elliott]

Love_Guardian_Yuki, on Oct 24 2005, 02:01 PM, said:

Having a boyfriend can be so depressing...>.o cuz like i said earlier, BOYS MAKE HEARTS BREAK </3

Yeah because girls are never the ones who cause hurt, are they?

[Yuki]

Never said that! We do cause hurt! ._. sorry Agatio...

[Elliott]

Love_Guardian_Yuki, on Oct 24 2005, 02:18 PM, said:

Never said that! We do cause hurt! ._. sorry Agatio...

No need to apoligise. I just hate it when females get the idea into their heads that it's always the males fault.

[Yuki]

Yeah, well I'm still sorry. Btw, how do you shorten 'Elliot'? ._.

[l3lueMage]

Elliot = Elly D: Or, Eli

[Luna]

Elly :o

@GoldenDjinn: People usually shorten Sheba to Sheb. Or change it to Shebs, Sheebles. Whatever. Just to make it sound more cute or something.

@Boys make hearts break: Everyone can make a heart "break". If you're in a relationship then that means you will accept the fact that it might all go BOOM :3. I'm such a hypocrite XD