[Eugine]

Why do you like Haaris?

[Quacnar]

Well I dont know if I should share...

[Golden Legacy]

I'm sounding like a broken record here, but several people already could (and should) be warned. Quit with the spam posts, please, you know who you are.

On another note, great tonight social dancing with the swing dancing club, including the girl I like. Did not tell her, though I did however get the number of a crazed 24-year old English Christian missionary, who either wants to meet up with me badly to tell me why I should convert or wants to actually date.

Never saw that one coming.

[kate]

Haha way to go gl, you playa :lol: oh and spill coz, I demand to know XD

[PDM]

killercoz, on Apr 4 2008, 05:12 PM, said:

There are 2 group of people that are exceptions to this rule:

1. Effeminate (sometimes gay) guys

2. Golden Legacy :lol:

Isn't that 1 group of people?

And GL, I'm feeling a mix of disappointment and pride in you. XP

[Toasty]

Wait....who's Haaris again? I'm talking about his forum name.

[EDIT] *facepalm* It's ihk, right?

[Split Infinity]

No, Toasty, Haaris is his pet name for you. <3

[Someone Else]

Golden Legacy, on Apr 4 2008, 11:06 PM, said:

I'm sounding like a broken record here, but several people already could (and should) be warned. Quit with the spam posts, please, you know who you are.

On another note, great tonight social dancing with the swing dancing club, including the girl I like. Did not tell her, though I did however get the number of a crazed 24-year old English Christian missionary, who either wants to meet up with me badly to tell me why I should convert or wants to actually date.

Never saw that one coming.

Ahaha, awesome! That sounds like something that would happen to me, actually...

[Drizzy Drake]

I Hate Kraden, I feel sorry for you. Just remember, suicide isn't always the best option. It's 2nd. Killing Coz is first.

But ontopic, it's nice that you had a good time GL. You should totally mack on that Christian, and make her sin, if you know what I mean.

[Quacnar]

kate, on Apr 5 2008, 02:54 AM, said:

Haha way to go gl, you playa :lol: oh and spill coz, I demand to know XD

What is it you want to know??

Dipset, on Apr 5 2008, 09:35 AM, said:

Darksword, I feel your pain. Just remember, suicide isn't always the best option. It's 2nd. Killing Coz is first.

What are you talking about?

[Saturos S.]

Seriously... reading the last 2 pages of this topic...

just... what the ****.

[Drizzy Drake]

Is Darksword not Harris, or is IHK? Whoever it is, I feel sorry for you.

EDIT-Ok, Harris is IHK. Ya, I feel sorry for IHK. Remember, if Coz tries any moves, you can always whip out that Mace, I'm sure he's used to useing it on others before. Women do use it alot, right Coz?

[Caael]

Would that be why coz's first account was called Haaris Munderdin or something?

[Drizzy Drake]

Ya, that's it. I feel very sorry for IHK. I can't imagine a guy being attracted to me, let alone someone as annoying as Coz.

[kate]

we get it skippy, being liked by coz is the end of the world, bladebla :lol:

what I wanted to know coz is when you discovered this attraction to ihk, what you're doing about it, etc. Personally I still think you might be kidding o.O

[Eugine]

If a guy is attracted to you, and you're straight, just tell the guy you're straight or and not interested or something. Gay hate crimes are pretty rampant, and it's actually getting worse, worldwide x.x
I think it's actually a compliment for a gay guy to be attracted to you... Plus, if you're confident about your sexuality, it shouldn't be a big deal.

[Quacnar]

Dipset, on Apr 5 2008, 01:23 PM, said:

Is Darksword not Harris, or is IHK? Whoever it is, I feel sorry for you.

EDIT-Ok, Harris is IHK. Ya, I feel sorry for IHK. Remember, if Coz tries any moves, you can always whip out that Mace, I'm sure he's used to useing it on others before. Women do use it alot, right Coz?

Dipskip, Haaris is IHK, he knows that I am not going to sexually assualt him and all the gay jokes aren't funny. Also, saying that gay people will sexually assault is prejudice.

Dipset, on Apr 5 2008, 01:28 PM, said:

Ya, that's it. I feel very sorry for IHK. I can't imagine a guy being attracted to me, let alone someone as annoying as Coz.

I don't understand, you feel sorry for IHK ibecause I am attracted to him?? What can't you imagine about a guy liking you, that someone besides your made up girlfriend likes you?

@Caael: Yes

kate, on Apr 5 2008, 01:32 PM, said:

we get it skippy, being liked by coz is the end of the world, bladebla :lol:

what I wanted to know coz is when you discovered this attraction to ihk, what you're doing about it, etc. Personally I still think you might be kidding o.O

Im serious, when I realized it I kept it to myself for the longest time because I didnt know what to do. I told some people about and I was given a lot of different advice which eventually led to me telling him the truth. First he pretended that he was oblivious to what I said, then on AIM he got really angry and threatened to kill me, and the next day at school he pretended nothing ever happened and that we were cool again.

EDIT: .eugine = smart

[kate]

o.O boys are weird. One of my friends told me she was attracted to me and I was flattered but obviously not interested, but we're still close friends. Whyyy would someone be upset about it? People liking you = win :lol:

[Drizzy Drake]

killercoz, on Apr 5 2008, 01:49 PM, said:

Dipskip, Haaris is IHK, he knows that I am not going to sexually assualt him and all the gay jokes aren't funny.

Also, saying that gay people will sexually assault is prejudice.

I don't understand, you feel sorry for IHK ibecause I am attracted to him?? What can't you imagine about a guy liking you, that someone besides your made up girlfriend likes you?

They are to me. The drug joeks seem to be funny to you, so why can't the gay ones be?

I never said gay people will sexually assualt, I'm just saying if he tries anything, to please kill you. It would benefit us all.

Yes, I do feel sorry for IHK. It must suck that you are attracted to him, and that you obviously want a relationship. I could imagine a guy being attracted to me, I was just making a point. And are you really going on about the whole "fake girlfriend" thing? I'm gonig to my friend's house in an hour, so I'll get a pic up then. Will that suffice? Or will you still be delusional, and not believe me? You seem to be the only person on here who doesn't. But I guess not believing me isn't the only thing that makes you different.

[Quacnar]

Dipset, on Apr 5 2008, 01:53 PM, said:

They are to me. The drug joeks seem to be funny to you, so why can't the gay ones be? Drugs and Gay jokes cross different lines

I never said gay people will sexually assualt, I'm just saying if he tries anything, to please kill you. It would benefit us all. Your the only one here who wants me dead, something I don't want for you.

Yes, I do feel sorry for IHK. It must suck that you are attracted to him, and that you obviously want a relationship. Why would it suck?I could imagine a guy being attracted to me, I was just making a point. And are you really going on about the whole "fake girlfriend" thing? I'm gonig to my friend's house in an hour, so I'll get a pic up then. Will that suffice? Or will you still be delusional, and not believe me? You seem to be the only person on here who doesn't. But I guess not believing me isn't the only thing that makes you different.No, iI don't truly believe it, I just think its funny that you actually think that I think you're lying.

[Drizzy Drake]

Drugs and gay joeks cross no line. What if I was a native canadian, and smoknig pot was part of culture? That would be the same as insulting your sexuality. You don't know me, so for all you know, I could be a native.

[Eugine]

Skidz, are you sure you're not gay/bisexual, and denying your sexuality? I think people in Canada will accept you man =)

And coz, are you sure, you have no attraction for Skidz?

[Drizzy Drake]

Lmao, I'm sure. Though yes, I'm sure Canada would accept it.




****, that was funny. Props.

[Valistrix]

You know, through all the hate between these two, I can see the love. <3

[Lightning Star]

Skid, coz. Knock it off >_>

Now can we Please get back on topic like we were supposed to two pages ago?

[Drizzy Drake]

Allright, Icy, you have anybody you are attracted to atm?

[Split Infinity]

You don't have to keep asking people Skidz, I'm sure they'll tell you in their own time.

[Laharl]

I had a girlfriend once....





















































.....until i strangled her

[Eugine]

haha. Laharl, why still single?

[Laharl]

the BS is unwanted

i'm surrounded by people who get in family feuds over pertty squabbles. on a regular basis :/

i'll keep my money and time thank you very much

[Split Infinity]

Not every girl is a gold digger, Laharl. :(

[Laharl]

oh they ARE where i live :(

[Caael]

He doesnt lie.

[Toasty]

Icy, on Apr 5 2008, 01:55 PM, said:

Now can we Please get back on topic like we were supposed to two pages ago?

Alright, whate ever happened to that guy who likes you, whom you kissed on the cheak after a dance?

Did he start hitting on you again? :(

[I'm Always BROKE]

Guess what? I didn't told her, I was too pussy to do that even though I KNEW she also liked me. >_< I feel so ****ing bad now... should I call her? Or should I wait untill I see her again to tell her? **** man I screwed up! I had like 3 oppertunities to tell her, and I didn't used them. There goes my self esteem again...

[Toasty]

Just call her up right now. If you know she likes you, you've got nothing to lose. Better sooner rather than later.

[Split Infinity]

I don't know, if you call her up it might seem a little impersonal. If want to tell someone how you feel about them, it's usually better to do it face-to-face. Surely you can find another time where you two will be together?

[Toasty]

It won't seem that impersonal as long as it's in the same day/night. It would if he just randomly called her up some day, but that's not the case.

[Split Infinity]

Why would it matter if he called her today? He didn't do anything.

[I'm Always BROKE]

I agree that's a bit unpersonal, but I've got a good sollution for this! Next week, she celebrates her birthday and I thought that I'd give her the prefect present. The thing I have in mind is 2 tickets to the theathre which are packed in a rather common round package which has room for more presents, I personally thought of something as parfume or something like that with a little note inside saying happy birthday and perhaps something romantic in there as the 'head' of a rose and tell her I like her before giving the present which I ask her to open when she's home (I'm gonna give it to her at work). Because the packaging is so obvious that it are movie tickets, it's pretty much the same as asking her out to the theatre. Annnd cause I arrive at the party later than she does, she still has time enough to open the present at home and fall for it, and when I come to the party hopefully she'll approach me and we'll have a few dances and maybe more... The next day of the party it's her official birthday, and I though that maybe I should a flower delivery service deliver flowers to her place? Anyways, I know how to make up for not telling her at least. ^^

[Caael]

Nice plan :( Just hope something doesn't go horribly wrong.

[Drizzy Drake]

DIddy. Tsk tsk. You need a little bit more confidence. The worst thnig that could have happened, is that she could have said no.

[Eugine]

Diddy: I like you
Girl: No
wtf?

And Diddy, I know how you feel man =)
I'm not in the same situation now, but I was in it last year x.x

[Drizzy Drake]

I mean if he asked her out dumbass.

[I'm Always BROKE]

THe funny thing is, I know almost for sure that she likes me too and she was alone with me a lot yesterday night yet I didn't told her. The thing that stopped me from doing it was the relief it would be for me and how I would react upon it, I fear that I might get a bit TOO relieved and show to not care about her answer anymore. So far, she's showing more interest to me than I do to her... >_<

Kinda complicated issue really, but I'll just wait for her reaction this week, cause last week we texted each other A LOT so I'm waiting for her reaction on this cause afterall, I did some flirting with her yesterday, I just didn't told her I like her...

[Drizzy Drake]

Well I hope things turn out well. Then you can join the exclusive club of people on GSSF with relationships.

[Caael]

So you and Diddy.

[Drizzy Drake]

And GIo...

[PDM]

Me and Mallick are in an internet relationship.


*Crowd gasps*

[Eugine]

SoT also.
Plus, not everyone who are active posted in this topic you know. Nick has a GF last time I remembered for eg.
Who says Max doesn't have a GF because he doesn't post in this topic?

[Drizzy Drake]

Fine, Diddy can join the exclusive club of people with a bf/gf who post in this topic.

[Sea of Time]

I want a V.I.P. membership, dammit. And I can't believe you forget me Skidz. =( I'm so sad now.

[Caael]

Do I get partial membership for recently coming out of a relationship?

[Drizzy Drake]

*Thinks carefully* Allright, SoT, you can enter the VIP room. It's at the back, to the left. You msut swipe this card to enter. *Hands SoT the card* The rules will not be told to you. You must figure them out on your own. If you break ONE, you are gone.

Welcome to Club Relationships SoT. We hope you have a good time.

EDIT @ Caael-Hmm, yes. But you may not enter any of the specialty rooms. You may only enter the main area. Drinks are still free though, so....drink up.

[Sea of Time]

Caael, on Apr 6 2008, 01:17 PM, said:

Do I get partial membership for recently coming out of a relationship?

I think Caael should be in because he's younger than anyone and already has had multiple relationships.

[Drizzy Drake]

*Stares at edit* He gets partial membership. No acess to the special rooms. Like 24 Hours In Heaven, VIP, Cheat On Your Partner. He just gets the main, sit around with friends drink and do drugs till you pass out, room.

[Eugine]

A 3 weeks relationship is nothing guys. I had two relationships in my life, and 3 weeks relationships memories fade away so quickly.

[Laharl]

your're all elitist twatblankets

[Drizzy Drake]

I'm still going strong for a year and a half. 3 weeks is barely a relationship. No insult to Caael.

[PDM]

Dipset, on Apr 6 2008, 12:20 PM, said:

*Thinks carefully* Allright, SoT, you can enter the VIP room. It's at the back, to the left. You msut swipe this card to enter. *Hands SoT the card* The rules will not be told to you. You must figure them out on your own. If you break ONE, you are gone.

Welcome to Club Relationships SoT. We hope you have a good time.

EDIT @ Caael-Hmm, yes. But you may not enter any of the specialty rooms. You may only enter the main area. Drinks are still free though, so....drink up.

Why is Skidz the leader of this club? People were in relationships before he came along.

[Caael]

What, so the time we spent together determines how we feel about each other? Yeah, sure, that's good logic...

[Eugine]

It is Caael =)
If she liked you lots, it would have lasted more than 3 weeks.

[Someone Else]

Laharl, on Apr 6 2008, 12:35 PM, said:

your're all elitist twatblankets

I agree. The world doesn't revolve around having a girlfriend, but you guys seem to think so.

[Drizzy Drake]

PDM, on Apr 6 2008, 04:20 PM, said:

Why is Skidz the leader of this club? People were in relationships before he came along.

I took over. I like to call it a promotion.

[Caael]

.eugine, on Apr 6 2008, 09:35 PM, said:

It is Caael =)
If she liked you lots, it would have lasted more than 3 weeks.

Well according to her, we're 'on a break' which works for me.

[Eugine]

Wind Dude, on Apr 6 2008, 05:01 PM, said:

I agree. The world doesn't revolve around having a girlfriend, but you guys seem to think so.

Chris Crocker says is brilliantly ^__^

http://www.youtube.c...h?v=Rp198k984Yw

[Caael]

I've lost any previous respect for you, Eugine.

[Eugine]

Listen to the message Caael, only the message (although, CC videos always keep me entertained).

And you had respect for me Caael?

[Drizzy Drake]

I bet Chris Crocker never had, and never will have, a real relationship.

[Eugine]

I think he's paid to act like that on YouTube actually.

[Someone Else]

.eugine, on Apr 6 2008, 02:31 PM, said:

Chris Crocker says is brilliantly ^__^

http://www.youtube.c...h?v=Rp198k984Yw

I actually think that guy (?) is pretty smart, a lot of what his says is true. At least from the videos I've watched, though it's not much. It's a bit hard to take him seriously though, what with the voice and the face and... yeah.

If I were to get a girlfriend now, it's because my two best friends are dating each other. If they weren't, I wouldn't see any incentive. At all.

Dipset, on Apr 6 2008, 03:00 PM, said:

I bet Chris Crocker never had, and never will have, a real relationship.

And there's a problem with that? You, sir, are codependent.

[Drizzy Drake]

Not particularily. I'm just stating that I doubt anybody will feel attracted to the guy.

[Sea of Time]

Caael, on Apr 6 2008, 03:26 PM, said:

Well according to her, we're 'on a break' which works for me.

Do you know if there's another guy involved here? Or are the problems purely between you and her?

[Split Infinity]

Dipset, on Apr 7 2008, 08:06 AM, said:

Not particularily. I'm just stating that I doubt anybody will feel attracted to the guy.

And you implied that it was a bad thing.

[Drizzy Drake]

On a break, for the most part, leads to a break-up.

[Someone Else]

Split Infinity, on Apr 6 2008, 03:08 PM, said:

And you implied that it was a bad thing.

I was going to say the same thing, but I didn't feel there was any reason to push the subject. XD

[Drizzy Drake]

Well, to get off the Crocker subject, is anybody here married(I know it's a long shoit since only a few people are over 20)?

[Sea of Time]

I think that the oldest members here are around the age of escout or GL and they're not even close to the marrying age. Unless someone here is from the Arctic where they marry when they're 12, I don't think so.

[Someone Else]

I was married a while ago, but we had to divorce because it was "inconvenient" as she had to move on, somewhere else.

Kate and I are to marry when the world floods and all the people under 6 feet drown.

[kate]

Chris crocker is my hero. He is brilliant and gorgeous, and knows how to work the media better than paris hilton. I think he does love his boyfriends, but he acts like he doesn't because he doesn't want to seem weak.

*tear* I love him <333

anyyywho, being on a break doesn't mean there's another guy, but it certainly is a possibility, because if that doesn't work then she could just come back to you and say the break's over. inteeeresting.

[Sea of Time]

Damn. I'd just miss the cut. Are you seriously that tall, WD?

[Drizzy Drake]

I haven't seem many relationships continue for long after a "break".

[Sea of Time]

I agree with that. My last relationship went on a "break", and when I got back from the break, I had found someone else and promptly broke up with her and moved on with my life. There's very little hope for young people taking a break. It's usually more of an effective method for married couples.

[Someone Else]

Sea of Time, on Apr 6 2008, 03:13 PM, said:

Damn. I'd just miss the cut. Are you seriously that tall, WD?

6 feet 1/2 an inch, and that's without shoes. Barely, but it counts.

[Sea of Time]

Wind Dude, on Apr 6 2008, 04:16 PM, said:

6 feet 1/2 an inch, and that's without shoes. Barely, but it counts.

Alright, you're only a couple inches taller than me then. Just so you know, I couldn't date someone taller than me. It's too weird for me. Sorry WD.

[kate]

*sigh* and that's why wd is my future flood husband :o

"taking a break" is just a term for people who are to scared to actually say "we're over", either because they don't want the confrontation or because they're still hoping it could work.

[Drizzy Drake]

I will not drown when the world floods. :o.

[Sea of Time]

kate, on Apr 6 2008, 04:18 PM, said:

*sigh* and that's why wd is my future flood husband :o

"taking a break" is just a term for people who are to scared to actually say "we're over", either because they don't want the confrontation or because they're still hoping it could work.

Exactly. It's weird for Caael's girl to use that term because they've only been dating three weeks. For such a short-term relationship, it should be easy to say "it's over".

[Drizzy Drake]

Mhmm. Well since the reason she said she'd date him in the first place, is because she couldn't say no, I'd say she doesn't really want the confrontation.

[Sea of Time]

So all along she didn't want it but she was too much of a wimp to just end it? That makes her look like a real winner.

[Drizzy Drake]

You know it.

Thanks for agreeing, but keep it over five words - SoT

[Eugine]

Poor Caael. I feel sorry for him if Skidz interpretation is correct.

[Golden Legacy]

Hmm, I missed this? What's the situation with Caael?

On a side note, a girl called me asking to have dinner with her (not the girl from before or the demented/crazed 24-year-old English Christian missionary), couldn't go because I was at work, so we rescheduled.

[Sea of Time]

Okay, so I've been having a personal issue that I didn't really know who to tell, but I figure since you guys have been so good with other members, you could give me some help. I mostly like giving support rather than taking it, because I don't have to open up to give generic advice, but here goes.

I have this problem when I'm in relationships where I get jealous of whoever it is I'm going out with. It might be part of an inferiority complex or something, but when they do something big and important part of me is proud and the other part is jealous that I haven't done anything that big or important. I keep trying to make an effort to change and put that in the back of my head, but sometimes it goes as far as to ruin the mood I'm in.

I don't mean to sound whiny or anything, but that's just the way it is, and I really don't want to feel like this looking forward to the future.

[Caael]

Sea of Time, on Apr 6 2008, 11:07 PM, said:

Do you know if there's another guy involved here? Or are the problems purely between you and her?

The only possible guy who could be involved is my friend Carl, who had an operation on the day me and Rosie broke up and she was worried that if it went wrong, he could die ( there was a 20% chance), and she's already said to me it's because she had a terrible day and one thing went wrong after another and she said it felt right to break up with me on that day now, and she says she's having regrets now.

[Eugine]

So, would you go back with her?

[Drizzy Drake]

Golden Legacy, on Apr 6 2008, 06:45 PM, said:

Hmm, I missed this? What's the situation with Caael?

On a side note, a girl called me asking to have dinner with her (not the girl from before or the demented/crazed 24-year-old English Christian missionary), couldn't go because I was at work, so we rescheduled.

GL you player. :o. What's her personallity like, and is she good looking.

Sea of Time, on Apr 6 2008, 06:47 PM, said:

Okay, so I've been having a personal issue that I didn't really know who to tell, but I figure since you guys have been so good with other members, you could give me some help. I mostly like giving support rather than taking it, because I don't have to open up to give generic advice, but here goes.

I have this problem when I'm in relationships where I get jealous of whoever it is I'm going out with. It might be part of an inferiority complex or something, but when they do something big and important part of me is proud and the other part is jealous that I haven't done anything that big or important. I keep trying to make an effort to change and put that in the back of my head, but sometimes it goes as far as to ruin the mood I'm in.

I don't mean to sound whiny or anything, but that's just the way it is, and I really don't want to feel like this looking forward to the future.

Just so I don't get confused. You aren't jelous of other men, you tend to feel bad when your partner does something nice for you, and you haven't?

Hmm. This is a difficult one. This may be something you'll have to gradually get over, and to help, you might want to do something in return. Say your gf gives you something really nice and expensive for your birthday, then do the same for hers. I really don't have any more advice on this situation. I hope it helped.

[Sea of Time]

Well, for example, my last girlfriend got hired at a job, and even though I had my own job, I was jealous of her for getting it to the point where I was in a bad mood for a couple days. I know how frustrating it is to deal with someone who's grouchy and unwilling to explain, and I'm just looking to see if there's anyone else here who's felt like this.

[Drizzy Drake]

I wish I could help you, but I can't say I have.

[Sea of Time]

Meh, that's alright. It really only comes up occasionally and I'm getting better at ignoring it anyway.

[Eugine]

Never ignore problems, they become worse x3.

[Caael]

I'll be back with my gf withing the week, garuanteed.

SoT, I have been in that position in a previous relationship. There's no reason to be jealous, so just be proud of them.

[Laharl]

Jealousy is an emotion for children.

grow up or give up.

[Sea of Time]

Thanks asshole. How about you **** off or give some real advice.

Forget it guys. Just talk about Caael's ****. Obviously it's more interesting and "mature".

I censored another mod! O:

[Drizzy Drake]

Oh ****, more drama, and it doesn't include me. Ya Laharal, that was sort of rude. If you are saying that only children feel jelous, than every person in the world feels jelous. Whether it's because you don't have that nice car, or you don't have the new video game. Everybody feels jelous.

[kate]

lol on principle sot, I generally ignore anything caael of larharl say when it comes to relationships. One of them is very young and likes to act like he knows it all, and the other thinks all women are just trouble and not worth the bother.

Meanwhile, I also suck at relationships, but what I can say is it's possible you feel jealous because you think she's going to think less of you if you're not doing as well as her, in which case I would just talk to her about it. However make it very very clear you want to be proud of her, you're just having difficulty, or she'll think you're just a jerk :o

[Sea of Time]

I was hoping someone would come through. Yeah, being honest is the best plan, I should probably have gone with that from the start.

[Drizzy Drake]

I tried to help. :o. Don't hate me. :jupiter:.

[Sea of Time]

Don't worry about it Skidz. Some of us just don't know enough to actually contribute to topics.

[Eugine]

I hardly think Laharl meant any harm. His advise was harsh, but it's true =)
I admit, everyone feels jealous. The best way to combat jealously is to simply do better yourself.
Work twice as hard SoT... do better than your GF.

[Sea of Time]

.eugine, on Apr 6 2008, 07:05 PM, said:

I hardly think Laharl meant any harm. His advise was harsh, but it's true =)
I admit, everyone feels jealous. The best way to combat jealously is to simply do better yourself.
Work twice as hard SoT... do better than your GF.

Hahahaha, I can't work any harder than I am right now. The jealousy doesn't come up when I'm with her, it mostly stems from individual stuff done when we're apart. I've really done better lately, but I'm just wanting those last pangs to go away. But kate was right, talking to her will definitely work in this case.

[Drizzy Drake]

Openess is one of the key factors of a good relationship.

[Sea of Time]

I've gotten better at that this time around as well. In my last relationship, I rarely opened up and eventually all those problems added up and came out at once, which ended up pretty much in disaster.

[Drizzy Drake]

ANd it probably was a good learning experience, am I right?

[Eugine]

Well, I personally think talking about jealousy will make you look weak.

If you talk about it, and don't try to combat the reason for jealousy, it'll always be there. I do not think this works for relationships, since it'll seem like if you're competing with her, but it worked for me.
For example, my friends are naturally better than me at specific games, and yeah, I feel jealous. To combat that I practiced, and now, I'm better than most, and the jealousy is now gone ^__^.

If you can be more specific as to what you're jealous about, I guess I can try to use my life experience to help you more.

[Sea of Time]

Haha definitely. I learned that love isn't something you just jump into, it's something you work on over time. You can't just say "I love you" after two weeks, because you don't know that. I also learned that honesty is crucial all the way through, not just in the "relationship break" period. And I learned I had a few problems to work out and by moving on from her, I worked most of them out.

That's mostly why things are so awesome right now. Because I'm over the "rookie mistakes" and am being the best I possibly can be for my girlfriend.

[kate]

just because he talks about it doesn't mean he can't combat it. In fact I said he should talk about it because that will help combat it, as in his gf might boast less or something, alot changes once you talk about it to the person, keeping it inside makes it seem bigger than it is. And talking about it will make him seem weak? see that's the kind of attitude that men have that girls hate. It doesn't make you look weak to anyone except other silly boys who think talking about things somehow decreases your testosterone :o

The one thing you shouldn't do is try and be better than her. That will make it a competition, and accelerate this to a point of no return.

[Eugine]

Yeah lol. My advise sucks for relationships. Oh well. I'll let the experienced people give advise here.

[Sea of Time]

I think I've got all I need to go on now. Thanks to anyone who helped out (including you, eugine =P). I keep learning, and any steps I take makes me that much better in the future.

[kate]

huzzah. Well let us know how it goes. We need to live vicariously through you :o

[Drizzy Drake]

Kate does atleast, since she has no time to do ANYTHING because of her IB's. *Looks at MSN convo* Ya.

[Sea of Time]

Seriously though, all those people who are too scared to talk to the girl they like - JUST DO IT. It is, quite honestly, the best feeling in the world. =P

[Quacnar]

SOT: Do you feel that your girlfriend doing something successful makes you feel that you aren't the stronger one in the relationship?? Maybe you feel that if you aren't in control, you'll seem weak to your gf? Just a theory.

[kate]

see I have this bad habit of liking good looking boys, and the problem with that is they are aware that they are good looking, which makes it extremely difficult for me to work up confidence, given the state of my own self esteem. I wish I was a guy. The majority of hot girls really don't know it

EDIT: coz, I just said that XD

[Sea of Time]

killercoz, on Apr 6 2008, 07:33 PM, said:

SOT: Do you feel that your girlfriend doing something successful makes you feel that you aren't the stronger one in the relationship?? Maybe you feel that if you aren't in control, you'll seem weak to your gf? Just a theory.

Yeah, that's how I feel. And yeah, that's what kate just said. =D

@ kate: It is easier for guys because history and our culture dictates that we're supposed to ask the girls out. But saying how you feel doesn't hurt. You just can't instigate relationships with the kind of guys you're talking about.

[Caael]

kate, on Apr 7 2008, 01:59 AM, said:

lol on principle sot, I generally ignore anything caael of larharl say when it comes to relationships. One of them is very young and likes to act like he knows it all, and the other thinks all women are just trouble and not worth the bother.

Give me one example where I think I know everything about women.

I dont give advice about women, I just talk about my experiences. That's not thinking I know everything.

[Drizzy Drake]

SoT, do you have a pic of your girlfriend?

And Kate, just work up the confidence. Get drunk if you have to (seeing as that gave you enough confidence to kiss a female :o).

[Eugine]

3 weeks with a girl and he knows everything lolz.

And Skidz, are you sure kate wants the entire GSSF population to know that?

[Gio]

Sea of Time, on Apr 6 2008, 07:51 PM, said:

Thanks asshole. How about you fuck off or give some real advice.

Forget it guys. Just talk about Caael's shit. Obviously it's more interesting and "mature".

Would have tried and helped if I had seen this earlier.

kate, on Apr 6 2008, 08:26 PM, said:

just because he talks about it doesn't mean he can't combat it. In fact I said he should talk about it because that will help combat it, as in his gf might boast less or something, alot changes once you talk about it to the person, keeping it inside makes it seem bigger than it is. And talking about it will make him seem weak? see that's the kind of attitude that men have that girls hate. It doesn't make you look weak to anyone except other silly boys who think talking about things somehow decreases your testosterone :o

The one thing you shouldn't do is try and be better than her. That will make it a competition, and accelerate this to a point of no return.

I agree. You should talk about it. Seriously why should a guy care what another dude thinks?

[Lightning Star]

Sorry, this is kinda off the jealousy topic ^^; I opened up my laptop and realized I had a post going that I hadn't finished.

Toasty, on Apr 6 2008, 02:09 AM, said:

Alright, whatever happened to that guy who likes you, whom you kissed on the cheek after a dance?

Did he start hitting on you again? :o

We actually went out for two weeks. It would have lasted longer if I hadn't had such a big mouth. Lets just say I exaggerate when I'm stressed and upset. I said some things about him that I didn't really mean, and at the time (since it was so early in the relationship) I wasn't sure it was going to last between us. All that was in my blog, and someone from my school who knew the guy told him about it. (they were also the one to report me to the counselor -.-; ). Well he found out about it about a week after I posted the darn thing, and by that point I was starting to get really attached to him. So we decided to forget about it (although he still dwelt on it). But then one night he hung up with me and his parents were all like "I thought we told you to break up with her". (His brother had been there when my ex read the blog, and then told their parents).

I guess he kinda agreed with his parents, because after talking to him, he thought it was the best thing to do. I was just really ticked at myself; it was the first time in a long time that I had actually felt attached to someone, and I blew it.

So me? I'm out of the game I guess until I can figure out how not to ruin a relationship and get attached enough to one person to be in one. So far, neither of those are working out real well for me.

[Someone Else]

Err, am I the only one that noticed that SoT just bypassed the swear filter, and he's a mod? x_x; Doesn't make sense.

And SoT, hate to sound like a broken record but Kate is probably right, and either way Laharl's right, if overly harsh. Your GF is not doing anything wrong, it's a problem with you. The only thing you can rightly do is get over it. Self-improvement can only be good.

[PDM]

Icy, on Apr 6 2008, 07:41 PM, said:

long post

It sounds like it wasn't you who ruined the relationship, but some d00d at your school who apparently reads your blog who did.

[Toasty]

Icy, on Apr 6 2008, 07:41 PM, said:

Sorry, this is kinda off the jealousy topic ^^; I opened up my laptop and realized I had a post going that I hadn't finished.



We actually went out for two weeks. It would have lasted longer if I hadn't had such a big mouth. Lets just say I exaggerate when I'm stressed and upset. I said some things about him that I didn't really mean, and at the time (since it was so early in the relationship) I wasn't sure it was going to last between us. All that was in my blog, and someone from my school who knew the guy told him about it. (they were also the one to report me to the counselor -.-; ). Well he found out about it about a week after I posted the darn thing, and by that point I was starting to get really attached to him. So we decided to forget about it (although he still dwelt on it). But then one night he hung up with me and his parents were all like "I thought we told you to break up with her". (His brother had been there when my ex read the blog, and then told their parents).

I guess he kinda agreed with his parents, because after talking to him, he thought it was the best thing to do. I was just really ticked at myself; it was the first time in a long time that I had actually felt attached to someone, and I blew it.

So me? I'm out of the game I guess until I can figure out how not to ruin a relationship and get attached enough to one person to be in one. So far, neither of those are working out real well for me.

Blogs are evil and ex's can be pains in the ass. Just remember that, and you'll make far fewer mistakes. :o

But it sounds to me like the blog is what's causeing problems. If I were you, I'd get a new domain name for it. Or if it's on a blogging site, make a new account.

But really, it porbably wouldn't be a bad idea to lay off the blogging for a while. Anyone can read it, so it's fair game.

and I agree with PDM. You should hire some one to "shut him up." :jupiter:

[I'm Always BROKE]

SoT why would you feel jealous to your girlfriend? Sure, I didn't read the whole post but if you feel like your the 'weaker' person in the relationship. shouldn't you be PROUND of your girl for that? Yes, be pround of her for what she does and is able to achieve what you can't and show her that you appriciate her for that. At least, that's how I'd feel about this...

[Laharl]

Sea of Time, on Apr 7 2008, 01:51 AM, said:

Thanks asshole. How about you fuck off or give some real advice.

How about you face reality and stop being mortally offended by things that dont feed your ego

Dipset, on Apr 7 2008, 01:55 AM, said:

Oh ****, more drama, and it doesn't include me. Ya Laharal, that was sort of rude. If you are saying that only children feel jelous, than every person in the world feels jelous. Whether it's because you don't have that nice car, or you don't have the new video game. Everybody feels jelous.

the kind of envy where you have genuine resentment for someone because they have something you dont is the behavior of 8 year olds

kate, on Apr 7 2008, 01:59 AM, said:

lol on principle sot, I generally ignore anything caael of larharl say when it comes to relationships. One of them is very young and likes to act like he knows it all, and the other thinks all women are just trouble and not worth the bother.

i'd appecriate it if you didnt accuse me of sexism.

Sea of Time, on Apr 7 2008, 02:05 AM, said:

Don't worry about it Skidz. Some of us just don't know enough to actually contribute to topics.

Elitism rears its ugly head once again. Experience isnt the only form of knowledge

[I'm Always BROKE]

Laharl, can't you be a bit less bitter for once?

And why's jelousy childish? Everyone is jelous sometimes, saying jelousy is childish is saying that having an ego is childish. I can understand that you want to be better than someone, but not your girlfriend SoT...like I said before, I think you should be pround of her qualities she's your girl, not your rival. :o

[Caael]

.eugine, on Apr 7 2008, 03:07 AM, said:

3 weeks with a girl and he knows everything lolz.

Evidence please. Why are people thinking i'm such a pimp? I said I didnt want to talk about what happened, but people wanted to know so I told them. How's that knowing everything about women?

[Split Infinity]

Caael = Rightly Defensive

Laharl = Needlessly Offensive

:/

[I'm Always BROKE]

^ Agreed there.

So back on topic, usually I'd text the girl I like now but I'm actually waiting for her to begin with it and I'll take initiative Thursday if nothing happens while meaningwhile I'm getting her a ****loads of birthday presents. :o

http://img175.imageshack.us/img175/2329/bou0688qz1.th.jpg

So those are the flowers I'm gonna deliver her for her birthday. ^^ It'll cost me 35$ or something (I suck at maths lulz) but it's all worth it.

[Split Infinity]

Wow, you got the leaf basket and everything. Hope she likes them. Just don't chicken out on the way to the party, brother. :o

[I'm Always BROKE]

If I do that I'll seriously have to beat myself, I won't let that happen again! She's pretty much the only thing I have in mind right now, can't concentrate on other things... the urge is SO big to just go and text her now but I'll have to control myself. ^^

[Eugine]

Um, Diddy, is this your first time doing this?

[Sea of Time]

So I liek this gurl but dunno how 2 talk 2 her? Wut I do?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Ohh but I KNOW how to talk to her! Just telling her I like her is just asking A LOT from me and yes this is the first time for me indeed Eugine, but it's gonna be the best one I'll ever do! :)

[Eugine]

Or it may scar you for life. Always leave room for dissapointment.

I hope you know, usually things pictured in your fantasy world are far different from reality.

[I'm Always BROKE]

Why does everybody keep telling me that? O.o

[Eugine]

Everyone is telling you that? WHERE? Real life?

[Drizzy Drake]

'Cause it's true Diddy.

[Sea of Time]

Laharl, on Apr 7 2008, 02:40 AM, said:

How about you face reality and stop being mortally offended by things that dont feed your ego

Obviously, if my ego was as big as I make it out to be, I wouldn't be asking for advice in the first place.

Quote

the kind of envy where you have genuine resentment for someone because they have something you dont is the behavior of 8 year olds

I never said I was envious, and if I sent that message, I'm sorry. It's more of a feeling of inferiority.

Quote

Elitism rears its ugly head once again. Experience isnt the only form of knowledge

But experience gives me an opportunity to help others. You're not really helping me other than telling me I'm acting like an eight year old. Gee. Thanks.

I was on the computer today looking up the exact definition of an inferiority complex, and it seems to me like it might be my problem since I have all the qualities of someone who's introverted. I was raised being told I had potential in school, at sports, and the like. I still get told by my parents that I have potential today. But it's always like it's off in the distance and not quite achievable. I guess because of this I developed something like an inferiority complex where the accomplishments of those around me are magnified and I focus on how I'm not better at that specific point than them. It's not only my girlfriends, but also my peers around me. I think that why I singled out my gf is because I spend more time talking/spending time with her so the inferior thing is magnified.

I know what I have to do, and nothing you can tell me is really going to help. I have to start focusing on what I do best (writing, debating) and not focus on what others do best. Everyone has their own talents, and I have to stop focusing on the talents of others and start focusing on my own for my own benefit.

Don't think I'm not proud of my girlfriend for what she does in her life. And all things considered, she doesn't do that much more than I do. But sometimes I feel like it's a whole lot more than it is. That's something I have to work out on my own.

[Eugine]

Hence why I said just try to do better. As WD said, self improvement can only be good.

[Sea of Time]

Telling me to "do better" is pretty ambiguous advice. >.> Do better in what exactly?

[Eugine]

Well, what exactly makes you feel inferior?

[Sea of Time]

I think the point is not to try at the things I'm inferior at. The point is to try more at things I'm good at, so that I can be proud of myself and proud of her because we each have our own traits and talents.

[Caael]

So do that? You've got the plan, now put it into action :) Train 4 hours a day on videogames so she wont ever surpass you.

[Sea of Time]

First step: Get off GSSF. XD

[Caael]

Bye SoT, good lucky with life :)

[Lightning Star]

Toasty, on Apr 7 2008, 01:12 AM, said:

Blogs are evil and ex's can be pains in the ass. Just remember that, and you'll make far fewer mistakes. :)

But it sounds to me like the blog is what's causeing problems. If I were you, I'd get a new domain name for it. Or if it's on a blogging site, make a new account.

But really, it porbably wouldn't be a bad idea to lay off the blogging for a while. Anyone can read it, so it's fair game.

Did all that. I first realized that the person read my blog and told my ex. I immediately changed the domain name and made it private (something I didn't realize I could do). Then I found out that person had also reported me to the counselor, but by the time I changed my domain name, my dad had already read it and knew about my "condition". I just blog rather than journal 'cause I type five times faster than write. And I'm already on the computer while doing so.

Sea of Time, on Apr 7 2008, 03:06 PM, said:

First step: Get off GSSF. XD

Nonono. First step: Focus on what you do best. Or just be sarcastic. What? It really does create a smug sense of superiority :3

[Sea of Time]

I was kidding. I could never actually leave you guys. :)

[kate]

yeeeah telling someone to "do better" is like telling someone to "not be sad". If this is a serious mental thing, you should either do as some people tell you to and focus on your strengths, or seek help. Not the crazy 'put you in a hug-yourself jacket' kind of people, just like a school cousellor or something. I had to do this myself, sometimes the worst thing for a kid is being told 'the sky's the limit' because when you fall short you feel it's all your fault.

Diddy, don't build things up. When I get mad at someone I go home and I can't help but think of a huge speech to tell them the next day about exactly why I feel bad, but conversations never go the way you plan them, and then you just end up feeling like you missed out. Just let it flow naturally. Seriously, people are telling you that because it's so damn true, and you don't want to fall from the heights you've set for yourself.

Icy, wow that's a bummer. Guys suck, I feel your pain

[Drizzy Drake]

Guys suck?? :). I never knew.

[Eugine]

kate, you give the best advise here.

[I'm Always BROKE]

She surely does. Anyways, why's this topic dying? O.o I'm *thiiiis* close to having a relationship as well and now you guys are just quitting it? Not fair GSSF! :P

[Drizzy Drake]

*Plays crappy, movie-esque, cliche "love" music*

[I'm Always BROKE]

Been listening to loversrock reggae a lot lately though. ^^ Guess it's all just a part of it.

[Drizzy Drake]

You need to get out of this funk that you're in. It's depressing.

[Mallick]

*insert Imogen Heap - Hide and Seek instead*

[Sea of Time]

Diddy's really happy, it's kinda scaring me. Any updates for us?

[I'm Always BROKE]

Yes, she LIKES me and probably is more interested even than I am! :joy: I think I'll be scaring you a lot more often after tomorrow! ^^

[Sea of Time]

Relationships are great because the good ones keep getting better over time. But there's nothing like that initial rush of realizing that guy/girl you like likes you too! It's good times all around.

[Toasty]

And there's nothing like the stressfull feeling you get when you try to tell someone you like them, and you don't know if they like you.

....just thought I'd throw that out there.

[Caael]

Toasty just got rejected?

[Lightning Star]

I dunno. o.O

drama time!

There's a guy that's become one of my best friends that told me today that his crush on my friend was starting to fade. And he's the kind of person where once he likes someone, he'll stick to them until someone else does or affects him major to take his attention away.

We ride the same bus and always sit next to each other, but to me, he's like a big brother. He drives me nuts when he goes off on his rants about guns, and there are times when he acts like he knows what he's talknig about, but doesn't. At the same time, I like having someone who will let me sleep on their shoulder when I'm tired and not take advantage of me, and rather, protect me with their life.

But I'm afraid that if he starts to like me that I won't be able to say it back, or worse, I'll say it back, but not mean it, and break his heart. Yet I don't know if I should take the chance and think about it more, because there might be something there I can't see.

[Split Infinity]

He hasn't actually said anything yet, right? So maybe you shouldn't worry about it for the time being. I mean, if worst comes to worst and he tries to make an advance on you, you can always just tell him that you only want to be friends.

[Someone Else]

Maybe you shouldn't sleep on his shoulder...

[Aquamarine]

MAYBE YOU SHOULD SLEEP IN HIS BEAD!!! j/k...

Icy, there's no need to think about that yet if he's not showing any signs of liking you. You seem to think that every male-female relationship has to be a love one. No it doesn't. You can be regular friends for ever, seriously.

[Gio]

I know it is harder for some people that others to keep a relationship but I have always thought that relationships are something that should be between the two people in the relationship. I think it should be a learning experience for those people and they should learn from their mistakes and look for ways to fix them in the next relationship or in their relationship in the future. The same things that worked for one person in their relationship might not work as well for their friends relationship. The best thing to do is make a decision and stick to it and if you realize that you made a bad decision just ask the guy to forgive you and move on.

[Toasty]

Personally, I think it's possible to just be friends with the opposite sex, but it's not very often that the friendship will be anything other than what you'd get with any frineds from the same gender. If you want to sleep on someone's shoulder, you're sending them the message that you want to be bf/gf with them, instead of just friends. It's very rare that a guy will just want to be there for you, and nothing else. It'd take a very selfless person to provide for someone without expecting anything, even love, back. People like that aren't non-existant, but they're few and far between.

Caael, on Apr 11 2008, 11:21 PM, said:

Toasty just got rejected?

No. I've never asked someone out. I just thought that should be said. Regardless, it's still true. If you really like someone, and you don't know if they like you, then it's incredibly stressful to just go up and tell them how you feel. I still haven't been able to get passed that stress myself.

[Quacnar]

^^Not true for gays

[Eugine]

So, what is true for homosexuals then?

[Quacnar]

Basicly the oppisite of what Toasty said. XD

[Split Infinity]

So you're saying gay people find it easier to ask people out, despite the stigma involved?

[Toasty]

killercoz, on Apr 12 2008, 10:24 PM, said:

Basicly the oppisite of what Toasty said. XD

Well obviously.

And Split, he means that instead of it being uncommon for the opposite sex to be "just good friends," it's uncommon for the same sex.

[Quacnar]

What Toasty said.

[Split Infinity]

Ah, alright.

...what if they don't know? XD

[Eugine]

Wait... So its uncommon for homosexuals to have gay friends?

[Toasty]

Apparently.

Anyway, I just figured out the solutiona to Icy's problem. Gay men. :P

[Quacnar]

@Split: If they don't know what?

@.eugine: As uncommon it would be for 2 people of the oppisite sex to be just friends.

[Aquamarine]

Toasty, on Apr 13 2008, 06:51 AM, said:

Personally, I think it's possible to just be friends with the opposite sex, but it's not very often that the friendship will be anything other than what you'd get with any frineds from the same gender. If you want to sleep on someone's shoulder, you're sending them the message that you want to be bf/gf with them, instead of just friends. It's very rare that a guy will just want to be there for you, and nothing else. It'd take a very selfless person to provide for someone without expecting anything, even love, back. People like that aren't non-existant, but they're few and far between.
No. I've never asked someone out. I just thought that should be said. Regardless, it's still true. If you really like someone, and you don't know if they like you, then it's incredibly stressful to just go up and tell them how you feel. I still haven't been able to get passed that stress myself.

That's not true. I know tons of guys/girls who have friends of the opposite sex with whom they act differently then with friends of the same gender. I have female friends who I always kiss on the cheek when we meet up and when we are leaving each other to go home/wherever, and I sometimes hold hands with them and stuff like that. Things I don't do do with my guy friends. Well, actually, we do often kiss each other on the cheeks... But in a different way than with girls.

I'm a strong believer in friendships of the opposite sex, simply because I have female friends, but I don't deny that these friendships can often turn into a real relationship.

[Split Infinity]

Yeah, but you're kind of a leniant guy when it comes to what makes a relationship...

*coughonenightstandcough*

[Aquamarine]

... Touche.

Five word minimum please.

[Someone Else]

Aquamarine, on Apr 13 2008, 05:17 AM, said:

That's not true. I know tons of guys/girls who have friends of the opposite sex with whom they act differently then with friends of the same gender. I have female friends who I always kiss on the cheek when we meet up and when we are leaving each other to go home/wherever, and I sometimes hold hands with them and stuff like that. Things I don't do do with my guy friends. Well, actually, we do often kiss each other on the cheeks... But in a different way than with girls.

Ah, but you live in a different culture than Icy, Toasty, and I do. We live in America, dammit, and you don't get away with kissing people on the cheek unless you're romantically involved or really, REALLY close and even then you don't do it often. It's the way we are. Anti-social and insecure. =P

[Aquamarine]

Wind Dude, on Apr 13 2008, 07:12 PM, said:

Ah, but you live in a different culture than Icy, Toasty, and I do. We live in America, dammit, and you don't get away with kissing people on the cheek unless you're romantically involved or really, REALLY close and even then you don't do it often. It's the way we are. Anti-social and insecure. =P

Oh, well, I didn't know that.

And um... Yesterday was the first time in my life I kissed a guy full on the mouth... I'm not gay though, honest! We just had a little too much beer, and this guy is one of my best friends, and... it just happened.

[kate]

pictures plox. jkjk XD omg aqua, I've been there, it's okay...besides if you're really good friends it shouldn't change anything. I dunno how it is with guys though o.O you're all weird :P

Gooo anti-social and insecure!! Yeah I've never seen anyone kiss at all in greeting, girls hug and guys punch each other XD Still, girl/guy friendships are difficult. Which sucks because I like having guy friends more than girl friends, except at certain times.

[Eugine]

And how did your friend react Aqua?

[kate]

And how does that make you feel?

...I'm sorry, I had to D:

[Aquamarine]

kate, on Apr 13 2008, 11:24 PM, said:

pictures plox. jkjk XD omg aqua, I've been there, it's okay...besides if you're really good friends it shouldn't change anything. I dunno how it is with guys though o.O you're all weird :P

It's not going to change anything, I'm 100% sure about it. It was a joke, and he's the biggest womanizer(if that's the right word) I know. He has sex practically every week and most often with different girls. He lost his virginity when he was 14. There's no way he'll suddenly become gay. And he's also one of the biggest jokers I know, and this is just a typical thing he would do.

EDIT: Didn't see the last two posts, but my answer is pretty much in teh above text I wrote. I didn't feel absolutely anything though.

[Eugine]

hmm. Well the furthest I've ever been was gay jokes, and that isn't frequent.
Don't really talk about anything sexual in general anyway, so yeah.

[Drizzy Drake]

Aquamarine, on Apr 13 2008, 05:14 PM, said:

Oh, well, I didn't know that.

And um... Yesterday was the first time in my life I kissed a guy full on the mouth... I'm not gay though, honest! We just had a little too much beer, and this guy is one of my best friends, and... it just happened.

Been there, done that. It was more us being E'd out retards, than being drunk, but you get the point.

[Quacnar]

Aquamarine, on Apr 13 2008, 05:14 PM, said:

Oh, well, I didn't know that.

And um... Yesterday was the first time in my life I kissed a guy full on the mouth... I'm not gay though, honest! We just had a little too much beer, and this guy is one of my best friends, and... it just happened.

I didnt know you were gay.

[Lightning Star]

I understand that it's perfectly normal for a guy and a girl to just be friends. That's how me and my friend are. And I told jim when he let me sleep on his shoulder that he was like a big brother to me. Turns out he's just losing interest in my friend, and I'm really thankful that's all it is.

And hey, friendship is a kind of relationship!

@aqua: wow, I so agree with kate. Pictures please! :P