[Somia]

I agree with WD there. n.n''
If you really like her, do something about it.

[pHantOm]

95% of girls only care about how big your wang is, how good you are in bed, how much money you have and how it will raise her status in the world. AKA dating someone more famous/popular.

true fact.

Girls are wh0res, sadly.

[Toasty]

Not 95%, though. 85, or even 75, but not 95. That's just too high.

Wind Dude, on Aug 9 2006, 11:01 AM, said:

Just need to get that self-confidence. It doesn't come naturally; you have to work at it.

Oh yeah, and one thing I find amusing is that when I was a little kid, girls always called me ugly. Now that I'm older it's the opposite. Now, I don't have a problem with being called "attractive" (ah-hem) it's just that, being called ugly as a little kid REEEAALLY HURT MY SELF-ESTEEM. >___< I always wonder what kind of person I could be now if I had been more confident as a little kid.

A lot of people call me a nerd, or stupid. First off, go take a look at me in the member gallery. Does that look nerdy to you? And secondly, I learn quick, and always score high, if not the highest, on tests. Personally, I think they're jealouse. :P

[pHantOm]

OK 85% sounds more reasonable, but its a very large percentage.

Girls are just as sex crazed as guys.

[Mindpatch]

Golden Legacy, on Aug 11 2006, 04:28 AM, said:

... Hmm, good points you all brought up.

Then the issue arises of how I was rasied. I mean, when I'll start considering girls is only when I'm ready to make the commitment (i.e. engagement/marriage). I know it sounds weird, but that's just how it is in my culture.

etc. etc....

If you really really like this girl, you shouldn't let the way you were raised stand in your way.

[Someone Else]

pHantOm, on Aug 11 2006, 03:44 AM, said:

Girls are just as sex crazed as guys.

Kudos for having the guts to up and say it.

[Aquamarine]

Well... I'm not sure if they're as sex crazed as guys, but what you said about money and their status in totaly true pHantOm. And also to get a girl like that you would need a good car and cell-phone. Yep.

GL, if you don't try and get the girl you like now, you'll have a much harder time doing so in the future. If you were to be with this girl now it probably wouldn't be for life, I admit it, but you could be with her for months, or even years and have loads of fun and learn many new things. Play against the rules a bit.

[Joshua Johnson]

One girl in particular I've had my eyes set on, probably for about a year and a half. I've asked her out, yeah, but I was turned down (last time I asked her out was a year ago...) and since then she's had multiple bofyfriends... Though I think she's single, now. I really like her, though. She's smart, hawt, sexi, kind, gentle, and everything else I could ever want in a girl.

[Sea of Time]

Well, it's good you had the guts to ask her. Good luck in the future, JJ.

[Joshua Johnson]

Yeah, she's the third girl I've ever asked... I've had 4 gfs since then, though...

[Somia]

Ahem... no wonder.

[pHantOm]

Joshua Johnson, on Aug 11 2006, 01:39 PM, said:

One girl in particular I've had my eyes set on, probably for about a year and a half. I've asked her out, yeah, but I was turned down (last time I asked her out was a year ago...) and since then she's had multiple bofyfriends... Though I think she's single, now. I really like her, though. She's smart, hawt, sexi, kind, gentle, and everything else I could ever want in a girl.

In 365 days you've had 4 girlfriends, which means your average relationship lasts 91.25 days, which is about 3 months.


Thats just pathetic.

[Aquamarine]

Well, he may be one of those "I'm going to enjoy life while I'm still under 18 years old" guys. Maybe he just wants a bit of fun and will leave the long-term relationships for later years. That's not too bad. I guess.

[Golden Legacy]

I'm rather the opposite. If I get into a relationship, it will be intended to last, and certainly not until I'm in college.

[Sea of Time]

Same here. I fear to be the person to just let girls go (or be the one who gets dumped) 4 times in one year.

[Joshua Johnson]

Dudes, it's been 1.5 years. And most of them were because we noticed we had differences we hadn't known about before.

[Golden Legacy]

Aquamarine, on Aug 11 2006, 02:37 PM, said:

GL, if you don't try and get the girl you like now, you'll have a much harder time doing so in the future. If you were to be with this girl now it probably wouldn't be for life, I admit it, but you could be with her for months, or even years and have loads of fun and learn many new things. Play against the rules a bit.

Yes, I'm aware. It is considerably different in my situation, where it has to be the commitment, if I were to be in a relationship. And furthermore, it's not entirely just based on the girl and myself; both families have to meet, and all that, and be willing to go on from there.

A conservative culture/belief I was raised around, certainly, but I personally do think it works well, and I don't mind it, if slightly strict.

[Sea of Time]

You seem like a nice guy, I'm sure you'll find someone. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[Toasty]

Who ever you decide on, they'll be lucky, I can tell you that. :)

[Aquamarine]

Maybe your and her families don't have to know about it... :)

[Someone Else]

Secret, "forbidden" relationships are exciting!

The action... the drama! Don't you watch those corny romance movies, GL?! :)

[Toasty]

Or the corny soap opera's. :rolleyes:

[Golden Legacy]

... What would I do if it weren't for you guys? :rolleyes:

[Toasty]

Well, for starters, you probably wouldn't get your daily "laugh until milk squirts out of your nose." :rolleyes:

[Lemontime]

I like corn..

I'm going out with my lady friend soon.. Should be good? (^^)
What to do to get a girl to kiss me?
Sounds stupid, but hey!

[pHantOm]

Go 90%

Make her go the other 10% :P

Say nice things about her and be smart...dont be a village idiot. :rolleyes:

[Aquamarine]

Be yourself mostly, but also be funny and smart and also brave, everything you're not. :rolleyes: Just joking.

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Well, for starters, you probably wouldn't get your daily "laugh until milk squirts out of your nose."

Dude... We're not that funny.

[Someone Else]

pHantOm, on Aug 15 2006, 09:47 AM, said:

Go 90%

Make her go the other 10% :P

Say nice things about her and be smart...dont be a village idiot. :rolleyes:

I saw that on the movie Hitch!

[Mindpatch]

@sibsag.
tie her on a chair and force her. ><
Just go with the moment. I'm sure it'll happen if you both want it to.

[Sea of Time]

^

I feel the same way. Just don't force anything.

[Bexie]

I'm worried.

I went out with my friends Kim and Charmaine today.

And Kim said "Got a boyfriend yet?"
And when I said no, she said "Don't worry, I'll set you up with someone." And I think she was serious.
I'm bloody worried now. xD


(This is off topic but OMFG. Charmaine had a baby at the end of June and he is SO EFFING CUTE I COULD DIE. He's one of those babies with the really huge eyes and they're so frickin' blue it's freaky. xD *does the "YAY CUTE!" dance* ... Okay off-topicness done. xD)

[Nick Presta]

My girlfriend and I celebrated our 2.5 year anniversary on Sunday.

[Lemontime]

Congratulations Nick. Con. Grat. U. Lations.

I could probably have celebrated the four year anniversary of wanting to go out with my girlfriend in january this year.

[Aquamarine]

Bexie, if you want to meet a nice guy and be with him, then trust your friend and go out with him. Or if you're afraid of pedophiles(sp?), then don't. Easy as that. ^_^

[Bexie]

Aquamarine, on Aug 16 2006, 04:31 PM, said:

Bexie, if you want to meet a nice guy and be with him, then trust your friend and go out with him. Or if you're afraid of pedophiles(sp?), then don't. Easy as that. ^_^

That's just the thing. I don't.
Not to mention someone who I don't even know.

[Joshua Johnson]

Ouch. Call her and say no... Blind Date, anyone?

[Golden Legacy]

See, that's the thing I've never understood... randomly being set-up with someone, and dating? That suddenly? Surely there should be some degree of familiarity?

[Toasty]

I guess some people like surprises, or are desperate enough to do it. No offense intended Bexie. ^_^

[Mindpatch]

Dating doesn't mean you have to be in love or anything GL..
It's just you and another person going out together..
Most blind dates just end up in nothing or a friendship which is very nice too.

[Bexie]

Joshua Johnson, on Aug 16 2006, 11:35 PM, said:

Ouch. Call her and say no... Blind Date, anyone?

I want to say no, but I'm one of those people who just can't. ^^;; I try and all that comes out is "Nnnn... Nnnn... narrrh... okay?"

I HATE MYSELF FOR THAT!!! *cries and stabs self*

... I just hope she forgets. >.< I dun wanna go on a date with someone I've never seen before. I've never even been on a date before at all, and I'm quite happy that way. xD

[Aquamarine]

What is so hard about saying "NO!"? I say no all the time.

Some guy: Wanna jump off a bridge with me?
Me: No.

Another guy: Wanna eat a pile of dog ****?
Me: No.

Yet another guy: Wanna free Ferrari?
Me: No.





I mean YES!

[pHantOm]

Dating is a process you have to go through to find what you are looking for in a permenant mate.

[Elliott]

I can't be ****ed with females (at least at this stage of my life).
I'm far too selfish to want to spend time and money are person who will always be one of those "I LUV HOUSE MUSIC! I LUV DRINKIN AND DANCING! I LOVE BIG BROTHER".
I hate those inferior slags, and would not be interested in spending a long amount of time, and a lot of money on something that I would only benefit from every now and again when she decides to go down on me.
Death to relationships, long live one-night stands.
Plus I never want to end up like my dad (trapped in a dead-end job with an ugly wife) or any of my other mates who are almost joined at the hip with their girlfriends.
I'd rather spend money, time and effort on myself rather than some slag who is only going to appreciate me when I give her flowers or chocolates.

[Aquamarine]

... What a lovely life you must have.

[Bexie]

Agatio, on Aug 18 2006, 07:27 AM, said:

I can't be ****ed with females (at least at this stage of my life).
I'm far too selfish to want to spend time and money are person who will always be one of those "I LUV HOUSE MUSIC! I LUV DRINKIN AND DANCING! I LOVE BIG BROTHER".
I hate those inferior slags, and would not be interested in spending a long amount of time, and a lot of money on something that I would only benefit from every now and again when she decides to go down on me.
Death to relationships, long live one-night stands.
Plus I never want to end up like my dad (trapped in a dead-end job with an ugly wife) or any of my other mates who are almost joined at the hip with their girlfriends.
I'd rather spend money, time and effort on myself rather than some slag who is only going to appreciate me when I give her flowers or chocolates.

I don't get why most girls seem to like flowers and having money spent on them and shiz.
If a guy gave me flowers, I'd stuff them down his bloody throat. >.< xD

[Someone Else]

I don't think that's helping Agatio in his Scrooge-hood, Somia.

[Golden Legacy]

What's wrong with flowers? I mean, yes I know it's overdone, and it might be very cliched, but that just shows respect and care from the guy, so why not?

[Bexie]

They suck. Because they're corny, clichéd, overdone, and just make me want to puke. Seriously.
Once my friend's boyfriend gave her flowers and she was all giddy, so I was acting all "Yeah, that's great". Soon as she left, I mimed vomiting to my other friends.

But that might be just me. I hate all that mushy rmantic crap. People say that's why no guy has ever wanted to date me. *shrug* I'd have thought guys would appreciate someone who hates having money spent on them, probably wouldn't give a damn about anniversaries (I can't be certain on that, but when I think about anniversaries I think *VOMIT*), and hates all that damn crap. Apparantly not.

Bah. xD lol.

[Aquamarine]

Well you're, like, supposed to be the Metal type, huh? That's what you said at least. Of course you wouldn't like flowers then!

[Bexie]

Yes, I'm a metalhead. Or goth, as some people seem to think. *shrug*

But so are all my friends. Some even more so than me. And they go all sodding giddy over a bunch of plants that died two days later. -_-;;; I just don't see the bloody point.

[Golden Legacy]

It's symbolism. A flower is a gesture of love and care.

Not that I would know, but anyway.

[Somia]

Wind Dude, on Aug 18 2006, 02:08 PM, said:

I don't think that's helping Agatio in his Scrooge-hood, Somia.

...Somia? Why is my name there? >.>'' (Or do you just like to stick my name in random posts?)

Flowers are... not used often anymore I suppose, they have their own meanings, red - love, white - get well soon ect. But hey, people have their own preferences. Don't stereotype on those things.

[Sea of Time]

I don't know about flowers, they seem so cliche. I don't know if it's really something I would present at 15 years old. Maybe later in life when flowers mean more.

[Isaac13]

HA! I was kidding! GO AWAY.

[Aquamarine]

Er... You were kidding about what?

I think a box of chocolates is better than flowers, though that's cliche too.

[Lemontime]

I couldn't bare (sp?) walking into a flower shop... So many people to see me looking at damn FLOWERS! Maybe a phone order? Let's me just sit at home and she'll like me all the more for a couple of bucks I spent. Aaaah.. The perfect crime..

[Piers Watermaster]

sibsag, on Aug 20 2006, 05:29 PM, said:

bare (sp?)

Bear.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for 8 years. Everyone acts like that's amazing for some reason.

EDIT: I know you're there, Caael.

[Caael]

Yes, Piers, I am here. Stop stalking me, i'm very scared.

I have friends who are girls, good friends infact. Meh, but everybody is so young and small in our group. 3 of us of our big band of people are hitting puberty, including me. My voice is damn breaking. Its so annoying. But yeah. I've had 2 Gfs, 1 of which lasted for a while, but as i'm young ( hating to admit it) its not taht serious.

[Piers Watermaster]

I'm not stalking you, you're just the only anonymous user, so when I see one, I know it's you.

[Caael]

I'm pretty mature for my age. Which is uncommon for people, although sometimes I do act really immature. Mainly around my friend Carl. We just mess about. He does get annoying, but its funny when he asks year 7s to marry him. He's probably the last person on the planet to get a gf though. As far as I know, hes been single all his life. I'm not saying its a bad thing, he might just be waiting for that somebody.

[Aquamarine]

So what did you have for breakfast Caael?

And Piers, are you really with the same girl for 8 years? :angry: And are you really only 15 years old? :angry:

[Caael]

What are you on about my breakfast?
If you're on about Carl, lets just say hes one card short of a full house

[Aquamarine]

I meant that you've told us about your whole life in your previous post. The only thing you didn't say is what you had for breakfast.

[Caael]

So more unnecceary spam. I was on topic there, not babbling on about breakfast. And it wasnt my whole life. You dont wanna hear about my whole life. It will have more pages than TRT

[Sea of Time]

Did I mention I have a girlfriend? :angry:

[Aquamarine]

Yeah, I think so SoT. :angry: How long have you been together and how often do you see each other?

[Sea of Time]

See how fast I changed the subject to me? I'm good at that.

3 months and once a week, or whenever we see each other at school.

[Aquamarine]

Cool! Is she older/younger than you?

Stop me if I'm getting too detailed with my questions. :angry:

[Sea of Time]

I'm leaving so this is the last one anyways. :angry:

I think she's four months older than me. Something like that.

[Lightning Star]

Bexie, on Aug 18 2006, 06:47 PM, said:

They suck. Because they're corny, clichéd, overdone, and just make me want to puke. Seriously.
Once my friend's boyfriend gave her flowers and she was all giddy, so I was acting all "Yeah, that's great". Soon as she left, I mimed vomiting to my other friends.

But that might be just me. I hate all that mushy rmantic crap. People say that's why no guy has ever wanted to date me. *shrug* I'd have thought guys would appreciate someone who hates having money spent on them, probably wouldn't give a damn about anniversaries (I can't be certain on that, but when I think about anniversaries I think *VOMIT*), and hates all that damn crap. Apparantly not.

Bah. xD lol.

I saw this in my 'lets see what I missed' venture, and I'd like the oprotunity to retaliate. :angry:

would you rather have a guy who just sits on his ass and does nothing to show that he thinks about you during the day? Or would you rather him bust his butt to make gigantic neon flashing lights saying "this girl is cool." and have him walk beside you all day every day, just so he doesn't do something "corny, cliche or over done"?

and about the aniversaries. Y'know, I guess if you have a stupid, f*ed up relationship, then yeah, aniversaries wouldn't be a big deal. But if you're in a long, lasting, and special relationship, it's a good thing to go back and celebrate the laughs and the cries of the past years. And just the solid fact that you're still together (seeing as most relationships last, on average, 8 months.)

sure, the guy doesn't need to spend hundreds of dollars. But a sheer fact that he remembers the day when you two started a partnership, well, isn't it at least a little sweet? I mean, me? Thats all I ask for. No roses, no nadda. I guess I was just in pure shock that a fellow female was act so loveless, I felt the need to question and state my voice.

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I'm leaving so this is the last one anyways.

I think she's four months older than me. Something like that.

cute n.n good for you!

[Sea of Time]

Haha, thanks.

Even though, with your argument, I still find flowers a little cliche. I would rather show my appreciation in different ways.

[Piers Watermaster]

Yes, Aqua. We met and started going out in 2nd grade, so 8 years. ;)

[Aquamarine]

Piers Watermaster, on Sep 11 2006, 02:07 PM, said:

Yes, Aqua. We met and started going out in 2nd grade, so 8 years. :)

;) Wow. If only my relationships lasted that long...

[Sea of Time]

I highly doubt you considered each other girlfriend/boyfriend in second grade.

[Someone Else]

I was best friends with this one girl in 2nd grade, but we weren't dating... I really doubt you started being a bf/gf relationship 2nd grade. MAYBE 4th grade, maybe.

[pHantOm]

My girlfriend loves Roses, like she has perfume that smells like them and everything.

Our 1 year aniversary is comming up on new years day. So im bringing her to Niagara Falls for New Years Eve. I personally like big fireworks and having a good time. The more holidays to celebrate the better. I dont like girls that dont give a **** about anything. Why not make as many things special as possible? Flowers and romantic stuff I find to be awesome to give. Why not eh?

[Piers Watermaster]

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I was best friends with this one girl in 2nd grade, but we weren't dating... I really doubt you started being a bf/gf relationship 2nd grade. MAYBE 4th grade, maybe.

We held hands and kissed and got married in 2nd grade.

[Caael]

Got married? 0_o

* is afraid of piers*

[Piers Watermaster]

*sigh*

Yes we got married, and people threw rocks at us. except the ones who were watching.

[Aquamarine]

Piers Watermaster, on Sep 13 2006, 07:29 PM, said:

*sigh*

Yes we got married, and people threw rocks at us. except the ones who were watching.

So... Did you have that dream last night or the night before?

[Piers Watermaster]

It wasn't a dream. I'll put a pic up soon.

[Someone Else]

Oh sh!t. That's... whoa... LEGALLY married?

[pHantOm]

Piers Watermaster, on Sep 13 2006, 08:12 AM, said:

We held hands and kissed and got married in 2nd grade.

Was it an arranged marriage? And what religion are you?

I take a buddhist class in college, they have a saying...


"we dont marry the woman we love, we love the woman we marry."

Im not buddhist or anything but I do take classes on it cause they are much different.

[Piers Watermaster]

I am Christian, it was not an arranged marriage, and would we still be together if it wasn't a legal thing?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Piers Watermaster, on Sep 14 2006, 02:06 PM, said:

I am Christian, it was not an arranged marriage, and would we still be together if it wasn't a legal thing?

You still have to wait one year for your Hunneymoon though. :D

[Piers Watermaster]

Try 11 years. I was 7.

[Aquamarine]

And how often do you see her and how much time do you spend with each other?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Now dont get TOO curious. :D

And wow marrying when you where 7... But with love age doesn't mather right? :o

[Piers Watermaster]

Right Diddy.

I see her every day and talk to her on the phone every night.

[pHantOm]

Piers Watermaster, on Sep 14 2006, 08:06 AM, said:

I am Christian, it was not an arranged marriage, and would we still be together if it wasn't a legal thing?

What country is this...how is this even possible?

[Sea of Time]

If you had more credibility, Piers, I might might believe you. But what you're suggesting, that you're actually married legally is preposterous.

I think if you want to convince any of us you need to show some sort of legal proof. :D

[Toasty]

Yeah, like a signed document. It's illegal to get married under the age of eighteen in the US, I think. It was probably just something they did for fun when they were little. My little cousin did that when she was 5 or 7.

[Piers Watermaster]

My parents won't give me the document, and they say we'll have to renew our vows when we're 18, but...
I am. Really.

[Kwesi]

This topic is really flourishing I never thought it would be this large. TODAYS MY BIRTHDAY!!!!

Unneeded Offtopictness. - MD

This post has been edited by Mars Djinni: 15 September 2006 - 05:28 PM

[Sea of Time]

Kwesi, seriously, you're lucky you're the first person to think of this topic.

Piers, I still don't believe you but I do dare you to dump her. I would pay to see the divorce papers. :D

[Unicornmaddy]

You know by now Kwesi has either gone off the girl or IS actually going out with her. So it's kinda pointless carring on this topic. Or I could be wrong... anyway you want to go out with this girl?
1. Be nice
2. build confidence.
3. ask her out
4. carry on from there...

[Mindpatch]

@Diddy, I believe it's legal to marry in our country at any age but you have to ask the queen for permission or something like that and she'd never say yes.

[Caael]

Sea_of_Time, on Sep 16 2006, 02:08 AM, said:

I would pay to see the divorce papers. :D

Wouldnt we all. Piers would a helluva rich guy.

[Piers Watermaster]

This topic has changed from girlfriend/boyfriend to is piers really married.

[Caael]

Is that a bad thing?(bad question =P)

[pHantOm]

omg pix of phantom and gf in toronto :)

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v459/EPPhantom/DSC01424.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v459/EPPhantom/DSC01439.jpg

Second pic was of us after swimming X_X

[Aquamarine]

You don't really look wet in the second picture...

[pHantOm]

We dried off

Look at my hair, its gel-less in the second one haha.

[Wiflewood]

I hope it wasn't swimming in the fountain behind you.. There are laws against that y'know :)

Nice pics.

[Sea of Time]

Nice pictures. Did you just get people to take them?

[Caael]

Heh, I do that. I ask people to take a picture, then say dont worry and run off. ( with the camera)

I'm retarded >.<

[Piers Watermaster]

THANK YOU for dragging this thing back on topic.

Nice pics phantom.

[Aquamarine]

Sea_of_Time, on Sep 18 2006, 07:01 PM, said:

Nice pictures. Did you just get people to take them?

No, it was probably a gnome who took the pictures. *sarcastic*

Anyway... Did you have a good time pHantOm? And did you go with only your girlfriend?

[Sea of Time]

If I ask obvious questions, I can create discussion. Don't you appreciate discussion?

[Aquamarine]

I was joking! :) Sorry...

Anyways, how are you and your girlfriend doing SoT?

[Sea of Time]

Pretty good. We have something 'special' planned for my birthday weekend. As for details, I'll never tell! :)

[Aquamarine]

After saying "I'll never tell" you're supposed to have a subliminal message. So where is it? HHHMMMMNNNN!?

In other words, TELL ME OH TELL ME PLEASE!!

[Sea of Time]

A relationship is meant to be personal. Therefore, I cannot say.

[pHantOm]

We had a great time

I went with her and her parents, her dad took the picture. But me and her went to the top of the CN tower alone, no parents allowed haha.

Her parents dont have to go EVERYWHERE with her, her parents were going to Toronto and asked if we wanted to come along. So ofcourse we said yes! :)

[Piers Watermaster]

[uses brainwaves to coerce SoT to tell us all the juicy details]

[Sea of Time]

It hasn't even happened yet! What do you want me to say!

[Somia]

Wow, you came to Toronto?

Seeing I live in toronto, I haven't even been up to the top of the CN Tower yet.. >.>''

And I think SoT has the right to keep that to himself new?

[Piers Watermaster]

[offtopic] Somia, how did you get to Niflheim?

Cut the spam, please. - MD

This post has been edited by Mars Djinni: 21 September 2006 - 05:10 PM

[pHantOm]

Somia, on Sep 19 2006, 06:45 PM, said:

Wow, you came to Toronto?

Seeing I live in toronto, I haven't even been up to the top of the CN Tower yet.. >.>''

And I think SoT has the right to keep that to himself new?

Its expensive to live there, but I want to someday. Im in college right now if I bust my ass I can do it. It would be so amazing, live in a nice appartment.

[Piers Watermaster]

Toronto pwns. This sentence prevents this post being spam.

Far from it. You were off topic and used a sentence just to keep it above 5 words. You just made it worse. - MD

This post has been edited by Mars Djinni: 21 September 2006 - 05:10 PM

[Bexie]

Hey.
I... think I was asked out today. o.O;;;

By my friend.
But I didn't realise that was what he meant. Because I've never been asked out before, so I couldn't tell. All he said was "Want to go see a film with me?"
So I said yes.

And it was only an hour of so afterwards, when my friend Chunk gave me a hug, and used it as an excuse to mutter "Do you like him? Because he REALLY likes you. You should go out with him. He said he was going to ask you." in my ear without the guy who asked me out hearing.

Then I was all "... what?!"

And then Chunk started pointing at us and making a heart shape with his fingers. And my friend who I think asked me out went very red and stared at the floor.
And he kept hugging me.
And kept saying "come sit next to me".
And kissed me on the cheek twice.

And when he found out I've never had a boyfriend before, he said "Well, I have a feeling there might be one coming along soon." and grinned at me.

And now. Now I'm really frikkin' confused. >.< And kinda... freaked out.

And I kinda think he's a moron if he does like me. xD

[Toasty]

Okay, there's this new girl at school, well, she just move here, but she's been here since the beginnign of the school year. Anyway, her and I have become friends. Not GF&BF friends, but just friends. And she looks a LOT like the girl I like. It's really weird. But what bugs me, is that all of my friends, and the people I just know, keep on saying that I like her, and I don't. IT'S SO ANNOYING!!! >.<; The thing is, I think she likes me, but I don't like her. She even asks me if I want to go on wlaks with her and our dogs. I lie her as a friend, but not as a GF. So right now, I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place, just waiting for the ceiling to come down on me. D:

[Sea of Time]

Bexie, your story is surprisingly romantic. I didn't expect that sort of story from you. I hope you and your friend go far.

Mr. T, if you have no chance with the girl you like, you should give your friend a chance. Taking a relationship to the next level, even if you're reluctant, can be one of the best decisions you ever make. If you don't make a choice, you'll just be stuck where you are now.

[pHantOm]

Sea_of_Time, on Sep 21 2006, 07:53 PM, said:

Bexie, your story is surprisingly romantic. I didn't expect that sort of story from you. I hope you and your friend go far.

Mr. T, if you have no chance with the girl you like, you should give your friend a chance. Taking a relationship to the next level, even if you're reluctant, can be one of the best decisions you ever make. If you don't make a choice, you'll just be stuck where you are now.

Exactly what I think

Give this girl a shot if she looks like the girl you are attracted to, that physical attraction is the same. And she is your friend, so you also have chemistry.You might end up regretting it, by falling for her later when she finds someone else.

[Bexie]

Sea_of_Time, on Sep 22 2006, 12:53 AM, said:

Bexie, your story is surprisingly romantic. I didn't expect that sort of story from you. I hope you and your friend go far.

Romantic my arse.

And I've decided that he and I won't be going anywhere. He only broke up with his girlfriend a few days ago, and she's very upset that he seems to have moved on so quickly. She spoke to me today. She said "Can I ask you something without you telling Tortoise? (Tortoise is the guy who asked me out's nickname). Do you like him? Because I was talking to him on MSN, and all he was saying was "Oh, I like Becky, I think she likes me, I'm going to ask her out" and stuff, even when I told him I still loved him."

So I've promised her I'm not going to do anything. She looked very relieved and even hugged me.
She's really nice, and we've only just started to become friends, so I'm not going to wreck it.

[Aquamarine]

Wow, these two stories are really interesting and... weird.
Maybe Tortoise broke up with her because he likes you and wanted to be with you. Who's a better friend, Tortoise or the girl who asked you not to date him? If he's a better friend then go for it, but tell his ex that you WILL go out with him after all. If she is a better friend then don't go out with him, because having good friends is more important than having a BF/GF. Trust me.
As for your story Toasty... I really see no reason why you shouldn't give it a chance. There's nothing really stopping you, is there? But do NOT make the first move unless you're absolutely positively sure she likes you. If you try something and it turns out that she only wanted to be good friends with you, then you won't even be good friends anymore.

[Bexie]

Aquamarine, on Sep 22 2006, 06:00 PM, said:

Wow, these two stories are really interesting and... weird.
Maybe Tortoise broke up with her because he likes you and wanted to be with you. Who's a better friend, Tortoise or the girl who asked you not to date him? If he's a better friend then go for it, but tell his ex that you WILL go out with him after all. If she is a better friend then don't go out with him, because having good friends is more important than having a BF/GF. Trust me.

If he did, he's nuts. He's only known me two weeks.

And I can't. Because I'm worried that she'll hate me. And I don't like being hated.

EDIT: ... and now I think we are going out. I'm confused.

[Sea of Time]

I would get answers, before he thinks you actually like him.

This story is confusing, but that's the only advice I can give.

[Bexie]

I do like him.

Too late now anyway. Hesnowmyboyfriend*goesred*

Besides, he told me that his ex dumped him, so now I can't see why she got all weird on me.

[Sea of Time]

Well....let the fun begin. XD

I met like five of my girlfriend's friends yesterday after school. We didn't do much interesting stuff though.....

[Aquamarine]

Bexie, on Sep 26 2006, 07:09 PM, said:

Besides, he told me that his ex dumped him, so now I can't see why she got all weird on me.

Yeah, well, he would say that, wouldn't he? Anything to snog you. :P

[Sea of Time]

If that's all he wanted, he would've made a move already. Shallow guys don't wait too long to get what they want.

[Valistrix]

Never had a girl yet, not interested in one at the moment, but for some reason... I'm like this love-advice-giving-god... But before anybody asks me i'm going to jump away. Weee!

*Officially Insane*

[Caael]

@ link. Where do you plan on jumping then?

[Valistrix]

Through a window... Possibly...

[Sea of Time]

Why don't you help Mr. T with his problems, Mr. Love Guru?

[Valistrix]

I would, but everybody beat me to it...

Besides, my advice might cause a nuclear reaction or something, we wouldn't want that now, eh?

[Sea of Time]

Well, welcome back anyway. I haven't seen you in a while around here.

[Valistrix]

Heh, decided to drop in, unfortunately for you all. *Evil cackle*

[Sea of Time]

Well, you sure did give a lot of love advice. Wait....no you didn't!

[Valistrix]

*Cackle*

[Bexie]

Aquamarine, on Sep 27 2006, 08:59 PM, said:

Yeah, well, he would say that, wouldn't he? Anything to snog you. :P

No, he wouldn't. Besides, I asked her, and she told me that she did. Plus she's fine with me going out with him. Still my friend. Gives me about fifteen hugs a day. xD

Sea_of_Time, on Sep 27 2006, 10:36 PM, said:

If that's all he wanted, he would've made a move already. Shallow guys don't wait too long to get what they want.

Indeed.
Andhesaidhe'llwaitaslongasiwant. ^^ He be sweet.

It's frickin' weird, tho. Michael (my boyfriend) smokes weed. So does my dad. So today when I brought him round my dad's today, Michael brought some weed with him and was getting stoned with my dad in the living room.
It was bloody weird. xD

[Sea of Time]

It's your choice whether you want to be around him if he does drugs. But it's not too weird for him and your dad to smoke together. Drug users usually find each other fairly easily.

[Bexie]

Sea_of_Time, on Sep 30 2006, 02:26 AM, said:

It's your choice whether you want to be around him if he does drugs. But it's not too weird for him and your dad to smoke together. Drug users usually find each other fairly easily.

I don't mind being around him when he smokes weed. He always asks me if it's alright if I'm with him before he does it, and I know for a fact he won't try and make me do it. He said himself he can't stand it when someone tries to force a different state of mind on other people. That's why he's currently after some guy called Alec, because this guy jabbed a needle full of smack into my boyfriend's friend's leg when he didn't want it. And Michael is on the bloody warpath over that, let me tell you.

But yeah, I don't care if he does drugs, so long as it's basically only weed. I've already told him I don't like the big stuff and he's promised me he won't do them.
But in my opinion, he's not a bad person just because he smokes weed. Quite the opposite. A lot of my friends at college smoke it, and most of them are nicer than people who don't.

[pHantOm]

Bexie, on Sep 30 2006, 04:23 AM, said:

I don't mind being around him when he smokes weed. He always asks me if it's alright if I'm with him before he does it, and I know for a fact he won't try and make me do it. He said himself he can't stand it when someone tries to force a different state of mind on other people. That's why he's currently after some guy called Alec, because this guy jabbed a needle full of smack into my boyfriend's friend's leg when he didn't want it. And Michael is on the bloody warpath over that, let me tell you.

But yeah, I don't care if he does drugs, so long as it's basically only weed. I've already told him I don't like the big stuff and he's promised me he won't do them.
But in my opinion, he's not a bad person just because he smokes weed. Quite the opposite. A lot of my friends at college smoke it, and most of them are nicer than people who don't.

I would never date a girl that smokes cigarettes.

I would however possibly date a girl that smokes weed. Weed isnt near as bad for you, I think it should be legalized and treated the same as alcohol, like you cant be high in public, you cant drive under the influence etc.

Bexie dont let drugs control his life, im all for experimenting but when things get dangerous its time for someone that cares about him to step in. :P Good luck with your new boyfriend.

Oh and have him perform oral on you BEFORE you have sex. Reason being he will know what makes YOU feel good. Sorry had to throw that in there just in case that comes up haha.

[Aquamarine]

Bexie, on Sep 30 2006, 03:25 AM, said:

No, he wouldn't. Besides, I asked her, and she told me that she did. Plus she's fine with me going out with him. Still my friend. Gives me about fifteen hugs a day. xD

I know he wouldn't, I was joking. Sorry if it sounded wrong. :P

PHantOm gives good advice...

[pHantOm]

Aquamarine, on Sep 30 2006, 11:20 AM, said:

PHantOm gives good advice...

LOL

Speak from experience. :P

Cause believe it or not Bexie your umm "area" is more complicated than you think LMFAO! >_< oh dear getting a little TOO detailed. LOL

[I'm Always BROKE]

pHantOm, on Sep 30 2006, 01:44 PM, said:

Bexie dont let drugs control his life, im all for experimenting but when things get dangerous its time for someone that cares about him to step in. :P Good luck with your new boyfriend.

Well there are many kinds of weed. There is strong and there is weak ones. I myself only tried out some weak stuf before. Being stoned is diffrent then being drunk, you are more cappable of logical thinking but you feel more careless and peaceful when being stoned...

[Caael]

Heh, Diddy is the last person i'd expect to get stoned, apart from maybe the Mods or Somia.

[Valistrix]

Diddy... Stoned? This world is just crazy!

[I'm Always BROKE]

Well... :P You cant judge a person over the internet eh?
Anyways, being stoned or atleast... Trying marahuna (sp?) atleast once just is something what mostly all of the peeps of my age do.

[Toasty]

Well one bad thing about weed, that makes it worse than alchohol, is that it destroys the nerve endings in your brain, which can lead to brain damage. Alchohol only kills brain cells, which can be rejuvinated, though memories contained within those cells can be lost. I dissaprove of both equally though.

[pHantOm]

Brain cells cant be recovered either.

But alcohol doesnt kill the cells, it confuses them.

[Toasty]

Well that explains why you can still remember everything after getting really drunk. I guess it just makes it harder.

[pHantOm]

Yet you cant remember what happened while being high.

[I'm Always BROKE]

True. But being drunk I think is more fun, your more open and social... Till you touch those mushrooms... I have a friend who used mushrooms and he said he say a guy who looked like a cartoon. Strange things happen with those stuff.

Anyways, how many of you got high or drunk?

[Toasty]

Not me. Don't ever intend to either.

[Aquamarine]

Ah, good ol' DRUNK. Yeah, about once a week I go out with my friends on a drinking frenzy. And even though I drink quite a lot I rarely actually get drunk. Before I always disapproved of drinking, but it's fun, and I'm going to have fun while I live. I don't want a boring, uneventful life. All you have to do is make sure you don't drink too much too often.

[pHantOm]

Having sex with a girl while shes drunk, is rape even if she agrees to have sex.

Thats the law here in the US, how lame is that?

[I'm Always BROKE]

pHantOm, on Oct 1 2006, 05:44 PM, said:

Having sex with a girl while shes drunk, is rape even if she agrees to have sex.

Thats the law here in the US, how lame is that?

"America The Super Nation" ;)
Hehehe okay I'll quit with that. Here in Holland we have strange laws to. Like: you can't drink alcohol in public but you can smoke weed.

[Mindpatch]

You can drink alcohol in public. Just not in public accommodations etc.

[Golden Legacy]

Mr.T, on Oct 1 2006, 05:08 AM, said:

Not me. Don't ever intend to either.

That's my view on drugs and alcohol. Never done it, never will. Simple.


Now please return to the original topic.

[Aquamarine]

Going back to topic:
So GL, have you met any girls that might interest you at your dance classes? Whoa... That sounded a bit like my parents. ;)

[I'm Always BROKE]

Golden Legacy, on Oct 1 2006, 07:28 PM, said:

That's my view on drugs and alcohol. Never done it, never will. Simple.
Now please return to the original topic.

I will not go further into that, it's cool that you won't use these stuff. More people should be like you.

Anyways, I think some girl likes me at my work. Hmmm Im just plain bad at explaining, but I like her to. When we see each other she always modestly smiles at me and she turns a little red. Now I find this sort of communication really hard, I like the girl to but I dunno how to start if she's so shy... ;)

[Aquamarine]

Just say "Hey baby! Wanna make out behind that car?" ;)

Just kidding, of course.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Well ofcoarse I'd like to... ;)

Meh Im not the type for one night stands.
Still I wouldnt mind. ^^

Anyways, Im seeing her again Wensday night at work. Anyone got some more tips for me?

[pHantOm]

Ask if shes doing anything (insert day) night, cause you had plans to go to (insert what you want here) with a few friends but they cancelled on you. And you think shes pretty cool so you would like to go with her.

[Sea of Time]

Wow, my relationship took so long to actually start because both of us were too shy to say anything.

We were friends but it took about 8 months for us actually to express how we really felt. Don't do that. Just do what phantom said and you won't have to go through what I went through.

[Golden Legacy]

Aquamarine, on Oct 1 2006, 02:02 PM, said:

Going back to topic:
So GL, have you met any girls that might interest you at your dance classes? Whoa... That sounded a bit like my parents. ;)

*ahem* That is for me to know, and for God to pair us up together for the final dance project.

[Sea of Time]

Haha, I can't believe that this dance lessons thing is actually working for you!

[Caael]

I take it GL likes some of the girls there ;D

[Aquamarine]

Whoa, so not only is he learning a nice and creative art he's also becoming popular with the chicks! Maybe I should take up some art soon too...

[Valistrix]

*Scribbles down notes*

Dance Lessons... Chicks... Lots...

I've out witted you all! Hahahahaha!

*Jumps out of the nearest window*

[Toasty]

I'm probably going to take a cooking class in highschool, along with band since I'm already doing that. I'm only doing band in Middleschool now, because that's the only way I'll get into highschool band, which is way better since we'll get to travel. ;) Our Middle school band director sucks. Really, he does.
On a side note, mabey I should take dancing lessons....

[Sea of Time]

I wouldn't start taking classes that will affect your future plans just because you want to meet girls. That just seems stupid to me.

[Aquamarine]

Yeah, SoT's right. There are more important stuff then girls, if you know what I mean, for example... Eh, for example.......... I'll come up with something later.

;)

[Sea of Time]

Well if there's no certain someone, there's no point ruining your future by going on a wild goose chase for a girl.

[Toasty]

Well I was serious about the cooking and Band classes. I might take dancing lessons so I'll actually know how to dance. XD

[Sea of Time]

Or you could not take either of those classes, have more time off and meet girls then! Then you don't have the added pressure of classes on top of your manly woes.

[gsninja]

Link, on Oct 2 2006, 03:13 PM, said:

*Scribbles down notes*

Dance Lessons... Chicks... Lots...

I've out witted you all! Hahahahaha!

*Jumps out of the nearest window*

...XD

There's a girl that I like. We've known her since elementary school and she's in my Chemistry class. We're somewhat friends with each other, and I actually might have enough courage to ask her to go to Homecoming with me...

[Bexie]

Argh. Stupid Michael.

He's in my Chemistry class. And whenever I put on my labcoat for an experiment, he comes up and clings to me, says "Ooh, sexy scientist" and starts trying to have a makeout session with me while I'm trying to measure acid in the middle of class.
So I have to hit him upside the head a few times. xD

And... lol. My friend Sarah, who's 22 and also in my Chemistry class at college, just says "Aww, I think it's sweet. Are you two "going steady" or whatever it is the kids call it these days?" xD

I'm going to kill Michael, tho.

Thelittlebuggeratemyneck.Twice.

It's fricking embarassing.

[Sea of Time]

In school. Well you should just tell him off, make sure he knows that he's not totally in control. I would be so embarassed if I were you. The most my girlfriend and I do at school is hold hands, and even that doesn't happen too often (we have very different schedules).

[pHantOm]

Isnt that sweet

"Thelittlebuggeratemyneck.Twice."

Wait till hes eatting more than your neck. Im sure you wont be complaining then. HAHA.

[gsninja]

@.@

I'd be a bit touchy if someone clinged to me while I measured acid. =P

[Wiflewood]

Bexie, on Oct 6 2006, 10:36 PM, said:

And... lol. My friend Sarah, who's 22 and also in my Chemistry class at college,

? What kind of collge do you go to?

[Aquamarine]

Why are you embarassed by him!? Making out at school is totally normal here, we actually do it everywhere. Some of my friends even do it in the bus, though I've never had the chance to...

[Bexie]

Wiflewood, on Oct 7 2006, 10:12 AM, said:

? What kind of collge do you go to?

It's a college. You know. A place where people go for further study after they finish high school? So some people left it later than others. Doesn't make it any different.
My mother studies at my college once a week, and she's 39. *shrugs*

Aquamarine, on Oct 7 2006, 10:14 AM, said:

Why are you embarassed by him!? Making out at school is totally normal here, we actually do it everywhere. Some of my friends even do it in the bus, though I've never had the chance to...

I'm embarassed by him because he does it in the middle of a frickin college class. >.< I don't mind other places. We've made out in our breaks and lunch in the smoking area at college, in the corridors, on the stairs, on the bus, in the middle of a shop, at town hall, in the park...

I just don't like him doing it when I'm trying to measure corrosive substanses! xD

[Sea of Time]

Do the math, he's endangering your life! XD

[Toasty]

XD! This is pretty funny. Hopefully the acid isn't too deadly.

[Sea of Time]

Wait for a Physics class to do it! That way there's no acid, and it will make it a lot more interesting!

[Toasty]

Yeah, a physics class. :P

[Wiflewood]

Bexie, on Oct 7 2006, 12:16 PM, said:

It's a college. You know. A place where people go for further study after they finish high school? So some people left it later than others. Doesn't make it any different.
My mother studies at my college once a week, and she's 39. *shrugs*

Haha, I know what a college is :P
Its just at mine, the oldest people are maybe one, two years above me. I think they do do adult education, but they keep it seperate from the mainstream.

[Bexie]

Sea_of_Time, on Oct 7 2006, 11:53 PM, said:

Wait for a Physics class to do it! That way there's no acid, and it will make it a lot more interesting!

Physics? Blah. I wouldn't take Physics if you payed me.
Besides, my college doesn't offer Physics. :P

Oh god. yesterday was terrible tho. Went to a house party. Got a bit drunk. Threw up three times. I think I might even have gotten a bit stoned. I've got no idea what was in the pipe this guy gave me. xD
But urgh. I'm never drinking a mixed drink again. That's what made me throw up. I was stupid, too. I didn't ask what was in it. I just drank it. xD

Then I got all panic-attacky when everyone else was asleep and left at 3 in the morning and walked home.
Got a rather panicked phone call from Michael not long after I got home. An "Oh my god where are you" kind of thing.

[Sea of Time]

That sucks. I've yet to be in a situation like that, but I don't know how I would react to any of it.

[pHantOm]

Bexie, on Oct 8 2006, 02:07 PM, said:

Physics? Blah. I wouldn't take Physics if you payed me.
Besides, my college doesn't offer Physics. :P

Oh god. yesterday was terrible tho. Went to a house party. Got a bit drunk. Threw up three times. I think I might even have gotten a bit stoned. I've got no idea what was in the pipe this guy gave me. xD
But urgh. I'm never drinking a mixed drink again. That's what made me throw up. I was stupid, too. I didn't ask what was in it. I just drank it. xD

Then I got all panic-attacky when everyone else was asleep and left at 3 in the morning and walked home.
Got a rather panicked phone call from Michael not long after I got home. An "Oh my god where are you" kind of thing.

You were probably raped.

[Aquamarine]

Umm, pHantOm? That happens in movies. I think she would have known had she been raped, no matter how drunk she was.

Bexie, on Oct 8 2006, 08:07 PM, said:

Physics? Blah. I wouldn't take Physics if you payed me.
Besides, my college doesn't offer Physics. :P

Oh god. yesterday was terrible tho. Went to a house party. Got a bit drunk. Threw up three times. I think I might even have gotten a bit stoned. I've got no idea what was in the pipe this guy gave me. xD
But urgh. I'm never drinking a mixed drink again. That's what made me throw up. I was stupid, too. I didn't ask what was in it. I just drank it. xD

Then I got all panic-attacky when everyone else was asleep and left at 3 in the morning and walked home.
Got a rather panicked phone call from Michael not long after I got home. An "Oh my god where are you" kind of thing.

Ah, the mixed drinking. My favorite...

[pHantOm]

I was kidding lol.

It just sounded like it would happen right afterward lol. And guys you can just call me phantom....you dont have to attempt at the whole caps thing.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Aquamarine, on Oct 9 2006, 07:47 AM, said:

Ah, the mixed drinking. My favorite...

Whoa! I love those to! :D Especially Golden Strike with orange juice!
Its sure worth trying. :P

[Aquamarine]

Unfortunately, I don't know any of the names. Every time I go out on a drinking spree I choose something different, since I want to try everything. But I LOVE Sex on the Beach!

pHantOm, on Oct 9 2006, 01:20 PM, said:

And guys you can just call me phantom....you dont have to attempt at the whole caps thing.

No problemo pHantOm.

[Golden Legacy]

I have no idea what alcohol tastes like.