[Someone Else]

Icy. You're the member who logs on, posts for a couple weeks, then leaves for months.

You don't know what you're talking about. Try again when you're a bit more civil.

[Saturos S.]

This is starting to look like a bish fight.

Peace and love in the holiday season?

[Someone Else]

Somebody say something relevant. Please. I have nothing to say.

[Saturos S.]

Okiedo, here goes.

So there's this girl I kind of like. Happened quite incidentily, I went to a bachelor information day on medicine (alone, not a lot of guys do medicine these days) at some university, ran into her and ended up spending the rest of the day with her. I knew who she was, since she's in some of my classes but never really talked to her a lot.

Anyways, I got her phone number the sneaky way. "It's quite crowded here, I'm going to check out some stands, give me your phone number so I can find you again." So I used that phone number to invite her to a party I'm going to this friday, since parties are neutral meeting terrain.

[Blue]

Sly dog you. Good luck SS

[Caael]

Icy, on Dec 17 2008, 07:02 PM, said:

Ah, well when I post images of guys I think are hot, and I'm always just "pms"ing because I have an opinion, and when I try to say my opinion and I get "STFU, UR A GRL, GTFO"

I think that qualifies as "sexist bastard" no?

Oh, and I say that, because, its quite obvious that Like attracts like. So if you're a sex-crazed bastard, you're going to attract a skanky *****. Its actually proven psychologically. (Oh I love my psychology class).

Point is, yeah, okay, I understand the nice guys do get laid thing, but its another thing when your whole life revolves around sex. Because, this used to be the RELATIONSHIP topic, but somehow it turned into the SEX, relationship and EGO BOOSTING topic.

Come on. You're trying to tell me you (you know who you are) are not sex-crazed guys? Gimme a break.
4-chan anyone? Oh, and don't tell me this is different, because half of this forum is made of memes from 4-chan. So, while you may try to sound like you're being mature, what you said is exactly what this topic is about, though it used to be about Love and Emotion.

Oh, but god forbid we talk about those things. Because all relationships are about is just Sex sex sex, RIGHT? :fcp:

Fucking hell you're a cranky bitch.

First off, you cant speak for the entire female population. A large portion of females are going to disagree with what you just said. It's amazing you get guys at all with an attitude like that; if you're just going to be a boner kill around every guy you meet about how women are equal, you're never going to get a guy unless he's a complete pussy who just takes whatever he gets.

Wake the fuck up and smell the perfume. You're not as important as you think, so shut up and re-think your views. We're young, we're not trying to look for an amazingly complex and long lasting relationship. We dont have the mindset of a 50 year old women on her 3rd husband, so stop trying to tell us how we live our lives, because i'm quite alright with mine thank you very much, because I dont need your advice on how to find a girl just as bitchy and pessimistic as you. If I ever give up in life and decide I just want a girlfriend who *****es at me the entire time, trust me, I will come to you for advice. But at the moment, I'm doing well without your foreboding attitude. Seriously, just fuck off.

[Blue]

Can't anyone just leave what Icy said alone? The topic had already moved on.

[Nosferatu]

Blue, on Dec 17 2008, 01:03 PM, said:

Can't anyone just leave what Icy said alone? The topic had already moved on.

I was wondering that. I had to turn my translator on so I could read Bitch & Whine.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Quit hammering on Icy so much man. Be happy we get an opinion from a girl who knows what she's talking about...

[Someone Else]

*hands out chill pills*

Everybody's entitled to their opinions, I don't know why some of you are being so argumentative over it all.

[My Best Wishes]

I won't quote Icy's post as I was planning to, looks like others have done enough already, except to say this.
You can't possibly compare all of us to 4-chan. Me, WD, Eugine, Riad, Nick, SoT etc, pretty much the ones that think with the right head. And for you to come out and compare us to such mindless, disgusting crap that is the internet is a pathetic judgement by you. I may sound like I'm trying to act all mature and ****, but I'm just me. I'm not sex crazed, I get emotionally attracted to a girl before I find her attractive physically, I personally don't get it but I need substance to a girl, check Two minute Noodles compared to a nicely cooked Steak. Not all guys are shallow, horny douches, so get over your past experiences and look beyond the fact that we have penis's.

Did she answer SS?

[Saturos S.]

watch, on Dec 18 2008, 07:58 AM, said:

Did she answer SS?

Yep, so we'll be able to talk. Which is good because for one, I can only talk about stupid stuff at school with girls like the weather, sports, shallow subjects.

And two, if I screw up I can always blame the alcohol. I can't really use that excuse at school.

[Lightning Star]

You know what? I'm not going to even bother. Obviously you guys are so closed minded (as you all claim the conservatives to be--oh the hypocricsy!) that anything I say is just going to go in one ear, register as an insult and go and out the other.

But hey, you can have your own opinion of me, no matter how false because hey, it's your opinion! And that's all that matters in this world, right? :]

So arguments aside, I actually have a relationship beginning to form with a guy in my psychology class. We went out for lunch on Tuesday and had a really good time, and as I drove him back to his car, we ended up sitting for a while in the car 'cause we just kept talking and talking. I'm not sure if he likes me that way, and I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship with him yet, but we've definitely laid the foundation for one.

[Toasty]

tbh, you make a lot of valid and good points (that are true, mind you), but you're too insistant that all the guys here are womanizers.

You just swoop in, claim that you're the only one who knows what they're talking about, and leave.

You give some good advice, but you're too......sexist? I suppose that's the best word to describe it.



As for everyone else:

Someone Else, on Dec 17 2008, 07:42 PM, said:

*hands out chill pills*

[Someone Else]

I absolutely hate to bring this topic back to sex but I made the girl I've been talking about have an orgasm yesterday.

No, I didn't do anything TOO naughty. Outside of pants fingering.

Yeeup... That's kind of all I've got to say.

[Split Infinity]

If that's all it takes, I seriously doubt you'd be able to keep up with her...

Was it her first? =O

[Nosferatu]

Someone Else, on Dec 20 2008, 10:59 PM, said:

I absolutely hate to bring this topic back to sex but I made the girl I've been talking about have an orgasm yesterday.

No, I didn't do anything TOO naughty. Outside of pants fingering.

Yeeup... That's kind of all I've got to say.

*high five*

[Someone Else]

If you know what you're doing you can give girls orgasms outside pants pretty easy. It's all about the clit.

But anways...

[Split Infinity]

*points to edit*

[Someone Else]

Her first time being fingered..? No. She said what I did with my fingers was amazing though, so I guess whatever other guys were just being stupid about it.

Don't judge, you judgy.

[Split Infinity]

I meant was it her first... time.

Because if it was that'd be kind of big for her, I imagine.

[Someone Else]

Um, she's virgin? O.o

[Split Infinity]

Her first orgasm. There, you made me say it. >.o

[Someone Else]

Good. And no, it wasn't.

I can smell you being judgy from miles and miles away you judgy bastard.

[Split Infinity]

Haha, I seriously don't judge either of you.

At least you kept your hands clean. =P

[Someone Else]

Heh that's the only reason it was outside of pants.

She really is awesome though. It's too bad we've known each other for like 10 years, it'd make it easier for us to actually be gf/bf.

[Split Infinity]

Oh hey, that's probably a good thing. At least you know you're not just smitten by each other's first appearances, right?

[Someone Else]

Too true. But when you've been friends for so long, sometimes it's hard to see past being friends.

I have feelings for her way more than she has feelings for me. But even I think some of this is weird. =P And yet, I'm way more compatible with her than most of the dumb girls in my area.

I'm not gonna complain too much, I'm pretty lucky. Making out with a super pretty girl. An actual model, no less.

I'll stop here before I sound like I'm showing off too much..

[Nosferatu]

Nah, go ahead. With any luck I'll be with a "scene" girl, for lack of a better term, in the next bit.

[Split Infinity]

Yeah, you'd better hold on to that one. xP

Just a random thought right now, and I hope that Icy doesn't reprimand me for this, but does anyone else think it's kind of unfair how girls are always the receptors in a relationship? It's always the guy who has to get her attention, they guy who asks to go out with her, the guy who does nice things for her, the guy who always makes the big moves, the guy who buys the diamond ring and prays to god she won't say no.

It's weird, I can't tell whether the girl is selfish or the guy is too controlling. :/

[Nosferatu]

Split Infinity, on Dec 20 2008, 11:49 PM, said:

Yeah, you'd better hold on to that one. xP

I'll rip your damn cock off.

And after putting facts together and other ****, it wasn't my fault. (Wait, what the **** do I care?) I've already talked to Icy about that kinda.

[Toasty]

Whoa whoa whoa.


So let me get this strait. WD gave a girl an orgasm without getting inside of her pants?


......what in god's name did you do? XD

[Split Infinity]

Nosferatu, on Dec 21 2008, 06:53 PM, said:

I'll rip your damn cock off.

Oh wow, I didn't see your post at all.

[Toasty]

Split Infinity, on Dec 20 2008, 11:49 PM, said:

Yeah, you'd better hold on to that one. xP

Just a random thought right now, and I hope that Icy doesn't reprimand me for this, but does anyone else think it's kind of unfair how girls are always the receptors in a relationship? It's always the guy who has to get her attention, they guy who asks to go out with her, the guy who does nice things for her, the guy who always makes the big moves, the guy who buys the diamond ring and prays to god she won't say no.

It's weird, I can't tell whether the girl is selfish or the guy is too controlling. :/

It's because men were born to lead. :fcp:

[Caael]

Toasty, on Dec 21 2008, 10:06 AM, said:

Whoa whoa whoa.
So let me get this strait. WD gave a girl an orgasm without getting inside of her pants?
......what in god's name did you do? XD

You dont know much, do you?

Well played WD, though it does strike me as odd how you can give her an orgasm fine while being childhood friends, yet going out would be taboo and weird?

Elaborate?

[Split Infinity]

They're already going out, as far as I can tell.

[Caael]

Someone Else, on Dec 21 2008, 08:33 AM, said:

Heh that's the only reason it was outside of pants.

She really is awesome though. It's too bad we've known each other for like 10 years, it'd make it easier for us to actually be gf/bf.

That just made me think that they weren't going out. I dunno, I just need WD to clarify.

[Split Infinity]

Well if you'd been following... x]

[Toasty]

Caael, on Dec 21 2008, 01:42 AM, said:

You dont know much, do you?

Aside from fingering her, what else could he have done?

[Caael]

Toasty, on Dec 21 2008, 11:05 AM, said:

Aside from fingering her, what else could he have done?

You dont just shove 3 fingers in and hope for the best, there's several ways you can go about it.

[Split Infinity]

And this is the level of detail we were hoping to avoid.

[Toasty]

Caael, on Dec 21 2008, 02:08 AM, said:

You dont just shove 3 fingers in and hope for the best, there's several ways you can go about it.

I know that. I just figured he meant that he didn't do that though.

Anyway, this is leading down a very dangerous and unsightly path. Let's move on....

[Lemontime]

vagina

[Aquamarine]

Someone Else, on Dec 21 2008, 07:59 AM, said:

I absolutely hate to bring this topic back to sex but I made the girl I've been talking about have an orgasm yesterday.

No, I didn't do anything TOO naughty. Outside of pants fingering.

Yeeup... That's kind of all I've got to say.

Wait, really? I truly congratulate you, I've never managed to get a girl to have an orgasm by fingering her outside the clothes. Not to sound pessimistic however, but did you actually see or feel the evidence? I mean, she could have lied. Girls lie about it all the time to make the guy feel good, and so that they could get more the next time they want it.

And you shouldn't find it disgusting to do it without the clothes. I only recently did it for the first time with my tongue, I used to find the thought utterly revolting. It's not that bad though, and I guess I could do it again.

Split Infinity, on Dec 21 2008, 08:49 AM, said:

Yeah, you'd better hold on to that one. xP

Just a random thought right now, and I hope that Icy doesn't reprimand me for this, but does anyone else think it's kind of unfair how girls are always the receptors in a relationship? It's always the guy who has to get her attention, they guy who asks to go out with her, the guy who does nice things for her, the guy who always makes the big moves, the guy who buys the diamond ring and prays to god she won't say no.

It's weird, I can't tell whether the girl is selfish or the guy is too controlling. :/

You're right, and it IS unfair. It pisses me off.

And as for the last sentence, the girl is selfish.

[Lemontime]

on the topic of the guy does everything, it's just been that way for so long, and it works.. why change?
me and my gf's 1 month on tuesday.

[Kuchiyose]

Quote

Her first time being fingered..? No. She said what I did with my fingers was amazing though, so I guess whatever other guys were just being stupid about it.

Don't judge, you judgy.

Magic fingers! Well the man knows how to pleasure a women.

[Lemontime]

http://www.explosm.net/db/files/Comics/Matt/dont-ask-where-the-flock-of-doves-come-out-of.png

[kiro_jupiter_adept]

im in love with the most amazing woman ever^_^ she makes my world go round and helps me in every way as i do her^_^

[Split Infinity]

So what's her name?

[Saturos S.]

Yeah, and what's yours?

[Caael]

I think i'm just going to stop trying with relationships until I get into Uni and start meeting new people.

I'm in the friend zone with about 5 girls I'd like to go out with them, all of whom are uninterested/taken, so I just give up for now.

[Split Infinity]

Gonna be a long three years.

[Caael]

Dont remind me...

[Split Infinity]

Well I figure someone would be available in that time.

[Caael]

Hopefully...

I get along with girls fine, i'm good at making conversation (most of the time), it's just that I never seem to be their type.

But that girl I was talking about a while ago in this thread is a bit strange; she's really liked me a few times now, i've just been too blind to notice, so i'm hoping she comes around again.

[Someone Else]

No we're not going out.

As for me being able to give a childhood friend an ogasm without it being too weird, well. We were separated for about two years and before that we didn't talk on a regular basis, though we were still friends. Also, we're super physically attracted to each other. She's got awesome boobs, seriously. Perky, round, C cups. And she likes my pecs. And my downstairs.

Another thing, if there's enough sexual tension beforehand you can make anything happen if you know what you're doing.

And I'm pretty positive she did have an orgasm. Her butt got tight, she slowed down (she was on top of me and grinding against me while I was fingering her) and she just sorta leaned against me. After she got off she was really blushing and her eyes looked glassy. She almost fell asleep too. I thought that only guys fell asleep after an orgasm... she isn't the kind of girl to just lie to a guy to make him feel better though, believe me. >_>

[Split Infinity]

Oh, okay then.

So friends with benefits.

[Someone Else]

I hate that term but pretty much...

[Split Infinity]

Well I don't know, what else could you be? Does it feel more like an exploratory thing or a serious, progressing relationship?

[Someone Else]

It is a bit of exploration but I think there's more emotion to it than just a buddy to make out with. Maybe I'm deluding myself, but that's what I think. She's made it obvious that I'm an important person to her, and she's definitely important to me.

[Nosferatu]

You're making me regret having not gone to a party tonight you bastard.

[Someone Else]

How so? You were talking about this in TRT.

[Nosferatu]

Eh, **** would be better to explain on MSN. Trust me on this one.

[Lemontime]

girlfriend is coming over for dinner tonight..

i hope it's like meet the parents, that'd be excellent! :fcp:

[I'm Always BROKE]

This topic needs more livelyness.

So... This girl. I asked her out to the movies when she was leaving from a party a week or two back, but not in a way I wanted it to... I needed to be pushed to actually do it by friends. Anyways, she accepted it and told me that "we would see" but thanked me nonetheless.

Didn't had a that good feeling about it ofcoarse, and a few days later she told me she likes another guy already in a real long msn message. And now we're kinda avoiding each other. We both have our 2 week school break now and luckily didn't saw each other at work thanks to the holidays (both falling on the Wednesdays, the day I always was stressy about for months cause that was the day I'd see her again, no mather what...)

Still... I can't really understand. At this party, whenever I tried to make eye contact with her, she looked away in a shy way... This can be both good or bad I know, but if it was bad, how come she let me go this far? And isn't it mostly that women say the exact opposite of what they want..?

In the msn converation she said she'd return the movie ticket I gave her. Now this is troubling me, cause in some way... We both really would prefer to avoid each other now (even on msn). And really, I'm far too shy to actually go to the movies with her... If she's still even close to liking me anyways. :P I feel like such an asshole right now...

[Lemontime]

broke up with my girlfriend

[Golden Legacy]

How are you taking it?

[Lemontime]

Well it was the night before new years eve when we broke up, so I took it with copious amounts of alcohol, friends and fireworks.

Seriously though, I don't really care, it was kind of a bogus relationship, and I wasn't really into her that much anyway.. Single life FTW, anyway..

[Aquamarine]

@Lemon: That sucks. Lately I've been quite sorry for people when they brake up, especially if they really liked the person they were with. Ah well, plenty fish in the sea, mate.

@Diddy: You shouldn't just stop trying because of what she said. Firstly, because she might actually be lying about this guy she likes. Maybe she just wants to see how determined you are and wants even more attention from you. Secondly, even if this guy exists, that doesn't mean you can't hook up with her. If you continue trying to touch her up she'll probably start liking you.

Anyhow, a couple of days ago one of my two best friends(both of whom are girls) and I almost kissed. Now, the thing is, I don't really know what to do. You see, she's an awesome friend and I really care about her, as a friend. And she likes me a lot as well, as a friend. There aren't any special romantic feelings between us, only strong friendship and obvious mutual attraction.

I know that she would be with me if it weren't for the fact that we are good friends and go to academy together. She believes that, judging by how good a friend I am, I would be a great boyfriend. However, she's afraid that if anything happens between us it would ruin our friendship, like it did with the other girl from academy that I was with. However, I'm sure that if we only kissed one evening we would be great friends the very next morning and act like nothing happened, I'm sure of it.

I dunno... I guess I shouldn't even think about it, because I'm positive that for these four remaining years of academy something WILL happen, and probably pretty soon, in the next couple of months.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Yes, I kinda had the feeling she was lying about that other guy too, still... That doesn't mean that is has to be good. Maybe she just don't wanna hurt my feelings? I've always thought she was way outta my league anyways...

Heh reminds me of that msn converation we had a while back Aqua. I'm quoting you here man:

"I'm happy that at least one of us is doing well in the love department."

I hope things turn out great for you man. :P

[Aquamarine]

Ah yes, I remember that convo. :P I think it wasn't that long ago actually...

Anyhow, for the time being things can't turn out great for me, because all of this romantic **** happening to me lately has been with girls from my academy, and hooking up with any more of them will only cause trouble... The fling I had for new year's eve, although not with a girl from academy, cannot be considered a "romantic relationship" since I didn't even know her name. I can only have real feeling for a girl that I've known for at least a month or so, so only girls from academy are a possibility for a true relationship... Not that I really want a binding relationship or anything.

Bah, I dunno, I love my life as it is and am thoroughly enjoying it.

Let me show you guys a couple of pics, just for the heck of it:

The two girls to the left are my two best friends, and the one in the middle is the one I almost kissed:

http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z153/Aquamarine01/DSC03364.jpg

And the girl in this picture is also from my academy and I'm fairly interested in her, I'm thinking about hooking up with her:

http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z153/Aquamarine01/DSC03377.jpg

[Golden Legacy]

I quite envy your life Aqua.

[I'm Always BROKE]

The girl on the second picture is such a natural beauty. Aqua, if you think you've got a chance on her, go for it man! :lol:

[Blue]

I agree. Tap that **** my friend, tap it good.

[Aquamarine]

Diddy Kong, on Jan 5 2009, 01:32 AM, said:

The girl on the second picture is such a natural beauty. Aqua, if you think you've got a chance on her, go for it man! :venus:

I ****ing love this Diddy guy. :D Yeah, I think I do have a chance with her. Since I started academy girls have really been falling for me, and I've managed to be with the kind of girls I've always felt are out of my league. So the "out of my league" emo **** is pretty much gone for me.
She has a boyfriend, but I know that they're not doing all that great atm. Also, I've been flirting with her at academy a bit(well, I've pretty much been flirting with every single girl I meet, so yeah..) and she's shown certain signs of affection. So yes, I do think I have a fair chance.

Anyhow, we were texting each other yesterday and I called her over for a coffee, but she's under the weather. She said she will come over once she's feeling better though. :lol:

@Blue: I don't only want to tap her though, I want to actually be with her. Of course, tapping is on my "To do" list.. :mars:

[I'm Always BROKE]

Hmmm, if she's already got a boyfriend but she's still showing interest in you I think you indeed do stand a good chance. Still, be careful with all the flirting you do with all those girls. You don't wanna give them the 'playboy' impression. :lol: But as I said before... Go for it!

[Nosferatu]

I hate this mother****ing snow more than I hate religion and people.
And that's a lot.

Would've been a great day if it hadn't snowed like a mother ****er.

[Aquamarine]

@Nos: Lol, wrong thread mate.

Diddy Kong, on Jan 5 2009, 05:31 PM, said:

Hmmm, if she's already got a boyfriend but she's still showing interest in you I think you indeed do stand a good chance. Still, be careful with all the flirting you do with all those girls. You don't wanna give them the 'playboy' impression. :lol: But as I said before... Go for it!

Too late. One of my two best friends I was talking about earlier said to me once, 'You know, I've got a lot of guy friends, but you're definitely the horniest of them all' and since then she and my other best friend have often been calling me Horny as a nickname, and they keep saying I'm a sex-crazed maniac... And once, when one of them said she would be seeing a girl that evening that I also know, I told her to say hi to her from me, and the other friend said 'I can't believe you, all you ever think about is ****!' but I really didn't mean it in such a way!

But they're honestly wrong, I'm not more obsessed with sex than other guys are, I'm just more open about it than most others are, and thoroughly enjoy hitting on to girls, even if it yields no results.

[Nosferatu]

Aquamarine, on Jan 5 2009, 11:05 AM, said:

@Nos: Lol, wrong thread mate.

I wish everyone would stop saying that. I know what ****ing thread I'm posting in, dip****s.

[gsninja]

Don't worry, Nos, it's k.

Aquamarine, on Jan 5 2009, 11:05 AM, said:

But they're honestly wrong, I'm not more obsessed with sex than other guys are, I'm just more open about it than most others are, and thoroughly enjoy hitting on to girls, even if it yields no results.

Amen to that, brother. That **** was so fun during my senior class trip to Disneyland last year, except I got a few results, lol.

[Lemontime]

Nosferatu, on Jan 6 2009, 03:53 AM, said:

I hate this mother****ing snow more than I hate religion and people.
And that's a lot.

Would've been a great day if it hadn't snowed like a mother ****er.

Nosferatu, on Jan 6 2009, 06:12 AM, said:

I wish everyone would stop saying that. I know what ****ing thread I'm posting in, dip****s.

this is why you fail.

[Nosferatu]

If I had to come up with a list of quotes about why you fail, we'd be here all day. Not to mention the fact that most of them are deleted.

[My Best Wishes]

If you're going to post something you claim is relevant to a thread when it doesn't appear so, at least explain yourself or control the ***** fits.

[Nosferatu]

Aww, but that'd be no fun.

[Lemontime]

My stuff gets deleted because the mods can't handle my awesomeness..

[Ironsight]

No doubt.

[Aquamarine]

GSNinja, on Jan 5 2009, 08:21 PM, said:

Amen to that, brother. That **** was so fun during my senior class trip to Disneyland last year, except I got a few results, lol.

Hey hey, I didn't mean to say that hitting on to girls yields no results for me! What I wanted to say was that I like hitting on to chicks even if I know there's no way anything can happen between us. It's just really fun.

Oh, and as for that girl from my academy that I wanted to hook up with, I doubt I will actually try anything because I forgot about one thing. A guy from academy also likes her and has liked her for a while. But to be completely honest, there's no way anything will happen between the two of them. This guy is a really good dude, you know those people that are truly good at heart. But he's two years younger than me and is just a kid compared to the rest of us at academy. I mean, I'm cool with him and he really likes me and holds me in high regard, so I can't do this to him. But the again, he's not even trying to do anything with this girl, and there's also another girl he likes...

Damnit, I dunno what to do. I guess it's best if I just find another girl. It's not like I feel that I can't live without this chick, I only have slight feelings for her.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Well Aqua you could always just talk with the guy, and see what he feels about it. You can also wait a while with that, since you can't predict if the 'feeling' (for the lack of a word for this...) will be the same let's say... next week? Keeping someone in high regard of you is always good!

Don't give up at least. You might only have slight feelings now, but how well do you know her? I can tell, cause I'm the exact opposite so to say. This girl I like... I barely know her, but the feeling is very intense. At the moment I'm even fighting against the feeling, cause I still have to tell my 'super hero ego' that he's FAILED and he has to accept it...

Easier to say than to be done though... I still live with false hope, and the worst thing is that I don't want to let go, cause then I'll grow desperate and insecure... again. But don't worry though, it's a lot less than I make it out to be... I tend to throw in too much drama here and there.

What I'm trying to say is that the feeling might build over a while. That's what happens to most people anyways. Don't give up yet, cause you might regret it later.

[gsninja]

Aquamarine, on Jan 6 2009, 04:53 AM, said:

Hey hey, I didn't mean to say that hitting on to girls yields no results for me! What I wanted to say was that I like hitting on to chicks even if I know there's no way anything can happen between us. It's just really fun.

I know, I know. Still, it's sometimes better to get no results anyways.

[Aquamarine]

@GSN: You said it. After all is said and done, I'm glad I didn't manage to kiss that best friend of mine I mentioned earlier. She's an awesome pal and I wouldn't want to **** up what we've already got. Then again, I highly doubt just kissing would ruin our friendship... Plus, I'm sure something's going to happen one day. Ah well, doesn't matter.

Diddy Kong, on Jan 6 2009, 04:42 PM, said:

Well Aqua you could always just talk with the guy, and see what he feels about it. You can also wait a while with that, since you can't predict if the 'feeling' (for the lack of a word for this...) will be the same let's say... next week? Keeping someone in high regard of you is always good!

Don't give up at least. You might only have slight feelings now, but how well do you know her? I can tell, cause I'm the exact opposite so to say. This girl I like... I barely know her, but the feeling is very intense. At the moment I'm even fighting against the feeling, cause I still have to tell my 'super hero ego' that he's FAILED and he has to accept it...

Easier to say than to be done though... I still live with false hope, and the worst thing is that I don't want to let go, cause then I'll grow desperate and insecure... again. But don't worry though, it's a lot less than I make it out to be... I tend to throw in too much drama here and there.

What I'm trying to say is that the feeling might build over a while. That's what happens to most people anyways. Don't give up yet, cause you might regret it later.

I plan on speaking to him, but without implying that I have feelings for her as well. I'll just find out whether or not he still likes her...

Well, my feelings for her have actually gone down in the past week or so. Not seeing her in a while seems to have done the trick. As for how well I know her, I can't say I really know all that much about her, but we get along great and always have something to talk about.

Something very interesting about her is that she's pretty much the only person at academy who will walk up to me unexpectedly and tell me how well I did a scene for acting/dancing/singing class and how she really likes the way I act/dance/sing, or will tell me that I did something great but that I've got a slight problem that if I got rid of I would be even better than great. So she suddenly comes up with these kind words that make me feel a bit more confident about what I'm doing, but also tells me where I should improve, which is extremelly valuable hearing it from others. All the other people at academy, even my best friends, are so concerned about how well they're doing that they don't tell me anything, and then there's this girl I don't really even know who will, of her own accord, do the above mentioned. I think this might actually be the reason I've started liking her...

As for your problem, I've been there. Well, similar thing really. I really REALLY liked the girl from academy that I was with, and when she left me I kinda felt that there was a way I could get her back, even though deep down I knew I was better off without her. And for a long time I wanted to be with her again, even after what she did to me.

If you already tried to hook up with the girl you mentioned but failed, or if deep down you believe that you're too good for her, then all I can say is that time heals all wounds. However, during that time you can try something that I do: just keep telling yourself that she's a whore and a *****, and that you're too good for her and better off without her, even if you don't think that's true. It takes a while, but it works for me.

Then again, maybe you shouldn't stop trying either. That's the girl that first wanted to go see a film with you but then turned the offer down, right? If so, I say you should continue trying to hook up with her. Talk to her whenever possible, ask her if she wants to grab a coffee with you when it doesn't seem like you're actually asking her out, and take it slowly.

EDIT: Whoa, long ****ing post.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Aquamarine, on Jan 6 2009, 11:43 PM, said:

If you already tried to hook up with the girl you mentioned but failed, or if deep down you believe that you're too good for her, then all I can say is that time heals all wounds. However, during that time you can try something that I do: just keep telling yourself that she's a whore and a *****, and that you're too good for her and better off without her, even if you don't think that's true. It takes a while, but it works for me.

Then again, maybe you shouldn't stop trying either. That's the girl that first wanted to go see a film with you but then turned the offer down, right? If so, I say you should continue trying to hook up with her. Talk to her whenever possible, ask her if she wants to grab a coffee with you when it doesn't seem like you're actually asking her out, and take it slowly.

Problem is that I can't think of her that way. She just ISN'T a whore, ***** or whatever... She's too cute, really you should see her, nothing wrong can be said about her... She's just such a pleasant person to have around. In some way, I feel inferior to her. She's just a better person than I am.

Reason she turned me down didn't had much to do with me myself, but I've got a hard time believing that I didn't do anything wrong. I mean, the way I asked her wasn't exactly how I had it in mind. Still I'm glad I did it, but it was a rather sudden move of me... I hardly really speak with her (but everytime the converations still had some nice dreamy, romantic atmosphere) but I guess my imigination just couldn't handle her way of doing. Most likely she had no intentions of flirting anyways...

Also, the more I started to like her and picture us togheter in my mind, the more timid I became when actually talking to her. So really, I stand no chance anymore and I've already embarrased myself too much by asking her out and get turned down, so I'm not too unhappy not talking to her really... I'm very detached as a person anyways, so it's not like I've got any trouble keeping my distance from her.

Heh, I feel like such a loser typing all my "love life's" problems here on the internet...

[Aquamarine]

Diddy Kong, on Jan 7 2009, 11:44 AM, said:

Heh, I feel like such a loser typing all my "love life's" problems here on the internet...

I don't give a ****, I don't have a diary so it's good that I have a place where I can have a look at what had been going on in my love life earlier.

As for the rest of your post, we spoke over MSN so there's no reason to comment here as well. If anything new comes up though, let me know here or on MSN. I MUST KNOW WHAT'S HAPPENING! :P

[Nosferatu]

So I called Sheba on my cell today when my cell was in my pocket. Didn't even know until she e-mailed and told me.

What's funny about it was that I was with my soon-to-be girlfriend.

Lulz all around.

[kate]

so I'm kinda engaged. LOL DON'T KILL ME. k well it's a very long story

he's moving to new zealand for me aaand YOU GUYS CAN'T UNDERSTAND OUR LOVE *sob*

yeah I know I'm the biggest idiot and way too young bladeblah, but it's love, so what can I do.

[Split Infinity]

Oh god, we're going to be neighbours. XDD

Tell me everything. Nao.

[Nosferatu]

Kate, follow XCKD's advice if you actually end up living near Split.

http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/loud_sex.png

[Split Infinity]

Wait, wouldn't I have better use for that advice?

[Nosferatu]

You don't have anyone to ****.

[Blue]

O.o
Holy **** what Kate?
That was kind of sudden.

[Split Infinity]

Nosferatu, on Jan 9 2009, 05:48 PM, said:

You don't have anyone to fuck.

I do if I'm any of the characters in that comic. :/

[kate]

k, you may sleep with cartoon people if you wish.

yeah blue, sorry, just keeping you guys on your toes.

Ooo I guess this means I'm off the market. Wow, didn't mean to crush every guy on gssf's heart. k jkjk.......we can still be together :P wait what?

yeah split I'll swim over some time and we'll talk about it o.O

[Blue]

Deeeeeeeeeeeeetails Wooooooooooooooman!
I must hear... oh crap, left arm going numb, I'll be back later...

[Toasty]

YOU'D BETTER GO GET THAT PROSTATE CHECKED BLUE.


Kate, I have just one piece of advice for you.












































Always wear a life vest when swimming out at sea.

[My Best Wishes]

kate, on Jan 9 2009, 05:07 PM, said:

so I'm kinda engaged. LOL DON'T KILL ME. k well it's a very long story

he's moving to new zealand for me aaand YOU GUYS CAN'T UNDERSTAND OUR LOVE *sob*

yeah I know I'm the biggest idiot and way too young bladeblah, but it's love, so what can I do.

You're from NZ? Thought you were Canadian...
Grats though.

[Ironsight]

I think she's moving from Canada to New Zealand. Not too sure though.

[My Best Wishes]

Normally people move out of New Zealand, it's like Australia's little retarded brother that thinks it can compete with it's big brother and friends. But it can't.

[Mallick]

kate, on Jan 8 2009, 10:07 PM, said:

so I'm kinda engaged. LOL DON'T KILL ME. k well it's a very long story

he's moving to new zealand for me aaand YOU GUYS CAN'T UNDERSTAND OUR LOVE *sob*

yeah I know I'm the biggest idiot and way too young bladeblah, but it's love, so what can I do.

WORD

congratulations

[Lemontime]

kate, on Jan 9 2009, 05:07 PM, said:

so I'm kinda engaged. LOL DON'T KILL ME. k well it's a very long story

he's moving to new zealand for me aaand YOU GUYS CAN'T UNDERSTAND OUR LOVE *sob*

yeah I know I'm the biggest idiot and way too young bladeblah, but it's love, so what can I do.

whoa.. have you actually met this guy before?

[kate]

*facepalm* I live in canada. On the 19th I am moving to nz for university. Those are all the details I'm willing to provide right now due to extreme laziness.

[gsninja]

Ew, no one cares about Canada. ;o

And don't worry, we won't kill you. We'll probably do something else.

[Someone Else]

Kate got engaged to someone what the puck? But like.. meh whatever good for you.

Weirder stuff's happened.

[Saturos S.]

When you live in Canada, New Zealand is probably the most logical university choice.

[Lemontime]

GSNinja, on Jan 10 2009, 04:23 AM, said:

Ew, no one cares about Canada. ;o

And don't worry, we won't kill you. We'll probably do something else.

If you lived anywhere in the rest of the world, you'd think canada was so much cooler than america..

(God damn canada is awesome..)

[Split Infinity]

So, who popped the question? :D

[kate]

well we both just kinda always knew we'd end up together, so we always talk about it, but the ring he gave me is not the final one to seal the deal. He's coming to nz a couple months after me so he wants to do a proper proposal then. Like I said, complicated. Also I don't wear the ring on the left hand because I'm pretty sure my family would kill me. With their minds.

and yes, weirder stuff has happened. Marriage is not so weird.

...although I did swear I'd never get married. boooo

[Lemontime]

Oh. So like. You actually know him in person?

[Blue]

Well, conga rats Kate. AND STOP BRINGING UP THE PROSTATE EXAM! D:<

[Nosferatu]

GET A HAND UP YOUR ASS.

[Toasty]

Nosferatu, on Jan 9 2009, 07:12 PM, said:

GET A HAND UP YOUR ASS.

LAWL



Congrats kate. :P

[Ironsight]

King of Town, on Jan 9 2009, 02:51 PM, said:

If you lived anywhere in the rest of the world, you'd think canada was so much cooler than america..

(God damn canada is awesome..)

My grandparents went up to British Cloumbia for a few weeks a while back. The pics they brought back were pretty neat.

[kate]

no, i don't know him in person. I bought him from this hungarian husband finder. Got a pretty sweet deal too.

Of course I know him in person. We live together, so it's pretty hard not to XD

prostate exam what?

and yes. canada is awesome. you are correct sir.

[Mallick]

Miley Cyrus, on Jan 10 2009, 01:11 AM, said:

British Columbia pretty neat.

Yeah, we were featured on Planet Earth, we're great.

[Toasty]

kate, on Jan 11 2009, 01:41 PM, said:

no, i don't know him in person. I bought him from this hungarian husband finder. Got a pretty sweet deal too.

Of course I know him in person. We live together, so it's pretty hard not to XD

prostate exam what?

and yes. canada is awesome. you are correct sir.

Blue


Pics of your hubbie or it didn't happen.
And they'd better be hawt enough to give me e-wood.

[My Best Wishes]

All 5 inches.

[Someone Else]

*snicker*

[Split Infinity]

Isn't 5 inches the normal?

[My Best Wishes]

Someone Else, on Jan 12 2009, 05:25 PM, said:

*snicker*

http://blogtown.portlandmercury.com/files/2007/02/snickers.JPG

[Toasty]

watch, on Jan 11 2009, 10:16 PM, said:

All 5 inches.

That's 6 inches, thankyouverymuch.

[Split Infinity]

Enough for a Subway.

[Toasty]

Eff yea. Rule 34 sammich

[Golden Legacy]

kate, on Jan 9 2009, 02:07 AM, said:

so I'm kinda engaged. LOL DON'T KILL ME. k well it's a very long story

he's moving to new zealand for me aaand YOU GUYS CAN'T UNDERSTAND OUR LOVE *sob*

yeah I know I'm the biggest idiot and way too young bladeblah, but it's love, so what can I do.

Lightning bolt out of the clear blue sky. Congrats Kate, hope you two are happy.

[kate]

here's a random photo from new year's. He doesn't share my camwhoreness quality, so I don't have many pictures of him.

http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj282/rhiria/n645730303_5309387_5280.jpg

He plays guitar in quite a not-sucky way. Only u2 songs though... :D Also us at midnight. Fricken bad picture of me but it's an aww moment n.n

http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj282/rhiria/n645730303_5319748_406.jpg

toasty kindly don't become horny for my man. kthx

yeah I'm done now. How's you guys with the love lives?

[Split Infinity]

You're wearing it on your left hand, aren't you? XD

[Nosferatu]

kate, on Jan 12 2009, 11:18 PM, said:

yeah I'm done now. How's you guys with the love lives?

I'm still trying to figure out what the hell you mean. It's either how is **** going, or how is **** going for the guys that have girls.

Either way, awesome.

[kate]

good to know, good to know. I did mean how are your love lives but aight.

[Ironsight]

I'm dying alone.

[kate]

sweet. Well, we all do. Aw I'm so cheery n.n

[Split Infinity]

That's funny, kate's display name on MSN says the exact same thing...

[kate]

omg she must be my twin!

[Saturos S.]

O-M-G.

That guy has an earring? Guys with earrings and girls with really short hair make me scared.

[Toasty]

kate, on Jan 12 2009, 11:18 PM, said:

toasty kindly don't become horny for my man. kthx

....too late. I already came


....to this topic to post.

[Split Infinity]

Kate already made that joke three hours ago.

[Lemontime]

you're way too late toasty...

pun intended 100%.

[kate]

lawl yeah he has an earring. Not just because he's a huge dork (although he is) but because he's obsessed with u2 and has a mancrush on the drummer. The drummer wears that earring so he special ordered it. Frankly though he's one of the few guys I know who can pull it off.

We're expecting a restraining order any day now.

Also i don't have really short hair anymore so the rest of that post confuses me.

[Saturos S.]

Yeah, I was just extending my list of things that scare me. Yuki's short hair started it a few pages ago, or maybe a different topic. Can't keep track.

[Gio]

So I made the hardest decision of my life yesterday. I ended the nearly 3 year relationship with my GF. It is a pretty horrible feeling, even for the person doing the breaking up.

[Blue]

Can I ask why? If you don't want to say then I understand.

[Gio]

Well a couple of reasons.

The first is just that the way I felt for most of the relationship just went away, and it didn't help to much that she had moved away to Georgia.

The second is because I have only had three relationships every and two of them were probably just about as bad as you can get and so I have nothing else that can be called a "good" relationship to compare this to.

Third reason is because I am two years older than her. She is a junior in high school and I am a freshman in college, and I live about 6 hours away so I can't go to things like homecoming, prom, and other activities with her and I feel as if I am holding her back from having an actual high school experience.

And then there are a few smaller reasons that led me to this conclusion. It is still pretty hard to handle even as the person doing the breaking up. Mainly because I still do care about her, and I don't want to hurt her, but at the same time I feel if I lie about the way I feel to her then I am doing her, and myself and disservice.

It also sucks because I am trying to be friends, but I think it hurt her to much for her to even consider being anything less than boyfriend and girlfriend.

[Aquamarine]

Damn, that sucks. Sorry to hear that... Overall, those reasons for breaking up are pretty good, but for a girl that you've been with for half a year to a year. I don't want to sound like I know anything about your relationship, I'm just always sorry to hear when people break up after such a long time. 3 years is a LONG time, and I would expect that the reasons you've just listed aren't good enough for a break up...

My love life has become a little more complicated as of late. Two days ago I went out with the girl that I hooked up with for new year. This was the first time I've seen her since then, and she had become pretty obsessed with me, sending me messages ALL the time and stuff. And, long story short, I'm ignoring her messages now and I don't want to see her ever again.

I still have some ever so slight feelings for that one girl from academy, but her boyfriend(who she really seem to like) is in prison or somewhere as part of a witness protection program, so that's pretty much all she's got on her mind.

[Lemontime]

God damn your life is so exciting, aqua!

[Aquamarine]

King of Town, on Jan 20 2009, 11:03 PM, said:

God damn your life is so exciting, aqua!

... My sarcasm sensors are tingling. You're right though, I seem to post everything here when in actual fact I shouldn't. I'll edit out the last part of my previous post.

[Sea of Time]

I second Lemontime without sarcasm. Your life is exciting. =P

[Lemontime]

No sarcasm in my post.

And I know this post probably seems sarcastic, but I assure you 100% that I am serious. Your life sounds like so much fun :ph34r:

[Aquamarine]

King of Town, on Jan 20 2009, 11:25 PM, said:

No sarcasm in my post.

And I know this post probably seems sarcastic, but I assure you 100% that I am serious. Your life sounds like so much fun :ph34r:

... Damnit, you're being sarcastic and I know it!

[Lemontime]

THIS IS WHY THE INTERNET SUCKS! THIS IS NOT SARCASM :@@:@:@

[Gio]

Actually Aqua your life is pretty interesting from all the stuff I read. More happens to you in a day than what happens to me in like a month.

[Blue]

Its your fault for being sarcastic too much

So I ended it with that one girl, just not what I need right now. Got too much to think about. This video game class is kicking my ass and I'm working more at Gamestop. Haven't had time for her and she needs some one to give her attention.

[Lemontime]

you chose video games over girls.. NICE..

[Blue]

King of Town, on Jan 21 2009, 06:17 AM, said:

you chose video games over girls.. NICE..

I choose a CAREER in video games over a girl. My studies is just a little more important then wasting all my ****ing money on dates and bull****. I just bought a 30 dollar book on level design, and if for some reason my school can't get an educational version of Torque, everyone in my class will have to pay for their own, so thats about almost 300 dollars.

So, yeah, I guess I choose video games over girls. :ph34r:

[I'm Always BROKE]

Blue your sooo romantic!

[Saturos S.]

Well, just don't look for a gold digger?

I generally just buy drinks for the girl I'm liking/dating/flirting with.

...and most of the time I expect her to buy the next set of drinks.

[Blue]

I'm gonna tell you guys right now. I'm asexual. Always have been really. There are some girls that I've liked, but sex isn't something I'm interested in.

[I'm Always BROKE]

I can kinda understand why, and at the same time I can't. You can make every time special if you want. Sure if your looking at sex like "**** man, gotta **** that same pussy AGAIN!?" I can understand your not having lots of pleassures. But I guess it's too late to try different things now..? Just get yourself a new girl and try new stuff.

[Blue]

Its not about girls. I've never been as sexually active as any one for anything. People would say "That chicks hot" I just wouldn't care.

[Gio]

Well I now deem blue "the sponge"

[Blue]

Huh?

[Gio]

sponge=asexual

And my head is all in a jumble because I have a crush and I just got out of my relationship. Strange huh.
Good thing I to big of a wuss to act on it.

[Toasty]

Blue, on Jan 21 2009, 04:29 PM, said:

I'm gonna tell you guys right now. I'm asexual. Always have been really. There are some girls that I've liked, but sex isn't something I'm interested in.

I feel pretty much the same.

[Ironsight]

I'm pretty sure asexual is not the right word for it.

[Lemontime]

Asexual and retarded are two VERY different things, toasty!

[Blue]

http://en.wikipedia....wiki/Asexuality

[Saturos S.]

Quote

Keri Hulme, author of The Bone People, winner of the 1985 Booker Prize, discussed asexuality and her involvement with AVEN in a 2007 interview.

For some reason I found that incredibly funny.

[Blue]

I do too actually. xD

[Nosferatu]

Bow chicka bow wow.

[Split Infinity]

I'm bsexual.

[Toasty]

I'm csectional

[Lemontime]

I'm awesome.

[Sea of Time]

I'm getting more sex than most of you combined.

[Split Infinity]

How much is straight? =O

[Laharl]

Sea of Time, on Jan 25 2009, 06:54 AM, said:

I'm getting more sex than most of you combined.

enjoy your aids =D

[Lemontime]

Laharl, on Jan 25 2009, 06:14 PM, said:

enjoy your aids =D

http://philipscheel.net/facepalm.jpg

[Ironsight]

Would be better if each image wasn't shown five times.

[Split Infinity]

Miley Cyrus, on Jan 25 2009, 09:52 PM, said:

Would be better if each image wasn't shown five times.

This.

[Saturos S.]

Sea of Time, on Jan 25 2009, 07:54 AM, said:

I'm getting more sex than most of you combined.

Once a year?

[edit] for bragging reasons, I didn't include myself under "most of you"

This post has been edited by Saturos Striker: 25 January 2009 - 02:07 PM

[Sea of Time]

My bragging ends at my previous statement. And I'd just like to point out you can cut the insecurity in this topic with a knife.

[Split Infinity]

You've barely even talked about your girlfriend at all, John. Not including the random unspecific musings on sex.

[Someone Else]

Sea of Time, on Jan 25 2009, 01:15 PM, said:

And I'd just like to point out you can cut the insecurity in this topic with a knife.

That.

[Sea of Time]

Split Infinity, on Jan 25 2009, 04:13 PM, said:

You've barely even talked about your girlfriend at all, John. Not including the random unspecific musings on sex.

Not to hurt your feelings, but musings is really all you're gonna get out of me because my days of posting more than two sentences are over. I do love my girlfriend for more than sex though, it should be a given.

[Lemontime]

CAN'T READ MY CAN'T READ MY
NO HE CAN'T READ MY POKER FACE

[Sephiroth]

WD, you can`t warn me for a single spam, and then that **** slide. Like, I`m not trying to be a tattle tale (wow, haven`t heard/said that in years), or make a big deal out of it, but if yoù`re gonna tighten down on me, do it on all.

Love you Lemon.

Oh, and I`m thinking of proposing. Not right now, but sometime after I`m done school. I`m thinknig of doing it after Taste Of Chaos 2010, so I`ll be 19. The wedding wouldn`t be untill sometime after University (or during, I dunno). I know that`s a long ways away, but a man`s gotta plan right. And really, if we`re meant to be with each other, isn`t the perfect test being engaged for a few years? We`re going to the 2009 T-Dot show, and it`s all she`s been talking about for monthes, and she`s the biggest screamo fan you can imagine. It`s kinda like the Yankee fan at a Yankee game thing, but better nad a little more personal.

SoT, how long have you and * been together?

[Someone Else]

Sephiroth, on Jan 28 2009, 12:48 PM, said:

WD, you can`t warn me for a single spam, and then that **** slide. Like, I`m not trying to be a tattle tale (wow, haven`t heard/said that in years), or make a big deal out of it, but if yoù`re gonna tighten down on me, do it on all.

Love you Lemon.

Sorry, was in a bad mood when I did that in particular. BUT at any rate I did warn Lemon for something he did earlier today, so I'm not just picking on you.

[Lemontime]

swearing is cool, kids!

[Laharl]

shit waffles

[Sephiroth]

I eat [bleep] waffles like you for breakfast!

[Nosferatu]

Mumbo Magic: Life Force
Sex, Relationships, and Ego Boosting Topic

http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/base_system.png

[Lemontime]

Made my awesome friend of 12 years orgasm through her pants tonight.

As in I only had my hands outside her pants..

[Caael]

King of Town, on Feb 6 2009, 02:24 PM, said:

Made my awesome friend of 12 years orgasm through her pants tonight.

As in I only had my hands outside her pants..

As in you've known them 12 years or she's actually 12? Because thats illegal...

[Drizzy Drake]

King of Town, on Feb 6 2009, 09:24 AM, said:

Made my awesome friend of 12 years orgasm through her pants tonight.

As in I only had my hands outside her pants..

You make her cum (it's not cum, but you know what I mean)? Or just an orgasm?

Caael, on Feb 6 2009, 11:02 AM, said:

As in you've known them 12 years or she's actually 12? Because thats illegal...

Technically, as long as he's under 18, 12 is legal. 12 is the cutoff age though.

[Caael]

He's 16, which is the age of consent in England (dont know if its different in aussieland) but if he's over the age of consent, and she's under, that's pretty much pedophillia.

[Someone Else]

Someone Else, on Dec 20 2008, 10:59 PM, said:

I absolutely hate to bring this topic back to sex but I made the girl I've been talking about have an orgasm yesterday.

No, I didn't do anything TOO naughty. Outside of pants fingering.

Yeeup... That's kind of all I've got to say.

Lol reminds me of me. Known her forever.