[Caael]

kate, on May 19 2008, 07:34 AM, said:

...did you seriously just ask why a man would like to meet alot of women?

lol ok well maybe it's odd since he doesn't want a relationship, but that's good. He can just wait for something good to come along. quality not quantity or something.

I'm wondering why he wants to meet every woman possible, because that's physically impossible, unless your rich, have a helluva lot of time on your hands, because your going to need to travel the world and meet every single woman.

That's why I was wondering.

[kate]

I think he meant "all the girls possible" as in, all the girls possible without effort.

[Saturos S.]

This topic is just screaming for an Elton John song.... *shakes head*

[Drizzy Drake]

COCAINE!!!!

You know quite well by now that you need to have at least five words in a post outside the Common Room.

-gsninja

[Saturos S.]

Dipset, on May 19 2008, 08:28 PM, said:

COCAINE!!!!

Less then 5 words, as fun at is to make stupid random comments, let's keep them to certain level of randomness.

[Drizzy Drake]

I forgot that Cocaine was done by Eric Clapton, not Elton John. My bad.

[kate]

what does elton john have to do with any of this anyways?

[Sea of Time]

Back on topic guys. And keep the posts above five posts, and preferably not random.

[pHantOm]

kate sounds kinky.

[kate]

kate the name or kate the...me?

because neither is. kate is short for katherine which means truth and innocence :D I just radiate that

[Someone Else]

Not in bed you don't.

(I couldn't resist!)

[Toasty]

XD

So yeah. Hoping to meet some hawt womenthis summer if I get a job at our local water park. Decent pickup lines would be nice.

[Split Infinity]

Do I have a surfboard in my pants or...

:D

[Ironsight]

Cost to/for _____: your verginity

[Aquamarine]

"How are you doing?"

[Ironsight]

Sex please?

[Caael]

"My red locks get me aaaaaall the boys"

[Zeypher]

"Your milkshake brings all the boys to the yard."

[Ironsight]

I CAN HAS SEX?

[Sea of Time]

Seriously guys, that's enough. This is the off-topic forum for those of you who can't read and make the posts CONSTRUCTIVE and RELEVANT. Warnings will be handed out accordingly.

[Split Infinity]

O rly?

Warned - SoT

[Lemontime]

I'm still looking and longing for that special someone..
There's a girl I like but we've gone out before and last time it didn't end very well..
I really wanna do it again but I'm afraid the same thing will happen.

Help me, oh internet gods!

[Drizzy Drake]

Beg for secks.

But really, just talk to her and ask her if she'd liek to give a relationship another shot. If she's not interested, don't press the matter.

[Aquamarine]

Lemontime, on May 22 2008, 12:59 PM, said:

I'm still looking and longing for that special someone..
There's a girl I like but we've gone out before and last time it didn't end very well..
I really wanna do it again but I'm afraid the same thing will happen.

Help me, oh internet gods!

What happened? And please, none of that "It's quite personal, I don't want to talk about it..." bull****, just tell us!

[Caael]

I'm in the same position as Lemon, but i've made a really good second impression on her so hopefully it will work out

[Lemontime]

She was being a bi*ch...

[Drizzy Drake]

Ehhhhhh, just like Mel is being!!! Bitches can just fuck off eh. FUCK YOU MELISSA CORMIER!!!! My fault my ass!

Awwe, let's not fight anymore :D. PSYCHE!!!!! Fucking cunt. Still want to be pissed at me, well FUCK YOU!!!! I didn't mean to, but you know, whatever. I will enjoy my final night of partying without you. :D.

[Lemontime]

I totally get you, Dipset........................

[Sea of Time]

Maybe it would help explaining who Melissa Cormier is first....

[Caael]

His GF. I think he want's attention or something.

[kate]

he doesn't, that's you.

it's ok skippy, she'll get over it. Just don't let it get to you hun<3

[Drizzy Drake]

Sea of Time, on May 22 2008, 06:08 PM, said:

Maybe it would help explaining who Melissa Cormier is first....

My girlfriend.

Caael, on May 22 2008, 06:10 PM, said:

His GF. I think he want's attention or something.

Nope. I just wanted to rant about it.

kate, on May 22 2008, 06:50 PM, said:

he doesn't, that's you.

it's ok skippy, she'll get over it. Just don't let it get to you hun<3

Well it's allready gotten to me. What can you do, eh?

[Saturos S.]

Dipset, on May 22 2008, 11:47 PM, said:

Ehhhhhh, just like Mel is being!!! *****es can just **** off eh. **** YOU MELISSA CORMIER!!!! My fault my ***!

Awwe, let's not fight anymore :D . PSYCHE!!!!! ****ing ****. Still want to be pissed at me, well **** YOU!!!! I didn't mean to, but you know, whatever. I will enjoy my final night of partying without you. :o .

kate, on May 23 2008, 12:50 AM, said:

he doesn't, that's you.

it's ok skippy, she'll get over it. Just don't let it get to you hun<3

Even if it isn't a scream for attention it looks like a random post with nothing in it we can reply on. Mildly disturbing and schizofrenic if you don't know the context.

So let's not all accuse each other of being attention whores and try and make posts everyone can understand?

One big happy family plox?

[Drizzy Drake]

Schizofrenia, how many of you got it?
How many mutherfuckers can say they psychotic?
How many mutherfuckers can say they brain's dry rotted from pot?
You got it like I got it, or not.
If you did, then you know what the **** I'm talking 'bout.
When you're tongue's rottin' out from cotten mouth.
When you end up becoming so depended on weed.
You end up, spending a G at the vending machine.

[Eugine]

Lemontime, on May 22 2008, 06:59 AM, said:

I'm still looking and longing for that special someone..
There's a girl I like but we've gone out before and last time it didn't end very well..
I really wanna do it again but I'm afraid the same thing will happen.

Help me, oh internet gods!

Interesting. What went wrong the first time?

[Drizzy Drake]

Ya, come on Lemontime, indulge us so we can laugh and call you a pussy. :D.

[Toasty]

Okay. o. We got our progress reports at school today, right? Well I'm smart, (freshman in a junior's math class. That's two grades ahead. Plus, I should've been in physics this year, or at least chem 1. CS1 was WAY too easy) but I'm lazy. For the past week or so, I've been more lazy than usual due to a near complete lack of motivation. I just quit caring entirely. That kinda led to me failing the last math test enirely (it was on circles, ellipses, and hyperbolas, bu now were on to arihmatic sequences which is just up my alley. ;D).So yeah, I have an F in Health (don't ever do the work. The class is bull to begin with), a D in band (didn't turn in two of my three sets of mallets we were making, and they're worth a lot of points), a D+ in Math (I usually ace the tests as long as I pay attention, but I never do the work), and an F in science (I'v got a number of half completed lab papers that I've never turned in).

Well, there's a girl in my 2nd period (band, the percussionists and bass players are in the same class), and she said she wa dissapointed in me that I had such bad grades. She kept giving me a slightly dissapointed look for most of the period. However, that's the first time ANYBODY besides my parents have ever actually shown that they cared about my grades. She had no reason to care either.

Honestly, judging by her tastes in men (she's gone out with two of the other guys in the drumline, one a senior, the other a freshman, and she jus recently broke up with the freshman), I'm not her type in the slightest.

I think she's kinda cute, but other than that, I've never been all that interested in her. I'm not even sure she likes me, but it was the fact that she showed that she cared that made me think.

Opinions?

[Caael]

Do you really have that much lack of female attention that any communication you get you assume she's coming onto you?

Sounds harsh, but really man, if somebody I know who usually gets good grades does crap i'd wonder why as well. It's nothing really.

[Drizzy Drake]

I think she's just be caring, and nice.

[Toasty]

@ Caael:

It's not like that. People who I've known for more than just this year, and even people who I've made friends with just this year haven't really cared. The most I get/got out of them was a "Dude, you're screwed XD". And half the time their grades are even worse. XD

Her response was more along the lines of "Wow. I thought you we're smart" in a more serious tone, and then when someone else whom I know got worse grades, I said "Hah, ou beat me!" And then she gave me a sour look and said "you shouldn't be proud of that."

It went something like that. I would've just shrugged it off, but she gave me that look for the rest of the class period. And like I've said, I've nver had anyone besides my parents show any signs that they cared how well I was doing in school.

[Drizzy Drake]

Then maybe she does have a thing for you. Get to know her better. Hang out with her.

[Toasty]

I suppose, but the safest and least awkward thing to do right now would be to just talk a bit more to her during class. I'm not in a social position to just hang out with people other than my friends. I mean, I don't really have any enemies, but it'd be awkward to just go and sit with some group of people at lunch that I know, for example.

It's probably nothing anyway. If it is, then awesome. I have a standard to live up to, and a reason for getting good grades. I'll finally be motivated to do something other than sitting around all day. If not, then that's fine too.

[Ironsight]

It's probably nothing. But you should try talking to her just in case.
Just curious, but what kind of guys is she into?

[Toasty]

Well the last one was a black skateboarder who did drugs. :o

Seriously though. She was only with him for a few weeks though.

[Ironsight]

Sounds like she's into bad-boys. That's a Domestic Violence case just waiting to happen.

[Lightning Star]

Hm. I'm torn. I still like Brittany, but we haven't talked for a while. She's going to call me when she can hang out sometime this week. I think for the most part, though, I'm fooling myself into liking her. Perhaps it's just sheer friendship? That's usually how it is, for me.

At the same time, I've always had a little crush on this one guy that I keep trying to push away, and every now and then it rears it's ugly head. Lets just say that for one, he's a couple of years older than me and he lives halfway across the country; I've learned from experience that long distance relationships are REALLY hard, and I'm not sure I want to go through with that again. But at the same time, he makes me want to be a better person and can connect with me on a deep level that most guys aren't even capable of reaching.

But heh, I don't think he even likes me. XD I'd actually be glad to know, just to get some closure to all this and so I don't even have to worry about it. Relationships are just *so troublesome* :P

[Ravenblade]

Come clean with both of them. Honesty makes for much better use of time. If they would go for you then you're missing out by being afraid - if they wouldn't then you're forcing yourself to dwell on something that will never happen =( its lose lose unless you come clean with them u.u

[Lightning Star]

Confrontation is so much easier in theory, though XD. I'm not going to be like "hey ____, I like you. Do you like me too? :P"

Although you may be right. I'm just afraid it will ruin our friendship, that's all.

[Drizzy Drake]

Icy, what you're gonna want to do, is get them both into a room together, go to the girl, give her a kiss, and say that you are bi, and that you are really attracted to her, and that you hope that she is attracted to you.

THen you want to go to the guy, and say that you just can't get over him, and that you think about him alot.

Then just drop it on them. Tell them the only way you can move on, is with a hot fucking three-way.

:P.

[Sea of Time]

Serious input here. I'm sure telling the girl you like her when not knowing if she's bi or not is difficult, but telling her how you feel, if you really are friends, will only help your situation.

As for the guy, I'm not sure if you want to involve yourself with long distance. I personally have stayed away from it (when the opportunity arose) but that's a personal decision that you will have to make by yourself.

[Drizzy Drake]

Ok, are we being serious now? Stupid SoT, fun ruiner.

About the girl, even if she's not bi, I think she'll be easy to understand, seeing as you guys are friends, and I think that it's atleast worth a shot right?

About the guy, NEVER have a long distance relationship. Just don't do it. No "try it, it might work, he might be your dream guy" shit from me. Do not try a long distance relationship.

[Sea of Time]

I wanted to say that but preferred my place on the fence. I too am highly against long distance relationships.

[Lightning Star]

Yeah, I feel like I need to know that first before I say anything to her.

And I think telling the guy-- actually, just going out with him, would be a betrayl to my ex, seeing as the essential reason we broke up was the long distance. I know I shouldn't care, but if I could do it now, why couldn't I do it then, y'know?

[Ravenblade]

My relationship was long distance for the first 3 months or so and it turned out fine :P

But then yours could be longer.

I know people who have done it and been happy, but its hard.

[Sea of Time]

You're older though, Raven. I think you have to reach a certain level of maturity before you get to try long distance.

[Drizzy Drake]

Icy, on May 27 2008, 09:45 PM, said:

Yeah, I feel like I need to know that first before I say anything to her.

And I think telling the guy-- actually, just going out with him, would be a betrayl to my ex, seeing as the essential reason we broke up was the long distance. I know I shouldn't care, but if I could do it now, why couldn't I do it then, y'know?

Yeah, but here's the thing, don't have a long distance relationship. I know I'm being a *****, but it's true. I've seen one to many guys and girls cheat whilst their significant other was far far away. Not that they were just immature, or sleazeballs, but just they grew apart being so far away.

[Eugine]

Ravenblade, on May 27 2008, 09:29 PM, said:

Come clean with both of them. Honesty makes for much better use of time. If they would go for you then you're missing out by being afraid - if they wouldn't then you're forcing yourself to dwell on something that will never happen =( its lose lose unless you come clean with them u.u

Telling someone you're interested in them is really hard though... And there are so much circumstances to take into consideration, especially if you're not sure they're into you...
Yeah, I'm talking from experience.

[Drizzy Drake]

I fail to see why it is so hard for people. The worst thing that could happen is being rejected, and that's a fear, more than any tohers, that people need to get over, because it could slowly make you more reclusive, and "crazy-person-with-cats" like.

I didn't know if Mel was attracted to me, but I took my chances, and now look. Sure, I've been rejected, but you move on, it's not that bad.

I know I've been a bit harsh in this topic, but it's true.

[Gio]

I have to agree with Dipset. Just come clean about it. Seriously, if she likes you back then you have found something that you can go for, but if she doesn't then will tell you, and if she stops being your friend just for that then she wasn't really that great of a friend to begin with.

As for the long distance thing.....I just don't know.

I know it sounds a little harsh but I really don't mean for it to.

[Toasty]

Dipset, on May 27 2008, 07:31 PM, said:

I fail to see why it is so hard for people. The worst thing that could happen is being rejected, and that's a fear, more than any tohers, that people need to get over, because it could slowly make you more reclusive, and "crazy-person-with-cats" like.

I didn't know if Mel was attracted to me, but I took my chances, and now look. Sure, I've been rejected, but you move on, it's not that bad.

I know I've been a bit harsh in this topic, but it's true.

The more you care about the person/having a relationship, the harder it is. That's why for some people, it's near impossible.

[Ironsight]

Funny, but randomly going up to a person and kissing them might seem a little strange.

[Ravenblade]

Dipset, on May 28 2008, 03:31 AM, said:

I fail to see why it is so hard for people. The worst thing that could happen is being rejected, and that's a fear, more than any tohers, that people need to get over, because it could slowly make you more reclusive, and "crazy-person-with-cats" like.

o.o^ Listen to this rambling fruitca--I mean, wizened individual, for he is right. The fear of rejection is probably one of the most important things to get over in life. It can hold you back from doing so many things, and taking rejection on the chin over relationships is a good way to break yourself in. I mean, what's the worst that could happen? You get turned down, the people at school who didn't like you anyway find out and tease you about it. Your friends comfort you and stick by your side, and no one dies.

How much do you really care about what the people who dont like you think?

Do you think Skidz cares? Does he look like he cares?! XD

Follow this lunatic, children, he shall be your guru u.u

[Gio]

I have definitely been living my life that way this whole time.

My favorite quote explains how I live my life and how I think everyone should

"Be who you are and
say what you feel
because those who
mind don't matter
and those who
matter don't mind."
--Dr. Seuss

[Drizzy Drake]

Ravenblade, on May 28 2008, 11:58 AM, said:

o.o^ Listen to this rambling fruitca--I mean, wizened individual, for he is right. The fear of rejection is probably one of the most important things to get over in life. It can hold you back from doing so many things, and taking rejection on the chin over relationships is a good way to break yourself in. I mean, what's the worst that could happen? You get turned down, the people at school who didn't like you anyway find out and tease you about it. Your friends comfort you and stick by your side, and no one dies.

How much do you really care about what the people who dont like you think?

Do you think Skidz cares? Does he look like he cares?! XD

Follow this lunatic, children, he shall be your guru u.u

Quoth the raven, nevermore.

The ma--byrd, speaks the truth.

[Lightning Star]

Gio, on May 28 2008, 09:54 AM, said:

I have definitely been living my life that way this whole time.

My favorite quote explains how I live my life and how I think everyone should

"Be who you are and
say what you feel
because those who
mind don't matter
and those who
matter don't mind."
--Dr. Seuss

That's one of my favorites! I don't think Brittany would freak out and tell people, but at the same time, I just don't want her to avoid me because of how I feel about her. I mean, when you know someone likes you, but you don't like them back, isn't it a little awkward when you're around them?

Dipset, on May 28 2008, 10:53 AM, said:

Ravenblade, on May 28 2008, 08:58 AM, said:

o.o^ Listen to this rambling fruitca--I mean, wizened individual, for he is right. The fear of rejection is probably one of the most important things to get over in life. It can hold you back from doing so many things, and taking rejection on the chin over relationships is a good way to break yourself in. I mean, what's the worst that could happen? You get turned down, the people at school who didn't like you anyway find out and tease you about it. Your friends comfort you and stick by your side, and no one dies.

How much do you really care about what the people who dont like you think?

Do you think Skidz cares? Does he look like he cares?! XD

Follow this lunatic, children, he shall be your guru u.u

Quoth the raven, nevermore.

The ma--byrd, speaks the truth.

XDDD And yeah, I guess so. I feel like I really do like the guy more than Brittany though-- I've known him for quite some time, whereas I've only ever seen Brittany at my bus stop. So...I think I'll tell him first. :P

Thanks guys ^^

[Drizzy Drake]

Icy, since you like chicks, right, do you just look at yourself naked in the mirror all the time?

[Aquamarine]

You know Dipsy, you often try to be funny, and sometimes you succeed, but mostly you just make yourself seem like a total loser.

[Lightning Star]

Dips--

I'm not going to even answer that question. For the last time, I'm not so much attracted to chicks as much as I leave the option open for love.

But uh, heh, I don't think I'll leave that option open any longer. I've made up my mind on who I really like. ^^

[Drizzy Drake]

The guy? I told you all a girl needed was some serious deep dickin'.

[Aquamarine]

No, I'm 100% sure she chose the girl. Why? Because she probably met quite a number of men who are like you.

[Drizzy Drake]

Icy, on May 28 2008, 04:17 PM, said:

Dips--

I'm not going to even answer that question. For the last time, I'm not so much attracted to chicks as much as I leave the option open for love.

But uh, heh, I don't think I'll leave that option open any longer. I've made up my mind on who I really like. ^^

That option being girls. Therefore, Aqua, she chose the guy. Dumbass.

Aquamarine, on May 28 2008, 04:26 PM, said:

No, I'm 100% sure she chose the girl. Why? Because she probably met quite a number of men who are like you.

ANd I'm obviously kidding. She knows that. You, however, seem to fail at picking that up.

[Aquamarine]

Well I obviously didn't pick it up. And as for who she chose, she may have phrased her sentence the way she did, but I'm still pretty sure she chose the girl. How about we just let her tell us.

[Drizzy Drake]

The way she phrased it now, shows that she chose the guy. ANd from what she's been saying for the last page, it's obvious she picked the guy.

[Lightning Star]

I chose the guy. :P Dippyskip gets 1+ internet.

And aha, I just talked to him, actually. Apparently the feeling was mutual. ^^

[Drizzy Drake]

Yay. Don't forget to mention the 3-way. Guys like that sorta thing.

[Lightning Star]

>.> Only a guy like you, dipsy. He's not like that at all-- he's very reserved and sweet.

[Drizzy Drake]

Ha. Actually, I don't think I would enjoy a three way. Seems too impersonal.

[Ravenblade]

...

Who are you and what did you do with our resident nutball?

I mean come on XD If i was offered a three way, I would decline but only cos I fear divine wrath!

[Ironsight]

That's why atheists get all the action (:

[Sea of Time]

Have fun in a frustrating relationship that involves only internet and voice contact! =D

[Drizzy Drake]

Well, fine, if I was sober I probably wouldn't do it. High is a different matter. Don't worry Raven, I won't dissapoint. But I don't think Mel would agree to a 3-way. I mean it took me a good couple hours to convince her to do anal, so a 3-way, pfft, ya right.

[Sea of Time]

If anal took two hours I would calculate a 3-way taking about six or seven.....

I dunno Skidz it would probably be worth it. *thumbs up*

[Ironsight]

Lawl, so you were begging for sex for a couple of hours?

[Eugine]

A 16 year old girl doing it anal. My goodness... Can I say ho...ok me up!

[Sea of Time]

To be honest, I'm against anal because I don't want poop on my manjunk.

[Ravenblade]

I have so little desire to try anal..

I've heard stories about things getting stuck and...*shudder* >.<

@DS: True XD

[Ironsight]

Eugine, there are a lot of things you shouldn't do in life. And one of those things is calling somebody's girlfreind a whore.

[Sea of Time]

And contrary to what the porn industry says, girls get little to no pleasure out of it.

[Eugine]

I hear the feeling is better than normal sex though. There's this sex organ or something that makes the feeling feel better...

[Sea of Time]

Bum tightness > Vagina tightness

It's not all that complicated people.

[Ravenblade]

@ Eugine: ...yeah, if you're gay.

But we're talking about anal with a girl aren't we ._.??

So...you'd be up..her...so to speak.

So wait...you think Dipset took it up the... XD!!!

[Eugine]

DarkSword, on May 28 2008, 04:53 PM, said:

Eugine, there are a lot of things you shouldn't do in life. And one of those things is calling somebody's girlfreind a whore.

Well, I didn't call anyone a ho... I said a 16 year old who did anal is a ho ^_~
Who the cap fits, let them wear it, alright?

[Ironsight]

Don't be an ass Eugine.

[Drizzy Drake]

DarkSword, on May 28 2008, 04:51 PM, said:

Lawl, so you were begging for sex for a couple of hours?

I wasn't begging. I would jsut ask periodically, and as the ngiht went on, we just got higher, and higher.

Eugine, on May 28 2008, 04:51 PM, said:

A 16 year old girl doing it anal. My goodness... Can I say ho...ok me up!

No, just, no.

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 04:52 PM, said:

To be honest, I'm against anal because I don't want poop on my manjunk.

Condom. I know pornstars don't use them ,but that's because the girls flush all the poopy out of their systems. But still, I used a condom, and no **** was on it when I finished.

Ravenblade, on May 28 2008, 04:53 PM, said:

I have so little desire to try anal..

I've heard stories about things getting stuck and...*shudder* >.<

@DS: True XD

It is tight, but oh soo good. And, wait, they got stuck? I guess if she contracted from the pain/pleasure it could happen.

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 04:54 PM, said:

And contrary to what the porn industry says, girls get little to no pleasure out of it.

SoT is right.

Expect to ejeaculate fast though. Contrary to pornstars(many things don't happen in real life liek they do in porn), anal wont last very long. It's just soo tight, that, yeah.


EDIT-Yeah, Eugine, which implied that my girlfriend is a hoe for letting me perform anal on her.

[Sea of Time]

Yeah Eugine. Talking about sex is inappropriate and wrong. Don't make me set you straight.

[Eugine]

So, it's normal for a 16 year old to do anal sex?

[Drizzy Drake]

Eugine, I'd just rather you don't insult my grilfriend and our intelegence, whether it be directly or implied.

EDIT-Who's to say what's normal? It's an opening. It's jsut as apropriete as sex vaginally, and blowjobs.

[Sea of Time]

I know people who have done it before real sex.

[Eugine]

Well, if you don't want me to insult her, don't put your personal business all over the internets...

[Ironsight]

How about you keep your comments to yourself instead?

[Drizzy Drake]

Jsut because I tell it, does not give yo uthe right to insult her for it. How does sex through the ass make her anymore of a whore then sex through her pussy? Give me one good reason, besides "because society says so."

[Sea of Time]

I can't tell if DS is joking or not...

[Eugine]

DS sure.

Anyway, monday no girl, tuesday no girl, wednesday no girl. Thursday hopefully I'll see her... It's driving me insane.

[Sea of Time]

Did I miss something? Eugine has a lady friend?

[Ravenblade]

Dipset, on May 28 2008, 10:03 PM, said:

Jsut because I tell it, does not give yo uthe right to insult her for it. How does sex through the ass make her anymore of a whore then sex through her pussy? Give me one good reason, besides "because society says so."

I didn't know society had any solid views on anal sex XD

I think the original comment by Eugine was meant to be a joke though ^^;;

[Ironsight]

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 02:04 PM, said:

I can't tell if DS is joking or not...

I'm not, I'm being serious.

[Eugine]

Nah nah. I don't.

I could if I wanted to, but there's this special girl who I got my eyes on. She's freaking hard to get to though.
Too bad I'm doing exams now so I have to subdue my feelings for a while.

[Sea of Time]

Pfffft. I went on my first date on an exam day. School never stopped me.

[Drizzy Drake]

Ravenblade, on May 28 2008, 05:07 PM, said:

I didn't know society had any solid views on anal sex XD

I think the original comment by Eugine was meant to be a joke though ^^;;

I beleive anal is "frowned upon" by society.

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 05:09 PM, said:

Pfffft. I went on my first date on an exam day. School never stopped me.

Rebel YELL!!!

[Eugine]

Well, I just don't want to worry about meeting her or anything now when I have other stuff to focus on. Plus, getting rejected during exams time will be devastating lolz.

[Sea of Time]

More appropriately put, I think underage sex is frowned upon by society. It doesn't really matter how you do it.

[Ravenblade]

is 16 under-age in Canada? It'd be legit in the UK.

[Ironsight]

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 02:09 PM, said:

Pfffft. I went on my first date on an exam day. School never stopped me.

That's because SoT is a MACHINE MAN!!! YEAH!!!

[Eugine]

Do people even care about age when having sex anyway?

[Sea of Time]

I got 85% on that exam too! =D

Raven, 18 makes one a legal adult in Canada. Sex before that is generally frowned upon.

EDIT: Eugine, what does that question even mean? Clarify.

[Drizzy Drake]

Ravenblade, on May 28 2008, 05:13 PM, said:

is 16 under-age in Canada? It'd be legit in the UK.

Ages 13-17 can **** all they want, and ages 18-infinity can **** all they want. Nobody older than 18 can **** anybody younger than 18, and vice versa. Even if it's concentual, it's statutory rape.

[Ironsight]

The way I see it is, It's only illegal if you get caught >:P

[Sea of Time]

Yeah, but if you're 19 and you're girlfriend is 16, and you guys have an "angry" breakup, she's got a ****load of power over you because she could call the cops anytime and tattle.

[Drizzy Drake]

Yes, yes she could. That's why I have a few monthes where I will treat Mel like a goddess.

And I'm mistaken, it's 12-18, not 13.

[Ironsight]

How old is Mel?

[Drizzy Drake]

16. Only by a few monthes though. Or I jsut don't have sex for a couple monthes.....ahahah, yeah, right.

[Ironsight]

So, treat her nicely for a few months, then it's back to the kitchen?

[Toasty]

Yeah. That'll work. :(

Now seriously. Reading about people's sex-lives aren't exactly something I enjoy doing. Besides, I've already made up my mind on the matter anyway. I'm not interested in having sex 'till I'm married. Your virginty isn't just some little trinket you should give away to just anyone.

[Eugine]

Cute Toasty. I say the samething, but in this day and age, it's very hard. Godspeed lolz.

Ah well, I know if I wanted sex I could have gotten it already though, so I don't feel bad or anything.

[Sea of Time]

Toasty, on May 28 2008, 07:08 PM, said:

Yeah. That'll work. :(

Now seriously. Reading about people's sex-lives aren't exactly something I enjoy doing. Besides, I've already made up my mind on the matter anyway. I'm not interested in having sex 'till I'm married. Your virginty isn't just some little trinket you should give away to just anyone.

Good luck with that. You've never been with a girl and I guarantee the first one you date for more than a month will feel like "the one". And you'll lose your virginity before you can even remember the ABC's.

[Gio]

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 08:29 PM, said:

Good luck with that. You've never been with a girl and I guarantee the first one you date for more than a month will feel like "the one". And you'll lose your virginity before you can even remember the ABC's.

With the exception of those select few who think their GF is the one and they have been dating for two years and still haven't had sex and don't plan to until they are married.......o wait that is me.

[Lightning Star]

Haha, here's the thing. If a girl wants to save her virginity, good luck trying to take it from her. And if you do persuade her to give it up, I hate to say it, but you're scum :]. That's a decision she needs to make on her own without someone else pushing her to do what they want.

So actually, y'all think it's so macho to lose your virginity, but you're more likely to get a girl (or at least a respectable one) if you keep it. Oh and, if the world just did that, I'm sure STDs would die down as well.

[Gio]

Icy, on May 28 2008, 08:45 PM, said:

Haha, here's the thing. If a girl wants to save her virginity, good luck trying to take it from her. And if you do persuade her to give it up, I hate to say it, but you're scum :]. That's a decision she needs to make on her own without someone else pushing her to do what they want.

I agree with you.

Icy, on May 28 2008, 08:45 PM, said:

So actually, y'all think it's so macho to lose your virginity, but you're more likely to get a girl (or at least a respectable one) if you keep it.

I am the opposite of that. YAY!!!

[Toasty]

Sea of Time, on May 28 2008, 06:29 PM, said:

Good luck with that. You've never been with a girl and I guarantee the first one you date for more than a month will feel like "the one". And you'll lose your virginity before you can even remember the ABC's.

Not quite. I'd like to say that I have more integrity and common sense than that.

I thought I found "the one" at one point in my life already. She was the only girl on my mind for three years straight. I was always too scarred of rejection to say anything, so I didn't. I'm still pretty sure she would've said no. Anyway, even though I never went out with her, I suppos you could say that I learned a lesson of sorts: I'll find someone some day, but that day is likely long off. Until then, I'll have to just grin and bear rejection until someone says yes.

[Lightning Star]

And the sweeter it will be, Toasty. :]

It's amazing how past experiences can hurt, yet they make one so much stronger and wiser. Love, and life even, is a tough teacher-- it gives you the test first, and the lesson later. But you learn so much more from it than anything else.

[Toasty]

Good thing I prefer tests then. :(

[Aquamarine]

Icy, on May 28 2008, 10:37 PM, said:

I chose the guy. :( Dippyskip gets 1+ internet.

... Damn. Well Dipsy, I admit defeat. =P

[Sea of Time]

Talking to you guys about sex and how it's not the devil's act is like talking to a brick wall. I'm thinking I'd be better off giving the subject up.

[Someone Else]

So I'm guessing you've had sex SoT?

[Toasty]

Sea of Time, on May 29 2008, 02:08 PM, said:

Talking to you guys about sex and how it's not the devil's act is like talking to a brick wall. I'm thinking I'd be better off giving the subject up.

Sex isn't bad, but sex outside of marriage can cause problems. Not all the time, obviously, but it gives bad things a chance to happen.

Yes, the bible says sex outside of marriage is a sin, and is worthy of punishment. But that's not the sole reason for why I'm going to keep my virginity until I'm married.

[Split Infinity]

Marriage causes more problems than sex itself. :(

[Toasty]

Not if you actually like the person you're married to. <_<

[Split Infinity]

People change.

[Toasty]

Actually, they don't. They just show a side of themselves they didn't reveal to you before. If you truely know who you're marrying, you won't have problems (unless you cause them).

[Lightning Star]

I can't agree with you on that one, Toasty. I know I'm not the same person I used to be 10 years ago, 5 years ago, even 1 year ago. It's important though for two people that they change together and grow together, or else it causes problems in a relationship. It's the saying "equally yoked" and it doesn't just apply to christians. If you don't have the same values as your partner, it's going to be a lot tougher.

But on another note, I can't stop thinking about this guy :3 He's so sweet <3!

[Sea of Time]

Wind Dude, on May 29 2008, 04:12 PM, said:

So I'm guessing you've had sex SoT?

Yeah I have. And I don't feel immoral or wrong. I don't think God hates me or that my friends look down at me. It's a part of life, and an expression of love, and I don't agree with some of these long-winded rants I'm seeing in this topic.

[Lightning Star]

I just think it can cause more problems than if you wait until you're married. If you look at it from the view point of two people who love eachother dearly expressing their love, then it's perfectly fine. If you do it just to seem manly, then you're just being dumb :D.

(Day three: he's worked his way into my brain and I can't get him out of my mind X3)

[Ironsight]

Relationships are great, you don't have to pay for the sex.

[Ravenblade]

Sex = ultimate physical state of love

Love = ultimate emotional state of...love @.@?

Either way, one shouldn't exist without the other. That's my opinion anyway. Doesnt have to wait for marriage though. Even my right wing 80+ Christian Grandmother doesn't believe in sex after marriage only.

[Toasty]

Love is putting someone else's well-being (physical or emotional) above your own, no matter what. Even if it causes you harm in any way, shape, or form.

[Split Infinity]

I think there will always be limits in a relationship, no matter how close you are.

[Caael]

Toasty, on Jun 1 2008, 12:27 AM, said:

Love is putting someone else's well-being (physical or emotional) above your own, no matter what. Even if it causes you harm in any way, shape, or form.

... No it's not...

[kate]

lol yeeeah i have to agree with caael on this one. Love can't be summed up like that.

[Lightning Star]

That's true, but that's only a part of what love is. Kate's right-- it's not so easily "summed up" like that.

[Ravenblade]

Actually, if anything that's what true love is.

What most of us go through is a love where we expect to get out what we put in - but that is conditional love.

Unconditional love, by which I mean true love, is exactly and 100% what toasty just described.

Such love is impractical for our intensely self-obsessed lifestyles however. So we pretend that love is something less than that. But to put it succinctly (and while also stating that whatever Toasty's view of love is remains untouchable by you lot as an individual's ideas on love are their own), love is living to make the other person happy. An act which will in turn make you happy, because you love them.

So yeah.

[kate]

we weren't talking about love being less than that, we were talking about love being even more than that. I would take a bullet for some of my friends and yet I would never say I feel a very strong love for them, don't get me wrong I do love them, but a lesser sort of love then what I know we're capable of. That's because there's something missing. True love is more than just selfless giving.

However I do also think it's different for everyone. That's because we're all wired differently and so our interpretation of love will be different yet no lesser or greater than someone elses, just different, like most things in life. So yeah toasty, if that's what you think true love is, run with it. It's just not for me. lol which is kinda why I have so much trouble, since I'm looking for something so much greater. But I've felt it before, so I know it exists.

er okay that all sounded very cheesy. dumdedum.

[Yuki]

Can I also add bell hook's definition?
Helping the other person grow and letting them help you grow.

I think that is a big part of love, well for me at least. =) it's being able to accept differences and let yourself grow with them :'D

If you feel the need to throw up, there's a bucket over there *point* :D

[Toasty]

Caael, on May 31 2008, 04:51 PM, said:

... No it's not...

Read Raven's post. I knew it wasn't a perfect definition when I posted it, but I figured that's about the best description of it that could be written in so few words. Too many people around here are eager to say "tl;dr".

Though you could also add on to my description, that you love someone when putting them first makes you happy. So in the end, it's not an entirely selfless act because you're still getting something out of it. But you're also not hurting the other person to get what you want out of the relationship.

Honestly, I'd take a bullet for pretty much anyone but a perfect stranger. However, my reason for doing that is more along the lines of how horrible I'd feel if I didn't, rather than how good I'd feel if I did. But if it was someone I loved, I'd feel even worse if I didn't. but I'd also feel really good if I did.

I suppose that's a better description than what I said earlier. It shows the difference between caring about someone, and loving someone.

[Saturos S.]

"What is love?"

"Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me... no more"

[Sea of Time]

Let's just discuss Haddaway and how awesome he is.

[Someone Else]

So what's your guy's opinion on going from good friends to bf/gf status?

[kate]

depends. are you like, friends with the person as in they're a member of your group of friends? because that will get messy come break up time.

[Someone Else]

We're both pretty much loners.

[Toasty]

Well then you won't have to worry about social repurcussions. :(

[Someone Else]

I guess you could say I'm only friends with a few of her people and she's only friends with a few of my people.

But both of us don't have many people.

[Zeypher]

Go for it, ole chap!

[Toasty]

Wind Dude, on Jun 14 2008, 10:58 PM, said:

I guess you could say I'm only friends with a few of her people and she's only friends with a few of my people.

But both of us don't have many people.

Well then there's only one question left to answer. Does she have a nice rack? How good of a chance do you think you have of being with her?

[Shikonaurum]

Granted, if you really value the friendship that you have now, it'll make one think. But go for it, and if you're really such good friends, even if a breakup occurs you'll go to being friends. A tad estranged at first, but it'll be fine in the end.

[kate]

yeah, it just gets icky when there are other friends involved as well.

[Eugine]

I noticed that as well. Care to give your opnion as to why?

[kate]

Because when you break up your friends will pick sides. Plus you won't get the space that you need right after a break up because neither will want to give up the friends.

[Someone Else]

Toasty, on Jun 15 2008, 01:20 AM, said:

Well then there's only one question left to answer. Does she have a nice rack? How good of a chance do you think you have of being with her?

Haha yes she does, but I'm not telling you about my friend's rack. Well at this point it's up in the air, but things aren't going so awesome with her bf anymore... who happens to be my best friend but he's put me as a third wheel so many times, I'm just not sure how much I like him anymore. He's going off to take senior year at a community college in town, so she doesn't think she'll see him much next year.

She confides in me a lot and I care about her a lot more then so many other people. I just don't like seeing her sad.

[Lightning Star]

What is this? WD has a sensitive side?

WindDude said:

I just don't like seeing her sad.

That has got to be the sweetest thing I've ever heard you say. :(

But nah, if the guy has treated you like a 3rd wheel and paid no attention to your feelings, he's obviously not a good friend. If you're close with this girl, and you're the one she goes to for comfort, chances are, once they finally break up, you've got a real good chance of being her next victim boyfriend. And if the guy's a jerk, just tell him that he shouldn't have let her go and he shouldn't have treated you like a third wheel.

I'd say go for it, but at least give her a little time to get over him. You don't want it to start out as a complete rebound either.

[Someone Else]

He isn't a jerk though, and he's still my friend. But if we DO hook up (which is still, again, very up in the air) I guess it's only fair, right?

But aside from that, I'm not really sure of how much we'd tolerate each other. =P Also, I thought there was this thing where if girls complain to you/otherwise tell you about their problems it meant that they trusted you as a sort of brother kind of way?

[My Best Wishes]

Yea, that confiding thing means you're a friend, as in "Let's Just Be Friends". Granted not every girl is the same and it is possible that she confides in you because she feels relaxed and comfortable with you becuase maybe she likes you.
Not a personal attack on you, but from experience, most guy's who get that confiding act are in the Friend Zone.
Plus, she's your friends girlfriend. It's a violation of the Bro Code (How I Met Your Mother reference)

But all I can really say is this:
As soon as you ask yourself whether you should or shouldn't, that means you should.

[Someone Else]

watch, on Jun 15 2008, 11:34 PM, said:

It's a violation of the Bro Code

What about
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/1212986994372.gif
:(

And yeah... she's not most girls either. =P

[My Best Wishes]

Yea that 'Bro B4 Hoe' only works if the girl is an actual hoe.

Was just saying man. If she actually likes you and this is her way of telling you, good for you then. But if not, the Friend Zone sucks. But there are ways to deflect the LJBF speech.

[Toasty]

Wind Dude, on Jun 15 2008, 11:37 PM, said:

What about
http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z84/WindDude/1212986994372.gif

*effin' saved*

First, I'd ask myself what would happen to my friendship with said friend in this situation. Then I'd ask myself if I really cared. Then I'd wait and see if the girl shows any signs that she's into me.

If the first answer is "he'd hate my guts" and the second answer is "no", then you're clear. If it's "He'd be fine with it" then it doesn't matter if you care or not. If it's "he'd hate my guts" and "yes", then you probably shouldn't make a move on the girl.

As far as she goes, I wouldn't ask her out unless I at least thought she was somewhat into me.

[Ironsight]

That's why I missed Skidz.

[Drizzy Drake]

One thing better than make-up-sex....getting-out-of-jail-sex. :P.

[Eugine]

DarkSword, on Jun 20 2008, 10:25 AM, said:

That's why I missed Skidz.

o.o
You missed the buttsex with Skidz?

[Drizzy Drake]

I knew I was loved. *Sheds a tear.*

[Saturos S.]

You were in jail?

[Ironsight]

Eugine, on Jun 20 2008, 08:03 AM, said:

o.o
You missed the buttsex with Skidz?

No, I missed him saying things like that.

[Lightning Star]

WD, that's the misconception with guys. Yes, they do trust you like a brother, but that's where it unlocks the door for something more than that. Look at it this way, which is more likely? A girl to date some random guy she barely knows or a guy she trusts a lot and can be more open with?

ah, the lightbulb goes on! :P Get it now?

[Toasty]

Honestly, I think it depends on the girl Icy. I know girls who would probably go out with some guy she met one or two weeks ago, then someone she's known for years. Either because she likes the relationship she has with the older friend and doesn't want to ruin it, or some other reason (usually because she has lower standards :P)

I'd say WD is at an advantage here though, since he should know how she thinks well enough to judge what kind of people she's into.

DarkSword, on Jun 20 2008, 11:18 AM, said:

No, I missed him saying things like that.

You mean what I said? or the bros before ho's thing?

[My Best Wishes]

WD is in a good position because he has comfort built with this girl, but he didn't build the comfort with attraction in mind. If he asks out this girl and there's no attraction between the two, only comfort, then I don't think she'll say yes (unless of course this comfort is her way of hooking him).
And attraction doesn't have to be built, all you have to do is just flip the switches. The last girl I was into, it just happened one night, I had no idea where the feelings came from.
And it's happened again recently. ****, how do girls do that! I've known this girl for months and never had anything more then friendship in mind.

[Ironsight]

Toasty, on Jun 20 2008, 05:05 PM, said:

You mean what I said? or the bros before ho's thing?

I was talking about Skidz.

[Toasty]

Well how's anyone supposed to know you edited your post?

[Ironsight]

Yes

This post has been edited by DarkSword: 21 June 2008 - 01:27 AM

[Toasty]

Except you didn't make it obvious that you edited the post, and as most of us know, I'm completely oblivious to things that aren't obvious.

[Laharl]

http://i190.photobucket.com/albums/z254/laharl_the_slayer_07/act.jpg

[Ironsight]

I didn't edit my post Toasty, I have no idea what you're talking about.

[Laharl]

http://www.goldensun-syndicate.net/forum/public/style_images/gssv3/snapback.png' alt='View Post' />Laharl, on Jun 21 2008, 10:58 AM, said:

[Someone Else]

I said the best thing ever to her. She straightened her hair and I told her she needed to ugly up a bit because I was afraid that I'd start laying some bad pick up lines on her, and she said "Aw, you mean like that one? You're sweet."

[Drizzy Drake]

I told my girfriend that I bought some coke today, and that I'm picking up an 8-ball of jack tonight, and she said untill I kick the shit for good, that we shouldn't see each other. How's everybody else's love life going?

[Caael]

Uneventful and boring, as it were.

[Drizzy Drake]

I expected as much. Especially from you. Jk.

[Sea of Time]

Wind Dude, on Jun 21 2008, 08:41 PM, said:

I said the best thing ever to her. She straightened her hair and I told her she needed to ugly up a bit because I was afraid that I'd start laying some bad pick up lines on her, and she said "Aw, you mean like that one? You're sweet."

Since nobody else made a comment I will. That's an awesome line haha

[Drizzy Drake]

Yay, Kate finally had a dick in her pussy. Let's all give her a fucking hip hip horray.

And oh man, I just can't stand not being with Mel. Wow, I really do sound like a whiney bitch.

[Toasty]

Sea of Time, on Jun 22 2008, 06:49 PM, said:

Since nobody else made a comment I will. That's an awesome line haha

I was going to, but "nice" doesn't exactly meet the 5 word minimum/ :P

My love life's been stale for the past 16 years. D:

[Someone Else]

Sea of Time, on Jun 22 2008, 06:49 PM, said:

Since nobody else made a comment I will. That's an awesome line haha

I made that up on the spot, are you trying to tell me it's been done before? ;_;

Dipsy, get kate on here and have her tell me if that's for real.

[Lightning Star]

...I didn't want/need to know that, however false it may be.

And that's a really cute thing to say, WD. I'm surprised you have so much sentimentality in you :P

Me? Haha...lets just say I'm done with relationships for life. They're either too hard or I'm too fickle to stay in one. XD

[kate]

Skippy's being a little *****, but he's going through some **** so he's allowed I guess.

Just ignore him.

and what icy? don't give up. relationships are good and healthy and stuffs.

[Toasty]

Icy, just try again once you get out of college. Or better yet, when your in your 2nd or 3rd year of college. You're probably more likely to meet someone you can get along with better then.